Michael Weiner

1961 - 2013

Michael Weiner

1961 - 2013

BORN

1961

DIED

2013

Michael Weiner Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 21, 2013.
NEW YORK (AP) — Michael Weiner, the plain-speaking, ever-positive labor lawyer who took over as head of the powerful baseball players' union four years ago and smoothed its perennially contentious relationship with management, died Thursday, 15 months after announcing he had been diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor. He was 51.

The Major League Players Association said Weiner died at his home in Mansfield Township, N.J.

Earlier in the day, New York Yankees reliever Mariano Rivera praised Weiner.

"Michael is a tremendous person. That's why everybody loves him," Rivera said. "He can relate with every player and had time to talk with every player."

As Weiner's health deteriorated this summer, a succession plan was put in place. Former big league All-Star Tony Clark took over Thursday as acting executive director and is to be approved as Weiner's successor when the union's board meets from Dec. 2-5 at La Jolla, Calif.

"Words cannot describe the love and affection that the players have for Michael, nor can they describe the level of sadness we feel today," Clark said in a statement. "Not only has the game lost one of its most important and influential leaders in this generation, all involved in the game have lost a true friend."

At Weiner's last public speaking engagement, a 25-minute meeting with baseball writers on the day of the All-Star game in July, Weiner was confined to a wheelchair and unable to move his right side. Yet, he wanted to respond to questions about his illness and issues in the game, and did so with the grace and humor he was known for throughout his life.

"I don't know if I look at things differently. Maybe they just became more important to me and more conscious to me going forward," he said. "As corny as this sounds, I get up in the morning and I feel I'm going to live each day as it comes. I don't take any day for granted. I don't take the next morning for granted. What I look for each day is beauty, meaning and joy, and if I can find beauty, meaning and joy, that's a good day."

Weiner first experienced weakness and tingling on his right side in July 2012 and was diagnosed with a glioma the following month. By June 2013, he had experienced a rapid increase in symptoms. His voice had gotten raspy by early August, when he responded on behalf of the union to drug suspensions handed down to Alex Rodriguez, Ryan Braun and other players.

Known for wearing blue jeans and Converse Chuck Taylor All-Star sneakers to work, Weiner's easygoing manner with players was a change from former head Donald Fehr's more lawyerly approach. His style connected both with players and the students he taught during Sunday school at his synagogue.

"Lost a great friend today. Michael Weiner's body finally succumbed to cancer. One of the best leaders & men I knew. Prayers for his family," Arizona Diamondbacks reliever Brad Ziegler tweeted.

Weiner was hired by the union as a staff attorney in 1988 and wound up succeeding Fehr in December 2009. Weiner became just the fourth head of the organization since 1966.

A longtime New Jersey resident and a graduate of Williams College and Harvard Law School, Weiner clerked for U.S. District Judge H. Lee Sarokin in Newark before joining the union. Once at the union, he became a key figure in the lengthy process to parse the $280 million collusion settlement among individual players.

Weiner also was a junior lawyer during the 7½-month players' strike in 1994-95 strike and the negotiations that finally led to a new labor agreement in March 1997.

"I think that helped some people on the owners' side to finally accept that the union was a fixture and the union was an entity they were going to have to deal with," he said. "There was never a chance for anything to settle in until we got through collusion, and really until then we got through the bargaining in '94 and '95."

Following eight work stoppages in a 23-year span, baseball has since negotiated three straight labor deals without interruption.

Weiner headed talks for the last deal, in November 2011, which instituted a series of significant changes that included restraints on signing bonuses for amateur players and increased the number of free agents able to switch teams without requiring the loss of draft picks as compensation.

"It took a while for the owners to appreciate that the union is not only here to stay, but that the union and its members can contribute positively to a discussion about the game — about its economics, about the nature of the competition, about how it's marketed in every way," he said.

In addition to the labor contract, he headed the legal team that in 2012 convinced an arbitrator to overturn a 50-game suspension imposed on Braun, the Milwaukee outfielder who was the previous year's NL MVP. The union argued his urine sample had not been handled properly.

Last summer Braun agreed to accept a 65-game suspension for his activities relating to the Biogenesis of America anti-aging clinic and his public statements.

Following a line of leaders that began with Marvin Miller and went on to include the short reign of Kenneth Moffett and the long tenure of Fehr, Weiner was exceedingly conscious of the union's history and traditions of player involvement. He appeared with Fehr and the then 95-year-old Miller at a 2012 discussion at New York University's School of Law marking the 40th anniversary of the first baseball strike and the rise of the union.

His hair nearly gone from his treatment, Weiner returned to NYU in January for a memorial celebrating the life of Miller, who died two months earlier. He humbly referred to "our little sport of baseball."

Weiner is survived by his wife, the former Diane Margolin, and daughters Margie, Grace and Sally.




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December 4, 2013

Dear Bette,Terry,David,Diane,Margie,Sally,Grace and family,It seems like yesterday that Mike was shooting hoops in the driveway with David and Steve. That is when I met him 25 years ago. May the memories of all the great family times together help his wonderful spirit live on. He was one of the good guys. Kind,sincere,devoted,wonderful person. Love, Kathy and Seth Weil

D. Fairfax

November 29, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 26, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

BaseballTopFan

November 25, 2013

BaseballTopFan would like to offer our condolences and sympathy to the family, friends and fans of Michael Wiener.

He played a BIG part in the history of Major League Baseball.

MLB players owe him a huge debt of gratitude for his many years of service and support.

Rest In Peace (RIP) !!!

Robyn Pelligra

November 24, 2013

Diane and girls,

We are so very sorry for your lose.... Mike was a special person. We think fondly of the early days when the kids were at Centenary together and then growing up through the middle school. May your memories give you comfort. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Fondly, The Pelligra's

November 24, 2013

Di, and girls,
I am so sorry for your loss. Although I didn't know Mike personally, I know that he was an incredible man who was loved by many. May you find peace at this difficult time.
Teri Cichlar (from Sensaria)

Ina Bruskin

November 23, 2013

My deepest condolences reaching out to the Weiner family. Sincerely, Ina

Sarkisian Family

November 23, 2013

We are deeply sorry for your loss. Our heart felt condolences to the Weiner family.

Eric Muller

November 23, 2013

I've had some smart friends, but none as warm and humble as Mike. And I've had some warm and humble friends, but none as smart as Mike. Diane, this is such a terrible, terrible loss. The whole law clerk family's hearts are heavy. Sending you and your daughters much love and support.

Will Lampe

November 23, 2013

Diane and family: Mike was always one of the finest people I've known. It seems he departed this world with the same grace with which he inhabited it. May God hold you and your daughters in His warm embrace at this time. Much love, Will Lampe

Beth & Frank Bolt

November 23, 2013

Dear Diane and family, Praying God grants you peace in this most difficult time, and that you find comfort in all the wonderful memories you have of Mike.

Kathy Coda Barnett

November 23, 2013

In the spirit of the poem "The Dash" by Linda Ellis, I think Mike truly did "live his dash."

Peace and love to you, Diane, and your family. Our sincere condolences - Kathy (Coda) and Rick Barnett

Sandy Weiner

November 23, 2013

Extending my deepest sympathy to Diane, children and all of the Weiner family.

George Argento

November 23, 2013

Diane & family, May GOD Bless and keep you in HIS Peace, now and forever. It has been a pleasure to watch Mike's star shine from a distance, as it grew brighter in recent years. The words of tribute I have read and heard show just how much Michael's light shone on others. My deepest respect and condolences.

November 23, 2013

At this difficult time, it is important that you draw even closer to "Our Heavenly Father". James 4:8.

Jane Dowling

November 23, 2013

God bless you and your loved ones ~ Rest in peace.

Olga Oquendo

November 23, 2013

My condolences to the Weiner family. During this difficult time may God be of strength and comfort. John 16:22

November 23, 2013

Diane and Girls,

We were sadden to hear of the passing of your dear loved one. Offering our condolences to all of you.
May your wonderful memories of him along with the love that you shared help you find peace of mind and comfort. He(God)heals the brokenhearted; He binds up their wounds.-PS.147:3

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November 22, 2013

May the God and Father of true peace and all tender mercy grant your family a calm and firm heart giving you everlasting comfort and hope.
2 Thessalonians 2:17

November 22, 2013

I am sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort from God's word.

Ani

November 22, 2013

Love's Memory cannot be taken from you and continues to live in your hearts.Peace and serenity.

G. Freeman

November 22, 2013

Sorry for the loss of your loved one.

Dwayne Bickham

November 22, 2013

in God's care rest in peace

victor checketts

November 22, 2013

god bless the memory of this great head of the baseball players union. I hope the players will support whoever takes over with the same spirit they did under Michael. god be with your family at this sad time

November 22, 2013

So sorry to hear about your loss. May God be with you.

Ed Burns

November 22, 2013

I'm sad to learn of Michael's passing. I sat on the other side of the table from Michael for many years, as a lawyer for Major League Baseball, and, like so many others, admired his skill and the professional, always respectful way in which he advocated. I was moved by the grace and honesty with which he faced his disease. I was lucky to have known him. I will miss him and I extend my deepest sympathies to Diane and his daughters.

David Magadan

November 22, 2013

Our family sends it's deepest condolences to the Weiner Family. Michael was an honest, patient, intelligent, and caring man. He was a great leader of our MLBPA so I can only imagine how great a father or husband he was. He will be truly missed by those of us who crossed his path. We are better people by just having known him. May he rest in peace.

November 22, 2013

Sorry for your loss... May God comfort and support you

Baseball Lovers

November 22, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to the family,colleagues, and close friends of Michael Weiner; he will be dearly missed. We are so thankful for his contributions to the field of baseball and to society in general. May the God of all comfort be with you during this time of bereavement and as you fondly reminisce in the future of happy times spent with him.

Karen Davis

November 22, 2013

May his soul rest peacefully in God's arms

November 22, 2013

in gods hands now rest in peace.david paul capobianco

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