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Carrie O'Connor Obituary

The life's journey of Carrie Lynn O'Connor ended following an accident on September 14, 2020 in a city she loved, Boston, MA. Carrie was born on August 19, 1982 in Attleboro, MA and is survived by her parents Daniel and Christal O'Connor of Williamsburg, VA, her brother and sister-in-law Philip and Sara (Lynch) of Richmond, VA, beloved kitties Apollo and Artemis, and loving Aunts, Uncles, and Cousins.

Carrie graduated from Jamestown High School in 2000 and attended Virginia Tech where she earned a BA in French and a BS in Accounting and Information Systems. She then continued her studies in French language and literature in Vermont and Paris France, where she completed an MA in French from Middlebury College. After working in the field of Student Exchanges in Washington D.C., she went to Louisiana State University where she earned her PhD in the Department of French Studies in 2015. Her dissertation, exploring literary adaptations of Ovid's Pygmalion myth from the late eighteenth- through late nineteenth-centuries, culminated in her degree. Carrie distinguished herself as a teacher through her work on the LSU in Paris Summer Program. She worked with faculty on the organization, planning, and teaching of LSU in Paris for four years during her doctoral work. Always an innovator in the classroom, Carrie used the city of Paris as a tool for teaching, holding her class in different locations throughout the city, depending on the literary setting of the assigned reading. This brought the literature to life for the students and created connections to the city that were not easily forgotten. Carrie loved rediscovering Paris each summer through the eyes of her students - she was extremely passionate about study abroad and its value to students.

In 2014, Carrie became a Language Lecturer at MIT, and she also taught at Tufts, Northeastern, and Boston University, where she became a full-time Lecturer and Coordinator in 2019. Dr. O'Connor taught a wide range of courses throughout her career, including French language, French for business, Conversational French, French literature in translation and French culture through gastronomy.

Carrie was a vibrant and generous professor who was beloved by her students and colleagues. As a testament to her life's work and impact on the campus community, BU Today featured a moving tribute in her honor at https://www.bu.edu/today/articles/category/obituaries/.

In addition to Carrie's commitment to lifelong learning, teaching and reading, she also had a love for travel and adventure. Her first visit to France was while still in high school. Carrie's travel experiences were never limited to the popular tourist destinations. She would immerse herself in the local culture sampling cuisine and night life off the beaten path. The adventurer in her led to riding and bathing elephants in Thailand, feeding Pandas in China and hiking in Cambodia where the spiders were large enough to eat frogs. Her mantra was, "luggage should never be dusty".

The consummate city girl, she was a strong proponent of public transportation, and loved Boston. Though she relished city life, she would also hike in New Hampshire and Maine to commune with nature and was known to stray from a trail to exercise her foraging skills or to simply hug a tree.

In addition to adventures, Carrie was a magician in the kitchen skillfully experimenting with recipes and techniques to create delicious dishes and baked goods. Her artisan breads rivaled anything that could be found in established bakeries. She enjoyed cooking for friends and family and was just as creative with cocktails.

Carrie's infectious smile, witty humor, talent and intellect will forever be cherished by her family, friends, students, and colleagues, leaving an indelible mark on us all.

In lieu of flowers and to honor Carrie's passionate commitment for education and travel, donations may be sent to: LSU Foundation, 3796 Nicholson Drive, Baton Rouge, LA 70802, Re: "Carrie L. O'Connor, PhD Fund to Support French Studies"

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Published by Daily Press on Sep. 23, 2020.

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Tom

October 26, 2024

Carrie,

Breanna and I still think about the very last conversation we had with you. You were such a a beautiful soul. We miss you very much.

Polly

September 17, 2024

I think about you all the time, friend

Jenny

September 17, 2024

I´ve been thinking of you Carrie. We all miss you very much!

Ross

October 25, 2020

Very sad. May she Rest in Peace and heartfelt condolences to her family and friends........

Polly Williams

October 7, 2020

Carrie and I first met in a French class at Virginia Tech in 2000. We became fast friends as I was in awe and admiration of her early mastery of the language. I'll always remember her intellect, true class and enthusiasm for world cultures, travel and living life to the fullest. Her quote "luggage should never be dusty" is so quintessentially Carrie (I borrowed her quote for many a bio over the years). This past weekend, a friends and I held an intimate virtual memorial in her honor, remembering her brilliance and her true joie de vivre. We will continue to celebrate her life and contributions by living boldly and fully, while wearing our Carrie scarves and always making time to try new things and enjoy all of life's little pleasures.

Carrie, I miss you lady. I miss your voice, your laugh, your wit and your logic. I miss the things you create and share which help me to always be learning what you're learning and seeing first hand the ways you're staying inspired. Love your heart, your beautiful soul and YOU. Will miss you so much but honestly cannot wait to enjoy un petit café avec toi un jour dans nos jolies jupes et ballerines; en partageant quelques nouvelles et quelques pensées inspirantes, comme toujours ma chère amie. xx

Beth Murphy

October 2, 2020

Carrie was my French I professor at MIT, where she went out of her way to accommodate my class conflicts so I could enroll in the class. In learning basic French phrases, it came up that I was also from Virginia. We later discussed in english that we were actually both from Williamsburg and had gone to the same high school. Carrie was a wonderful teacher and I learned a great deal from her. I was so shocked to hear the news, and I will carry my memories of her class and our Williamsburg connection with me always. My deepest condolences.

Best,
Beth Murphy

George Bergmann

September 27, 2020

I am so proud of Carrie. I haven't seen her in many years. But what I've been reading about her life she is an awesome young lady. God took her too soon

September 26, 2020

Dear family and friends of Carrie
I do not know your daughter but by reading of her I wish I did. She sounds like a brightly burning light in this crazy dark world. Teachers often touch our lives and we never give them credit or acknowledgement. Thank you family for encouraging your daughter to learn, explore and share with the world. You can rest knowing she made such a difference globally.
God Bless you.

Janell Watson

September 25, 2020

Carrie was my student at Virginia Tech. She took French classes with me, was active in the French club for which I was faculty advisor, and studied in Paris during a summer when I was director. Language learning is a communal experience, and Carrie created community wherever she went. We last connected over coffee in Paris during the summer of 2016. Her spirit will live on in those of us who taught and learned with her.

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Jenny

September 24, 2020

I can’t believe she’s gone. Carrie was such a wonderful young woman and a beloved member of the family. I remember spending lots of time with you in CT in the summers and enjoyed out times together with family at Grandma’s house in NY. I know you are soaring with angels! Rest In Peace Carrie!

George Bergmann

September 24, 2020

Sending my condolences too Christine and Dan and Philip O'Connor at the time of their loss of my niece Carrie Lynn. May she rest in peace.

Beth and David Weinstein

September 23, 2020

Beth and I cherish our memories of our excursions with Carrie and Andrew, whether it was to museums for off-the-beaten path art exhibits or seeing Hamilton, as well as just sharing some really good homemade food. We will miss you Carrie.
Beth and David Weinstein

Robert Oliver

September 23, 2020

Dear Family and Friends, I am also an alum of Middlebury College. I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. My heart breaks for you.

Katy Watson

September 23, 2020

This is a beautiful tribute to a wonderful woman and life. I am thankful for all of the joy-soaked moments Carrie and I shared together during our time together at LSU and afterward. I will never forget her quick, warm welcome that immediately brought me into the fold as I started graduate school in a state in which I knew no one. Our many dance parties in Baton Rouge and New Orleans, her stay with me and our friend Aaron in Fort Worth in 2010, and my stay with her in Boston in 2017 are memories that will remain with me for the rest of my life.

I was and am shocked and deeply saddened by her loss, and though I have never met you (her parents, brother, and sister-in-law), I am thinking of you so often in this time. This is a loss for so many, and I feel for her other friends, her colleagues, and her students, but I feel for you in particular. I am sending you love from afar.

I am so thankful for all of the wit, beauty, knowledge, class, verve, baked goods, cocktails, and kindness that Carrie brought to the world. The world is better for all of it. I'm thankful for every laugh, dance, witty remark, and book review and recommendation that we shared. My life is better for having had Carrie's friendship in it. I will always be grateful.

Dewey & Mary Hurley

September 23, 2020

Dano & Crystal

I was saddened to see Carries passing, Our condolences and prayers are with you guys. What a shock.

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