Theodorus Arends

Theodorus Arends

Theodorus Arends Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Sep. 10 to Sep. 11, 2004.
ARENDS - Theodorus "Tom", 56, of Decatur St., in the Indian Orchard section of Springfield, died Thursday, September 9, 2004, at his home. Born in the seaside resort of Scheveningen, Netherlands March 25, 1948, son of Theodorea (Conneman) and the late Jacobus "Jim" Arends, who died in 1997. He spent his youth in the Netherlands and in South Africa. After his high school education, he joined the Dutch Marine Corp., where he proudly served for 6 years, advancing to Sergeant. His service time enabled him to travel the world which he loved. Tom had a strong sense of adventure, as a youth he saved a boy close to drowning in the North Sea. This act earned him a place in Carnegie Book of Heroes. Tom's adventures brought him to the United States in 1972 and he lived on Cape Cod for 22 years before moving to Milford, MA and then on to Springfield. Tom also worked as a graphic artist for Turley Publication in Palmer with many years of service. He was an accomplished carpenter and wood worker. Tom his survived by his wife Paula (Mastropieri) Arends whom he married on June 3, 1995. Three children; Thomas Edward James "TJ" Arends of Indian Orchard, Laura McInnis of Cape Cod, and Daniel John Arends at home. His mother Theodora "DO" (Cinneman) Arends and a sister, Erna Page of South Africa. His nephews and niece David Page, Debbie Page-Atwell Jenna Chiavelli and Scott Chiavelli. Tom will be greatly missed by his loving and caring family. Many of Tom's best hours were spent with is family and close friends. Funeral Monday, at 9 A.M. from the Kapinos-Mazur Funeral Home, 64 Sewall St. Ludlow, MA, followed by a Liturgy of Christian Burial in St. Cecilia's Church, Main St., Wilbraham at 10 A.M. Burial will be private. Friends may call Sunday, 5-6 P.M. For further directions, information, and online guest book, please visit www.KapinosMazurFH.com

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March 24, 2025

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September 4, 2024

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March 24, 2024

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Carla Chiavelli

March 24, 2025

Tom,
Tomorrow (3/25) you would have been 77. Hard to think of you at that age. The fun we had. You are missed and thought of every day. God Bless You. Happy Birthday, my dear friend and brother in-law.

Carla

September 4, 2024

Tom,
Monday, September 9th, will be 20 years since you passed. I can't even believe it. I miss your zest for life, your bigger than life personality, your smile, and the fun we all had with you. Love you forever.

Carla

March 24, 2024

Tom,
Tomorrow, March 25th you would have been 76. Twenty Birthdays without you. To this day you remain in our hearts & always on our minds. Please keep sending me signs. Forever with us. I love you & miss you. Carla

Paula Arends

December 19, 2023

All the mischief and fun. Helping to cook with mom and dad and in I.O., helping Do. What a gift you gave me: Manneke. Prettige Feestdagen, hou van je

Carla Chuavelli

December 18, 2023

Tom,
We missed you at Thanksgiving, as we will on Christmas. Can not believe it's been 20 years since we last spent Thanksgiving & Christmas with you. You are missed every day. Hope to see you again some day. Carla

Paula Arends

September 5, 2023

Oh Carla thank you so much for remembering Tom so lovingly in your daily life. This means a lot to me. God bless you Theo

Carla

September 4, 2023

Tom,
As we approach September 9th, it is almost impossible to believe it will be 19 years. As you probably know we talk about you and think about you constantly. Your memory will always be with us. All the good times we had. I love you and thank you for sending me signs. Carla

Carla Chiavelli

March 26, 2023

Tom,
Can´t believe you would have turned 75 yesterday. It doesn´t seem possible. I think of you everyday and miss you just as much as I did 19 years ago. Thank you for sending the Red Cardinal by. Forever in our hearts.

Paula Arends

March 21, 2023

Thinking of you Theo as a
Milestone birthday approaches. We love and miss you. So glad that you’re with your dear mother and father.
Rest easy and guide dear Daniel

Carla

December 30, 2022

Tom,
Another year coming to an end. It´s so strange having you not around for such a long time. You certainly are not missed any less for sure. You were so much fun to be around. I wish you could have spent more time with is. I hope we will all be together again someday. I love you. Carla

Carla Chiavelli

November 23, 2022

Tom,
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and I will be thinking of you and missing you so very much. What wonderful times we had. I love you and miss you every day. Happy Thanksgiving. Love, Carla

Carla

September 4, 2022

Tom,
September 9, 2004 was a very sad day for us. Eighteen years on and missing you as much as ever. You were and are a big part of our family. The fun times we had will last forever. Please keep sending me signs. Always in our hearts. Love you.
Carla

Carla

June 2, 2022

Tommy Tunes,
Tomorrow you & Paula would have been married 27 years. What a wonderful day that was. What I wouldn´t give to go back to those times with you , mom, dad, gramma peg, do and Jim. Life is sad without all of you. I love you, I miss you, and I wish you were here. Please send me those signs.

Carla Chiavelli

March 23, 2022

Tom,
As we approach yet another one of your Birthdays without you, I hope you know how much we miss you. I cannot believe you would be 74 this Friday. It does not seem possible. Please keep sending me signs. I love you and miss you every day. You will never be forgotten. Carla

Carla Chiavelli

December 17, 2021

Carla Chiavelli

December 17, 2021

Carla Chiavelli

December 17, 2021

Tom,
It´s hard to believe that we have missed another Thanksgiving without you and an upcoming Christmas. You were a wonderful brother-in-law and so much fun. You made every get together that much more special. You are always on my mind. I love and miss you so much. Carla

Carla Chiavelli

September 4, 2021

Tom,
This Thursday, September 9th will be 17 years that you have been gone. I cannot believe it has been that we have been without for that long. I love you and miss you so much. You are always being thought of and remembered every day. Please keep sending me signs. Until we meet again, God speed.

Carla Chiavelli

March 24, 2021

My Darling Tom,
Happy Birthday in Heaven, tomorrow, March 25. As time slips by it gets harder to believe you’ve been gone 17 years this September. You are missed every day and always with us. I love you and miss you always. Keep watching over us. ♥♥

Carla Chiavelli

November 26, 2020

Tom,
It’s hard to believe this is our 16th Thanksgiving without. We miss you and all of our good times so much. Please continue to be around me. Love you always. ♥

Carla Chiavelli

September 7, 2020

Tom,
Cannot believe Wednesday, September 9th will be 16 years since you left us. I miss you every day. You were the best brother in law. I think of you everyday and remember all of the good times we had. You were and are such a big part of our family. Keep sending me signs. Love you always and forever. Carla. ♥♥♥♥

Tom♥♥

April 14, 2020

Carla Chiavelli

March 24, 2020

Tommy Tunes,
Happy Birthday tomorrow (March 25th)
I cant believe tomorrow you would have turned 72. Gone too young for sure. We think about you every day and miss you so much. You had a bigger than life presence. Please keep watching over us. Until we meet again God Speed. ♥♥♥

Dan Arends

March 24, 2020

Missing you papa on your 72nd birthday! Wishing we could have grown close together and enjoyed father-son time. I love you. I hope you are happy in heaven. - Love your son Dan

Carla Chiavelli

December 25, 2019

Merry Christmas Tom! It's been so many Christmases without. You are forever with us on these special days. We love you and miss you terribly, God Bless You. Always in our hearts. Love you.

Tom ♥

Carla Chiavelli

November 27, 2019

Love and Miss You My Darling Brother In Law.
Carla

Theo and his wife Paula

Daniel Arends

November 27, 2019

Theo in South Africa

Daniel Arends

November 27, 2019

Theo (middle) with his parents

Daniel Arends

November 27, 2019

Frank Wotton III

September 15, 2004

Dear Paula, my deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you, Danny and your relatives over your loss of Tom. Wishing you strength and hope from his memory.

Debbie Maxwell

September 12, 2004

My sincere condolences to all of Tom's family...we had many good times years ago, when TJ and John were little children like Danny...he will surely be missed by all those whose lives he touched...

Debbie Maxwell

Karen Reiniger

September 12, 2004

Paula,



Our thoughts,love,and prayers are with you and your family.

TOM AND THE KIDS

TED HEATH

September 12, 2004

AS I THINK OF TOM, IT IS WITH GREAT PLEASURE THAT I REMEMBER THE TWINKLE IN THE EYE AS HE PLANNED HIS NEXT BIT OF FUN! HE LOVED HIS FAMILY DEARLY----AND LIVED TO PLEASE THEM---AND MAYBE JUST A JOKE OR TWO FOR THEIR "PLEASURE" AS WELL! BEWTEEN JIM HIS DAD, AND TOM, HIS MUM DO SURELY HAD HER HANDS FULL! SHE AND WE WILL MISS THE WONDERFUL FAMILY GATHERINGS AND LOVE THEY SHARED WITH US ALL. WITH WONDERFUL MEMORIES WE SAY GOOD BYE TOM--- GOD SPEED!.
LOVE, TED

Mike & Janine LeBlanc

September 10, 2004

Our prayers are with you Paula, TJ, Doe and Danny. We love you all.

Richard Perry

September 10, 2004

My condolences to Do & Family,

and especialy Paula & Danny

My prayers are with you,

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