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Carla Chiavelli
March 24, 2025
Tom,
Tomorrow (3/25) you would have been 77. Hard to think of you at that age. The fun we had. You are missed and thought of every day. God Bless You. Happy Birthday, my dear friend and brother in-law.
Carla
September 4, 2024
Tom,
Monday, September 9th, will be 20 years since you passed. I can't even believe it. I miss your zest for life, your bigger than life personality, your smile, and the fun we all had with you. Love you forever.
Carla
March 24, 2024
Tom,
Tomorrow, March 25th you would have been 76. Twenty Birthdays without you. To this day you remain in our hearts & always on our minds. Please keep sending me signs. Forever with us. I love you & miss you. Carla
Paula Arends
December 19, 2023
All the mischief and fun. Helping to cook with mom and dad and in I.O., helping Do. What a gift you gave me: Manneke. Prettige Feestdagen, hou van je
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Carla Chuavelli
December 18, 2023
Tom,
We missed you at Thanksgiving, as we will on Christmas. Can not believe it's been 20 years since we last spent Thanksgiving & Christmas with you. You are missed every day. Hope to see you again some day. Carla
Paula Arends
September 5, 2023
Oh Carla thank you so much for remembering Tom so lovingly in your daily life. This means a lot to me. God bless you Theo
Carla
September 4, 2023
Tom,
As we approach September 9th, it is almost impossible to believe it will be 19 years. As you probably know we talk about you and think about you constantly. Your memory will always be with us. All the good times we had. I love you and thank you for sending me signs. Carla
Carla Chiavelli
March 26, 2023
Tom,
Can´t believe you would have turned 75 yesterday. It doesn´t seem possible. I think of you everyday and miss you just as much as I did 19 years ago. Thank you for sending the Red Cardinal by. Forever in our hearts.
Paula Arends
March 21, 2023
Thinking of you Theo as a
Milestone birthday approaches. We love and miss you. So glad that you’re with your dear mother and father.
Rest easy and guide dear Daniel
Carla
December 30, 2022
Tom,
Another year coming to an end. It´s so strange having you not around for such a long time. You certainly are not missed any less for sure. You were so much fun to be around. I wish you could have spent more time with is. I hope we will all be together again someday. I love you. Carla
Carla Chiavelli
November 23, 2022
Tom,
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and I will be thinking of you and missing you so very much. What wonderful times we had. I love you and miss you every day. Happy Thanksgiving. Love, Carla
Carla
September 4, 2022
Tom,
September 9, 2004 was a very sad day for us. Eighteen years on and missing you as much as ever. You were and are a big part of our family. The fun times we had will last forever. Please keep sending me signs. Always in our hearts. Love you.
Carla
Carla
June 2, 2022
Tommy Tunes,
Tomorrow you & Paula would have been married 27 years. What a wonderful day that was. What I wouldn´t give to go back to those times with you , mom, dad, gramma peg, do and Jim. Life is sad without all of you. I love you, I miss you, and I wish you were here. Please send me those signs.
Carla Chiavelli
March 23, 2022
Tom,
As we approach yet another one of your Birthdays without you, I hope you know how much we miss you. I cannot believe you would be 74 this Friday. It does not seem possible. Please keep sending me signs. I love you and miss you every day. You will never be forgotten. Carla
Carla Chiavelli
December 17, 2021
Carla Chiavelli
December 17, 2021
Carla Chiavelli
December 17, 2021
Tom,
It´s hard to believe that we have missed another Thanksgiving without you and an upcoming Christmas. You were a wonderful brother-in-law and so much fun. You made every get together that much more special. You are always on my mind. I love and miss you so much. Carla
Carla Chiavelli
September 4, 2021
Tom,
This Thursday, September 9th will be 17 years that you have been gone. I cannot believe it has been that we have been without for that long. I love you and miss you so much. You are always being thought of and remembered every day. Please keep sending me signs. Until we meet again, God speed.
Carla Chiavelli
March 24, 2021
My Darling Tom,
Happy Birthday in Heaven, tomorrow, March 25. As time slips by it gets harder to believe you’ve been gone 17 years this September. You are missed every day and always with us. I love you and miss you always. Keep watching over us. ♥♥
Carla Chiavelli
November 26, 2020
Tom,
It’s hard to believe this is our 16th Thanksgiving without. We miss you and all of our good times so much. Please continue to be around me. Love you always. ♥
Carla Chiavelli
September 7, 2020
Tom,
Cannot believe Wednesday, September 9th will be 16 years since you left us. I miss you every day. You were the best brother in law. I think of you everyday and remember all of the good times we had. You were and are such a big part of our family. Keep sending me signs. Love you always and forever. Carla. ♥♥♥♥
Tom♥♥
April 14, 2020
Carla Chiavelli
March 24, 2020
Tommy Tunes,
Happy Birthday tomorrow (March 25th)
I cant believe tomorrow you would have turned 72. Gone too young for sure. We think about you every day and miss you so much. You had a bigger than life presence. Please keep watching over us. Until we meet again God Speed. ♥♥♥
Dan Arends
March 24, 2020
Missing you papa on your 72nd birthday! Wishing we could have grown close together and enjoyed father-son time. I love you. I hope you are happy in heaven. - Love your son Dan
Carla Chiavelli
December 25, 2019
Merry Christmas Tom! It's been so many Christmases without. You are forever with us on these special days. We love you and miss you terribly, God Bless You. Always in our hearts. Love you.
Tom ♥
Carla Chiavelli
November 27, 2019
Love and Miss You My Darling Brother In Law.
Carla
Theo and his wife Paula
Daniel Arends
November 27, 2019
Theo in South Africa
Daniel Arends
November 27, 2019
Theo (middle) with his parents
Daniel Arends
November 27, 2019
Frank Wotton III
September 15, 2004
Dear Paula, my deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you, Danny and your relatives over your loss of Tom. Wishing you strength and hope from his memory.
Debbie Maxwell
September 12, 2004
My sincere condolences to all of Tom's family...we had many good times years ago, when TJ and John were little children like Danny...he will surely be missed by all those whose lives he touched...
Debbie Maxwell
Karen Reiniger
September 12, 2004
Paula,
Our thoughts,love,and prayers are with you and your family.
TOM AND THE KIDS
TED HEATH
September 12, 2004
AS I THINK OF TOM, IT IS WITH GREAT PLEASURE THAT I REMEMBER THE TWINKLE IN THE EYE AS HE PLANNED HIS NEXT BIT OF FUN! HE LOVED HIS FAMILY DEARLY----AND LIVED TO PLEASE THEM---AND MAYBE JUST A JOKE OR TWO FOR THEIR "PLEASURE" AS WELL! BEWTEEN JIM HIS DAD, AND TOM, HIS MUM DO SURELY HAD HER HANDS FULL! SHE AND WE WILL MISS THE WONDERFUL FAMILY GATHERINGS AND LOVE THEY SHARED WITH US ALL. WITH WONDERFUL MEMORIES WE SAY GOOD BYE TOM--- GOD SPEED!.
LOVE, TED
Mike & Janine LeBlanc
September 10, 2004
Our prayers are with you Paula, TJ, Doe and Danny. We love you all.
Richard Perry
September 10, 2004
My condolences to Do & Family,
and especialy Paula & Danny
My prayers are with you,
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