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2019
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John Sibik Obituary
He graduated from Somersworth High in 1968 and went on to a successful career at the Portsmouth Naval Shipyard where he met his wife Linda. They moved to Dover and married in 1986.
John leaves behind his wife and best friend of 32 years Linda (Jalbert) Sibik; sons Andrew and Brian; mother Sophie; sister Marsha (Peter) Schofield; nephew Matthew (Joi) Schofield; uncle Chris Koufos; and several cousins. He was predeceased by his father Rudy, aunts Georgia, Angie and Koula Koufos. He also leaves his mother-in-law Pat Jalbert, sister-in-law Ellen (Sterling) Hudon, and brother-in-law Bob (Susan) Jalbert.
John served in the Army National Guard from 1969 to 1975. He graduated from the Portsmouth Naval Shipyard Apprenticeship Program in Sheet Metal, and retired in 2008 as an Engineering Technician. Not one to sit still (aka Happy Feet), John continued to work as a government contractor and also became a candlemaker.
John served on the Dover Rec Advisory Board and coached many baseball and basketball leagues in Dover while the boys were growing up.
John was a lifelong parishioner and past church council president at the Dormition of the Virgin Mary Greek Orthodox Church in Somersworth, N.H.
Once he finally "retired" John loved to golf, ski, go for rides in his Corvette, family dinner nights, and relax with family and friends at Kimball Lake Shores in Fryeburg, Maine. John's greatest passion in retirement was playing basketball. He played in the Dover Recreation over 50 league for the last 18 years, was a member of the DUMBO basketball group of Durham, and competed at many state tournaments as well as the Senior Olympics.
John had the most diverse and amazing circle of friends which have help to support us during this difficult time – thank you all. He was known for his quiet humor (king of the stupid dad jokes), friendship, competitive spirit and his constant and unwavering love for family and many, many friends. Our hearts are broken that we have lost someone so full of life, but his energy will continue to live within and around us.
John had six ethics of life - Before you pray – believe; Before you speak – listen; Before you spend – earn; Before you write – think; Before you quit – try Before you die – live. John's was truly a life well lived.
SERVICES: Calling hours will be held on Monday, February 11, 2019 from 4-7 p.m., at the Tasker Funeral Home, 621 Central Ave., Dover, N.H. A Funeral Mass will be held on Tuesday, February 12, 2019 at 11 a.m., at the Dormition of the Virgin Mary Greek Orthodox Church, 45 Tates Brook Rd., Somersworth, N.H.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in John's name to Dover Recreation, c/o Gary Bannon, 61 Locust St., Dover, NH 03820. Please go to www.taskerfh.com to sign the online guestbook.
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Walter King
February 1, 2024
Remembering my friend John on the 5th anniversary of his passing. We still miss you very much John and think of you often.
Walter King
February 3, 2023
Walter King
February 3, 2023
Walter King
February 3, 2023
Remembering John on the 4th anniversary of his passing. I still miss him. John was a real mensch.
Walter King
February 4, 2021
Remembering my buddy John on this 2nd anniversary of his passing. He is still missed...
Walter King
February 4, 2021
Remembering my buddy John on this 2nd anniversary of his passing. He is still missed...
Theresa Hinckley
February 28, 2019
Sophie and family I am so sorry for your loss.
February 16, 2019
Thinking of your family and wishing you comfort and peace.
Jim Blouin
February 16, 2019
May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a wonderful life well lived.
Diane Chessman
February 12, 2019
My sincere condolences to Linda and the entire family. John was a great man and best friend to my sister and brother in law, Dana and Roger. May he rest in peace and may you all find strength and peace in your memories of him.
William Herterich
February 12, 2019
As we sort through our memories of John, a priceless one comes to mind. During a neighborhood party years ago, the party hosts featured a "freeze frame" dance competition. When the music stopped, the dancers were to stop too - anyone still cutting the rug was tossed out of the competition. After a while, just two people were still going - John and I! Were we the best dancers? Decidedly not! When we were crowned co-winners, no one laughed harder than John! A true gentleman with a great wit, John will be missed. Our heartfelt condolences go out to Linda, Andrew and Brian.
paul "DOC" DACHSTEINER
February 12, 2019
Our prayers for the family. I worked with John years ago.
Ken & Heidi Locke
February 11, 2019
Linda, Andrew, Brian, Sophie, Marsha and the entire Sibik family. We are saddened with you, we grieve with you. Hugs and prayers to you all in the days ahead. J.J. our own personal name for this incredible, generous, kind man who we have been blessed to know. You will never be forgotten and will forever be remembered. We love you Linda and family.
Mike Allan
February 11, 2019
My condolences to Sibik family. I have great memories with John back in 70's . Great guy!
Dj Daniels
February 11, 2019
John,Linda, Brian
You guys where a very big part of my childhood and John had such a big impact on it, from coaching me in basketball and baseball! To sleep overs with Brian. John was a huge role model to me and I looked at him like a second father he has touched many lives with his hilarious sense of humor! And kind words of encouragement. He will be greatly missed. We send our love and support love you guys.
Roger Turmelle
February 11, 2019
Dear Linda
So sorry to hear about John. He was a good friend growing up. God bless you and your family in this difficult time. We are out of town at the moment and will not be able to attend Johns service but I will be praying for all of you. Please express my condolences to Mrs Sibik (she was the best and I loved her cooking).
Sincerely
Roger Turmelle
Peggy
February 11, 2019
Celebrate their lives
Remember the sad day for a moment
Then celebrate what they
Brought to your life
Morning Noon and Night
Celebrate their life
Jan and Steve Boyatsis
February 11, 2019
Linda,
Too say we were shocked is an understatement. John was in amazing shape. Still playing basketball at his age was quite an accomplishment. He was trying to get Steve to come play in the 50 and over league the last time we ran into you. We will miss running into you at Christopher's Restaurant. You were an amazing couple and I can't imagine what you are going through. Our hearts break for you.
RIP John..I am sure he will find my Dad and play a game of pick up ball up there!
February 11, 2019
Linda and Family,
So very sorry for your loss. John was a great guy. Always enjoyed golfing with him in the annual Dover Childrens Home tournament.
J. Greener
February 11, 2019
Linda and Family
So sorry to hear of your loss
Charles Purpura Rochester NH
Bob Sherwood & Family
February 11, 2019
Please accept our condolences.
Peter Sweet
February 11, 2019
For the past 18 years, John went from being my teammate to a valued and very close friend. Additionally, Johns love and admiration for his wife, Linda, facilitated a natural and easy transition to close a friendship between myself, my wife, John and Linda. When a close friend unexpectedly leaves us, a piece of our heart is forever broken. (Chris Lumpkin) John, you will never be forgotten.
Peter Sweet
February 10, 2019
For the past 18 years, John went from being my teammate to a valued and very close friend. Additionally, Johns love and admiration for his wife, Linda, facilitated a natural and easy transition to close a friendship between myself, my wife, John and Linda. When a close friend unexpectedly leaves us, a piece of our heart is forever broken. (Chris Lumpkin) John, you will never be forgotten.
Linda & Rich Horne
February 10, 2019
We were so sorry to hear about John's passing. May you be comforted by friends and family during this difficult time. Sending you love and prayers.
Julie Sommerfelt
February 10, 2019
Linda,
I am so sorry for your loss. May you and your boys find comfort that John is in the arms of the Lord.
Kindest Regards,
Julie (Thurber) Sommerfelt
John & Gina Pike
February 10, 2019
Linda, Gina and I were so sorry to hear about the loss of John. Were in Florida and are sending our deepest sympathies. I played bball with John for many years...and for so many of those years John and I had much fun playing one on one before our regular game started. John was a first class guy and very kind person...his six ethics of life shows what kind of a person he was. Of all the people Ive played bball with over the years, John was one of my favorites. He was a good man and indeed his was truly a life well lived. Our sympathies Linda. John & Gina
John Ford
February 10, 2019
Linda and Family,
Very sad to read of your loss.
John Ford PNS
Robert Shepherd
February 9, 2019
So sorry for your loss. My wife and I send our condolences. John was a great guy. I had the pleasure to work with him as a house painter. We worked for Earl Bailie Painting. The 70s. God Bless.
Linda Gosselin Bateman
February 9, 2019
I would like to express my deepest condolences to you and your family. I went to high school with Jon. He was a great guy. He always had the biggest smile and best personality. I always enjoyed reading about his travels on Facebook. Again, I'm so very sorry for your loss.
February 9, 2019
Our sincerest condolences to you and the rest of the family Lynda.Suzanne and I were shocked to hear the news. Will remember John as one of the nicest people we have ever met. Soft spoken but with a huge heart and great love for you and family as well as a large group of friends.
Paul & Suzanne Berube
Roger Bisson
February 9, 2019
Rip John you were always a great guy and enjoyed your athletics, amazing what you havw accomplished
Rog B
Dave Feeney
February 9, 2019
Sincere condolences to the Sibik family. Very proud to have called John Sibik my friend.We met in the 8th grade playing basketball for our prospective grammar schools. John was a warrior on the b-ball court always hustling and pushing his teammates. He was a class act off the court always inquiring about how you were doing.I have never met a more caring person than John Sibik.I am sure he is knocking down that corner jumper in heaven. Rest in piece my friend.
Dale Smith
February 8, 2019
I am so Sorry for you guy loss John as well as the whole family are great people my heart is so sad he was a great man a great dad I can't believe this had happen my thought are with the family. I met John thur his son Andrew. So sorry dale smith
Elyse Donnelly (Katsanos)
February 8, 2019
Dear Linda. My heart is saddened to learn of John's passing. I will always remember his warm smile. He touched so many with his kindness. Yours was truly a a great love story. My prayers are with you and your sons.
Bonnie Peterman
February 8, 2019
Dear Linda,
There is great sadness in my heart for you with the unexpected loss of your husband and for your two boys who have lost their special Dad. Please know that you all are primary in my prayers and I send you my very deepest sympathy and love. Bonnie Peterman
Elaine & Jean SHEPARD
February 8, 2019
Linda and John's family,
We extend our sincere condolences in the loss of your husband and Dad,son, and friend so unexpectedly. John and I recently friended on F.B. I graduated from St Thomas in 68 but I remembered John as I did many from SHS 68. I was happy to have connected with him recently on F.B.
May God Bless and keep you all close during the tough days ahead, he's always with you. RIP John Sibik
Pat Wilkins
February 8, 2019
I cannot believe picking my the paper and reading of Johns passing..His mom- Angie and Koula and my self worked so many years at Somersworth Shoe and his dad Rudy worked along side of my dad Frank Walker as a shoe cutter...I am beyond words...we were very very close friends..Knew Marsha and John as young ones....My prayers and hugs go out to the family..Please pass my hugs and prayers to Johns Mom Sophie as well as I don't know how to reach her..and I want her to know she is in my prayers along with all the family...Pat Wilkins
Rosanna Carabelas
February 8, 2019
To John's family, I am so saddened to hear of John's passing. I have such fond memories of John during our High School years. He was a kind and gentle soul. May he rest eternally in the arms of his Creator and may the same Creator bring you peace.
February 8, 2019
My deepest sympathies to the family. John was a very friendly person to know. RIP my friend.
John Panteledes
Rochester
Paul and Sue Croisetiere
February 8, 2019
Our deepest sympathies to John's family and friends.
Skip Smith
February 8, 2019
Linda, my condolences to you and your family. I enjoyed knowing John, seeing him at the SY, playing basketball with him in the 35 and over men's league. It's been fun to see you both recently in Dover. What a great guy!
Stan and Martha Kaubris
February 8, 2019
John was a wonderful neighbor and friend. Coaching our sons through multiple sports, as well as the spirited Hubbard Road games, taught us a lot about John's quiet and patient nature. It was always a pleasure spending time with him at the neighborhood gatherings. The Dover community has lost a kind and gentle soul, and we send our sincerest thoughts and prayers to Linda, Andrew and Brian.
Mike Dubois
February 8, 2019
My deepest sympathies to the family and frieds.I have fond memories of playing basketball with John through junior high and high school. I will always remember his accurate rainbow corner shot. John always helped with our class reunion planning where everyone enjoyed his humor and pertinant suggestions.
Mike Dubois96
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daniel macgregor
February 8, 2019
Condolences to the family. I worked with John for many years at the SY. I enjoyed his wit and friendship. A true gentleman.
Cheers to good friends
Donna and Mike Coraluzzo
February 8, 2019
Our hearts are broken to hear that that the world has lost such a kind and gentle-spirited man. John and Linda spent a few days with us in 2016, exploring St. Augustine. Those days of laughter, friendship, and fun are how we will forever hold John in our hearts. Sending love and peace to Linda, Brian, and Andrew.
Last May celebrating Bob Brownss 80th Birthday in May... a beautiful day with some special guys!
Walter King
February 7, 2019
Dean Desmarais
February 7, 2019
I knew John from the shipyard. Always enjoyed talking to him. Deepest sympathies to family!
Walter King
February 7, 2019
Happy times with John last May on a beautiful day.
Walter King
February 7, 2019
Walter King
February 7, 2019
Walter King
February 7, 2019
Walter King
February 7, 2019
John was one friend I will always reminisce about... a more decent caring person there will never be. He was not only a good basketball player but a great teacher and motivator. When I could not make it to our MWF basketball games, I will always remember him texting me We need you Walt. He always saw the good in everyone. I met his wife Linda 2 weeks ago when we were watching him play in the 50+ league game. We had a great time talking about John and his life. The next day before our regular MWF basketball game, John came up to me and said, Thanks for sitting with Linda and talking ... I told him the pleasure was all mine... but that in a nutshell was the kind of person John was. Thanks Linda for your stories about your wonderful husband. I will really miss you John :(.
Mike Chabot
February 7, 2019
My condolence to John's family. I worked with John in the sheet metal shop many years ago. RIP
Mike Chabot
February 7, 2019
Linda, Andrew and Brian
I am so sorry to read about your loss.. John was a wonderful man. Always willing to lend a hand. You were all such great neighbors. There are no words.
Just know that our prayer are with you all in this very hard time.
Susan and Art Mullen
Lunchtime bball crew ... Butterfield Gym
Alan Bowen
February 7, 2019
You will be missed John ...
Jim Francoeur
February 7, 2019
What a great friend, classmate and just a good guy. You will be missed John. I will always think of you anytime I see someone shooting a jump shot from the corner of the basketball court. My deepest condolences to Linda and the family. RIP my Friend
Dave & Lisa Daniels
February 7, 2019
What an amazing friend. I will never forget the time we spent together coaching our sons. You will be missed dearly by all those who had the honor of traveling in and on your court.
Alan Bowen
February 7, 2019
John, you were a good friend and awesome competitor on the bball court. I will forever remember our games of HORSE, and fiery match ups at lunchtime with Bob, Walt and Steve. I always appreciated that you pushed me to be better. Until we meet again.. rest high on that mountain John. Alan B
Don Cantin
February 7, 2019
My heart is broken that I have lost a life long friend. I will always cherish our relationship and the time that we spent together. He will always be in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathies to his family and dear wife Linda.
Buddy, you meant a great deal to many people and I especially will miss our friendship.
Dean Crombie
February 7, 2019
From the early days of grammar school to the present you have always been a good friend who will be missed, RIP my friend
Barbara Panteledes
February 7, 2019
Linda and Family,
My deepest Sympathy to all of you at this time. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. John will be sadly missed by all who new and loved him. I will always remember that wonderful smile he had when I walked into church on Sunday morning . Rest in piece John, May hid memory be eternal
David Gilbert
February 7, 2019
I met John at my sister Susan's wedding to his brother-in-law, Bob Jalbert back in 1994. He also attended two cookouts at Susan's home years ago. I am sorry to hear of his demise. I am glad to hear that he lived his life to the fullest. That is a good thing to do. My condolences to his wife, children, and other family members.
George Bald
February 7, 2019
John was a great classmate and a wonderful person. RIP my friend.
Charlie & Sara Sibik
February 7, 2019
Although our times together were few and far between, it was a fun time to spend with you. I enjoyed playing hoops or ping pong, or listening to a conversation our parents were having of days gone by. Our thoughts are with you cousin and your family too. Your legacy will live on in many hearts!
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