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Dorothy H. L. Carroll of West Chester Dorothy H.L. Carroll, 89, died peacefully in her home Saturday, March 24, 2012. Born and raised in Nyack, New York, Dorothy Carroll lived in her home, a former Quaker meetinghouse in Birmingham Township, Chester County, for sixty-three years. She started her education in the public school in Nyack, then studied at Barnard College where she received a bachelor's degree, with a major in history. After her marriage to Carl Lenk, and their five children were born, she started teaching fourth grade at Unionville Elementary School. She found she needed more tools to teach, so she enrolled in the Reading Study Center and received her master's degree at the University of Delaware. A later journey - she called it a feast - of delving more deeply into the Language Arts earned her a Doctoral degree in dducation from the University of Pennsylvania, and a chance to teach graduates and undergraduates at Arcadia and West Chester Universities. After retiring from public education, she taught classes and workshops in Re-Evaluation Counseling (co-counseling), and served on the Board of the Sankofa Academy Charter School in West Chester. She was a founding member and chairperson for the first advisory board for the Educational Kinesiology Foundation where she served for 6 years; she also taught Educational Kinesiology internationally. In the 1960's she and others picketed to integrate the banks in West Chester, after which she was a part of the Community Dialogue, an early attempt to end racism in West Chester. In 1997, when a local bank was fined $100,000 for discriminatory practices. Dr. W.T.M. Johnson started picketing, and Mrs. Ethel Closson, Tom Colgan, Dorothy Carroll, and several others joined in. At a public meeting, the bank president made apologies, but it was clear that something further had to be done. So the second version of the Human Relations Council of Greater West Chester was formed (the first one was started by Dr. W.T.M. Johnson in the 60's), of which Dorothy became the Chairperson. Deeply influenced by her friend Ethel Closson, Dorothy understood that white people need to work on our own racism, so she led a workshop at Birmingham Friends, her Quaker Meeting, called "Whites Working to End Racism" for people from various local churches. She also led similar workshops at four national Quaker conferences. Her activist life included being part of West Chester's Community/Police Team, the Chester County Democratic Executive Committee, Democratic committeeperson for her township, Chairperson and active member of the Human Relations Council, editor for 22 years of the journal for elder co-counselors called Older and Bolder, and an active member of the Peace and Social Concerns Committee of Birmingham Friends Meeting. She was a member of the Dr. W.T.M. Johnson Memorial Fund Board, the West Chester Branch of the NAACP, and teacher and Area Reference Person for Re-Evaluation Counseling in the Brandywine Region. A longtime member of Birmingham Friends Meeting, she served as clerk and on committees, taught First Day school, held Bible study classes in her home, and opened her home to Youth Committee meetings. After her husband died in 1976, she traveled internationally - to Russia, Bangladesh, Ireland, France, Nepal, India, Costa Rica, Cuba, China, Japan, Trinidad and Mexico. Presented with the Affirming America's Promise award by the West Chester branch of the NAACP, she also received recognition and congratulations for her community service and Civil Rights activism from the Pennsylvania Senate and the Chester County Board of Commissioners. She had a chapter published in a book (Held in Love), as well as articles published in the Friends Journal, titled "The Role of White Quakers in Ending Racism", and one on her trip to Cuba to interview older women there. Dorothy Carroll and her husband Carl Lenk moved to Birmingham Township in 1949 and raised their five children together until his death in 1976. Her adult children and their partners were a major part of her life, as were her extended family, friends, and members of her Quaker and Re-evaluation Counseling communities. Dorothy had a deep commitment to peace and harmony in the world. She believed in the goodness and equality of all people, and that racism can be ended in this century. Her intention was to be open at every moment to leadings of the Spirit. Her goals were to end racism, to become more deeply connected with all people, and to live each moment well. She is survived by two sisters, five children and their spouses and partners, and an extended family of nieces, nephews and friends. A family visitation will be held from 12 noon to 2 p.m. Saturday, March 31, at Birmingham Friends Meeting. At the family's request, in lieu of flowers, friends may send donations to Birmingham Friends Meeting, 1245 Birmingham Road, West Chester, PA 19382, or Sankofa Academy Charter School, 446 West Gay Street, West Chester, PA 19380.

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Published by The Daily Local from Mar. 26 to Mar. 27, 2012.

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Utisha

March 27, 2019

...7 years. We think of Dorothy very often. Her infectious laugh that shook her belly until she cried. Her kind smile, her gentle hands, her baby soft hair. Her Luv... Her Luv... All of her Luv...
Utisha (Trinidad & Tobago)

Rachel Osborn

January 23, 2013

Dear beloved Dorothy. A F/friend to treasure, and a treasure always. Your spirit is ever present in every place and person you've lived and loved. Your light shines on and throughout.

Christine Greenland

May 28, 2012

Dorothy was a great Friend and mentor to many. All who knew her will miss her.

Bonnie Jones

May 25, 2012

My deepest sympathy to Dorothy's family and friends. I stayed in Dorothy's home for several months while waiting to purchase a home in West Chester while i was Executive Director of the Women's Resource Center in Wayne. She was true role model and I learned much while living with her.
Bonnie S. Jones, Indianapolis, IN

Gretchen Castle

May 4, 2012

I was so very fond of Dorothy. She was an inspiring model of strength, of living in appreciation, and of aging with beauty and grace. she was a dear, dear Friend and a friend to all. I will miss having her in this world and am so grateful to have loved her.

utisha sottan

April 24, 2012

...death is a part of life. To my beautiful Lady of a friend, Dorothy H. L. Carroll, we hadn't seen each other physically in over 10yrs, but you stayed in my memory. Now that you have moved into the Light, you will continue to stay there until i, myself, move on... I miss you. I Luv you... Thank you for all your wonderful work with my family.
Utisha (Trinidad & Tobago)

Qiana

April 15, 2012

Sending love and hugs Dorot's children and family. Dorothy has been a wonderful influence & champion in my life for the past 25+ years. She has shown unconditional love, support a heartfelt concern for me and members of my family. She has been a teacher, a friend, an ally, Co-counselor and much more. She

Buffy Curtis

April 8, 2012

Dorthy was a genuine Friend in all ways. She served as an example and guiding Light and her works and memory will continue to shine. My life is blessed to have been touched by her!

Robyn Young

April 3, 2012

Dorothy was a true activist and mentoring feminist. I was fortunate to meet her and over the years always found her in the crowd working to get things changed. I will miss seeing her around Chester County.

Kayta Gajdos

March 30, 2012

Dorothy was a wise woman elder and the ripple effect of her goodness will go on for generations.

Judy Becker

March 30, 2012

Dorothy was a wonderful lover and ally of human beings. I will miss her, her sweet smiles and warm hugs.
Co-counselor

March 28, 2012

Fond memories of Dorothy will continue on from crossing paths in Quaker circles to working together in the Human Relations Council of Greater West Chester. Anne Moore (West Chester, PA)

March 28, 2012

Dorothy was a beacon of light. She was a strong feminist and revered in the Quaker women's community. I miss her strength, kindness and laughter.
Lenny Lianne Resch (Arizona)

kris finnegan

March 28, 2012

Sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing this wonderful woman's life's achievements.

Jeanne Lupton

March 27, 2012

Charlie, I am sorry for your loss. What a wonderful woman your mother must have been.

March 27, 2012

My sincere condolences. Dorothy was a wonderful influence to me at the Chester County Community Foundation and her work on the Dr. W.T.M Johnson Memorial Scholarship fund was so appreciated. I will miss Dorothy ! Peace and prayers to all of her family and friends.
Beth Harper Briglia

Dorothy enjoying the sea breezes 9/15/2009

Sally Kelly

March 27, 2012

Sincere condolences from the Cape May gang. We enjoyed many lively discussions with Dorothy during her visits to Cape May during the past few years.
Sally and Mary

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