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Joseph Sutherland Obituary



SUTHERLAND
Joseph R., 89, formerly of the Twp. of Washington, NJ, entered God's loving care on Thursday, November 10, 2016, at JFK Haven Hospice in Edison, NJ. He was born in the Bronx, NY to Caroline Sutherland (nee Wolf). Beloved husband of Eileen Sutherland (nee McGinley) for 66 years, they moved to the Township of Washington in 1954 where they made their home until 2013. He was a founding member of Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church, Knights of Columbus and the Washington Township Ambulance Corps. Joe also served as President of the Golden Seniors of the Twp. of Washington and was an active volunteer at Pascack Valley Hospital. Joe was a Port Authority of NY and NJ Police Officer for 20 years during which time he also obtained a Bachelor of Arts degree from William Paterson College. He then served as Director of Administrative Services for BMW NA in Woodcliff Lakes until his well deserved retirement in 1989. Joe also served in the United stated Navy during world war II. Devoted father of Maureen Sutherland and her husband Joseph Cheben, of San Antonio, Texas, Barry Sutherland and his wife Fran of Edison, NJ and Jill Noda and her husband Ken of Wheaton. Illinois. Dear brother of Gregory Sutherland. Loving grandfather of Mark Cheben, Sean Cheben and his wife Brittany Wright, Amy Cheben and her husband Tyler Smith, Brian and Marissa Sutherland, Josh Noda and his wife Andrea, Andrew Noda and his wife Cady and Connor Noda. The family will receive their relatives and friends at Becker Funeral Home, 219 Kinderkamack Road, Westwood, NJ on Sunday, November 13 from 2-6PM. The Funeral Mass celebrating Joe's life and faith will be held at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church, 668 Ridgewood Road, Twp. of Washington, NJ on Monday, November 14 at 10 AM. Interment will follow at Cemetery of the Ascension, Airmont, NY. www.becker-funeralhome.com In lieu of flowers, donations in Joe's name may be made to JFK Haven Hospice, 65 James Street, Edison, NJ 08820, which provided him loving care during his final days.

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Published by The Record/Herald News on Nov. 11, 2016.

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December 6, 2017

I did respond to the Guest Book in June but I am thinking of you and may you all have a Merry Christmas and a blessed New Year. You continue to be in my heart and my prayers. Eileen, you are a greatly loved person also and I hope you Christmas has fond memories of the past and good health. Love, Andrea (Camilla) Pollard

June 5, 2017

Dear Eileen, Maureen, Barry and Jill and family, I only remember the very best from Joe as our wonderful neighbor and friend during the time we lived in Washington Township. Joe was always right there to help out with anything that was needed. He was a great Dad and loved his family dearly. I know it has been many years since we lived in NJ but I can say that you were the best neighbors I ever had...especially during a difficult time that I had with the three girls...Chris, Michelle and Claire. I love your family and wish only that your memories will be forever in your hearts...as an find example of how a dad, husband, grandfather should be! I miss all of you too. Love, Andrea (Camilla) Pollard, Roy, WA

Jane Baxley

December 20, 2016

Dear Jill, Barry, and Maureen,

I was so sorry to hear of your father's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I have such fond memories of him and your family growing up with you all in Wash Twp. You're all in my thoughts.

Jane Baxley

November 16, 2016

Dear Sutherland Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Sending you hugs and love.
Norman & Dorothy
Kacie, Allye & Keriann

Arthur & Carole McGinley

November 13, 2016

Dear Maureen, Barry, Jill and Sutherland family, we are saddened to hear of Uncle Joe's passing. We have fond memories of him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Judy Ploessl

November 13, 2016

Our deepest condolences and sympathies for the passing of your Dad. Losing a parent is hard, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jay and Judy Ploessl

Ploessl Judy

November 13, 2016

Dear Jill and family.
Our deepest condolences and sympathies for the passing of your Dad.
To lose a parent is hard and out thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jay and Judy Ploessl

Noda

November 13, 2016

Dear Sutherland Family may our Lord bless and comfort you during this very difficult time. Please accept our sincere condolences. And he said,"Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." And he said to him, "Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise."
Love, Watson, Alice and Andy

November 12, 2016

Heartfelt condolences to the family.Joseph is resting in peace until God fulfills his promise through his son Jesus Christ life without end John 3:16;5:28,29.
Sacramenta Landrum
Brooklyn

Rich & Nancy Wolf

November 12, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We remember the fun times at the family get togethers here in Danbury years ago. He loved to tease my sisters! We have fond memories of him.

Emmy Stolte

November 11, 2016

Dear Family Sutherland:
As a former BMW employee, I held Mr. Sutherland in high esteem. Everyone liked him very much.
My sincere condolences to the entire family.
Emmy Stolte

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