Ryan S. Shaw

1997 - 2016

Ryan S. Shaw obituary, 1997-2016, Wakefield, MA

Ryan S. Shaw

1997 - 2016

BORN

1997

DIED

2016

Ryan Shaw Obituary

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Ryan Scott Shaw, of Wakefield, MA, passed into eternal peace on Monday, May 9, at the age of 18 after contracting bacterial meningitis. Born on May 29, 1997, Ryan was the beloved son of Scott and Joanne (Warchol) Shaw and the very dear brother of Connor and Madison Shaw, who will all miss him immeasurably. He was a member of St. Joseph Parish and attended St. Joseph School in Wakefield. Ryan graduated from St. John's Preparatory High School in Danvers, Class of 2015. He had just completed his first year at Northeastern University in Boston, where he studied Finance. Ryan was an amazing and blessed young man and son who packed more accomplishments into his 18 years than most people do in a lifetime. He was kind and gentle, witty, creative, vibrant, and a visionary. He made lasting friendships in all stages of his rich life and impacted all who came in contact with him in some positive way - friends growing up in Wakefield and Cape Cod and classmates from the Prep, NUin pals and new brothers at Northeastern. He won an Entrepreneur competition and started his own company at age 16, had paintings that won Boston Globe Gold and Silver medals, traveled the country, volunteered helping children with disabilities in Jamaica, and studied last fall in Dublin, Ireland. He was a great student and recently became a brother of Pike fraternity. He cherished his summers on the Cape and loved the beach, cruising on the water, researching exotic cars, snowboarding, basketball, soccer, spike ball and any game that his siblings, cousins and friends wanted to challenge him in. He never refused an invite for a meal with family or friends. But mostly he loved his family where he was an ever present positive light to an incredible big brother he admired; a phenomenal sister he cherished, and was truly "in heaven" spending time with his Mom and Dad. Countless accolades and tributes have been shared by Ryan's friends over the last few days. The family is comforted and proud reading their expressions of what Ryan meant in their lives and takes solace knowing that so many people are helping them through this difficult time despite the reality that life without Ryan will never be the same. Ryan leaves behind his maternal grandmother, Barbara (Lynch) Warchol, predeceased by Ryan's grandfather Richard, of Naples, FL, and his paternal grandparents Donna Brown of Hilton Head Island, SC, Robert Brown of Leominster, MA, and William and Carol Shaw of Bedford, NH. The loss of Ryan will also be deeply felt by his many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. The Funeral Mass will be held on Monday, May 16th at 11 a.m. at St. Joseph Church, 173 Albion St., Wakefield. Visitation will be held at the McDonald Funeral Home, 19 Yale Ave, Wakefield on Sunday May 15th from 1-4 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Ryan's memory to The Haven Project, 57 Munroe St., Lynn, MA 01901(havenproject.net) or Mustard Seed Communities, 29 Janes Ave., Medfield, MA 02052 (mustardseed.com). Additionally, a scholarship fund will be established in Ryan's name.

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September 12, 2016

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June 22, 2016

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May 18, 2016

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friend of a friend

September 12, 2016

God bless you and your entire family. Ryan will never be forgotten, and his name will live on forever while touching the lives of others.

Marie & Tim Tobin

June 22, 2016

To Ryan's family-- we are so sorry for your heartbreaking loss--more than words can say. Just wanted to send our deepest sympathies and prayers for peace, and may love surround you all. Having lost our only child, Brendan, (SJP 2014 grad, did Mustard Seed also that spring) last summer, we feel your pain intensely and wish such tragedies never had to happen. If you ever feel a need or wish to, please feel free to contact us. Love, prayers, light to you all, Most sincerely, Marie & Tim (Marie is on FB)

Dianne and Joe Rollins

May 18, 2016

Joanne and Scott. We cannot even imagine the pain you are experiincing with the loss of you son Ryan. Our hearts break for you. Having just gone through the loss of our friend and your dad, and the difficulties and sadness you are dealing with as your mom . copes with the changes in her own life, you are in need of all the support available. We are still in Florida and had a Mass said at the CSJ Motherhouse in honor of Ryan. May Mary wrap her mantle around you all and protect you, may you feel an angel on your shoulder lighting your way and may you always experience God's love.in your hearts. You are not alone

Janet Meuse-Bloom

May 17, 2016

Dear Joanne, Scott, Connor & Maddy: Please accept our deepest sympathies for the loss of your beloved Ryan. What a handsome young man!
Cherish all your memories deep in your heart forever! You now have a guardian angel watching over you always. May he RIP! God Bless you all!

Michele (McCarthy) St.Laurent

May 16, 2016

Scott and Joanne, I am sending love and prayers to you and your family.

May 16, 2016

Words cannot begin to express our heartfelt condolences for your incomprehensible loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Sincerely, Kevin, Martha and Alexa Poulin and Family

Melanie Horrigan-Montembeau

May 16, 2016

Your lives will always be blessed because Ryan was a wonderful soul who surrounded you all with his amazing spirit. His spirit will always live in each of you with his with warmth, strength, and love.

J. Healy

May 16, 2016

You all have been in our thoughts and prayers constantly. We are truly so very sorry for this incomprehensible loss.

Ann Catalano

May 15, 2016

My heartfelt sympathy and prayers.

Kathleen McDonald Susca

May 15, 2016

Joanne and family,
So sad to hear of the passing of Ryan. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Mary Ellen, Mike, Christie and Rachel Kaczynski

May 15, 2016

Scoot, Joanne, Connor and Maddy, What a devastating loss for you all. We know Rachel adored Ryan and always loved spending time with him. The only thing I can say is that you all gave him such an amazing life. His days were filled with adventures and surrounded by a family and friends who cherished him. Please know we will be here for you to support you in anyway we can. Rest in peace Ryan.

Brent Godfrey

May 14, 2016

Scott, Joanne and family, Thinking of you in this hardest of times. Please know you are in our hearts, prayers and thoughts.

Regina Quirk

May 13, 2016

We are all saddened to hear of the passing of your beloved son/brother. Please know that we understand your pain and are keeping you close in our hearts. Surround yourself with family and friends and use their strength to help you cope. This bond of love can not be broken even at death. We will keep you in our prayers. The Quirk Family - Mike, Regina, Ryan (BC 15)

Lynn Bozof

May 13, 2016

I lost my 20 year old college son to this disease 18 years ago, and then found out it was vaccine-preventable. I started the National MeningitisAssociation to raise awareness. I offer you my condolences and support. Please reach out when you are ready. Lynn Bozof, Lynn.nma@ gmail.com

David McGuinness

May 13, 2016

I supervised Ryan in my role as a Residential Assistant in Dublin, Ireland as part of the NU.in: FIE@DBS program that Ryan was part of last semester, and in every single event and occasion I was lucky to have spent with him and his friends, he was an absolute gentleman, an ever-present source of positive energy, and a dedicated and valued friend to all who he came in contact with during his time spent with us in Ireland. I hope you know of the impact your son and brother had on the people he befriended, volunteered with, or came in contact with while in Ireland. Please accept my deepest condolences to the Shaw family and all those who knew Ryan.

Judith Wilson (Parent of St. John's Prep graduate, 2015).

May 13, 2016

May your soul rest in peace Ryan. I am also sending prayers out to your family.
5/13/2016

Cindy&Tom Ward

May 13, 2016

Prayers for all

MARK AND DAYNA ROBERTO

May 13, 2016

To the Shaw family, We are deeply saddened by the loss of Ryan. Your friends the Roberto's ( Mark, Dayna, Alexa and Nick)

David Vaughn Vaughn

May 13, 2016

It seems like yesterday that I first met Ryan, stood across his smiling face, shook his hand and looked into the bright eyes of the future. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Bob, Dodie, Jeff, Curtis, Carla Zarse

May 13, 2016

All of the Zarse family are deeply saddened by the passing of Ryan. All of the Warchol family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Have comfort knowing his Grandfather will be able to hold him in his arms.

Sally Maijenski

May 13, 2016

My deepest sympathies to your family.

Laura Trulli Gallo

May 12, 2016

Dear Scott, Joanne, Connor and Madison,
We have only met a few times through family gatherings at the Trulli's (my brothers). Ryan is and was so loved by all of them and most especially so missed by the boys. My thoughts and prayers have been, and will continue to be, with Ryan, you and your family during this very difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless.

Carolyn Poirier

May 12, 2016

I am so saddened to hear about Ryan. You all are in my heart. It is so hard to lose a child. I only hope you may find some peace and comfort knowing he is safe in the Lord's arms. Love you all and God Bless you.

Susan & John, parents of David Millette

May 12, 2016

May the Lord hold you in His hands as you face the loss of your beloved son. Our deepest of sympathies to all the Shaw family.

Jim & Ree Coyman

May 12, 2016

We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that you will all be in our thoughts and prayers.

Karen, Mike, Evan and Alex Andrzejewski

May 12, 2016

When we lose a loved one here on earth, we gain an angel in heaven. May you take comfort in knowing that you have an angel to watch over you now. We extend our most sincere condolences to the entire Shaw family and all of Ryan's friends.

Eileen Tuohy

May 12, 2016

Heart broken over the lose of Ryan. My deepest sympathies.

Vivian St Hilaire

May 12, 2016

Scott, Joanne, Connor and Madison I'm so sorry to hear of Ryan's passing. Our prayers are with as gods hands surround you to give you guidance and comfort.
Love to you all
Vivian & Rich

Heidi Snow

May 12, 2016

Scott, I am so sorry about the unspeakable tragic loss of your dear son, Ryan. My heart breaks with you and your family. My prayers are with you. You and your family are in my heart. My deepest condolences to you. Love and big hugs to you and your precious family.

Sharon Delaney

May 12, 2016

Sending you so much love - no words can truly help right now but we are all here for you always.

Patricia Tamagini

May 12, 2016

Our hearts and prayers are sent to your broken hearts at this terrible loss of such a treasure.
The Tamagini Family

anonymous anonymous

May 12, 2016

The deepest abyss of pain and grief the human spirit can endure, is the death of a child. May God give you the strength to get through this. Although I never knew this handsome young man, I too lost my 25 year old son. So very sorry for your loss. You will see him again.

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