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Neil Kaplan
March 15, 2025
Been 19 long years since the tragic passing, and about 22-23 years since saw you last, back in Beijing. Though it was for a brief period, you made an everlasting impression. Thinking of you much.
Udi Kaplan
March 15, 2023
Hi Zeynep,
Though we studied together briefly back in Beijing of 2000, every year this time I recall our times together, be it after class or clubbing in the weekend.
Knew you briefly but you left an impression.
Always in my thoughts...
Udi,
Israel.
Neil Kaplan
March 17, 2021
Though I knew her only briefly from our studies in Beijing, I have not forgotten her and every March I think of her. 16 years have passed already and I can still recall our good time in China. I light a candle for her here in Israel every year.
MEMORIAL DAY 2005
d barnes
May 26, 2006
Thank you all for your kind words and memories of our dear daughter Zeynep. We will always feel a gap in our family hugs...dave barnes
Comar Wilson
May 15, 2006
Dear Mr and Mrs Barnes,
I knew Zeyno well for a year while both of us lived in Beijing. We celebrated New Year 2003 together here in my town of London. I have only spoken with her a couple of times since then. Friendships at long-distance are hard to maintain and one always thinks that one can send an email tomorrow. I am sorry that this is not now possible. Zeyno was a wonderful free spirited person who brightened the lives of those she met. We will all miss her. May her spirt be remebered and held as an example by those that knew her, so that although she can no longer be with us her spirit may reside in our hearts.
John Herigan, Jr.
May 8, 2006
Dear Barnes Family:
I had the pleasure of having lunch with David and Zeynep. It was easy to recognize that she was Dave's kid because she had the same good humor and nice disposition. I struggle to find the right words of comfort and I just can't. Just know that I am always here for you!
Andrea Turner
April 18, 2006
I miss you, Zeyno. I just went through some pictures of new years 2004 at the yp in wormleysburg. I wanted to post some but we looked so silly I knew you'd be mad :) I love you and miss you lots!
Sarah Zangle
April 18, 2006
Dear Crystal,
One of the best memories (there are many) I have of Zeyno does not actually include her. I remember in 8th grade you and I were managing the high school girls soccer team, and we were watching them practice. We were asking each other all those 'what if' questions and you asked me "If you could be like anyone on the team, who would you want to be like? I answered Zeyno. I asked you the same question, and your response was the same, too. Even at 14 we knew she was amazing.
I know this is such a difficult time for you, David, and Vahide. You all are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. Please know that I'm here for whatever you need. I loved Zeyno and I will miss her very much.
Zeynep is 2nd from the left...we were happy to have her for 25 years.
Dave Barnes
April 18, 2006
Zeynep was one-of-a-kind who's passing will be a loss to everyone she knew...some significantly more than others. This picture is from a dinner for her 25th birthday.
Ben Fenicle
April 14, 2006
Dear Barnes Family,
I was so sorry to hear about your loss. I have many fond memories of growing up with Zeyno from kindergarten through high school.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Dwayne Lawrence
April 12, 2006
On behalf of the players and coaches of the Camp Hill boys and Girls soccer teams, please know you have our most sincere sympathy.
Our thoughts are with your family during this time.
With deepest regards and sympathy,
Gerry Stephens
April 10, 2006
I would think that in some language Zeynep means potential. I trained and worked with Zeynep at Commerce Bank. I know her to be extremely intelligent and well rounded. Her experiences abroad coupled with her professional interests made her fascinating.
Glenn Stephens
April 10, 2006
I shall never forget the excited way Zeynep looked at life, the lunches we shared with her Dad, her visits to the office and Dave and Vahide's obvious pride and interest in their daughters. Those shall always be especially inspirational for me. Her tragedy touches us all very deeply and I find strange comfort from those I wish I could more adequately comfort: the brave and noble statements of her family. I'm so sorry!
April 4, 2006
Dave, Vahide & Crystal,
We remember Zeno as a vibrant, beautiful young lady. We have fond memories of her growing up in Camp Hill. We hope you find some comfort in knowing many share in some way the loss of such a special person.
Tom & Kay Hand
& sons Anthony Leer (CH classmate) & Jared Leer
Holly Socolow
April 2, 2006
Zeyno's voice sang. "Hi Mrs. Socolow!" is what I hear vividly --the many times she called for Samantha when they were growing up together and later when they were home on college breaks. My memories go way back -- to Mrs. Wortley's Ballet Class in 1985 -- so earnest! And later making a huge wonderful mess with holiday cookies, or being goofy while cooking eggs, or laughing and watching movies, it seemed Zeyno and Samantha were always beside each other, sharing their lives like sisters. I miss her like my own daughter and will devote a garden full of sunflowers to her. When I think of Zeyno, I think of the warm bright sun that brought music into our home.
Holly Socolow
Mollie Donato
April 1, 2006
Barnes Family:
I was in shock when I heard about Zeyno, in fact, I still am. Even though we had not seen or spoken to each other in awhile, until recently, I feel a void in my life knowing that someone as special as her is gone so soon. We played soccer together when we were younger, for the Lower Dauphin Goalin' Girls. I feel very fortunate to have played with her - she always had a huge smile on her face, and was one of the sweetest people I have ever met. I have such fond memories of her. Please know that your family has been in my thoughts and prayers since this tragic accident occured. She will be missed...
Samantha Davenport
April 1, 2006
I miss you Zeyno. I'll miss you forever.
Brenda (Livingston) Davenport
March 30, 2006
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Barnes and Crystal - I just learned of Zeyno's death and am shocked and saddened. Zeyno was a student of mine at CH and I always enjoyed her quick mind and clever wit. You raised a wonderful young woman and she, as evidenced from the many messages, touched many lives in such a positive way. Though I know these words can be of little comfort, may the many thoughts and prayers of others help to ameliorate and sustain you in these difficult times. And may the many memories you have of Zeyno bring serenity to you. With sincere sympathy,
Jack Ewald
March 28, 2006
Barnes Family & Friends,
I was very lucky to get to know Zeyno for too short a while at Skidmore. She stood out for her style, smile, & genuine nature. All of the people and loving words on these pages are a tremendous testament to her spirit, and yet represent only a fraction of those touched by Zeyno's rich life. She will be remembered.
Dawn Ratz
March 26, 2006
Dear Barnes Family,
It is with great sorrow I learned today of Zeyno's passing. I worked in the CHHS office when she was a high school student and remember her - always with a smile. I also remember sharing stories of motherhood with you, Vahide, and looking forward to your visits when you picked the girls up for appointments. We lost our son, Billy, in 2002, just before his junior year. I am well aware of the feelings surrounding you and all of those to come. Please count on me to help you in any way I can. I will contact you soon. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Carin Piccirilli
March 26, 2006
Dear Barnes Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Zeyno was always a good friend to me throughout high school. We were in Chorus together, and she was always so much fun. She was a great source of wisdom beyond her years. I was always impressed with her integrity and love for people. It is obvious how many people's lives she touched. Crystal, my deepest prayers are with you as well. I also lost my oldest sister a few years ago and please know that it will be hard at first, but with time you will see how much she is still around you in everything you do. If there is one thing to take away from all this, it is to know that she was well loved by the many people she touched in her life.
My family and I are praying for you at this time.
Carin Piccirilli
Sarah Vogelsong
March 25, 2006
Dearest Barnes Family,
I am truly saddened to hear of the loss of one of the greatest women I have ever met, even when we were young kids playing the sports we loved. Your daughter was truly amazing and I hope she looks over us everyday with her radiance for life and a smile and laugh that would never quit.
Katie Fonte
March 25, 2006
Zeyno was a wonderful person and an excellent teammate. I enjoy all the times that we were able to spend together. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Faith Thompson
March 25, 2006
I am very sorry to hear for your loss. Zeyno was so full of life and adventure. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you. She will be greatly missed.
Taryn Wagner
March 24, 2006
It has been many many years since I have seen Zeyno but she is someone you never forget. She will live on in all of our memories. My deepest sympathies to her family and close friends.
Liz Seidel
March 24, 2006
Zeyno,
I will miss your smile and laughter that I often caught glimpses of through hearing wonderful stories from Crissy. When I first met you I knew that there was no question you were someone I was honored to have met, and someone that was rich with enthusiasm for living. So smart and full of life. Thank you for being a wonderful sister to my Crystal and a wonderful daughter to two of the best parents I have come to know...be at peace Zeyno but know you will be missed...
Kim McClure
March 24, 2006
Dear Barnes Family,
I would like to send you my deepest sympathies on your sad loss. I have many fond memories of playing tennis with Zeyno. She was always a joy to be around. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Katrina Jurgill
March 24, 2006
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Barnes & Crystal,
I send my heartfelt condolences to you and the rest of your family in the midst of this terrible time. I will always remember Zeyno's life-loving and adventurous spirit. She always had a way of brightening any room she was in with her warmth, sincerity, and individuality. She will be missed, and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathies,
Erin Loudenslager
March 24, 2006
Crystal, Mr and Mrs Barnes,
We were so saddened to hear of the loss of Zenyo. I remember her fondly: she was a good friend of a good friend of mine (Tanya Martzall) and there were several moments that she touched my heart. She was such a special person and we hope that the wonderful memories help to ease a little bit of the pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.
Erin, Mike and Lynn Loudenslager
Suzy and Rob Seidel
March 24, 2006
Thinking of you all with our hearts....
Nichold Dodson
March 23, 2006
Mr and Mrs. Barnes and Crystal--There are no words to express the feelings of heartache and sadness I feel for your family in this time of grief. May Zenyos excitment for life bring peace and happiness to your souls. May all your memories of her live on in your hearts. My heart goes out to your entire family. I love you Crystal and I am here for you always. My family and I give you our deepest condolences.
Anne Bloemker
March 23, 2006
Dear Barnes Family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bloemker Family, Anne, Jason, Rachael and Heather
Lan Vuong
March 23, 2006
Mr. and Mrs. Barnes and Crystal,
We are deeply sorry for your loss. My sisters and I remember Zeyno fondly from playing tennis and soccer with her. She was a caring, fun-loving person. Please accept our condolences.
- Mai, Lan, Christina, and Mary Vuong
Mary Holmes Dague
March 23, 2006
The days since Zeyno died have been filled with sorrow and tears.She was so smart, athletic, beautiful, and a stalwart friend to my son Joe. My soul will keep a place alive for Zeyno, and for you, her family, as long as I live.
With warm memories and best love,
Vera Mouser
March 23, 2006
We were shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of your daughter, Zeynep. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
amanda burns
March 23, 2006
so terribly sorry that you only got to have zeyno for such a short time in this life. i only met her once, but it is obvious what a shining soul she was. i am certain that you will meet her again. spirits like hers could never truly die.
Jan Martzall
March 23, 2006
"Death lies on her like an untimely frost
Upon the sweetest flower of all the field" Wm. Shakespeare
Zeyno's spirit was so beautiful and continues to inspire all who knew her and loved her. Our hearts ache for the loss of your precious Zeyno. Prayers and love to you all.
Della Hoke-Uvick
March 23, 2006
We are so sorry for your loss ~ I could not believe it when I heard the news. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Joe Dague
March 23, 2006
Zeyno was my hero. My thoughts are with her and her family, and with the many people who loved her.
I'd rather learn from one bird how to sing
than teach ten thousand stars how not to dance
ee cummings
Casey Davison
March 23, 2006
Dear Mr and Mrs Barnes and Crissy, I was so sad when my mom and dad called me about Zeyno. We all miss her and have been remembering back to Peter Pan, soccer games on the boys' team in second grade and Zeyno doing flips in the backyard. Our thoughts are with you.
Casey (and Jim and Ginny)
Sharon Legge
March 23, 2006
My sincere sympathies to the entire Barnes family. I too have many memories of Zeynos childhood and watching her and the rest of the girls from the class of '98' grow into young women. She was a carefree girl with a zest for life. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
AmyJo Legge
March 23, 2006
I don't know where to begin. I can't stop looking back at our yearbooks and remembering Zeyno. What a passion for life she had. Some of my greatest childhood memories involve Zeyno. She always had a smile on her face and a fire in her spirit. Even more recent memories of hanging out with her...so laid back and easygoing. What a magnificent person. She will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Barnes family.
'She is safely home in heaven.'-anon
Beth Watson (Anderson)
March 22, 2006
To the entire Barnes family,
Our thoughts and prayeres are with you all during this most difficult time. The pain you are feeling is shared by our entire community.
May God bless you all as we keep Zeynep's spirit alive in our hearts and souls.
Most sincerely,
Beth Watson, Sara, Kate and Zoey Anderson
Laura Kapp
March 22, 2006
Please know that your family is
foremost in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. I
have so many pleasant memories of Zeyno...going all the way back to
Brownie Girl Scout days....all the fun we had and then watching her grow to be a lovely, confident young woman. Her spirit will live on in all who knew her.
Heather Runkle
March 22, 2006
Dear Mrs. Barnes, Crystal, and the entire Barnes family,
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Zeyno. The world will miss her.
Sincerely,
Heather Runkle
Tanya Martzall
March 22, 2006
Dear Barnes family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Zeyno was such a beautiful soul whose spirit and love touched all who knew her. There are so many wonderful times that I will never ever forget. My very first sleepover was shared with all of you....Zeyno kept me calm during the scary parts of the movie "The Mummy". I will always cherish all of those wonderful moments. She could never be forgotten for her energy and passion for life has rubbed off on everyone I know. My love and support are here for you......
With all my respect and sympathy,
Ambrea Crone
March 22, 2006
Dear Barnes Family,
Zeyno was a carefree, spirited individual and she will be greatly missed. We worked together for over a year and had developed a close friendship during that time; however I had lost touch with her during this past year. I offer my deepest condolences to your family during this trying time.
Leslie Wood
March 22, 2006
Dear Barnes Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have many wonderful childhood memories of Zeyno, and will never forget her incredible zest for life and kind heart. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Christopher Doran
March 22, 2006
To the family of Zeyno Barnes:
It is a loss to all of us who knew and loved Zeyno. We, who knew her, were most fortunate and I feel sorry for those who never had the chance to meet her. May the warmth of treasured memories soon replace your grief.
Sara Roman
March 22, 2006
I was so saddened when I heard about Zeyno. I remember her though playing soccer, and although I didn't know her very well, I remember her as being a very warm and caring person. You are such a nice family, and my heart and thoughts are with all of you.
Dave Shover
March 22, 2006
We all share many wonderful memories of Zeyno. I especially remember her energy, enthusiasm, and love of music. Please know that your family is in our prayers throughout this very difficult time.
Emily Smith
March 22, 2006
Mr. & Mrs. Barnes, and Crystal,
I cannot express my grief and sadness for the loss of Zeyno. She was a unique light in this universe. I've never known anyone like her in my life. She was a dear friend of mine ever since we played soccer together as children. When she went to China I lost touch with her, and I have always regretted losing her in my life. I was so shocked and saddened when I heard the news, but I am sure she will stay with us in spirit always. I wish your family all the best. You are in my heart and prayers.
Emily Smith
Hans Straub
March 22, 2006
The Barnes Family
My family and I want to express our deepest condolences to you and your family. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you might find comfort during this time of need.
Respectfully,
Hans Straub
Ken Boyer
March 22, 2006
Mr. & Mrs. Barnes & family
I am so sorry for your loss. Having taught Zeyno in several different classes, I will always remember her for the unique person she was. I send you my deepest sympathies. You and your family are in my prayers.
Sarah Kapp
March 22, 2006
To the Barnes Family,
I am deeply saddened by this tragedy and I want to send your family my most heartfelt sympathies. Zeyno was an amazing woman and could always bring a smile to anyone's face and a laugh to anyone's lips. She will be greatly missed. Please keep yourselves safe and you are all in my prayers. Crystal, my sister (Liz) and I have special places in our hearts for you and are thinking about you in this impossible time.
With love and Sympathy,
Sarah Kapp
Kathy Hamilton
March 22, 2006
Dear Vahide, David, and Crystal - Bob, Bobby, Mark and I have wonderful memories of Zeyno from way back in her early soccer days. What a shining star she was and continued to be throughout her life. Our hearts ache for you and your family.
Tom & Bonnie Wood
March 22, 2006
We were very shocked and saddened to hear your loss. We have fond memories of Zeyno sharing her birthdays with our daughter Leslie (and letting Leslie play with her ferret)when they were at Hoover Elementary School together. Our prayers are with you.
Emily Potts
March 22, 2006
Dear Mr. And Mrs. Barnes and Crissy,
Your Zeyno is loved and cherished by so many. She brought energy, warmth and beauty to this world, which will never leave any of us who have known her. I will always hold close the many adventures we all had growing up. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. With love,
Charlotte Colm
March 22, 2006
Crystal, Mr. and Mrs. Barnes- I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Zeyno. I just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Zeyno and her crazy humor will definatly be missed by many. If there is anything that i can do to help you please let me know. Though times are tough right now, you have a lot of people around who love you and want to help. Crystal i love you so much and want you to know that if there is anything you need- i am here (even if it is just a ride around the block to talk and relieve some stress). Zeyno is in a good place now and will still be around whenever you need her. My deepest sympathies go out to you all.
Andrea Turner
March 21, 2006
Friends and family, I am so, so sorry for your loss. Zeyno was such a great person, so intelligent and giving. I had the honor to get to know her within the past three years through friends, and there are so many little things that she has done or said that make me smile. Although she will be greatly missed, those things that bring smiles to our faces will help her live on.
Rebecca Van Loon
March 21, 2006
Mr. and Mrs. Barnes and Crystal-
I wanted to share with you all that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Zeyno was such a wonderful friend, we had so many great memories together from eating Auntie Anne's pretzels together at Emily’s (Potts) house to going for car rides and getting Ritas with Lauren (Martin), Emily (Potts), Tanya (Martzall), Mandy (Capp), and Amanda(Eberts)...on behalf of all of us we are so sorry for your loss. She will always be remembered with the fondest of memories.
Love,
Matthew Kylen
March 21, 2006
My prayers are with you all as well. She was a great friend whom I will always remember.
ROSE & JAMES MULL
March 21, 2006
WE SEND OUR CONDOLENCES IN YOUR GREAT LOSS,WE ARE FRIENDS OF THE GRANDMOTHER,RUTH BARNES. SO I KNOW ZEYNAP WAS LIKE HER GRANDMOTHER A REALLY NICE PERSON. GOD BLESS THE FAMILY. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
Christy Diebold
March 21, 2006
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Zeyno was a wonderful girl and she will never be forgotten.
Maggie Eckenrode
March 21, 2006
Dear Barnes Family,
I am so sorry for your lost, I know this is a very difficult time for you all. I just want you to know your family is in my heart and prayers. Zeno was a wonderful person full of spirit and warmth. She will be truely missed by all.
george eckenrode
March 21, 2006
Dear Mr&Mrs Barnes and Family,
I am not sure we ever met but I knew Zeyno through her being a classmate of my daughter, Maggie, who graduated with her from CHHS.
On behalf of my wife and my daughters, I send you my deepest sympathies and prayers. We too lost a child and brother, Flynn, now just three years ago. The loss of a child is so profound, so inexpressable in its depth and its pain. I grieve for you as I write this.
If I can be of any help now or in the future, do not hesitate to call or contact me.
All our prayers,
George, Jody, Cate and Maggie Eckenrode
Marcia Daraban
March 21, 2006
I am so deeply saddened and shocked by this loss, and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I have so many happy memories of a shared childhood with Zeyno, times spent at each other's house, in school, playing... times growing up. These are all memories I will keep and times I will miss forever because Zeyno was truly unique and loved.
Kristin Shenk
March 21, 2006
Mr. and Mrs. Barnes & Crystal,
I can not even begin to express my sympathies on the loss that you have experienced. Please know that Zeyno, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and that I only hold the highest memories of her in my heart.
I wish that I could do something to make this time easier for you.
With all of my respects,
~Kristin Shenk
Lisa Fiumara
March 21, 2006
Dear Barnes Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Betsy Bowen
March 21, 2006
I am deeply sorry to hear about this loss. Zeyno was a beautiful free spirit and I have many great memories of growing up with her. Her spark and sense of humor livened up everything we did together, from playing sports to just being in class together to random adventures around town. Zeyno will be missed, remembered and loved by too many people to count.
Allie Samsel
March 21, 2006
Dear Vahide,Chrissy & Dave,
I can still picture Zeno in tights flying across the school stage. To lose a spirit like hers is heartbreaking. You all have the Samsels deepest sympathy. You are a good family. She was a very loved person and I hope you take comfort in that. Listening to the news is upsetting and can never capture the essense of your child, just know that those of us who know what your family is about, know what a treasure she has been to you and honor her memory. In the difficult times ahead feel free to reach out to us, we keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Peace, Allie, Don & Aaron Samsel
Dionne Hunt
March 21, 2006
To the family of Zeynep, my most heart felt prayers to all of you in this tremendous time of loss. I knew Zeynep very well and my heart is very heavy at this moment in time. Zeynep had a beautiful personality, and was a purpose driven young lady with heart to achieve. She will always be remembered and truly missed. May the comfort and the love of God keep all of you.
John Gregg
March 21, 2006
I first met Zeyno when she played soccer for me at Camp Hill HS. She was an unbelievable individual and a very inspiring person. Always with a smile on her face and a laugh to follow, she truly lived life to the fullest. I thank her for the time she gave and the lives she touched. In meeting her, I was then able to make connection with her family and also another fine player in her sister Crystal. I want to pass along my deepest Sympathy to the Dave, Vahide, and Crystal and let you know that I will be thinking of you in these difficult times.
Abby Freeburn
March 21, 2006
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Megan (Babski) and I wanted to let you know we are thinking of you.
Jason, Tracey, Jacob & Olivia Mohler
March 21, 2006
Tom & Michelle, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May your memories bring you peace at this difficult time.
Terry Keller
March 21, 2006
So sorry to hear of your loss. She was such a wonderful girl and I remember her most when she was playing soccer with Heather in her senior year when Heather was in her Freshman year. If there is anything I can do, let me know. Take Care!
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