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Patricia Staveski Obituary
Springfield - Patricia Ann Bechard Staveski, 51, of Springfield and East Longmeadow, MA, passed away at home in the loving arms of her sons on June 19, 2015 after a courageous battle with ovarian cancer. She was the youngest of five daughters born to Nora (O'Connor) and the late Walter Staveski. Raised in Enfield, CT, Patty graduated from Enfield High and attended Asnuntuck Community College. Before her illness, Patty was involved in different aspects of home health care offering her skilled services to others in order that they could stay at home. She was an avid gardener and decorator, always changing and sprucing up her home. Besides her loving mother, Patty leaves her two devoted sons, Jordan and Joshua Bechard; her caring sisters, Kathy (Larry) Berte, Debbie (Lew) Fiore, Gail (David) Wence and Noreen (Chet) Gawryszczuk and her caring friend and former husband, Peter Bechard. Patty also leaves several nieces, nephews and a host of special friends. At Patty's request, there will be no calling hours. A Memorial Mass will be held on Tuesday June 23rd at 11:00 AM at St. Michael's Church, 128 Maple St. East Longmeadow, MA. Patricia's family would like to express their sincere gratitude to Dr. Philip Roland of St. Francis Hospital and Medical Center as well as Dr. Jay Thumar and his staff at the Johnson Memorial Cancer Center in Enfield, CT. Forastiere Family Funeral & Cremation in East Longmeadow is entrusted with the arrangements. Memorial donations may be made to an education fund for Patricia's boys "The Bechard Education Fund", C/O TD Bank 465 North Main St., East Longmeadow, MA 01028. www.forastiere.com
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Jordan Bechard
March 23, 2017
Mother...
Not only were you an amazing mother you touched every bodies life you met with love, care, and laughter! You don't know
how much you are truly and deeply missed by so many people. Your everlasting motherly love is engraved to our hearts. Its been a little over a year & a half, & still your beautiful soul never leaves my mind. I wish we could just share one more day together, just to hear your laugh and smile. My love for you will never end, & all my promises that I told you, are all falling into place, & I know its all because of you. I was with you from day one of the diagnosis, to the last seconds of your beautiful life. They told you possible 3 months to live, and your strength and willpower fought an amazing courageous battle of 3 years!
You've turned me into a Brave, Strong, and Caring man, that I'm so blessed to have gotten from you. Your glow & aura
when u entered the room is dearly missed, followed by that beautiful smile and laughter will never be forgotten.
Keep watching over all of us!
Till we meet again Mama Goose, may you Rest in Peace.
With all my Love,
Your Loving Son Jordan.
Linda Ayotte (Morgan)
June 28, 2015
Patty my very close childhood friend, rest in peace many fond memories spent with you at a time in our lives where friendship meant everything to us times where fun was what life was all about no responsibilities to worry about.I cherish those times We had and always will.What saddens me is that we lost touch over the years I guess that just happens but I always thought of you and wondered how you were.God bless you and prayers to all your family at this most difficult time.Until we meet again.
Linda Ayotte (Morgan)
June 28, 2015
Patty my very close childhood friend, rest in peace many fond memories spent with you at a time in our lives where friendship meant everything to us times where fun was what life was all about no responsibilities to worry about.I cherish those times We had and always will.What saddens me is that we lost touch over the years I guess that just happens but I always thought of you and wondered how you were.God bless you and prayers to all your family at this most difficult time.Until we meet again.
Denise DeMur
June 23, 2015
So sorry to hear of Patty's passing. May she rest in peace.We had some fun times growing up, Patty was never without a smile on her face. Sending my deepest condolences to her loved ones.
Brenda (Hoyt) Steen
June 23, 2015
My deepest sympathy to Patty's family and loved ones. I cannot imagine your grief right now and my heart aches for you. Although it has been almost 25 years since we last spent time together, I can still see Patty's quick smile and hear her contagious laugh. She was a childhood friend that I will never forget. I sincerely wish that we had kept in touch more over the years...I am very sorry for that, but take comfort in knowing she is in Heaven now and is not suffering. Patty was sweet and kind, and she deserves to be at peace.
Lisa Bernier Kellarson
June 23, 2015
So sorry for your loss. May Patty rest in peace and be pain free. God bless all of you and help you to find strength and comfort in your many memories!
June 23, 2015
I've sent my condolences but was wondering if I could get a person who signed the book to contact me....Karen Dondero.....childhood friend of; mine along with Patty. Again I am so sorry. I truly wish I could have had one more day with Patty so we could talk about times on Cora Street. I am on facebook..Lynn Augustine Pruitt
Robert Racco
June 23, 2015
God bless her soul and she rest in peace
Sheila Rivest
June 22, 2015
Words cannot express the loss I feel and feel for your loved ones . We shared some special moments all those years ago . Times only you and I would remember and be able to laugh about . I am so sorry I didn't see you more often through the years . Love you Patty . My heart and prayers are with your family at this time .
Tim O'Brien
June 22, 2015
May God Bless you Patty. k-12 and family friends, my hope is that you are pain free and at peace.
judy krajewski
June 22, 2015
R.I.P. no more pain
Marty and Joyce
June 22, 2015
So very, very sorry to hear of Patty's passing. We have such fond memories of her. Always made us laugh. She will be truly missed. Our thoughts are with you during this sad and difficult time.
Greg Milne
June 22, 2015
We shared many great years and memories growing up together from Mark Twain to EHS. Your kind nature and infectious smile will always be with us. Fly high and free my friend. Our sincere thoughts, prayers and condolences.
sandra sosville
June 21, 2015
My deepest sympathy to your family u will be very missed my friend. my god show u light to a new life until then rest in peace
Claudia OConnor
June 21, 2015
I was shocked to learn of Patty's passing. My prayers are with her and the family. I send my deepest regret to all of you.
Lynn Pruitt
June 21, 2015
You were my best friend when I lived in Enfield. I wish I could have seen you one more time....I thought about you so many times since I moved and as time passed didn't' know how to get in touch with you. But I did last year and was so glad I did get to chat even if were by text. I will see you again...RIP Patty...in pain no more. Lynn Augustine Pruitt
Laura Grimaldi
June 21, 2015
My heart broke when I heard of your passing. RIP my friend...I have many great memories I will always cherish. May all the wonderful memories you"ve shared with family and friends give them some comfort during this difficult time.
Karen Dondero
June 21, 2015
Rest easy, my childhood friend. Thoughts and prayers.
Debby Weeks
June 21, 2015
We shared some really good times growing up Patty and my heart aches at the news of your passing. RIP my friend. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
cyndi gusek
June 21, 2015
My heart goes to you and your family....We became good friends and that I will miss. .sipping our coffees watching the ducks.Rest in peace Patty, I will see you someday
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