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REV. DR. ALEXANDER "SANDY" ARDREY

REV. DR. ALEXANDER "SANDY" ARDREY obituary, Fort Wayne, IN

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ALEXANDER ARDREY Obituary

REV. DR. ALEXANDER "SANDY" ARDREY, 90, went home to Heaven on Monday, May 2, 2011. He was born on Nov. 29, 1920, in the town of Dun- gannon, County Tyrone, Northern Ireland. He immigrated to Toronto, Canada as a 4 year old child where he completed his elementary and high school education. His family attended the St. Clair Church of the Nazarene where as a 16 year old he received a call to pastoral ministry. He entered Eastern Nazarene College, Quincy Mass., in preparation for ministry. After one year, at the outbreak of World War II, he joined the Royal Canadian Air Force where he served with distinction as pilot/bombardier of the Lancaster bomber. He served as an officer at a young age flying 35 missions over Europe after which he was a flight instructor. At one point, he parachuted to safety when his plane was shot down. Following military service, he returned to Eastern Nazarene College, where he completed the educational requirements for ordination in the Church of the Nazarene. He was ordained in 1950 serving as pastor briefly in New Hampshire and Ontario but spent most of his pastoral ministry in Massachusetts. He was pastor of churches in Peabody, New Bedford, and Lowell Massachusetts over a period of 24 years. He led each congregation in extensive building projects and in successful extensive outreach/evangelism ministries in the community. He was known as a caring and devoted pastor with a strong sense of direction and mission. He was strong in building lay leadership as seen in the many lay leaders who accepted a call to ministry as a result of his example. In 1974, he was appointed District Superintendent of the Canada West District Church of the Nazarene. Again he served with distinction along with his wife, Margaret for 12 years, starting many new churches and was a mentor for local pastors many of whom built strong growing churches under his leadership. His wife of 43 years passed away in 1986, after which he "retired" but hardly slowed down. He assumed a position under Nazarene Sunday School ministries, writing, teaching, and traveling extensively as a teacher/preacher giving seminars. After three years of ministry at "headquarters", he served briefly as pastor of evangelism in Lewisburg Pennsylvania where he was married to Maxine Barber for 14 years before her passing in 2001. He then served for 17 years in Fort Wayne, as the Associate Pastor of Evangelism at Lake Avenue Church of the Nazarene. In 2003, he married Mary Berg. It was also during this time that he developed and founded a practical and widely used program for congregational outreach and nurture known as Dare to Care Ministry, of which he is President Emeritus and Founder. This ministry continues to the present time in over 4,000 churches in 40 denominations. Even well into his 80s he was pastoring at the River Haven Church in the Fort Wayne area. His last years of convalescence were spent in San Angelo Texas. He is survived by his wife, Mary; son, Bob (Mary Beth); son, Ken (Brenda) and their children, David, Ryan, Jonathan, and Christina; son, Don (Carolyn) and their children, Ruth and Allen; daughter, Ruth (Mark) and children, Danielle, Katie and Laura; and two great-grandchildren. Service is 10 a.m. Tuesday, May 10, 2011, at Grace Point Church of the Nazarene, 8611 Mayhew Road, Fort Wayne, with calling one hour prior. Calling also from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Monday, May 9, 2011, at D.O. McComb & Sons Maplewood Park Funeral Home, 4017 Maplecrest Road, Fort Wayne. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Dare-To-Care Ministries, Box 630, San Angelo, TX 76902.

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on May 8, 2011.

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Donna (Berg) Hall

May 19, 2011

Sandy Ardrey was a wonderful, loving and caring man who loved God most of all. He cared about everyone he met. What he wanted most in life was to introduce as many people to Jesus as he could and tell them about God's amazing love - so great that He sent His only son Jesus to die for each one of us. This is his legacy. We can all take a lesson from that!
My mom had been a widow for 39 years, and was 73 years old when she and Sandy were married 8 years ago. They were like two starry-eyed teenagers, holding hands, sneaking kisses and saying "I love you." They both loved each other so very much! He would always reassure me that he would take very good care of my mom. I never once doubted him. Sandy's health began to decline about 5 years ago. My mom cared for him at home as long as she could, and continued to do the same as best she could even after he was moved to the nursing home for round- the-clock care about a year and a half ago. Mom, now 82 years old, visited him most days, including the very day he died. Every day she 'lost' more of Sandy. Sandy could no longer walk, speak, eat or keep his eyes open, but mom would talk to him, sing some of his favorite hymns, hold his hand and massage his forehead, hoping that her words and acts of love would comfort him.
On 5/2/2011 Sandy died. Sandy was only a part of our family for a short time, but we loved him and he was certainly "Grandpa" to our son. I told our 9 year old son, Isaac that Grandpa Ardrey had been sick for a long time, but that he had gone home to be with Jesus in Heaven. I told him, "Grandpa's death is a happy occasion, because he gets to go to Heaven to be with Jesus. It is also a sad occasion since we will certainly miss him and we won't see him anymore until we get to Heaven. The best part is that, now Grandpa isn't sick anymore, but he is walking, talking, singing and maybe even dancing (he was Irish) again in Heaven." Our son thought about that for a while and then said, "I want to go to Heaven." We reassured him that he would most likely live a long life like Grandpa before it was his time to go to Heaven.
My husband,Todd & I then proceeded to tell Isaac about the special role Sandy played in our lives. Sandy & Maxine were the first people to reach out to my husband ,Todd as a first time visitor at Lake Avenue Church of the Nazarene in 1992. They invited Todd to go out to eat with them at Old Country Buffet (north). They did not know that Todd worked for OCB (south) until they began to get to know each other during the meal! My special connection with Sandy is that, my dad died when I was 4 years old, so he wasn't able to be there on my wedding day 18 years ago (1993) at Lake Avenue Church of the Nazarene, but Sandy and Maxine were there. Little did I know then, that he would one day be a part of my family. My dad couldn't be there, but my stepdad was there to help me celebrate my wedding day!
I have been reminding Isaac of the memories he has of Grandpa Ardrey: 1) Grandpa blowing up balloons with his air pump and letting them fly around their living room in Ft. Wayne and watching as some balloons were propelled even farther by the circulating ceiling fan, 2) playing cards with Grandpa and Grandma at their house on Thanksgiving, 3) helping Grandpa blow out the candles on his birthday cake, 4) going out to eat with Grandpa & Grandma to a restaurant of Isaac's choosing, 6) seeing Grandpa through the nursing home window a year and a half ago, because Isaac came down with the "flu" on the way to see Grandpa & Grandma in Texas; Isaac placed his hand on the window to "touch" Grandpa's hand on the other side, 5) at about age 4 or 5 Isaac gave Grandpa a very precious "baba" (soft comfort item) that belonged to him, which had special comforting 'powers'. Grandpa cherished it and always considered himself to be very privileged to be chosen by Isaac to receive such a special gift. Grandpa asked Isaac how the "baba" worked. Isaac explained that if Grandpa had a headache, he should place the "baba" on his head, if he had a stomachache, he should place it on his stomach. Later, Isaac found out that Grandpa slept with the "baba" under his pillow, or it was placed between Grandpa & Grandma's pillows on their bed at home. On a return visit to their home months later, Grandma took Isaac into their bedroom to show him that the "baba" was between their pillows on their bed. Isaac crawled across the bed on his hands and knees, bent over and sniffed the "baba" and declared, "It's just how I left it!" It still smelled like his "baba" - Grandma had not washed it. Grandpa was buried with the folded "baba" placed under his hands, across his stomach.
These are the initial memories that we shared with Isaac, though I know there are more. We loved Sandy as part of our family. I will never forget how much Sandy loved my mom. What a gift he was to her (that they were to each other) in her later years of life! Oh, that we who are married will be as much 'in love' with our spouses in our 'golden years'.
A couple of days after Sandy died, I offered Isaac a positive way to think of Grandpa. I told him that, "Now, when you play the piano, Grandpa will hear you." Sandy we hope you can also hear our hearts that speak of our love to you as well. We love you and miss you Sandy... Grandpa.

Art & Rita Tallman

May 7, 2011

Sandy was a great influence on the lives of so many. His life was well spent for our Lord and now he is His presence!

Eric & Helene Tallman

May 6, 2011

I am thinking how wonderful it is to know that a life spent, literally, in love with Jesus is the most beautiful and effective life possible. Thank you for living for my Lord - see you in paradise!

May 4, 2011

Our loss is Heaven's gain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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