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FOLEY Sheila Foley, an "Irish Rose," to all of those who loved her, died November 9, 2010 after a courageous and tenacious fight against metastatic breast cancer. Sheila was born on April 25, 1960 to Dennis P. and the late Barbara H. Foley of Stratford. She graduated from Notre Dame High School in Fairfield. Sheila worked full time in the Emergency Department of York Hospital in York, Pa., while she earned an Associate of Art Degree in Nursing from Harrisburg Area Community College, Harrisburg, Pa., graduating with high honors and then graduated cum laude with a BS in nursing from York College, York, Pa. Sheila's intellectual and nursing leadership endeavors were recognized by nomination and acceptance into Sigma Theta Tau, International. For more than 18 years, Sheila provided the best clinical care to her patients in the areas of emergency, electrophysiology, and ambulatory nursing. The majority of her practice of nursing was with York Hospital, where her tenure was marked by promotions to positions of increasing administrative and leadership responsibilities which included operations manager for the Emergency Department and senior clinician in the electrophysiology lab. She served as a preceptor for new nursing clinicians and employees. Sheila was recognized for these achievements by being awarded the Pre-hospital Health Professional Award for Clinical Excellence by York Hospital. Her innate gifts of treating all she met with respect, dignity and caring no matter their station in life, were the primary hallmarks of Sheila's practice of the art of nursing and the living of her daily life. Sheila was a skilled artisan of needlepoint, photography, and culinary creations. Her attention to detail and esthetic were evidenced in her dress, her gifts, and the wonderful notes and remembrances given to family and friends. Sheila's openness to adventure and the gift of life were exemplified by her love of travel and adventure. She was a water nymph, having spent her childhood on the shores of Long Island Sound and Jordan's Beach in Scarborough, Maine. Her love of the sea was highlighted by a trip that she and her best friend, Billie Jean Sullivan, took to Fiji. Sheila was strong of character and soft of heart. Her intellectual curiosity, wit, kindness, thoughtfulness, personal and professional ethics and sense of adventure are lifelong gifts that were given to her family and friends unconditionally, but especially her nieces and nephews, Kevin Michael and Bridget ("B") Foley and Brendan and Maura Rousseau and cousins, Paul S. and M. Regina Norton who were with Sheila on her life's final journey. Sheila will be missed by her faithful companion and source of joy, her dog, Duchess. She was predeceased by her mother, Barbara H. Foley. She is survived by her father, Dennis P. Foley; her beloved sister and final caregiver, Maureen Foley of Canton, Mass.; brother, Kevin Foley and spouse, Mary Lynn of Shelton; sisters, Kathleen, Margaret, Barbara and Theresa; and brothers, Patrick and Timothy. She is also survived by numerous nieces, nephews and cousins. The family will be forever grateful for the loving care given Sheila throughout the course of her illness to Cornell Weill Breast Center, NY, NY, York Cancer Care, York, PA, Brigham and Women's Hospital, Boston, Mass. and the Sawtelle Family Hospice House, Reading, Mass. in lieu of flowers, Sheila requested that donations be made to Weill Cornell Breast Center, Attn.: Lucille Ferraro, New York Presbyterian Hospital, 1300 York Ave., P.O. Box 123, New York, NY 10006 or York Cancer Center, Attn: Development Office, 25 Monument Rd., Suite 194, York, PA 17403. Beidh muid gra duit go deo (We will love you forever), Sheila.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Dec. 3 to Dec. 4, 2010.

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sonja hicks

April 6, 2012

I just found out this week of Sheila's passing. I wanted to extend my sympathy to your entire family. I was very grateful to meet Sheila and become her friend. Sheila lived life to the fullest no matter what was going on with her health. She had a fantastic sense of humor, I will never forget the day we were having lunch for hours on the Patio of a resturant. We watched ducks swim, the sun was shinning, it was a beautiful spring day and I told her how amazing she was. I had never seen her look so at peace, so hopeful and so beautiful as I did that day. This is the memory I will hold onto. Sheila's beauty came from the inside out and she was one of the most amazing people I have ever known. My deepest sympathy to each family member, to her friends and to her beloved duchess....

ANDREAS ELDRACHER

May 16, 2011

DEAR FOLEY FAMILY, As impressions go they will live long on of Sheila. She was a great friend when we attended Lordship School together in Stratford. You always remember the ones who CARED about you during your childhood. It truly was a gift she had . My deepest condolences for such a precious gift lost. Thank you Sheila for a wonderful gift to remember a good Friend. God keep you in his tender care. Andreas K. Eldracher

Trent seaks

December 12, 2010

Sheila was a good friend of my mom Robin.I will really miss her she showed me how to eat with chopsticks and we use to watch a lot of movies -bugs life-was our movie.Miss you Miss Sheila.

December 12, 2010

I am so sorry about Sheila's death. We worked side by side for many years in the York emergency department, an incredible nurse and human being. We shared many nice moments together.

Marc Pollack,MD

Robin Glass

December 12, 2010

My deepest sympathy to the Foley family.Words cant express the loss of a great loving friend.I consider myself very fortunate for knowing Sheila and her "other side"since she was such private person.I cleaned for her if that is what you wanta call it,she would clean before I got there and we would sit drink beer and eat cookies(she would always make me ginger cookies because she knew I loved them)..I will miss us driving to Maryland just to do dinner,movie,our bike rides,roller bladeing,beach times,hours of talking,sitting in the back of her yard watching the sun come.Sheila & I came from two different walks of life no one ever understood our friendship but as Sheila would say "they dont have too"One of my funniest memories of Sheila was "trying to teach her to dance"..She will be sadly missed and always loved..

Christine Robison

December 10, 2010

Dear Foley family,
I was very saddened of this news that I received yesterday. Sheila was a great nurse and I feel honored to have known and worked with her in the cath lab. Shelia was a unique and graceful lady, her legacy of how strong she was will live on in her family and friends...She will be sadly missed...

December 9, 2010

My deepest sympathy to the Foley family.
Sheila was a unique and lovely individual..I consider myself fortunate to have known her and worked with her in the cath lab. Keeping you in my prayers..Sheila is a bright star in the night sky.
Stephanie Frey York, PA

Deb Wolf

December 9, 2010

Dear Foley Family, I too was very shocked to hear of Sheila's passing. I worked with Sheila in the Emergency Department for many, many years. I was also a part of the stitch club that Sheila belonged to many years ago. We would meet once a month, and cross stitch for hours, so I can surely attest to the beautiful needlework she produced. I remember one piece of a Lavender and Lace pattern that she stitched for a special niece. She also took the time to professionally frame it herself...it was exquisite! I also remember a glass "Tiffany" style lamp she made, and all the soldering herself. She was an unbelievable artist! My wish for all of you is that when you think of Sheila, you are smiling.............

Mark Koch

December 8, 2010

Dear Foley family. It was quite a shock to read of Sheila's passing. I worked with her for many years in the Emergency Department at York Hospital. We had a great friendship and were Scuba diving buddies, finding time whenever possible to get away from work to dive. As Kay Bleecher remembered planting flowers at Sheila's house in Red Lion, I remember slightly harder work there, remodeling her bathroom and doing plumbing repairs for her. I truly have missed not seeing her in the 11 years since I left York Hospital. May you find peace in the knowledge that Sheila left behind a little piece of herself in all her friends. We will never forget.

Douglas Baade

December 8, 2010

Dear Mr. Foley and Family,

It is with heavy heart that I send this. I am so sorry to hear of Sheila's passing. I had the honor of working with her in the 1990's at York Hospital ER. She was a great person and provider to her patients. I can't imagine the countless people that would not be here if she had not come into their lives during thier time of need. She now sits in heaven watching over all of us and keeping us safe and out of harms way. You will be missed deeply. May God watch over your family and comfort you during these rough times.

December 8, 2010

Dear Mr. Foley and all the brothers and sisters:
I was greatly saddened to hear of Sheila's death after her difficult battle with breast cancer. Sheila and I worked together for many years in the York Hospital ED. I remember her hard work as she worked her way from an EMT to an RN in our department. She was a wonderful friend and we shared fun times planting flowers at her little house in Red Lion and also as she was inducted into the nursing honor society. She will be honored, missed, and remembered by many of her friends and colleagues in York. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Remembered with love, Kay-Ella Bleecher, Etters, PA

December 8, 2010

December 08,2010
So sorry to hear of Sheila's passing. I had the good fortune of working with Sheila in the EP lab. My thoughts and prayers go out to The Foley family during this difficult time.
Steph Sharp, Spring Grove,Pa

Ed & Nancy Genga

December 6, 2010

Dear Kevin, Mary Lynn, Kevin Michael and Bridget, We were deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your beloved sister. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Please extend our most heartfelt conolences to your father and the rest of the Foley family. We wish you peace, prayers and blessings,

Bill Curley

December 6, 2010

Dear Foley Family,
I'm am so sorry to hear of Sheila's passing. She will always be remembered as a kind and caring person. Sheila and all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeff Kiernan

December 5, 2010

Kevin and the whole Foley family: I am so sorry about Sheila's passing. As you probably remember, I taught her at ND back in the 70s. She was one of my all time favorite students. When I read her obituary it was a "kick in the gut," but when I re-read it (and read of her oh so vital life!!!) I also was able to silently and prayerfully exclaim: "That's Sheila!!!" A tremendous loss felt across the years and miles. Love and Peace, Jeff Kiernan

John Roberge

December 4, 2010

Pat and family, I am sorry to hear the news of your sister. You have always had a tremendously close family and my deepest condolences are with you all. Sincerely, John Roberge

December 4, 2010

Sheila and I went to Notre Dame .Some of our friends referred to us as Laurel and Hardy. We had alot of good times. She was always up for an adventure. Thanks to her quick wit and intelligence we survived those many adventures. We shared a love for the beach and I'm sure she is experiencing the best beach ever. Katie Kelly Moran

Gary Pintek

December 3, 2010

Kevin, Patrick and the Foley Family:
Words cannot express my sincere sympathy for Sheila's loss. May she stay in your hearts forever. God Bless her and keep her.

Billie Jean Sullivan

December 3, 2010

I will miss my dear friend. Sheila was a rock; courageous, strong, reliable and a true friend. Always kind words and thoughts sent my way, sharing poems and dreams along the way with recipes for good eats, another passion we shared. I will remember Sheila with the meals I cook written in her hands and one of her last poems she wrote seems to sum up her positive outlook on life. "I see the sand slipping through my toes rather than the hour glass of time" -S.F. Your beach buddy...Billie J

Billie Jean Sullivan

December 3, 2010

Words cannot express the loss of such a dear and faithful friend. I will miss the laughter and tears, as well as your kind thoughts and words. Generous of heart and soul...Sheila you will be remembered always, by not just me, but the entire Csapo family. You made an indelible mark in our lives, you were one of us...in Sheila's last poems she summed up her outlook on life. "I see sand slipping through my toes rather than the hour glass of time." Your Beach buddy-Billie

David Lydiard

December 3, 2010

Farewell, my "oldest friend." You leave us too soon. I'll think of you every Christmas Eve as I check my mailbox, just as I have for the last 42 years. Thank you for the friendship, the good times, and all the wonderful childhood memories of summering in Lordship. Love you always, Sheila.

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