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Geraint
August 27, 2024
Still missing my old friend! He was a good man.
Ven. Dr Ernest Osuchukwu
August 28, 2023
Fr. Peay your memory will be everlasting in my mind. You were simply an Angel that visited in human flesh. Continue to rest till we meet to part no more.
Ven. Dr Ernest Osuchukwu.
Robert Martin
October 26, 2020
Dr. Peay was a huge influence on my wife and I as we went through our marriage classes with him. We had lengthy discussions and to this day, when my friends ask me what advise I have for marriage, it is the advice given to me by Dr. Peay.
" Marriage is about two things only; transparency and intention. Transparency in your love, in your pain, in your desires, and your insecurities.. As a loving partnership, you can't address these alone, and expect the relationship to succeed. Intention: Believe it or not, there will come a day when you will wake up and want nothing to do with the person in the bed next to you... Intend to love them anyway. Sometimes the mere act of looking them in the eyes and saying it, even when you are not feeling it, can snap you back into love..."
We were remiss in our lack of attention through the last 14 years, and many a day have gone by where I thought to seek him out, only to get lost in the shuffle of everything that needs to get done in a day.
My wife and my best to the family.. Our sincerest... most heartfelt condolences to you, and everyone he touched the way he touched us.
Paul Longo
September 23, 2020
Steve was a confrere at St. Vincent Archabbey and one of my seminary professors. I thought the world of him. He made being a scholar look like fun. He was funny. He liked my sense of humor and encouraged me in many ways. I hope he’s enjoying Eternity, and I pray his loved ones have found acceptance and grace in his passing. I can still hear him laughing.
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Nina Harlan Kohl
September 7, 2020
Such a great, generous, and caring spirit. Though I knew him only a little, he influenced me a lot. May his memory be a blessing.
Rt Rev Dr Ed Leidel, Jr.
September 7, 2020
The world and our diocese has become a better place, thanks to to the loving presence of Fr. Steven Peay.
Teresa Rardin
September 6, 2020
I met Steve at Wabash Free Methodist campground when we were kids. He fascinated me with his thirst for knowledge and loved to share what he was learning! He also, had a great sense of humor! I didn't realize that he was having a difficult time with his health. I spoke with him at the beginning of this summer and he never said a word. He will be missed! See you in heaven, Steve!
Pam Hanson
September 4, 2020
I am truly amazed by the life he’s led as so well-detailed above. He has lived many lifetimes in all he’s accomplished, yet he was a humble man of the cloth. Well done, good and faithful servant.
My sympathies to you, Julie and family.
The Very Reverend C. Patrick Perkins
September 4, 2020
Words cannot express the feeling of loss that we, in the Diocese and Cathedral of Fond du Lac, are experiencing right now. To us, Steven+ was far more than a valued colleague, wise counselor, or learned teacher. He was, for many of us, a beloved friend and spiritual father. Though we grieve the absence of his physical presence from our midst, we are consoled by the knowledge that he is with the Lord he so faithfully loved and served.
Julie, you and your dear family remain in our prayers, just as we know, now freed from earthly shackles, Steve+ is now bearing both you and us in his prayers. Recalling the comforting words of Julian, whom Steve+ loved so well and quoted so frequently, we are reminded that sin and, even, death are “behovely, but all shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.”
Fr Ernest Osuchukwu
September 4, 2020
Fr Peay was the Man who showed me the way to United States of America. He equally admitted me as a son of the House at my matriculation. His memory will be indelible in my life. RIP.
Andrew Nencka
September 4, 2020
Steve was an amazing individual, and was always ready for a fascinating conversation. Our prayers are with him and his family.
Patricia Furnish Murphy
September 4, 2020
Truth sees God and wisdom contemplates God, and from these two comes a third, a holy and wonderful delight in God, who is love....Julian of Norwich.
Rest in peace, good and faithful servant.
Tony Preston
September 3, 2020
Steve was a dear friend, and someone I have always been in awe of. He was academic, yet common, passionate, yet understanding of differing views. I will always fondly remember living a few doors down from him on 1st Flood Joy dorm at Greenville. His memory looms large in my mind and he will be truly missed by all who knew him.
Geraint Tudur
September 3, 2020
I am truly shocked at the news of Steve's passing and my thoughts are with Julie. He was a good friend who showed me great kindness at a very difficult time. I will always treasure the memories of the times we met and shared thoughts and ideas. Rest in peace, dear friend, and rise in glory.
Jim Ramsay
September 3, 2020
I knew him as Father Bede, of St Vincent. One of the most intelligent people I have ever met. Many a long night discussing Greek mythology, The medieval Church and modern church practices —always with a very good ale !
He was a good mentor to me, an “ uncle “ and confirmation sponsor to my children. One of God’s good ones, he will be missed
James Krueger
September 3, 2020
Fr. Peay was a dear teacher and advocate. My warmest sympathies to his family, friends, and all his spiritual children. +Rest eternal grant unto him, O Lord, and may light perpetual shine upon him.
Donna & Mark Dudenhoefer
September 3, 2020
The world has lost a great light, a brilliant mind and kind soul. Mark and I often remark how Steve was the smartest, most intellectual person we know. Julie, our hearts are broken. We know Steve is reveling in his heavenly home, but our thoughts and prayers are especially with you! Peace and Blessings!
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