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Marko J. Trapani, Sr.

Resident of Los Gatos

May 27, 1937 - June 28, 2010

Marko John Trapani, Sr. - visionary entrepreneur; devoted husband, father and grandfather; mentor and friend to every person whose life he touched (and there are many) - died on Monday, June 28, 2010, leaving a legacy of love, generosity, vision and integrity that will live on forever.

The third son of Joseph and Eleanor Trapani, Marko was born and raised in the Willow Glen area of San Jose. He attended Bellarmine Prep School and Willow Glen High School, where he lettered in basketball and graduated at age 16.

By the time he was 20 years old, Marko had already worked - and excelled - in a variety of fields, from the once-ubiquitous San Jose canneries to the insurance industry (more on that later) to the bowling business (managing Saratoga Lanes, facilitating the opening of Futurama Bowl in San Jose and - most importantly - bowling two perfect games). Marko also served his country for two years, as a Military Policeman in the United States National Guard.

Marko met his wife of 49 years, Marlene (Taormina) Trapani, in 1956, when, as Marlene lovingly recalls, her date to a Willow Glen High School dance insisted that Marlene join him in a line of students waiting to shake charismatic young Marko's hand. Marko and his bride were married in 1961.

Marko returned to the insurance business in the early 1960s, first as a founding partner in two insurance agencies - Longwello, Miller & Trapani and Edwards, Longwello & Trapani, - and, later, as a worldwide sales leader and top-producing life-insurance agent for Great Southern Life Insurance. Marko's sales success boiled down to a simple philosophy: find out what people want and help them get it. Armed with this ethos, Marko was Great Southern's top salesman in the nation three years in a row; Marko sold one prominent businessman a $10 million dollar life insurance policy - the largest of its kind at the time.

Having conquered the world of insurance, Marko set his sights on a new frontier in the 1970s: the cardroom business. Marko's initial ventures included the Miracle Mile Casino in San Jose, the Comstock Club in Santa Clara and the Cameo Club in Palo Alto, where Marko and his compatriots took the lead in popularizing no-limit Texas Hold 'Em.

Marko realized a life-long dream in the early 1990s, when he joined forces with the Bumb family in creating San Jose's own Bay 101 Club - one of the two remaining cardrooms in the city. With the Bay 101, Marko achieved another professional milestone by creating The Shooting Star Tournament, which continues to draw the world's best players and is part of the celebrated World Poker Tour (WPT). Marko himself participated in the World Series of Poker, even finishing in the top 50 in the mid-1990s (ahead of several top players, he would add). Numerous all-time poker greats, many of whom are among Marko's dearest friends, have called Marko "the greatest cardroom owner/operator in the business."

Ultimately, Marko would say that all of his accomplishments and accolades would mean nothing without the one true passion in his life: his family. Marko reveled in quality time with the people he loved; whether he was casting a fishing pole with his sons, brothers and friends, trading stock from the leather armchair in his office, or dealing up a spontaneous game of Texas Hold 'Em with his children and grandchildren, Marko lived life fully, joyously - and with a big dose of humor. One of Marko's favorite pastimes was making people laugh. His keen wit and infectious personality were like a magnet, drawing people of all ages to his side.

Marko is survived by his beloved wife, Marlene; his four sons, David, Marko, Jr., Christopher and Andrew, of whom he could not be more proud; his brothers, Andrew and Joseph; his daughters-in-law, Teresa, Tammy and Kirsten, whom he loved as his own; and eleven beautiful grand children - Michael, Danielle, Kyle, Gabriella, A.J., Rocco, Marko III, Nik, Paul, Marissa and Lexi - to whom Marko was the joke-cracking, twinkle-eyed, candy-dispensing, big-hearted, adoring grandfather known, simply, as "Pop."

Please join us to celebrate Marko's life at the Saratoga Federated Church 14370 Saratoga Avenue Saratoga, CA 95070 on Thursday, July 8, 2010 at 2:00 p.m.

Donations may be made in memory of Marko Trapani to the Coalition for Pulmonary Fibrosis (CPF). 10866 W. Washington Blvd #343 Culver City, CA 90232 http://coalitionforpf.org/cpf_contribute.php.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Jul. 1, 2010.

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Far Mofidian

June 25, 2025

It was the best of times, albeit brief alas! To witness greatness, generosity, wit, smarts, loyalty, bravery and confidence, all in one man and at a close distant. In my heart and on my mind always dude!

mariana samo

March 9, 2025

my good friend, my boss Marko,
Here we are, years later, I learn of your passing. Deepest condolences to the entire Trapani family. It was an honor and a privilege working for you, for Bay 101 poker room as a prop. You gave great lessons in poker and in life.
My husband, Rome, and I will always remember you for your kindness, your wit and your funny remarks. RIP my friend.

Far Mofidian

April 26, 2024

Hi boss,
Just had an open heart surgery. Just like every milestone, one of the first things crossing my mind was what you would say and somehow find humor in all this. You´re with me everyday sweet prince and I miss you terribly. Sorry, but due to successful surgery we have to delay our planned reunion a little bit!!

granddaughter

April 25, 2024

Pop, I´m a married attorney!! Can you believe it?! ;) we got married on your birthday May 27 on the beach in the Dominican Republic. Mima even made it!!! Felt like you were there... love you always.

Pete Coronato

June 25, 2022

Marko John, I often drive by George Rogers former house on Meridian and can´t help thinking about all the card games we had there. Seems like you always won. I´ll bet you and Jerry D. are out there somewhere playing gin. Miss you Pal.

Gabi Trapani

June 28, 2021

Forever in our hearts Pop. I love you <3

Pete Coronato

June 25, 2021

Marko John, think of you often. You´ll never be forgotten.

April 19, 2018

Hi Pops! I got in to my dream law school today and I know you would be so proud. I miss you and love you and am everyday honored to be living out the legacy you started. I can't thank you enough for all you have done and continue to inspire me to do. You are my forever hero and I can't wait to hug you in heaven. <3 Gabi

October 1, 2017

Love you today and always Pop. I miss you so much and know you're smiling down on me and all the grandkids at what we've been accomplishing. Everything I do, I think of what you would've done or said. It still feels like you're still here because of the legacy you left behind that will always live on. I miss your laugh, your teasing, and the one time you told me you were proud of me and I knew I had achieved greatness. I love you Pops. I know you're holding aces up there. xoxo Gab

Samantha Hall

November 22, 2016

Truly a great person. Touched the lives of so many with his humor and generosity. He donated to our animal welfare fund that provided care for homeless animals that would have otherwise been euthanized. He had a great devotion to his wife and family. His stories about his sons and sneaking the dogs into their rooms at night will always make me smile.

Gabi Trapani

December 5, 2015

Something reminds me of you everyday Pop. Love and miss you so so much. I know you're smiling down on us and would be so proud of what your grand children have accomplished. Love you forever. <3

Kirsten Trapani

November 23, 2015

Missing my amazing Father in law so much this week. The holidays are just not the same without you. So blessed to have had such an awesome second father.

November 28, 2014

Thanksgiving 2014. I will love you forever, love Marlene

June 28, 2014

Four years today my dearest. Love, Marlene

May 29, 2014

Happy Birthday My Friend. Think of you with the grand card game in the sky....You ,my Dad, my Brother, Sam, Uncle Tony, Lefty Joe, Jerry, Mashed Potatoes, and the others that may be there by now. Your Cous, RR

May 27, 2014

Happy Birthday my. Dearest, Love Forever, Marlene

November 27, 2013

Another year without you my dearest, Love, Marlene

June 28, 2013

Three years today my dearest. love, Marlene

Far Mofidian

June 28, 2013

The day that you left, the world outside became a little less passionate and compassionate. A little less giving and forgiving. A little less humorous and witty. A little less creative and imaginative. But inside, I became stronger, wiser, kinder and braver by carrying you in my heart.
You took this naïvely sentimental and idealist "armchair intellectual" and turned him into a card room operator, and showed, yet again, your great heart and your extraordinary mind. Every time that I get a compliment or a positive remark at work, I thank you and value my time with you even more. I KNOW that Lord is really enjoying your company up there and I KNOW you are putting a good word in for me. Every day that passes by, it becomes more and more apparent to me what a great man you were and the huge impact and influence you had in my life. Save a seat up there for me, will you?

June 28, 2013

THREE YEARS TODAY. MY DEAREST, Love, Marlene

May 26, 2013

May 27 th Happy 76 th birthday my dearest husband. love forever, Marlene

May 8, 2013

god bless

Rich Rogers

January 7, 2013

Hey Cous, Think about you often. You were always Ace's. Great Husband,Great Father,Great Friend.

January 4, 2013

Happy new year my darling love marlene

December 23, 2012

Third Christmas without you my dearest. It will never be the same.love your wife Marlene.

November 22, 2012

Happy. Thanksgiving my darling husband love your wife. Marlene

August 30, 2012

Marko time passes so quickly. It doesn't seem possible that you have been gone from our lives for 2 years.

August 30, 2012

God bless him. What a wonderful personality he had.

August 29, 2012

MY DEAREST HUSBAND 2 YEARS AND 2 MONTHS HAVE PASSED SINCE YOU LEFT US,I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER.LOVE, MARLENE

May 29, 2012

TO MY WONDERFUL HUSBAND YOU WOULD HAVE TURNED 75 ON MAY 27TH. I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER. MARLENE

May 7, 2012

Miss you Marko John. Rest in peace.
Your pal, Pete Coronato

January 25, 2012

TO MY HONEY, LOVE ALWAYS. YOUR WIFE MARLENE.

December 9, 2011

Marko, thinking of you today and how much I miss you and that time stops for none of us.

Bob Richards

December 14, 2010

I had the pleasure of getting to know Marko while working the floor at the Miracle Mile back in the era of Jim Dailey, Bob Kemp, Jack Andrade, Rich & Debbie Rogers, Roy Goodenough (aka chromedome) and Neil Rovai. I found a car I really wanted but didn't have enough cash and asked Marko. He took me into his little office by the cage, told me he had a lot of people working for him and he couldn't be doing this sort of thing for everyone, but then said he was happy with my job performance and would front me the money (I recall it being $500. and he wanted at least $50 per week until paid). I got lucky at the track and paid him in full on the third week. Working 5 nights a week, I was very aware of fellow employee and customer sentiments and I NEVER EVER heard a bad word about this gentleman. He was truly a prince and is very likely driving around heaven in his Stutz Blackhawk with the "Marko T" license plate.

November 6, 2010

My friend. Thinking of you today. Time has not eased the grief or my tears. I still feel your presence. (ss)

September 29, 2010

Marko, (ss) it has been three months since your passing and there is not a day that ends that I don't hear your voice and smile at an off the wall comment or remark you would make and I would laugh. I know that you are smiling down at us - but since I know you the smile is probably from your holding "Aces high" in heaven. Always

jerry bob

September 11, 2010

I will never forget you for the rest of my life marko thank you for your friendship

Faye Siasat

July 28, 2010

If you know me you'd understand why I"m so late with writing,I was out of the state and only today got the sad news. My words can never express the way I feel for Marko, he was my guardian angle who saved me many times and for that I will be forever thankful. He was a mans man and a bosses boss, I will always remember him for the way he ran his clubs and treated his employees. God Bless you my friend.

Chuck & Pat DiDomenico

July 14, 2010

My what a shock to hear about your loss. Marko was like a mentor to me in high school.So sorry we missed the funeral we were out of town and when we came back we heard.Well your can be assured he is up their playing basketball and shooting his head off and making everything.Our prayers are with you and your family always.
Chuck and Pat DiDomenico

Espy Cathey

July 13, 2010

My sincere condolences to the family, During my time at Bay 101, I had the priviledge to work for Marko and it was his smile that made everything better. Please put me on the board cause when I get there I sure like to play in your game.

Roseann Taormina-Llewellyn

July 13, 2010

Dearest Marlene, Marko Jr, David, Chris,Andrew and family,
Please know my prayers are with you all and will continue to be. May God's peace that passes all understanding be yours. I have fond memories of Marko...always such a sense of humor! His memorial service reflected how very much he was loved and respected by all who knew him....
His new life in Christ will go on forever now. May God comfort you.

Doris Townsend

July 8, 2010

Marko...You will be missed....My prayer's to your family and wife.Your were a wonderful man,always walking around with a wonderful smile on your face.What an inspiration you were to all.My sincere condolences,to your family.....

Stan Seiff

July 8, 2010

You will be missed ! My life will always have you in it. Hope all your Boys and Marlene are getting through this impossible time. Your are still bigger then life to so many.

Wendy Werner

July 8, 2010

My pryers to the family, and may the prayers our friends and family make, guide Marko home and keep him safe.

-W.L.W.

frederick fortune

July 8, 2010

our sincere condolences to the family. he was a treat to work for and always an inspiration. fred and cathleen fortune

Susan Deeb

July 7, 2010

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

July 7, 2010

MARLENE IT IS A SAD DAY AND A GLORIUS DAY IF THAT IS POSSIBLE. HIS SUFFERING IS OVER WITH AND HE IS WITH THE LORD THIS DAY.I AM THANKFULL FOR THE LAST 3 HOUR VISIT I HAD THREE WEEKS AGO.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. GOD BLESS. ANDY PEPITONE

Darren, Pam, Jake & Katey Nill

July 6, 2010

To Teresa, Michael, Danielle & Kyle,
We were saddened to hear of Marko's passing. Though we did not know him, we felt as though we did through all your great stories. We know that he loved you all so very much! May God put his loving arms around you and give you comfort.

Marty Kuritz

July 6, 2010

Dear Marlene,
It has been years, but the good times shared with Marko are memories that will forever remain in my heart. I with you and your great peace and love.

Marty Kuritz

July 6, 2010

Dear Marlene and Family,
It has been years since I've Marko ... but the memories of old Great Southern days we shared will forever in my heart forever. I wish you peace. Marty Kuritz

Hai Huynh

July 5, 2010

Marlene and Family,
Marko is a person whom i have always admired and respected when i worked for him at Bay 101.His smile, generosity and forgiveness are unreplaceable.We are very sadden to hear his passing.Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family.

July 4, 2010

Marlene and Family,
The John Trapani family -Lucille, Susan, Salli and John are sorry to hear of Marko's passing. We send our love and blessings to your whole family.

Michelle

July 4, 2010

Andrew, Chris, and family,

Though I did not personally know your father I can only imagine him as an amazing person since he raised such inspiring, accomplished, and determined sons. What a fascinating tale to be told of such a wonderful life. My heart, thoughts, and prayers go out to both of you and your entire family.

Michelle

Your friends at the Rotary Club of Los Gatos

July 3, 2010

Dear Chris and family, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

July 2, 2010

Chris & family,
My heart goes out to you on your great loss. May you see him and his wonderful attributes in one another as you celebrate his legacy and his life.
Liz Callihan, PFM Computer Consulting

July 2, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! Nisha

July 2, 2010

Marlene, Jo-Jo and Andy
Since the forth grade there was me and Marko and Al Cordoni, and then there was Rich Caravelli, and Sammy LaRocca, and Dick Peters that would hang out together. I remember the big two story house at the corner of Lincoln and Minnesota where the Trapani's lived, Eleanor and Joe and the boys, which was two blocks from where I lived on California St. with my parents and my sister Carol. We called him “Murph� – I don't know why, we just did. Marko and I did know each other from the fourth grade at Willow Glen Elementary School, to Edwin Markham Jr. High School and Willow Glen High School. In the summers of those early years we picked prunes together in orchards around the valley and worked the canneries summer times. I remember one summer he learned that he was anemic and spent time in bed for several weeks recovering…and playing cards, which I suppose was the start of something. We played basketball together at Willow Glen High and in the ‘51-‘52 and ‘52-‘53 seasons were undefeated in 45 games over those two years. If you would like to know what high school basket ball looked like back then watch the movie “Hoosiers� – it us right down to the school colors and the red and gold uniforms. Of course, Marko was the hot shooter and usually high scorer…mostly because he took the shoots…or you might say the opportunities. Summers we spent all the time we could at Club Almaden, swimming and stuff, which were fun, carefree days. We served together in the 49th Military Police Co, California National Guard and spent a couple of summer camps at Camp Roberts with a bunch of guys you'd remember if I could remember those names, sorry I can't. They were good days in a simpler time.
As I recall, the last time I saw Marko was at our 20th Willow Glen High reunion. We spent time laughing and talking about “the old days� as guys do. It was good to reminisce. I'm sorry for your loss. He was my good friend and I will miss him.
I'm at [email protected] or (415) 897-8206.

Psalm 4:8 “I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety.�

Phil Holmes

Julia Trapani-Manzanares

July 2, 2010

Marlene and family: I am so sorry to hear of Marko's passing, I remember how much fun we had at our family picnics with all our cousins and aunts and uncles. Heaven is full of Trapani's and we can only hope they are all together now, your cousin, Julia (Trapani) Manzanares

Dan O'Sullivan

July 2, 2010

I'm sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. It certainly appears he lived a full life! I miss my Dad too.

Sincerely, DanO

Jan Roberts Williams

July 2, 2010

Sorry that I will be out of town and unable to pay respects to this truly wonderful man. I've known him for 35 years and he always made me feel a welcome guest be it at the Miracle Mile, the Cameo or Bay 101. I will miss seeing his smiling face. May he rest in peace.

Chris Trapani

July 1, 2010

Marlene and Family,
Marko always impressed me as someone who made life look easy. From getting tips on bowling, to selling, to getting back up again after a setback, Marko was helpful to me. He enjoyed life, even to point of relishing his passing in 2010! But I am most impressed with the number 49! May our Lord grant him peace.

Ed Voss

July 1, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with your family in your time of grief. May your many good memories bring you comfort.

Jay&Carol Hockenbury

July 1, 2010

My stomach did a flip when I heard the news of Marko's passing. You were a big part of my life Cuz. My thoughts and prayers are with the Family in these trying times. God Bless

Octalvision

July 1, 2010

"Our thoughts are with you and your family."

Joyce Trapani

July 1, 2010

The news of Marko's passing saddens me deeply. It was an honor to be his sister-in-law for many years and I have such fond memories of him and his dedication to and love of his family and his generosity. I was amazed at the huge amount of love he had for his family. He was always so happy and gracious and funny. My heart goes out to those left behind. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love,Joyce

rich rogers

July 1, 2010

i'll miss you "cousin". you were the best!!

Betsy Cochern

July 1, 2010

Trapani Family,
May God bless you in your time of sorrow. It was an honor to have known Marko!

Betsy Cochern

July 1, 2010

To the Trapani Family,
May God's Love comfort you in your time of sorrow. It was an honor to have known Marko.

July 1, 2010

Marko was a leader in his field with brilliant ideas and came out a "Winner". He shall be remembered by thousand as a kind understanding "Boss". Bob Dias, Oakland, Ca.

Bob Dias

July 1, 2010

Marko lead the field with his brilliant ideas and came out a "Winner".
This man was loved by thousands and will be remembered for his
kind understanding as the "Boss".
Bob Dias, Oakland Ca.

Chet Napolitano

July 1, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

July 1, 2010

"When a great man dies, for years the light he leaves behind him, lies on the paths of men."-Longfellow

Kate Knapp

July 1, 2010

God's white dove as come to carry Marko home. He was an effervescent person. Bay 101 and I will miss him. Blessing to you and your family at this time of loss.

JAMES FILICE

July 1, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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