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Mary Desin Obituary

Mary F. (Golubski) Desin, age 58, of Erie, passed away unexpectedly, on Sunday, June 2, 2019, at UPMC Hamot. Born in Erie, on March 30, 1961, she was the daughter of the late James F. and Frances Mary (Lis) Golubski.

Mary graduated from Edinboro University with a degree in nursing. She later earned her Master's degree in Health Administration from Loyola University. She wore many hats at Hamot Hospital and later UPMC Hamot working for 39 years, and most recently as an admissions nurse.

She was an animal lover, especially of dogs. Mary was generous to a fault, always helping anyone that crossed her path. She loved that her job as a nurse allowed her to help anyone and everyone she could.

Besides her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband, Joseph H. Desin in 2015; a brother, James Golubski; and a brother-in-law, Daniel Wysocki.

Survivors include her daughter, Laura Ortiz, husband Wilfredo of Erie; two sons, Matthew Desin, wife Kayli, of Uniontown, Ohio and James Desin of New York, New York; four grandchildren, Rosalie, Jordan, Damian, and Anthony; two sisters, Barbara Wysocki of Erie and Dolores Cline, husband Gerald, of Colville, Wash.; a brother, John Golubski, wife Janet, Brooklyn, Minn.; sister-in-law, Lois Bonniger of Erie; many nieces and nephews; and her beloved dogs, Roxi and Dixie.

Friends may call on Friday from 2 to 5 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. at Brugger Funeral Homes & Crematory, Pine Avenue Branch, 845 East 38th St. Services will be held there Saturday at 11:30 a.m. followed by a funeral mass at 12 noon at St. Luke Church, 421 East 38th St. Burial will follow at Wintergreen Gorge Cemetery.

Memorials may be made to ANNA Shelter, 1555 East 10th St., Erie, PA 16511, or Because You Care, 6041 West Road/P.O. Box 54, McKean, PA 16426.

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Published by Erie Times-News on Jun. 6, 2019.

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June 19, 2019

Jimmy,

I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. I didn't have the pleasure of meeting her but she sounds like such a beautiful, special person. I am thinking about you.

Justine Koehler

Colin Lynn

June 13, 2019

May you rest in peace Mary.

Thank you for the legacy you have left behind.

Darlene Cooley

June 11, 2019

To Laura, Damian and Family; I am deeply saddened to hear of your mom passing. As your friend, I am sending you my LOVE and STRENGTH in your time of sorrow. You are in my THOUGHTS and in my PRAYERS. MISS DARLENE COOLEY

Annie Frew

June 10, 2019

Rest In Peace. You've earned your wings.
Annie (Jaglowski) Frew

Marilyn Bowers

June 10, 2019

Dear Barb
I was so sorry to read about your sister.
May the Lord hold you close at this most difficult time.
From: Marilyn 9:00 Mass

April Smith

June 8, 2019

To the Desin family, my deepest condolences to all of you. I did not know Mary well, though, the times I did talk with her... she was a warm person. The world is worse without her in it. Her travels home with her husband will be safe and I believe she is happy by his side.

June 8, 2019

To the family of Mary, my sincerest sympathy. I worked with Mary many years in the Operating Room at Hamot. She was a wonderful nurse. I am so sorry for your loss. Just know she touched many people and their care. She will be missed. My prayers go out to you all. I know she loved her family. Sandra Shreve Pickens

June 8, 2019

Mary was a most trusted coworker in the OR for many years.It was always a comfort to work along side her knowing that she had command of any situation that might arise and was a tremendous resource. As a nurse, she reinvented herself professionally many, many times over her long career.

However family was always first and we enjoyed many stories that mothers share while balancing family and career. She will be missed!

Carol Hager

Patti Allen

June 6, 2019

Laura, Matt, and Jimmy,
I can't even begin to find the words to express my sorrow upon hearing of the passing of your mother. My heart is heavy and saddened by your loss. Your mom and I were friends and colleagues at Hamot Medical Center in the Operating Room for many years. Those memories are priceless. I will never forget her. Her wonderful and gentle soul will remain in my heart forever. Right now I imagine her resting in peace in the arms of God and the angels. Take comfort in knowing that a very special angel will be watching over you and your families throughout your lives. Please accept my condolences and prayers.

Eileen Beers

June 6, 2019

My thoughts and prayers to Mary's family. I worked with Mary at different times at Hamot.She will be missed. Always had a smile and kind words no matter when I saw her. Very kind and loving person.

June 6, 2019

Laura, Matt, and Jimmy - I can't tell you how sorry we are for your great loss. Your mom was such a special person who brought such great care and comfort to so many. We will be praying for your family and may God Bless You.

The Mikotowicz Family

June 6, 2019

Laura, Matt, and Jimmy I can't tell you how sorry we are for your great loss. Your mom was a special person who brought so much life and hope to so many. We will be praying for you and may God bless you. The Mikotowicz Family

Michelle States

June 5, 2019

Mary was my best friend in high school. Me and my husband introduced her to Joe a few years after we married. I didn't think they would make it beyond their first date but little did we know that the would be together for over 30 years! They were a perfect match for each other. I regret that we didn't stay in touch over the years but thought of them both often. She will surely be missed. Love you Mary! I hope we will be able to rekindle our friendship once we all make it to heaven!

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