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JOHN AMES STEFFIAN

1933 - 2022

JOHN AMES STEFFIAN obituary, 1933-2022, Waterford, CT

JOHN STEFFIAN Obituary

STEFFIAN, John Ames (1933-2022) Renowned American architect, educator, mentor, and father, died Tuesday, August 2, 2022. Born in Cambridge, MA, John was the eldest son of Edwin T. Steffian and Lovina F. Smith, brother of Peter Steffian. He went to the Browne & Nichols School, Cambridge, MA, Dublin School, Dublin, NH, and earned a B.Arch. from the University of Pennsylvania,1957. He earned a M. Arch. in Urban Design from Harvard Graduate School of Design and joined the faculty of the MIT School of Arch. John evolved into a visionary leader, Chairman, and Dean. He transformed architecture programs at the University of Miami and the University of Maryland into independent schools. In private practice, he founded the award winning firm, Aragon Associated Architects. In 1990, he served as President Pro-Tem of the Boston Architectural Center and then Dean at the Rhode Island School Design. Alongside his wife, Sarah, John was dedicated to community integrity, working with New London Landmarks and New London Maritime Society Museum. Together, they fought for the rights of homeowners against eminent domain, culminating in the supreme court lawsuit Kelo v. City of New London. A deeply thoughtful and convivial leader, John encouraged collegiality in all settings. He leaves a powerful legacy among generations of students and colleagues imbued with his humble and respectful vision of an architecture and urbanism. John was preceded in death by his wife, Sarah (1931-2017). He is survived by his son, John Ames, Jr. of Waterford, CT; daughter, Emily Steffian of Providence, RI; and grandchildren Charlotte and Sarah Steffian, Moses Kamil; Sister-in-Law, Beth Steffian of Brunswick, ME. Services will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the following funds: The University of Miami John Ames Steffian Scholarship Fund, The John and Sarah Steffian Fellowship Fund at the University of Maryland, and The John and Sarah Steffian Fund at the Dublin School.

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Published by Boston Globe from Aug. 13 to Aug. 14, 2022.

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Eytan Fichman

March 13, 2024

During the year John served as President pro tem at the Boston Architectural College I worked with him there, as a fellow administrator. His personal warmth and professional wisdom made a deep contribution to the school, student spirit and the quality of student learning. He will be sorely missed.

Susan Morrison

August 12, 2022

I had the great pleasure to become friends with John during the last 11 or so years of his life. Our two standard poodles, Daisy and Ruby bought us together during frequent play dates at John and Sarah´s Waterford home. While our dogs would frolic John would invite me in for coffee and he, Sarah and I would have long, involved conversations, many times regarding an article Sarah would be reading in The Day! John was so very sweet and friendly and happy to see me. A truly kind and wonderful man. I so enjoyed being in the company of this gentle man and will miss our talks greatly. So sorry to know you are gone John, but hope you are talking again with Sarah and watching Daisy and Ruby running through daffodils.

Jane Leida Griffith BARTON

August 11, 2022

What a legacy and wonderful philanthropist.

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