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Alane Castro Obituary

Alane Paul Castro died unexpectedly on March 16, 2020 in San Leandro, California from cardiac arrest. Daughter of Nancy A. (Budd) and Howard E. Paul, Alane was the middle child of five siblings and grew up in Amherst, MA. She graduated from Hampshire College with a concentration in Education and earned a Masters from University of Massachusetts, Amherst, and her National Board Certification.

Alane was a teacher first, always and foremost. She began her career in a primary school in Costa Rica and went on to teach children and adults in a variety of settings and cities across the globe. While teaching in San Francisco, Alane won the prestigious Golden Apple Fellowship where she studied arts integration at UC Berkeley. More recently, she held leadership roles for the San Leandro Unified School District as an Instructional Coach and Interim Principal. Her passion for education and justice and the arts reached far and wide, inspiring teachers and students alike to advocate, create, and learn from each other.

No matter where she was in the world, Alane was never far away. She made a point to spend time with the people she loved, whether it was traveling with her best friend, Jordene Hale, enjoying a book with her mom, or spending time with her siblings in Vermont. With her three grandchildren, 'Abuela' shared in the delight of painting, exploring, and making a mess. Alane brought joy and humor to all that she did and she is already missed tremendously.

Alane is survived by her husband Eric Castro, son Lucas, both of San Leandro and her daughter Alejandra Castro-Petmezis, son-in-law Konstantinos Petmezis and her beloved grandchildren Maximus, Cecilia, and Eliana of Boston, MA. She is also survived by her mother Nancy A. Paul of Pelham, her sister Robbin Suprenant and her husband James of Amherst, her brothers Howard R. (Randy) Paul of Amherst, Lawrence B. Paul and his wife Chiyo of Bethesda, Maryland, and Scott A. Paul and his wife Allison of San Diego, CA. Alane's humor and love and advice will always be treasured by her nieces and nephews, their spouses and their children- Kimberly; Michael, Danielle, with Emily and Matthew; Casey, Maia, Tyler and Cody and Emma and Ben.

A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette from Mar. 24 to Mar. 25, 2020.

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Eileen Kelley

April 7, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about Alane. My sincerest condolences to all of you.

Alane is behind, next to me-I am on the left of Alane-this is second grade, Marks Meadow school

Debra Joy (Johnson)

April 2, 2020

March 31, 2020

I remember when she came to our second grade class at Marks Meadow, and she was my cheer captain in junior high. She and her big sister taught the cheers, and I remember practicing with her after school on the school lawn. She was a kind friend, and I always waited at reunions for her to come-last I heard she was in Costa Rica...we lost touch...I was very sorry to see that she passed- my entire family sends their prayers-my dad taught her in gym -don Johnson -my siblings were in school with her little brothers- the Johnson family- Deb (Joy), Jeff, Russ,Cheryl,Randy and Lauren Johnson

Lisa West

March 29, 2020

Dear Paul family,

My mother, Nancy West has asked that I send you her condolences. Her thoughts and prayers are with you especially Nancy at this time of great loss. "Where there are happy memories, there will always be love." May the Lord be with you now and always.

Leigh & Glenn Gilbert

March 28, 2020

Dear Randy and family, we're so incredibly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

March 27, 2020

Alane was too young to go. My thoughts and prayers go with you, her family. Rest in peace Alane.

Trish Vassallo

March 27, 2020

So very sad to read this. I have fond memories of cheering with Alane. She was strong and very positive. My thoughts are with Mrs. Paul and Alanes family.

Ruby Lipscomb

March 27, 2020

I want to send my deepest condolences to Alane's family. As a fellow teacher, this is a great loss to the education community. As Lucas' fifth grade teacher and as a personal friend who spent hours and hours with her walking up and down Telegraph Hill, she will be greatly missed and always remembered.

Karen Ims (Scott)

March 27, 2020

I am so sorry to hear of Alane's passing. I remember her as a very sweet, happy and kind person. My deepest condolences to her family and friends.

Xian min Zhuo

March 26, 2020

Hi, Nancy, so very sorry for your loss. She was a very nice person and I was very luck to have met her. Thinking of you and your family.
Min and family

Cindy Brown

March 26, 2020

Alane was and will remain a beautiful soul . I remember growing up with the Paul family being role models for what a fun , loving family can be and Alane was a huge part of that . May you each be given strength and love in this difficult time . Love

M. Nelson

March 26, 2020

This is such sad news. My condolences to her family and all of the Pauls.

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