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Brendya Cole Obituary

Beloved Brendya Onelia Cole, age 62 passed away on Tuesday, May 21, 2019 in her home in Hartford, Connecticut. Born in Hartford, Brendya was the third child of Philbert and Magnolia Cole. During her youth she attended Barbour School, Sacred Heart Elementary, and graduated from Northwest Catholic High School in 1975. In 1979, Brendya graduated from Howard University with a degree in journalism and returned to Hartford where she became a lifelong resident. Brendya began her career in broadcast journalism as a news reporter for WKND radio. A lifelong activist and historian, Brendya was an avid reader who encouraged her family and friends to be involved in local events and politics. Brendya touched many facets of Connecticut life through her work at the Connecticut Historical Society, Big Brothers and Big Sisters of Hartford, The Colt Project at Hartford Public Library, Community Partners in Action, and most recently the Adelbrook Learning Center in East Hartford. She is survived by her sister Cynthia Cole-Burrell, her brother Philbert Cole Jr., his wife, Donna, her nephews Michael Cole-Smith and his wife April, nephews Jelani Burrell, Philbert Cole III, Bryson Cole, grand-nephews Tremaine, and Shane Smith, beloved friends Patricia Knighton, Debbie Smith, Anna Mock, other friends and numerous cousins and relatives in various locations including New York, Florida, Indiana, Toronto, Birmingham, England, and Jamaica. A celebration of Brendya's life will be Saturday June 8, 2019 at 12:00PM at Henry L. Fuqua Funeral Service (A Division of Howard K. Hill Funeral Services) 94 Granby St. Bloomfield, CT with visitation from 10:00AM-12:00PM. To leave a message of comfort to the Cole family please visit, www.hkhfuneralservices.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 4, 2019.

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June 7, 2019

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

June 5, 2019

I am so sorry for the passing of your loved one. May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. (Psalms 145:18,19)

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Donna Marie Cole

June 5, 2019

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June 5, 2019

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June 5, 2019

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June 5, 2019

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June 5, 2019

I loved her im one of her students

Jane Leary

June 5, 2019

On behalf of Northwest Catholic High School President Christian Cashman, I offer the sincere condolences of the Northwest Catholic community, of which Brendya is a cherished member. Please know that Brendya will be remembered in the prayers of the NWC community at our next school-wide Mass. We are sorry for your loss. Jane Leary, Director of Constituent Relations, Northwest Catholic High School

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Malaysha Rodriguez

June 5, 2019

i will miss you forever , i love you with all my heart. you mean the world to me and you made me feel like a beautiful person. i cared for you so much.

Hillary Jefferson

June 4, 2019

To The Cole Family, Patti Knighton and friends,

My sincerest condolences in the loss of our beloved Brendya. I was very sorry to hear of her passing. I will truly cherish the fond memories of Brendya as I grew up in the "Hooterville" neighborhood. Brenda was like family in our close knit neighborhood community.

May God continue to bless you with the fond memories you all shared with her. Rest in Paradise Brendya. #hootervillefamily1love

Wanda Dunaway

June 4, 2019

Cynthia & Jelani,
While grieving the loss of your dear sister and Aunt Brendya, always know that God is right there with you. Through every tear, sad moments and lonely night, he WILL pick you up and give you peace like none other! Trust, lean and depend on him...I can attest, He is able!
I love you. Be encouraged!

Chris Burton

June 4, 2019

To the family: I am sorry to hear of Brendya' s passing. I am a 1973 graduate of the same high school and remember her as being an overall good person. May she rest in peace and God bless the family.

LAMONT STANKWICH.

June 4, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

June 4, 2019

My sincere condolences for your great loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted " and "comforts all who mourn", sustain your family during this challenging time. Isaiah 61:1,2.

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