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1958
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2020
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JAMES SHAER Obituary
Jim is survived by his wife of 26 years, Nancy (Tine) Shaer. Together, they traveled to Alaska, the Outer Banks of North Carolina, the Caribbean and on baseball excursions. They presided over dozens of gatherings in their welcoming home. The highlight of Jim's professional life was his 12 years on the staff of United States Senator John Kerry.
Born August 27, 1958 to Domit J. and Eva N. Shaer of Agawam/Feeding Hills, Jim is survived by siblings Annmarie of Springfield, Dr. Catherine M. (Dr. Victor Sank) of Rockville, MD, Joseph D. (Rainbow) of Agawam/Feeding Hills, his twin Thomas G. (Lisa Shelnitz) of Chicago, IL and John N. (Lynne) of Rockville, MD. He also leaves nieces, nephews, cousins and countless friends.
This was a man who humbly yet strongly impacted others. Jim had a great sense of humor and enjoyed simple things. He will be dearly missed.
Family and friends will gather Thursday, February 6th from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Gately Funeral Home, 79 W. Foster St., MELROSE www.gatelyfh.com A Mass celebrating Jim's life will be held at St. Mary of the Annunciation Church, 9 Herbert St., Melrose, on Friday, February 7th at 11:00 a.m. Burial at Lakeside Cemetery, 501 North Ave., Wakefield.
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Memories and Condolences
for JAMES SHAER
Gregg Metzger
May 7, 2023
Saddened to hear of this so late. My sincerest of condolences to the family. My father Bill worked at the market for Dom in the 70's. I helped Jim canvas the town for Mo Udal back in the day. His family helped ours in many ways.
MIchael Grimaldi
June 24, 2020
Jim was a kind soul and was always a friend in need.
Lisa Hopping
February 27, 2020
My thoughts and prayers for the Shaer family.
I worked at Shaer's Market in the late 1970's lots of cherished memories, so sad to hear this news.
Laura Heiden
February 24, 2020
My heart breaks for this sad time in the Shaer family.
Lori Heiden and family
Joseph Liquori
February 23, 2020
Joe ,John, Tom, & family I was surprised to hear of Jim's passing, definitely the most comical of y'all... He will be sadly missed, my sincerest condolences , lots of cherished memories...
William Aubin
February 19, 2020
My thoughts and prayers to James and his family. My you find comfort in knowing he is at peace.
Edward Cyran
February 15, 2020
I was sorry to hear Jimmy had passed away so young. We had been good friends in Agawam High. We lost contact after high school . Please accept my sympathy at this time.
February 14, 2020
My deepest sympathy to Nancy and all the family. Jim and I -like many others- go back to the Kerry campaign. We shared a love of collecting political memorabilia. So sad to hear the news. RIP my friend.
Mike Schulze
Marcia StOnge
February 11, 2020
Oh Annmarie,
so sorry to hear this news. Know you are in my prayers
Sandra Adamski Thornton
February 11, 2020
My Heartfelt Condolences to the Shaer Family
When Dom Shaer asked me to work at Shaer's Market in the early 1970's, I didn't know how boisterous and fun-loving the Shaer family was. I have such fond memories working with Jimmy, Tom, Joe, and John. When we were not taking care of the customers, we would share our dreams of the future. Jimmy was always passionate about politics. I am so happy to see how he lived his dreams and shared his light with the world! Blessings to you, Jimmy and family.
Sandra Adamski Thornton
Bonnie Cronin
February 8, 2020
I worked with Jim for many years, from the '82 race on. When I left Melrose, he was responsible for inviting old Kerry comrades to my going-away party, for which I was so grateful. He was the most phenomenal encyclopedia of political facts I've ever known, a super-loyal Democrat and a hard worker. Most important, he had a heart as big as the world. My sincerest sympathies to Nancy, Tom, and the Shaer family.
Sean King
February 7, 2020
My condolences to Nancy and all of Jim's family. I met Jim during his many years of public service, first through his work with Senator Kerry where he worked with my father (Jim King) and later as a lobbyist at the State House. Jim was a great person who always greeted me with a smile and was happy to help. His knowledge of political memorabilia was amazing. My father would often tell me that if I ever had a question about a political artifact that I needed to talk to Jim Shaer. He will be missed by me and so many more.
My condolences.
Michael Knight
February 7, 2020
I'm so sorry to hear of Jim's passing.
The Shaer family is such a great part of my memories of Agawam as a boy. My Dad took us to the market so many times and I was always in awe of all the Shaer "men" who were probably just older boys
My condolences to you.
Joseph Nowak
February 7, 2020
Dear Nancy and Shaer Family,
I wish you all well. Jim was a friend, but more importantly he was an all consuming person who gave of himself to those who asked. Dedication and trust were hallmark attributes that guided Jim's life. When something needed to get done, he was there to do it. Family, friends, and all who had the honor to work with Jim share the pain of his passing. The fragility of life makes us all need to love the precious moments we share with one another. Rest peacefully, in the arms of our Lord. I loved you Jim and I will never forget you . Be well Nancy.
Fred Koed
February 2, 2020
My deepest condolences to Jim and Nancy's family. I have so many good memories of the good times with Jim and especially all the Kerry political campaigns and laughs we had. I've met a lot of people in politics and Jim had one of the biggest hearts of them all.
Kathleen Hennessy Amirault
February 2, 2020
So sorry for your loss
John Tinnemeyer
February 3, 2020
Not sure what was more fun, being on the freshman football together or talking politics A very interesting person guy to talk to.
Richard Ford
February 3, 2020
Jim was more than a friend to me,he was like having another brother.I will never forget things we did together Cal Ripkin Night,Ted William's night at Fenway,Beanpot Hockey and Nancy and his Super Bowl Party to name a few. He was also the ultimate prankster. As they said in the movie Stand By Me,"friends come and friends go" but for me Jim will never leave he will always be in my heart.RIP my brother until we meet again.
Dennis Lamoureux
February 3, 2020
Jim and I were best friends back in Jr. High and High school. We played games like Off the Wall or Kick the Can. We did errands for Shaer's Market. We sat and listened to old radio shows on his reel to reel. We even went to a Red Socks game together. His mom and dad had me over several times for dinner with the family. I can see him laughing now, not a care in the world. We were just kids yet we certainly knew how to make the best of each day. I will forever hold on to all my memories of Jim and the fun times we had....My heart felt condolences go out to Jim's family and friends. He was loved by many and will be missed by all. Rest In Peace my friend until we meet again.
Doug Paquette
February 3, 2020
Having Jim as a friend since 1971 it is hard to put into words the sadness I have felt since his much too early passing, He was always positive and a fun person to be with, he will be missed!
Chris Greeley
February 3, 2020
He was a good friend and without a doubt Jim has already been enshrined in the Loyalty Hall of Fame. He just was a good kind man.
Kathy Posner
February 3, 2020
Dear Shaer Family,
I did not know Jim but am close friends with his twin brother Tom. I know the love that Tom had for his brother so I wanted to share my condolences with the family. My deepest thoughts of love and sympathy are with you.
Kathy Posner
Bobby Barkett
February 5, 2020
So sorry to hear of Jim's passing. My love and prayers go out to Nancy, John, Tom, Joe, and the entire family. Jim was a true gentleman. The Barketts and the Shaers go back many years with fond memories at St. Anthony's Church where Jim, John and I served mass as altar boys. Jim was intrumental in having Senator Kerry visit our Big E White Hut location years ago and made sure I received a personally signed photo of the Senator and I not long after the visit.
Jim always greeting me with a smile and a kind word. God bless all of you.
Bobby Barkett
Mary Przybylowicz-Waldron
February 4, 2020
My sympathies and prayers for the Shaer family.
Like so many, Jim and I knew each other from the Kerry campaign as I lived at that time in Chicopee. Jim's warm and supportive nature mixed with his passion for supporting candidates with compassion drew so many of us to him and the candidates he supported. Facebook had reconnected us electronically.
Jim, thank you for making this world a better place. May you rest in peace.
February 4, 2020
Nancy-Annmarie-Catherine-Joe-Tom-John
So very sorry to hear about Jim. Remembering the good times and many laughs you all shared will help comfort you during this difficult time.
Sending Thoughts and Prayers to all.
Barbara Blazejowski
Maria Miller Larson
February 3, 2020
My heartfelt condolences to Nancy and Jim's family and friends. He was a true gem, his joy and warmth will be remembered. We have known each other since childhood catechism classes. May he rest in peace.
Bill Carito
February 4, 2020
Nancy, I was terribly saddened to hear the news of Jim's passing. Jim and I shared the common bonds of politics and lobbying and sports and many others. I will miss him. I am sorry we cannot be in Boston during this difficult time. I hope you will take solace in the comfort of his many friends and most importantly, all the people who received the blessings of his generous heart over the years.
William Beck
February 4, 2020
Jim Shaer was all Tom mentioned in the obit! He helped my daughter, Lindsey, when she went to work for Congressman Dale Kildee some 20 years ago. Jim gave her advice about getting a job on the hill and how to navigate.
My time with Jim revolved around sports, particularly the Red Sox. He was a big fan and always had thoughts on their play. Jim was fun to be around an very easy to know.
My deepest sympathy to the family on the passing of a great guy!
Bruce Fontaine
February 4, 2020
Tom, to you and your family, I extend my condolences to you over the passing of Jim. I remember moments with both you and Jim in HS, and met up with him once when I was working at Boston U about 12 years ago. He was more active in so many great works and influenced many more people.
Be at peace through your sorrow. A great man has left us.
February 4, 2020
I remember Shaer's Market fondly, as well ast Jim's mother and father.
Honor Guards
richard ford
February 4, 2020
Rest in Peace our good friend and Neighbor.
Richie and Ginny Ford
Jennifer Hetsko
February 4, 2020
This is a big loss for our family. Jim was the best guy. Larger then life when he entered a room yet very humble. So many good times at our family reuntions. He will be missed.
Nancy, you are in our prayers.
Rest in Peace Jim. Your heart was just too big for this world.
Love,
The Hetsko Family
Scott and Jennifer
Mitch Ogulewicz
February 4, 2020
I am truly sadden at the passing of Jim.
I met Jimmy (as I called him) in 1982, when John Kerry asked me to Chair his Springfield
Campaign for Lieutenant Governor.
Jimmy was the Field Co-ordinator. His sheer drive and hard work resulted in Kerry winning the Primary and then going on to win the Lieutenant Governorship, along with Governor Dukakis.
After the election of 1982, Jimmy came to my home and presented me with a document that outlined a campaign plan to get me elected to the Springfield City Council.
His plan included a political commercial that would play on the difficulty of pronouncing my last name.
Although I was hesitant to run for the City Council, competing against 66 other candidates in a City wide election, Jimmy finally convinced me to seek a seat on the 9 person City Council.
His leadership of the campaign resulted in a victory.
Jimmy and I teamed up again in 1984 to lead the Kerry Senatorial campaign. Together we opposed the entire Western Massachusetts political establishment and we were victorious as Kerry went onto serve 5 plus terms as the Senator from Massachusetts.
Jimmy was a kind, intelligent and hard working individual.
Many people have received the benefit of his advice. But more importantly his friendship.
Rest in Peace Jimmy, in the Arms of Our Lord.
Mitch Ogulewicz
PAUL CZYNODEL
February 4, 2020
I knew Jim at AIC in the 70's. He was a very friendly guy. I pray for his soul and his family.
Matt Barron
February 4, 2020
Very sad news. I knew Jim over our 40 years in Bay State and national politics. He was a funny guy and a good person.
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