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Bernadette Peace
November 29, 2020
Sue, Bailey , Em, and Carter- we are so sorry for your loss. Though I never really knew Jack, I know that he left a hole in your hearts. I wish loving thoughts and words could mend that. But we do love you and are praying for your family.
Linda Bubeck
November 29, 2020
My deepest condolences to everyone who loved Jack. Sending prayers, hugs and love.
Linda Bubeck 11/29/2020
Sheri Blanchard
November 25, 2020
I'm heartbroken at this sad news. What a painful loss! Such a sweet, open and honest boy. I'm treasuring memories of going downstairs to find him curled up on the couch, with the dogs fighting him for space and a smile on his face.
Hugs, love and prayers to you all.
Sheri Blanchard
Bob Shepard
November 25, 2020
Such a loss at such a young age is so especially devastating that words are inadequate in expressing the grief felt by those who knew and loved Jack. For all of Jack's friends and family, especially Jeff, Sue, Bailey, Emmie and Carter, I wish you comfort in your memories and strength in your healing process.
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chris frothingham
November 24, 2020
We are heartbroken for your family. Jack was the model employee, always on time and ready to take on the day! I knew on the days we had Jack on the team his area of responsibility was one I never had to worry about. He is deeply missed in the GRK family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
chris frothingham, Groton
Nana and Grampa Scalf
November 24, 2020
We are heartbroken and overwhelmed with grief to have lost our wonderful grandson Jack. We love all our grandchildren, but Jack was very special. Even when we were not able to see him, he was always in our thoughts. We will cherish the memories we have of the times we were together and Jack will live in our hearts forever.
No parents should ever have to experience the anguish of losing a child and we are heartsick that Bailey, Emmie and Carter have to endure the devastating loss of their brother. None of us will ever recover from this tragedy.
Sending love to you all.
Roberta Giordano
November 24, 2020
My heartfelt condolences to all of Jack's family. He was a special young man who I had the honor of working with several times during his school years. I wish you comfort in your memories, peace, and healing through this sad time.
Niki & Terry Price
November 24, 2020
Hugs and prayers to both the Scalf and Bubeck families. The loss of such a young man is so tragic. Thinking of you all.....
Lynn Jarvis
November 23, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. Jack was a very special young man. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Barbara Dodson
November 22, 2020
Extending my deepest sympathy to you during this time. Jack was one of my 4th grade students. I remember him as a hard worker and he had a terrific smile. My prayers and blessings are with you.
Rosie
November 21, 2020
Our deepest sympathy and lots of love to Sue, Bailey, Emmie, Carter and Jimmy. May you find comfort in your memories of Jack and the wonderful person that he was. Rosie, Rob, Nick & Andrea
Gail DesBois
November 21, 2020
I am so saddened to hear about Jack. I really liked Jack. He was one of my students at Swallow Union. He was a funny kid who made me laugh with his matter-of-fact comments. He would state the obvious and not know how funny he was! He always made me smile. I remember he would switch his chair every time he came into the room because I had given him a different chair to use because he was so tall. He never said anything but would switch chairs back every time. I am so sorry for your loss.
Carol Rock
November 21, 2020
Sincere condolences to the entire Scalf family. My heart breaks for your beautiful son and brother’s loss. Will pray for all and keep you close in my thoughts.
Ben
November 18, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. Jack was such an amazing young man and an even better employee. He always worked hard and did the right thing without having to be told. I enjoyed giving him rides to and from work and you could always count on him to flash you his big goofy smile. GRK grieves with you
Ben
November 18, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. Jack was such an amazing young man and an even better employee. He always worked hard and did the right thing without having to be told. I enjoyed giving him rides to and from work. GRK grieves with you
Tina Livingston
November 18, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss. Jack was a wonderful kid, always kind to Ian. My you find some comfort in knowing that he is with the Lord. God bless you all. - The Livingston Family
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