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Kelly Ferguson Obituary

Kelly Renea, 19, passed away Fri., Oct. 25, 2002. Kelly was a beautiful carefree loving person who loved her family, especially Little Bryon and Rebekah. She will be missed greatly by everyone who knew her. She loved her job at the Wal-Mart Neighborhood Market where she worked for 1 1/2 years. She is preceded in death by her Dad, Terry Alan Ferguson and two sets of great-grandparents. She is survived by her Mom and step-dad, who she called Dad John and Sandra Kennedy; her sister and her husband Bryon and Misty Shinn and their children, Bryon and Rebekah, and several other step-brothers and sisters, nieces, nephews and grandparents. Kelly, we all love you and will miss you. Rest in peace - Forever, your Mom, Dad, Sister and Brother. Services will be 10:00 AM, Tues., Oct. 29, 2002 at Bill Eisenhour S.E. Chapel with burial at Falls Cemetery, Norman, OK. Bill Eisenhour Southeast 5005 S.E. 29 672-1321

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Published by Oklahoman on Oct. 28, 2002.

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Sandra kennedy

December 1, 2024

Here it is the holiday season and missing you like the day you went to your heavenly home. I miss you so much I´m sure you are watching after Sparky and helping him watch after everyone down here. I wish you would come talk to me in a dream and let me know what I´m doing wrong or right.

Sandra kennedy

November 18, 2024

Kelly I love you so much and I know you were standing there at heavens gate when Bryon came to you. We were not ready for him to go but I know you were ready to see him again. I´m sorry I haven´t written in here in a while just know I love you and will never forget you. I hope you are having a blast with all the angels there. It´s not been the same without you here I miss you dearly but you did leave a part of yourself in Bekah. She is the sweetest caring person and I know you left that in her besides the fact that she looks a lot like you. I love and miss you RIP my sweet angel. Give everyone of my angels a kiss for me. If God will allow you a few minutes to visit your sisters dream please let her know Sparky is with you and being love by all our angels.

Corey Owens

June 27, 2024

Hard to believe it's been almost 25 years since I saw you but you are never far from my thoughts. I still love and miss you <3

Misty Shinn

October 23, 2019

So I had not even 2 more days before I had to go back and relive this awful tragedy. Not even 2 days before I had to think about what I would have done differently. Not even 2 days before I had to think about the feeling of crossing police tape only to have an officer stop me before I could get to you. I will never forget the feeling of knowing it was you....telling the mortician to clean you up but do nothing else before I get to see you.....clinging onto the table leg and crying not wanting to leave you there, only to have Bj and April come pull me away as easily as they could even though I tried to hold on. In not even 2 days a part of me left with you 17 years ago and still remains with you. I will NEVER get that piece of me back. Even though it has been 17 years, Kelly I still remain bitter, broken, confused, angry and lost. Bekah and I talked about you the other day....she understands alittle but I pray that she never knows the sheer pain and heartache of losing her brother and hope and pray the same for him. In time they will know the pain of losing their parents and grandparents and even though niether one of them know it the pain of losing a sibling it is completely different. The one you shared secrets with, got into trouble with, played with, did the "Don't tell Mom and Dad" things with, and supported each other with is forever gone. I will never hear your laugh again, see your gap again, talk just to hear your voice again, come to your rescue again or you to mine, or be able to just simply tell you I love you. I hope if anyone reads this and they haven't told their sibling(s) they love them recently.....do it....do it now so they won't have to guess about how you feel about them if something was to happen to soon. My last words to you before you left the driveway were "I love you and be careful......call me later" I will be forever grateful that I got the chance and took it to tell you one last time and get my last hug. Forever a piece of you....Love Misty

Misty Shinn

November 3, 2018

Well it's been a long minute since I have been on here. It seems harder to talk to you on here then it is just talking to you on the way to work or just chillin by myself. Well you have Aplo up there with you now so the only way I know to talk to you is in private. You would have been 36 today probably with a husband and babies of your own. I always wonder what it would have been like for me to be an Aunt to your babies. So as I'm sure you already know we have been lookin after a little girl and feel like we are doing the right thing. Sometimes it's hard but BJ AND I feel it is the right thing to do. I want to see you sooo bad to hear your voice. Need to see your face and see the gap in your smile. I am so blessed to have a couple of amazing kidos and a chance to help make another one just as amazing. Bubba is doing so well all things considered and Bekah reminds me soooooo much of you on a daily basis it is UNREAL! She looks alot like you and acts like you. You would be her best friend and she would be yours I just know it. I love you and miss you even more......I hope your birthday was a glorious one. I love you sweet girl (or should I say old lady! ;) HAPPY BIRTHDAY KELLY!

Nola Trimble

November 3, 2016

Happy Birthday! I love and miss you everyday! I can't help but think of you on this day every year. Please know that your in my mind always, I carry you with me through my life!

Nola Trimble

June 24, 2016

Hey girlie, I think about you all the time. You've been majorly on my mind lately. I miss you like crazy and I still think about everyone of our days and everyone of our little quirky things we did. I wish you were here so bad. I miss you like crazy!!! You'd be proud of my life now. You know you are the last person I ever called my best friend. This long and no one could fill that spot for me like you did. You were truly my BEST friend! Honestly you were more like a sister to me. I love you and miss you everyday. Keep watching over me. Thanks for always being there for me even now. Love always in christ---> Nola

kiera kennedy

November 12, 2015

dear Kelly i miss you so much i know i never meat you but you mean the world to me we talk about you all the time its really hard to know that you died in a very bad way and i wish you wee here and i will do my best to see you in heaven you are the world to me every day i wake up knowing that my dad and my sister are gone and i hate waking up knowing that i wanna wake up thinking yes i get to see my awesome sister Kelly i wish you were here i love you i will talk to you later

November 6, 2015

Dear Kelly, I missed writing in here to wish you a happy Birthday but I thought about you all day. I miss you so much Please give Johnny a Kiss for me and tell April I love and miss her too. I just wish all my family was back here together but one day we will be together again, we just have to wait our turn and when our work is complete here God will bring us back together I love and miss you all so much. Until we meet again Help God keep a watchful eye on us after all he is really busy,and thats what his angels are for love you always and forever in Chrit mom.

April Thomas

July 11, 2015

Lighting a candle so youll know your presence lit my life..

April Thomas

February 27, 2014

Kelly, You were on my mind extra heavy when i woke up.....so im just letting you know that i know your here!

April Thomas

February 27, 2014

All i can say is i sure do miss you! Heard our song and made me think about alot of things......Kelly, i know your here when i am having a hard time, or even when its good! I feel you! I just have a favor....next time stay longer!!!! I love you so much and miss you! One more thing keep your wings spread wide enough to protect me, Johnathan, Austin, Bryon, Bekka, The twins, our sister, and brother, and of course mom sandy!!!! See you again one day...

kiera kennedy

January 10, 2014

hey sis I never knew we had this I love you so much I know I have not seen you but mom talk about you all the time am sorry how you died mom is having a hard time with out you not here and the same with my dad gtg love you so much I will talk to you later

January 9, 2014

Hey as you well know we have been busy moving and getting our stuff together. I miss you and Johnny so much I wish you were here. You would love Kadin and Kiera Bryon misses you and he remembers going places with you. Now he drives the truck that you use to love to drive so much. I gave it to him for his birthday now he is getting ready to get his license . Well I wish you were here I would love to know what you would be looking like and if you would still be going to church. I'm sure you would and maybe the twins would be going with you. Tell everyone we miss and love each and everyone of them write more soon

Misty

November 3, 2013

I really miss you......

Misty Shinn

November 3, 2013

Happy 31st Birthday my sweet angel.......... I love you....... I miss you.....

Misty Shinn

March 16, 2013

Well Kelly mom seems to be doing fine but only cause the kids keep her on the go and not thinking about everything that has happened lately. BJ and I are fixin to do some remodling to the house this year because we got the kids new beds and they pretty much take up the whole room! They are awsome though and they kidos needed them so bad. We have a bed in the back for momma to sleep in when she wants to come spend the night. The twinkies have a trundle under both of the beds that we got the kids. We miss you and dad alot. I still wish you were here cause I would have someone to go do stuff with. Boo don't really like hangin out with me and Sparky is about to turn 15 1/2 and gonna drive soon so he is out.........BJ is the only one I really have and he is sooooo busy with projects everywhere that he can't really just hang out with me. It sucks so much. O well I guess I will let you get back to pestering dad! Love you sooo much and miss you more! Bye for now sweet angel! Muah

misty shinn

November 3, 2012

Hey sis! Today is ur birhday!! You would have been 30 today! Happy Birthday my sweet sister! I love you so much!

November 3, 2011

Well sis you would be 29 years old today. At one point today I wondered if you were still with me watchin and keeping our family safe.....I got my answer when I got into the truck and I heard one of your songs.......Thank you. I talked to momma yesterday and the first thing she did was cry and all I could do is be strong for her. I am soooo busy being strong for so many people that I can't even do it for myself. I want to cry it out because I miss you so much but if I do then others will see that I am just a baby! LOL I just hope my family knows how proud of them I am and that you would have been just as proud. Sparky is taller than me now and Bekah is getting there toooo quick! Sparky has just finished his 8th grade football season and is dating a cute little girl. He is learning alittle sign language from her and I really think he really likes her cause he is always trying to do those sweet things for her. Hope he doesn't get hurt. Bekah needs alittle watching over her. She is a good girl but makes some weird decisions. She is growing like a weed, making good grades, and getting soo pretty. She definately reminds me of you even though alot of people say she looks like momma. BJ is on his last year of school and he cant hardly wait to have his Tuesday and Thursdays back! He got to go to one football game this year and we lost it. That stunk!!! LOL With alot of practice and determination Sparky will be a lion at Moore High School next year. Golly.....sounds funny for me to say I have a soon to be freshman. Wow how time flies! Speaking of time I still can't believe you have been with the lord for 9 years already. Hope you are having a wonderful birthday with him. BJ, Sparky, Bekah, Mom, Dad, and I just want to wish you a Very Happy Birthday and to tell you we love you and miss you like crazy! Although I think I miss you most ;). Love you sweet angel.......Love in Christ, Misty

misty shinn

May 31, 2011

Hey sister! Well schools out and the kids are off runnin the nieghborhood finding trouble where ever they can! I haven't been out to visit in awhile but need to soon. Aplo said she took you an angel out there but I have yet to see it. Sparky and BJ went to practice and we will find out soon what they plan to do with the team. We loose 4 of our players this season to high school ball so I am hoping to stay together for the remainder of the season. Up tp the coaches! Bekah has a new haircut and color now. Talk about lookin like momma she does! I told BJ it just gets more expensive from here! Soon it will be nails, hair, shoes, clothes, you name it she'll want it! Yippy can't wait! Lol! Well I think I will stop for now and go look and see what I'm gonna have for dinner........wish me luck! I love you and miss you even more! Muah.........xoxoxoxoxoxo Misty

Shannon

May 27, 2011

Hey Kelly this is my first time writing in your gust book but I see lots of people have man I read what your sister writes and I cans tell she really misses you I guess you know Dave passed will you tell him hi and I love him I really miss my other dad he was my friend and I miss you 2 well I had a baby girl she's 7 years old boy you would love her hair and I really wish you could have been here 4 her but she knows you cuz eveybody talks about you oh guess what you have a brother and a sister 2 and they talk about you all the time
Well I'm going 2 go I moss you always take care of Dave tell him I can't wait 2 see y'all.
With love Shannon watts

Misty Shinn

March 16, 2011

Hey girly! Well life is just gettin harder to deal with for me but I am strong and this too shall pass. I really miss you and I will come see you this weekend. It really stinks that I dont have you around to go shopping with or just to hang out with. I need that in my life....ya know! Someone who really gets me. The only one that I think really gets me anymore is Sparky. Hes a really good boy and he thinks about you all the time. He has a sticker inside his batting helmet that says Scorpio. he says that is his good luck charm that his Aunt Kelly will be with him while hes batting. He was in a slump for awhile but I think he may be coming out of it. Bekah is getting super tall and she is a little spit fire! She is going to church every wendsday (except today) and she loves learning about heaven and the lord. She is so much a little you it's kinda scary! lol! BJ actually took her to the daddy daughter dance this year and she wore a really pretty dress. Well i guess thats enough for now. I love you and miss you even more........always will. Muah xoxoxo!

Misty

May 1, 2010

Hey girly! I know i said it wouldn't happen again but it just seems life runs away with all our time anymore. Well as you should know by now dad is in the hospital again and he will be sent home with the "old man" oxygen tank. That's what he calls it. lol! Sparky is on a different team now. He is now a Niner. The coaching is so much better on this team. He is actually getting to pitch now. Can you believe he is already fixing to b in 7th grade!!! That's junior high!!! He is growing so fast. And little miss Rebekah is so cute and finally has a personaliy of her own. She reminds me so much of you it not funny. She's sweet and lovable. She's really a good kid. Well i kinda filled you in on some of the things going on here. Please keep your eye out for dad and Aplo they both really need it. I love you and miss you even more!! Goodnight my sweet angel.....

March 5, 2009

Well just thought I would let you know I need you now more than ever and although I can talk to you you have yet to call me in awhile. I love you and miss you even more if that is even possible. Sorry I took so long to write in here again I won't let that happen again. Love you sis.

Misty

February 9, 2008

Hey sis! How's it going with you? Well I, my dear, am sick along with everyone else in the house. Mom and dad were sick last week. Guess who starts baseball again, yep bubba. He is still on the ruf-nex even though the head coach is in Chicago. It's ok 'cause Toddy is gonna coach. Bubba played around with them at practice today. We have 6 new boys on the team and 6 old boys. Out of all them their is only like 2 boys from the original Ruf-Nex. Just thought I would give you an update on things down here. I love you and miss you even more every day.

Jamie Herring

January 4, 2008

Hey Girl,
Christy,Luke and Quitin are getting settled down in South Carolina.They are expecting again in July. Please tell my daddy Hi and I miss him soooo much..I miss you alot too. It has been a pretty rough year for me.....Time just flies by when you least expect it.
Love and miss ya

JAmie Herring

November 6, 2007

Miss ya Girl....CHristy, Luke and QUintin come home this friday (9 Nov 07). They will be here for thanksgiving and then they fly to SOuth Carolina where they will be stationed. AT least they are out of Germany. LOL Tell my daddy Hi for me

Misty

October 27, 2007

Hey girly! It has been 5 years since you left us to go live with our lord in heaven. They say time heals all wounds..... Whoever said that must not have lost someone as close to them as you and I were. It doesn't matter if it has been five days or five years it still hurts to not have you with us anymore. It is almost Halloween and the kidos are looking forward to going trick-or-treating. Bekah is going as a autumn witch and bubba is a zombie surgeon. Boys and their scary outfits. I got invited to a party for last night but I couldn't get a sitter. O'well, maybe next year. You should see the pumpkins we carved. We have 5 in front of the house and bubba and bekah did their very own this year. By the way Heather and I will be setting up a myspace for you so that your friends can go there and search. I hope you will like it. Keep an eye on all of us because we need someone who loves us to keep us safe.... wouldn't hurt for alittle luck either,haha. I love you and miss you just as much if not more.

Misty

July 18, 2007

Hey Sis, Well it looks like even after almost 5 years I still find new people signing your book. I never imagined that one life could touch sooooo many others, but you have proved that it's not what people think of me now it's how they remember me when I'm gone. I could only hope that your as proud of me as I was of you and still am. I hope I can touch as many lives as you did while you were with us. Thanks for watching out for me today, you know what happened and thanks for a quick recovery in more then one way. I love you & until next time..........

Jamie Herring

July 17, 2007

Dear Kelly,
You are missed so much...Alot of things have happened in our youth group but we always talk about Kelly. Chirsty has a boy now, he is 19 months old. They are still Germnay, Luke has gone on his 2nd afghanistan tour. he hopes to be home by the end of july 07. Skip and I were cleaning out the third bedroom and came across alot of pictures of the youth group and you and christy. I cried for hours. we miss you so much. Thanks for watching over us and tell my dad Hi and i love and miss him very much.

laura dodson

June 16, 2007

i wish i knew about your book years ago i would have written sooner.i miss you kelly. laura

Kristen English

May 10, 2007

Hey Kelly it's been awhile. Your sister told me about this site so I thought I would write to you. I don't even know where to start. So many childhood memories. Wanting to hang out with your sister cause her and all her older friends were so cool to us! Your mom being the coolest mom. Going ice skating, having to paint your nails all the time! Even though it was a bad paint job you thought they were beautiful! lol. Hanging out in that little bldg at the bus stop! You were someone who touched so many lives. I remember when you had came my high school graduation, you looked the same from when we were younger. With those pretty big eyes and that big smile. You touched so many people. I wish there was a way for you to be given back what you have done for so many others. You are in a better place, however as humans we are selfish in the way of wanting you to be with us. I miss you and thank you for all the ways you have touched my life. You will never be forgotten. I will spread the word about this website to others you went to school with and maybe you will be hearing from others you haven't heard from in a good while. Miss you girl!

Christal Lee

May 4, 2007

Hello doll- i was thinking about you and missing you so I thought I would write you! I know everything is great with you so I don't even have to ask! I am doing well! I miss you so much... the other day our song came on the radio.... i know it was you so thanks for that!

april miller

April 3, 2007

just missing you and wanted you to know!!! Love always april

april miller

February 13, 2007

I really don't like coming here because i know i can just talk and you will hear me!!!! But i know our family does check in and just want all of you to know that Kelly is looking over all of us and she is SO PROUD of us!!!!!!!!!! I love all of you and miss Kelly, but i embrace every memory of her, and she will never be gone as long as we keep her in our thoughts, and in our heart!!! I know in my heart she is still right here with me, and she is smiling down on us all!!! Misty, Aunt Sandy I love you both VERY much and you both know you are very special to me!! And even if it is 3 o'clock in the morning; when you need me, you will always come first!! You 2 are my family, what keeps me strong, and my Best Freinds!!! We have LOTS of good memories, and plenty of time to make so many more!!! Stay strong and remimber I LOVE YOU MORE!!!!!!!!!!! All My Love, April (or as Kelly would say, Apelow)

Misty

August 3, 2006

Hey Kelly! Just thought I would write a few lines to let you know how we are even though you already know. Bubba starts football this week and Bekah starts cheerleading for Bubbas team next week. They both start school the 15th of this month and I CAN'T WAIT!!! It will at least let me sleep until noon then back to sleep until Bubba gets home at 3:30. Well I see Gary wrote in here......you know whats funny...... Bubba has had baseball games over off of Sunnylane behind Del City High school and every time we pass that Sonic, Gary and Lil' G cross my mind. I was just thinking about them the other day in fact! Kinda wondering how they were both doing and if Gary is still at Braums. I wonder how he found out about you....strange the way things get around and who remembers us. Although you could never be forgotten. I showed Angie a pic. of you and she does know you and Micheal. Well tell Gary he could call I'm in the phone book (Shinn) he might get my in-laws but they will give him my number if he tells them he is a friend of moms. Love you and miss you even more!!!! XOXOXOXO, Misty

Gary Akin Sr.

August 1, 2006

Misty, Sandy, this is Gary Akin from Braum's Bakery. I just found out about Kelly last week. I just wanted to let you and your family know that I'm very sorry about this. I am still in shock about this. She was a sweet and caring person. I remember her playing with Gary Jr.(Little G) alot. Well, you guys take care. Miss you all!!

Bryon Shinn

June 22, 2006

Hey Kelly,

It's been awhile. Just wanting to let you know we all still miss you. We still talk about you and things you used to do and wonder what you would be doing now. Misty is working nights, and the kids are both in ball, so as you probably seen everyday it is very hectic around here.

Thank you for looking over us and keeping my kids safe. Miss you and still love you. B.J.

May 8, 2006

Hey sis! It has been so long since I wrote in here and for that I am sorry. Bubba is now in the baseball season and is doing well. He talks about you often and misses you like crazy. He still sleeps with his dog you got him when he had his mouth worked on. Rebekah is growing like a weed and is such a pretty girl. She like her bubba is in ball T-Ball that is. There is two new songs out that make me think of you when I hear them. One is "Who you would be today" by Kenny Chesney and the other is "When I get where I'm go'in" by Brad Paisley and Dolly. Got both CD's the day they where released! I miss you so much. I have my plate pretty full right now with ball, work, pets, kids, house upkeep and yes even BJ that I don't have any time for me much less time to write in here even though I still think of you every day. Thanks for sending me Loreen and Abby they are such good friends and remind so much of you. Well sis, I will have to write you agian when I get this splint off in a couple of weeks 'cause it's kinda hard to type with it. I love you and miss you even more (if possible!!!) Love Misty

Jamie Herring

October 26, 2005

Sandy and Misty,

IT sure doesn't seem like it has been three years. Your still in our prayers. If you need to talk call me, 740-2848 (Cell) 793-0616 (Home) Christy is living in Germany and is expecting her first baby (Our first grandchild). His name will be Quinton Brady Hearn. Christy's husband (Luke) is in Afhaganistan until around the 8-9 Nov. Skip, Stephanie, Alisa, my mom and I are going to fly to Germany next week. Call me sometime.....Love you guys. Kelly has not been forgotten. I have a picture of her and christy on my desk... I think of her and ya'll often.. Love you guys...

christal Lee

September 23, 2005

hey gorgeous sorry it has been a while. i am coming to see you next week so look forward to seeing me! things around here are normal for the most part. lots of work as always. I haven't talked to Misty in about a month but we have been keeping in touch. it helps to have some part of you around so I don't feel like I completely lost you. Bubba reminds me of you so much, he will talk to you like he has known you forever and always is smiling. well i guess I will let ou go! I love ya and miss you so much!

Corey Owens

July 19, 2005

I still check here periodically Misty,just alot of bad things happened recently and im tryin to pick up the pieces.My cell is 405-204-5041 can call me anytime you like.Take care

Misty

July 18, 2005

Well, it's now July and Bubba starts his football in a few weeks and goes back to baseball for fall ball to learn how to steal bases. It should be intresting. I have been thinking and dreaming about you here recently and I can't for the life of me figure out why. Been awful worried about dad for some reason too. It seems as though you end up on my mind when things are bad and times are rough. You use to be the one I would turn to to get me away from everything now I just try to deal. April Boutwell has been a real help and MJ is the one I WORRY about, I guess 'cause she is a party girl. Well, I went out to see you in June and like I told Christal it just isn't the same by any stretch of the imagination. Well, Bekah turns 4 next month and the twins turn 1 year old. Even though your gone I wish time would stand still for me so I could take the time to tell mom all the things she has done right in my life and that I thank her for that. To tell dad that he didn't have to be the man to take on 2 more kids but yet he opened his heart to do just that and ended up with 5. I am so glad I have him in my life..... I wouldn't want it any other way. To let BJ how proud of him I am and that he is the only true love of my life and I will love him always. To be more of a mom to the kids and let them know I am also so proud of them. Let them know that if they reach for the sky the rewards end there but if they reach for the stars the rewards are endless. To let April Miller know that I don't know who I would have turned to in my low spots if it wasn't for her and that I love her and thank her for all the nights I have woke her up or intrupted Buddy's time with her just to hear me vent or cry on the line. Time won't stop for me and I know it but boy wouldn't it be nice...... Thanks for letting me whine to you. I love you and miss you more if that is remotely possible. Love ya sis!

Misty

May 31, 2005

Hey you!! Well we went to see you today. We met Christal and Joyce up there and I could tell Christal really misses you Kelly. There were some sort of awkward moments of just complete silence. I hear you got away with quite a bit in your day. Sneaky, Sneaky, Sneaky!!! That's OK 'cause Christal is just now telling her mom about all of it, He,He!! I miss you so much sometimes I really do think there is a part of me that will never be the same.....ever. I think what just gets me is that I know I'll never be the same.... you were a part of me that I can never get back. It won't ever be the same for me. But then I look at Bekah and Bubba and BJ and I know I'm left here for several good reasons. I just wish I could have you back all the time. Time begins to heal and I'm still waiting....... I guess I'll be waiting for a long time. I love you and miss you even more. GOOD NIGHT MY SWEET ANGEL!!!

Debbie VanLandingham

April 22, 2005

Kelly,

I thought I would drop in and say hello. I cannot believe we are going on three years without you. My goodness, where does the time go. Brian has been gone for 15 months now. God, I miss him so much. Give him a big hug for me. Keep a watchful eye over your family. They all love and miss you very much. I know!!

Love,

Misty

April 15, 2005

Kelly,



Well, the last game we won was with the Sooners. The boys beat them 11-10 and only because the umps call game before we were through batting. His next game is on Monday aginst the Jaguars. Cross our fingers. Guess who I seen....... Nola. She said she was living at her moms house now but only for a little while. I thought it was her when I passed the house but I wasn't quite sure so I had to go back and take a second look. I've seen alot of Christal lately. Or lets say more than normal. The kids love going up to her work and just playing. They say they hope she never quits her job....LOL! I guess I'd better get off here and go plant the flowers mom and dad let me come get. Love you and miss you even more (if that's possible)..XOXOXOXO Love You

MIsty

April 3, 2005

Hey just thought I'd write you and let you know Bubba won both his games today. The second game was a close one. We had one out and the next boy that was coming up was not hitting the ball at all so I thought it was all gonna be on Bubba's shoulders. Luckily you were there and he hit the ball and then Bubba was up. He had struck out twice and this was his third time to bat. The little boy before Bubba made it to first and then it was Bubba. Anyway, Bubba got out there and hit the ball and he made it to second base. The boy after Bubba hit the ball and bubba came all the way in. Our boy made the winning run. I am so proud of him. Well, I guesss I'll go and I'll let you know how tomarrow goes. Love you and miss you even more. XOXOXOXOXO

Misty

March 27, 2005

Well, How's your Easter going? Got to be better than mine. BJ had to work all weekend and the kids are not here so I guess that just leaves me. Yes by me lonesome. Well as you know tuesday is mine and BJ's 9 year anniversary. I stop watching the kids this week instead of the 12th of May. On tuesday I won't have them 'cause of the day. Without watching the kids I'm not gonna know what to do with myself. SLEEP IN LATE HERE I COME!! LOL!! Just kidding. I really am pondering the idea of going back to school for medical asst. Well see 'cause I'm going to have to have some sort of financial aid to go. Well I guess I had better let you go. Just wanted to tell you Happy Easter. This makes the third without you and I'm still waiting on time to heal all wounds....... Love you and miss you even more........

Misty

March 24, 2005

Hey girl! Well as you probably know Bubba won his ball game the other night. The other team had never played machine pitch before. Maybe that's why we won. The score was 16-3. O by the way thanks alot for looking after Hotdog. I think dad had a heartattack and just won't say he did. Please watch over him and Hotdog. I don't want anything to happen to our brother 'cause if it did who knows what dad would do or how it would effect him. You know how attached to Hotdog he is. Well we don't play another game until Monday at 7:10. O yeah did I tell you are names on the uniforms is the Ruf-Nex II. They are really sharp looking. Well I'll let you know how the next game goes and the score and all. Tell everyone I said HI and that I love them and miss them but not as much as I miss you; but I think that's a given. Love you and miss you just as much if not more........

Christal Lee

March 15, 2005

Hey there gorgeous... how are you? I'm sure your doing well. I saw Misty the other day. She came up to work! I was so completely shocked. It was a wonderful suprise! She is going to give me more pics of us since mine got lost in the tornado! We are supposed to make a date to go up to the cemetery to see you! Mom says hello! And we all miss you! LOve ya! P.S. Misty~ I lost your number thats why I have not called u back so please give me a call so u can bring the kids up again!

Misty

March 13, 2005

Hey Kelly! Just thought I would write a few lines and to see if anyone has wrote in here since Ashley did. Mom tried to write but it didn't go through for some reason. Let Ashley know that she can e-mail me alittle note and I will e-mail her or I could even call her if she wants to e-mail me her phone number. Well I see Mr. Corey hasn't made it back to the site yet or just didn't write in it last time. Well Bubba has a practice here in the next week or so and it is parents against the boys. It should be fun. Well I'm gonna get off here because I need to run to the store and get a few things. Tell Ashley I hope to hear from her soon and I will let you get back to Heaven since that's where you belong. Love you my sweet angel

\o/

/_\

!! Misty

Mom and Dad

March 11, 2005

dear Kelly I messed up the last long letter I was writing to you. So I didn't get it submitted into your book. anyways I know you know what I said. Tell Ashley to leave her E-mail address so Misty can E-mail her. Tell Corey he can call any time he wants we still have the same phone number. and tell him to leave his E-mail for Misty also. Well I'm going to go for now but not for good. Love you always in Christ. 143 MOM AND DAD

Ashley

March 9, 2005

I knew of Kelly in High School and was looking at a friends guestbook that passed away 2/12/05 and just happened to see Kelly's guestbook on the Bill Eisenhower website. Do you mind me asking what happened? I am sorry about your loss and May God bless you!



Ashley

Misty

March 7, 2005

Well it's nice to know that Corey is still around. I didn't think he wrote on here anymore maybe 'cause it is to difficult for him or something. I know that's why April Gail doesn't write. You need to let Corey know I think of him often and that BJ works with a guy that reminds me of him alot. He is built the same and has the same demeanor. Kinda keeps to himself unless you talk to him first kinda guy. He even sounds the same. Let him know he can still call and talk or just hang out. Hope you are still doing well, Corey. Kelly, would you do me a favor and keep your eye out on Bubba 'cause he sure isn't feeling well. I think he might have a flu bug or something. He was sick all weekend so he didn't get to do nothing. He got up this morning and is trying to go to school, I guess we'll see how it goes but I'll probably have to go get him. Well, I guess I will write again in the next few days. Love you my sweet angel.

Corey

March 3, 2005

Im sorry Misty,my life has been hectic past 2 years changing jobs,family problem,etc.I still come here every other week or so and see what new tags there is and still go to see her.I honestly didnt mean to just disappear on you guys,just taken me awhile to sort everything out.

Misty

March 1, 2005

Well Kelly I don't guess I need to explain why again... as you know my puter crashed so that's why no typing for about 3 months. I am so sorry! Hope you forgive me. Well Bubba's ball team is starting up again. He is now a Ruf-nex II. This year is going to be so much better than last year. I think in the fall we will try football. We'll see. I went to see you about 2 weeks ago with a friend of mine. Her name is MJ and I thought I would give her a reality check. I guess it worked because she re-thought everything. Thank you. Well I haven't talked to Corey in forever and Carl either. I wonder sometimes what their up to. I heard that Ramona was in the hospital and I told mom that I hope she gets better. Well I went to pay my loan off the other day and I am so glad; Now I don't have to go on the other side of the highway for nothing. But you know me I will anyway just to sneek a peek 'cause I wonder all the time. O well! Life must go on no matter what trials and tribulations we may have that come our way. I talk to Mrs. April (cuz, sis, whatever) so much more now then I ever thought was possible. I am so glad she has Buddy at least he cares for her so much more than you know who did. He is way better for her and she seems so in love and the boys are totally happy with their life now. Well speaking of love and life, BJ and I will have been married 9 years on the 29th of this month. Like I have told you in another entry "Time flies when your not paying attention". It's so crazy. I seen Christal a few weeks ago also. She seemed so surprized that I caught her at work. We talked about how things used to be and how things are going now. She also seems very happy. Me I couldn't be more in love with BJ. I mean 9 years should say it all. I told him for my 10 Anniversary I wanted a laptop costing in the range of $2,000.00 dollars. He about filped out!! Or I guess he could always remarry me...... like that will ever happen..... He can't even put a romantic night together for just the two of us and get the babysitter too. Just kidding. He just doesn't think like that. O'Well! I guess I'm gonna get off here and I'll write you again this weekend. Love you and miss you even more my sweet Angel.....

mom and dad

December 4, 2004

Dear Kelly Hi our precious little angel. We are going to put your grave blanket out tomarrow. I sure wish you were here. Some times I just need someone to talk to and some times its Misty and some times its Dad or even Gina. But some times I just wish it was you. Kelly there is not a day go by that we don't think about you. You are always on our mind. Oh yea! I watched your man in concert the other day on T.V. you know, " Tim Mcgraw." Well O.U. is beating Colorado. By the way Dad really love the sweat shirt you gave him for Christmas. The one the O.U. players signed. Well Im going to close for now but never for good. We love you and miss you so very much. Love always in Christ MOM and DAD.XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOOXOXOXOXOOXO

Misty

November 6, 2004

Well, it's good to see that I wasn't the only one to write you for your birthday. Anyway I'm sure that you know about dad and everything. He has a doc. appt. on the 12th, and I think I will be going along for the ride just to make sure everything goes OK. Hopefully it will. Well, when I get alittle money I am going to put some pics in your gallery so that everyone can enjoy them. I guess after your birthday the next one is mine. I think I will celebrate with MJ and a few friends. Well I went to MJ and Michael's wedding shower today down in Ringling,OK. It's a pretty long drive but I didn't want to miss it. We both had tears in our eyes when we left and I think she wanted to KEEP me. We finally separated and went our two ways. I am going to invite her and Michael and Aubrey to go to the festival of lights in Chickasha when it's time. Hopefully they'll go with. Well keep her in your eyesight and her family too. Love you and miss you TERRIABLY!!!!!!!! XOXOXOXO, Misty

Christal Lee

November 4, 2004

Happy Birthday sweetie- Sorry I didn't write yesterday but please don't think I forgot! I miss you very much! I wish u were here- my 21st b-day is coming up and it would be a blast to celebrate it with u- but I know u will be with me still! Hope you're having fun up there... tell ur sister and mom I say hello, and I miss them also! I love and miss u!

Misty

November 3, 2004

"Happy Birthday to you,"

"Happy Birthday to you,"

"Happy Birthday to my angel Kelly,"

"Happy Birhtday to you!!"



BJ says to say "Happy Birthday to you too" ya know form him also. Well if you we're still here you would probably be out with Corey and coming to my house to stay the night, Then on Saturday Me, BJ, You, and whoever would probably go to the club or go out to eat to celebrate your 22nd birthday. I sure do wish you were here. But as you can see I haven't forgot when your birthday is. Well, I'll let you get back to heaven 'cause they're probably having a party more wonderful then I could ever throw for you. Miss you and love you so, so much.....Please help me through the holidays I'm gonna need it.......Lots of Love

Misty

October 25, 2004

Well, It's been 2 months since the last time I wrote you but I know that you know I have been very busy and all with fund-raisers and school and ball games. Not that those are any excuse. Well, you have been gone from us for two years and it's still so hard to let you go. I will never let you go. The first things that went through my head this morning was almost like re-living the day we lost you. I slept with your bear last night to try and find some comfort from it. I finally found enough to go to sleep. We all miss you so much, Kelly. Melissa and her boyfriend carved a pumpkin with your name in it last night. I think I'll do one for you here. I can still hear your voice or see your hair in a clippy and you in your PJ's. Bekah is going to be an angel for Halloween and Bubba is going to be a devil. Kinda funny just how contradicting the two are. Well mom is having a hard time dealing with the day and she said on your birthday she didn't know about work either. You would be 22 in a couple of weeks if God hadn't of needed you when he did. I sure do wish we would of had more time with you but I guess when the big man calls there's no telling him NO. Well, sister I'm gonna go and I'll probably write in the morning. I love you and miss you terribly Love me, XOXOXOXO!!

Misty

August 24, 2004

Hey you! Sorry it's been sooo long since the last time I wrote in here but I just haven't thought about it to be honest. I still talk about you all the time and think about you more than that. I watch a couple of kids during the day now and today BJ and I both thought about you. I fluffed and she said I whistled. I just thought it was so funny so I thought you might catch alittle humor in it also. Well there is a new guy by the name Mark up there so please make him feel at home. It's a friend of mine's friend. That sounded alittle weird. Well Bubba has his first fall game tonight and we don't expect to much out of the team because they haven't got their timing down yet. Maybe we will win by the grace of God. I made a new tattoo to go on the bottom of my back. It has a really neat design to it and down the middle it will have chinese symbols that represent you. mom and dad, Rebekah and I, BJ, and Bubba. That is five symols down it. Even Kathy likes it. Any way I guess you know that rebekah is not in school and bubba is in first grade and he seems to enjoy it. Help him through it today 'cause he was sick ALL day yesterday and bekah the night before that so I'm running ragged. I guess I'll type you tomarrow and let you know how bubba's game went. Love you and miss you even more. XOXOXOXOXO

Misty

June 17, 2004

Hey pretty girl! Well as you know Bubba's team is in 3rd place as of right now for the 2004 season. I think that is great considering we were in 8th place to begin the season off with. Everyone keeps asking BJ and I how many seasons has Bubba played. We tell them that this is his first season and they are very surprised that he is doing so well. Last game he made a double play and got a few outs from the pitchers mound. He really hates the helment he has to wear; he says it's too ichy. We got him a new glove last week and he is gonna have to practice with it this summer and get use to it so he can move it around alittle better than he is now. He needs extra muscle tone. The glove looks so big to him but I guess it is 'cause he is so small for his age. You would be so proud of him and I'm sure you are. I'm sure you have plenty of friends in heaven that have front row seats to each and every game, Huh? He has a tournament this weekend and I want so much for him to win. It would boost his energy for every game after that. They also have a dentist appiontment and I think Rebekah will have to be put to sleep in order to fix her teeth. She brushes them all the time and she has more cavities then Bubba ever had. Saunia says it might be because she is brushing all the enamel off of her teeth and that makes them more suseptable to getting cavities. Well, we went to mom and dad's yesterday and got mom's car because Bubba was practicing out there and cracked her windshield with a ball when he bat. Neatless to say that's gonna cost about a buck and a half. O Well it really was a good hit, made it all the way across the front lawn. Anyway I guess I had better let you get back to heaven to be with your friends and family. Keep your eye on Lissa (as Rebekah calls her) and make sure she has some healthy babies. And again on Bubba on his games this weekend. I Love you AND miss you sooo much it's unbearable at times. XOXOXOXOXO!

Regina

June 11, 2004

Hey there sweet glitterbug!!! First thing i wanna say is i miss u very much. I still think of u just about everyday. I'm sure u know that. Holly and I got a house together!!! We are both so excited and happy. I've always wanted my own house and so has holly and now we have one. It's great!! This is probably the happiest i've been in a long time. I know i say this a lot but i can still hear u at work. It's like your there but i just can't see u...it's very frustrating. It doesn't take much to remind me of u and holly and I still talk about u all the time. I don't think it will matter how much time has gone by...I will always hear u there. It's just not right without u. It's just not...it's never been the same and it never will be either.... Tell your mom and misty to come see us at work sometime. We miss them. I especially miss your mom because i got so use to seeing her come in that i just got to where i would expect to see her...cause when i see her....i see u. I love you my dear sweet friend....

Joyce Lee

June 8, 2004

Hey Kelly well I have been thinking about you as I always do form day to day, I was outside the other night and thought about you and boy did the tears start flowing, I often wonder why there are so many good poeple in this world and they go on to be with the Lord then I look around again and see so much evil and wonder why do they get to live so much longer than others, I know that is selfish of me and I have ask forgiveness on that but it really angers me to greatly, Christal still misses you more than ever and I know she has cried for you more than you or anyone realizes, (well maybe not you), I go in her room just to look at your pictures and yes I cry, you are only asleep in my eyes and my heart. Christal talked to me about the things you and her pulled and we laughed, when I would go to bed and you and her would go to 7-11 at 1 and 2 in the morning, Kelly shame on you.(LOL) I am not mad I trusted you of all people, well have you seen Wanda yet? tell her I said hello and I still have the doll she made me when she lived next door,well I will not keep you I know alot of people are trying to get through to you I love you Kelly and I miss you but belfor I leave will you do me one last favor let Christal know you understand the reason she can not face your grave yet, I know she thinks you are mad at her or something, and Kelly please be her angel, everywhere she goes, well I better go I am sitting here crying my eyes out, wish I could see you once more, have a good time in heaven,

I LOVE YOU!!

Joyce

Joyce Lee

June 7, 2004

Hey Kelly, How are things in heaven? well I did not know about this book or I would have written you the day god called you home. I am so sorry me and Christal missed your funeral and did not know till you had been gone 2 weeks. I miss you so much and Christal well she still can not go to your grave site, it is really hard on her Kelly and I try not to push her she will when the time is good, she has wrote alot of poems about you and has even wrote some in class and the teacher loved it and she made an "A" on it, I haven't talked to your mom or sis in a while and for that to I am sorry it is just times like this you don't really know what to say to one that has lost someone as preciouse as you was, well I will not keep you but I do want you to know I think about you all the time you don't know the impression you left on all of us, I Love you more than ever you was my other daughter and yes I know all the sneaky stuff you and Christal pulled when I was in bed asleep,(LOL) I forgive you and her both though like always. well You take care and tell Jesus to give you another kiss and hug for me ok, I will continue to write it keeps me close to you, I love you

Joyce

Misty

May 23, 2004

Kelly, It's been a few days since I last wrote to you and I am sorry for that. You should see the kids , both of them are sunburned. this Friday Bubba's school had a beach day for all the pre-K and Kindergarden classes. They got to swim and slide on the slip and slide. They had a ball. I let them get in the water this afternoon (not realizing how burned they were) and they loved it but now they are paying for it. Rebekah is learning so much from her Bubba. O'Yeah Bubba got an award for knowing ALL of the ABC's and knowing ALL the sounds they make. His teacher says he should be reading really well in the following year. We are so proud!!!! You would be too!! Well his last day is the 26th of May and boy I can't wait. Well, I guess this is all for now. I'll write you in a few more days, Love you sis!

Misty

May 14, 2004

Hey Kelly!



Well I know it's been awhile since I last wrote to you in this book but if you have been keeping an eye on me then you know it's because I really have been so busy with Bubba alone and then to have Saunia's kidos too and then you got Rebekah in a class all by herself! LOL!! We do get so very busy. Tonight Bubba is having two boys from the ball team over. Grayson is only staying the night and I think Blake is staying the weekend. I think it will be just fine. He's growing up so quick Kelly and I can't keep up. You would be very proud of him with his T-Ball and reading. And there is a picture of you on that mirror in mom's dining room when you were about 6 and Bekah this it's her. We just laugh about it. Kelly, I miss you so much that sometimes I think about you all day long instead of in spurts. I hope you will continue to look my way and shine upon me. I will never forget you...you are so close to my heart. Sometimes I feel like calling you just to strike up a fight just to hear you argue with me one last time. But then I get a cold harsh reality check. I love you so much and miss you so much more... It's hard not having you to talk to. Tell Crystal that I will e-mail some pics of the kids to her so keep a look out. Love you my sweet Angel. XOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Christal Lee

May 8, 2004

I just thought I would write to let you know I haven't forgotten about you- how could I? So- I was looking through pics the other day and I found a Picture that Kirt (remember Kirt?) had taken while you were asleep, and you looked so peaceful. Thats how I try to imagine you now... just asleep. I hope your family is doing well, I lost Misty's # so I lost touch with her. I put an "in memory of" to you on my homepage! Did you see it? I hope you like it! Well- I will try to start writing more often- I love and Miss you! Remember... "go on & be that way" he*he!

Misty

April 20, 2004

Hello Kelly! Just thought I would tell you to keep an eye on dad. He is still having just as hard of a time with this whole situation as I am. After Bubba's game on Sunday mom and dad went to crest for a few groceries and BJ and I pulled up beside them. Mom was inside and dad was sitting in the car listening to pictures and just crying his eyes out. I know he misses you so much. I opened the car door, Bubba showed him the metal that they all got on the team and then I gave him a great big hug told him that I knew how he felt and that I loved him. I'm pretty sure that isn't the only thing on his mind but I hope that I made him feel alittle better. So be sure to keep your eyes on him, he really needs you now. Love you and miss you than I could ever type. Love you!! XOXOXOXO!!

Misty

April 14, 2004

Hey you! Well, the kids and I just let the butterfly go that I found at the cem. It didn't fly off right away. It stayed on Bubba's wrist for a few minutes before flying off into the backyard. Take care of it 'cause it still has somewhat messed up wings. Well, Bubba has a game tomarrow night against the Cobras. Be with him on his batting, he's been alittle off on it at practice. We haven't got to work with him on it 'cause BJ is trying to pay off the car and I don't have the slightest clue on the right way to bat. LOL! You would know that. I guess now I wish I had played sports. Anyway....I guess that is all for now...Tell Brian I said HI and to watch over his mom. Meanwhile you keep your eyes on us. We love you and miss you so much Kelly. Love you lots and have already forgave but will never forget!~

Regina James

April 12, 2004

Hey glitterbug!!!! I've been thinking of u a lot over the last few days. I got your little hello the other day. I knew it had to be u cause we don't use the same kinda stools that we use to when u were with us. We have completely different looking ones and i asked someone to get me a stool and they came back with your stool with your initials on it. I couldn't believe it. When i saw the stool i said what are the odds that i'm gonna find Kelly's initials on it. I turned it over and there it was....KF. Nobody has even seen those stools in forever. I thought they had all been thrown away. I went around and showed everyone. It put a smile on my face. Thank u for that. I love u and miss u.

Misty

April 11, 2004

Hey there girl! How is everyhting? Well, for us it's pretty good. The other day mom and dad came over and dad says he wants to adopt me. I thought it was kinda cool. I wish you were here to help sort through some things. Bubba just got pictures done for school and T-Ball. The ones of T-Ball are like snap shots of him on the field. you can tell he tries hard and when he's on a base the only thing on his mind is making it to the next base. I got one of him coming into home and one of him sitting on the pitchers mound and one of him batting. He told BJ that he talked to you at the cemetary yesterday. You have so many people that are so hurt that you are gone. you can tell when you go to the cem. I know I haven't been out there in awhile but for me that's harder to do then writing you in this book. At least here I feel like you'll will write back in your own little way. Kelly, everything has changed so much since you left us. It has been almost a year and a half and it doesn't seem like your gone. Maybe it's 'cause I hold you so close to my heart that it hurts sometimes. I know I told you that I needed some sort of sign to let me know that you are with me yesterday...... Then as I was walking out the gate at the cemetary I saw a blue and black butterfly flutter it's wings. I picked it up and brought it home with me and it stays with my plants in this back room. I know that doesn't seem to weird to whomever reads this but it was only about 35 degrees outside (or so it felt) and raining. It doesn't seem very likely that I would find such a beautiful butterfly in such nasty weather.....or does it? I took it as your little sign. Thank you, I needed that little bit of reasureance. Well I guess I had better get off here 'cause we're suppose to meet everyone at the park around noon or so and I need to call mom and dad to see if they are going. HAPPY EASTER! HAVE A GOOD ONE. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU JUST AS MUCH IF NOT MORE.

Saunia Schaefer

March 31, 2004

Hey kelly how are u doing? I was just sitting here typing to Brian and thought I would say hello to you. So how are things going? Well Kelly I better get off of here its midnight and I still have to finish studying for a test tomorrow I just want to tell you hello and I miss and love ya sis. Take care and take care of your family.

Love ya

Saunia

Misty

March 26, 2004

Kelly,



I don't know what to say but I told mom to bring that BOX in to me tonight. Hopefully she doesn't forget again. Please be with her to remind her before she leaves the house. Well BJ and I got a digital camera and it works so good. It even takes up close pictures. I can get a 11 X 14 picture of just bubba's nose. LOL! If I wanted. We got that for our anniversary. Can you believe that we've been married 8 years on the 29th. It doesn't feel like it's been that long ago that he asked me to marry him. We've been together 12 years if you count the dating part of our relationship. Well, enough about that ..... O'yeah, I forgot to type you when Bubba's T-Ball team won their first game. They won 18 to 4. Impressed? I was. It's a tournament this time against first year teams instead of second year teams. He has another one tonight and I'll have to let you know how it goes. Be with him on his batting and let him hit it over the fence. As you know he is pretty good with the bat but he really needs the help on his catching. It's alittle off. So off that he thought he had the ball caught and it hit him right in the forehead. Mom and Dad got him a helmet a couple weeks ago and he really likes it. It saves his noggin. He is getting so big and Kelly, you would be so proud of him. He is learning how to read and can sound out words fairly good. He just got his spring pictures back and I don't think I can afford them on my own but they are so good! Maybe I can get Mom and Dad plus Kathy and Big Bryon to help me out with them. They will want one if I show'em to them. And as for Bekah she is so awnery kinda like you we're at her age! LOL! She is almost as tall as Bubba and I don't think he even realizes it. I hope to get her into some sort of sport. I have to go down to head start and enroll her on Tuesday or Wensday. They say it's free you just have to get them on the list early. I hope I'm early enough. She has blonde hair and the biggest blue eyes you've ever seen on a kid. And she knows who is in Mom's locket and she says your name so well. Go ahead call me PROUD! Well on the 17th of April Saunia and I are going to the Kenny Chesney concert. I can't wait 'till we get a night out. Misty Dawn and Melody went to the Alan Jackson concert last night and Misty said it was so much fun. Well I guess I'll quit blabing and let you get back to heaven. I love you sweet girl and I'll type you again later Ok?! Hugs and Kisses.

Misty

March 18, 2004

Hey baby girl! How's things in heaven? I went to see the Passion of the Christ. It is a good movie to change the heart made of stone. A bad one too on the hand that you are seeing how badly Christ was beatten. I know see what you were trying to tell me all along. And I love you for that. I love you and I will write you at a later date. Love you hugs and kisses!

Debbie vanlandingham

March 14, 2004

Hi Kelly,

I don't know why but I was thinking about you tonight. I wrote in Brian's book and then I thought about you. You guys are so lucky to be in heaven with Jesus, but it is so hard on us left down here on earth missing you. I know you guys are wanting us to go on with our lives and do the best we can. But that is the hard part. Well for me it is, for now. As you know Brian is up there with you too. He just got there, it will be 7 weeks on Monday. That seems like a life time ago. I just cannot imagine what October 2002 feels like to your family, and your mother. I always thought a lot of you. You had such a big heart. I love you and tell Brian I love him too. I know he already knows that, but it won't hurt for you to remind him again. :)

Mom and Dad

March 7, 2004

Hi Kelly, It's mom amd dad we're over at Misty and Bryons. Wish you were here with us. Dad has a really bad tooth ache. I hope the doctor will do something about it when he goes to see him on Tuesday. Well tomarrow is GeeGee's 69th Birthday. We went to the cemetary today and I put out aome more glitter. Melissa and Tommy went their the other day and seen three deer out their. Tell Bill we love him and miss him too. Please tell God to help Dad feel better so we can go see the movie The Passion of the CHRIST. We really would like to see it and right now I have two free tickets. Well We love you and we miss you soooo much. You will never be forgotten even if it could happen I wouldn't let it. WellI'm going to close for now We love you MOM AND DAD. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Misty

March 2, 2004

Kelly,



Going to play alittle BINGO so wish me luck! Hugs and Kisses! Love you so much!

Misty

March 1, 2004

Hey Kelly,



Just thought I would write a few lines since I found some alone time. Well, let me catch you up to speed on what's going on around here. The reason I found some alone time is 'cause BJ took Bubba to T-Ball practice and Bekah is sleeping. Yep you heard me T-Ball. It is so exciting. He really likes it. His team name is the Pirates and the colors are black and yellow. BJ is proud of him and so am I. Kelly, I have a worry.... If you could let me have a peep into the future please do so. I'm worried about Dad. He has a Doc. appt. March 11th and then he goes to a kidney doc. Keep an eye on him. He is so special to me and my kids. Rebekah adores him and I don't think I could handle to loose him too. Please keep an watchful eye on him. Help to show him the way. I know you'll be there waiting on him whenever that may be. Maybe then you could play "hide the $5 dollar bill again". I'll let you get back to whatever it was that you were doing. I love you and miss you just as much..... if not more. Love you BUNCHES!! Your sis.

Misty

February 17, 2004

Hey pretty girl! Well I see that Regina wrote you and since you guys talk all the time let her know not to wait so long to write again. Well Brian has been in heaven for about two weeks and I hope that you have made the time to go say HI! We got our taxes in friday and it is hard to believe that they are already gone..... but only on good things. We hope to hear something from GM soon. BJ got a letter but it only has his scores on it, it doesn't say weather or not he got it or not. The letter states that whomever got the openings would be contacted by mail. I am keeping my fingers crossed. Well today when Bubba gets out of school we are going to take them to Chucky Cheese. Bubba has been asking for awhile now so we thought we'ed better do it before the money runs out. Well, I guess I'll let you go for now. Love you and miss you just as much.....Hugs and kisses. Misty

Regina

February 13, 2004

Hey glitterbug!!! Sorry it's been awhile since i've written but as u well know i've had a lot going on lately, and you know I talk to u all the time. Tell misty i could never forget u...not ever. The kids are doing great in school and they still do ask about u and ask me if i miss u still. Which makes me kinda sad but makes me see your face in my mind so makes me kinda happy too. I miss you very much and will always love you. Tell your sister and mom to always try and keep in touch with holly and me....we'll probably be at walmart forever lol. Bye until next time sweet angel.

Misty

February 6, 2004

Hey! It seems as though my question has been answered. I was wondering if Holly and Regina had forgotten about you. I haven't seen them write in a while. Well, Bubba had a quick b-day this year. It just seemed like I wanted to have the day go by as quick as I could. Kinda selfish on my part. If you get the chance tell Brian I said Hi. I know he is just as busy watching over loved ones as you are, but if he wants to stay behind the sceens then he may want to stay out of pictures. I love you and I'll let you get back to Heaven!!! Be sure to keep an eye on BJ and the GM job he is going to get a letter in the mail by the end of next week..... I'm nervous. Love you hugs and kisses, Misty.

holly paras

February 2, 2004

hi! you! just wanted to say hi and let you know i haven't forgotten about you. i still miss you very much. nothing much happening here, malachi is getting big, up to my waist. hes growing so fast. well i love you very much and miss you alot! holly

Misty

January 27, 2004

Kelly,



Just wanted to ask you to show Brian around. He's new up there and he may not know how things work. Althought I can't type in the details you know what happened. Mom is the only one who knows what Debbie is going through and dad is the only one who knows what Ron is going through. Help them through this tough time. Be Debbie and Ron's angel on their shoulder. It helps me knowing that there is someone to show him around in a unfamiliar place. I love you very much and I will write again soon. Love you hugs and kisses,Misty.

Misty

January 22, 2004

Just wanted to say hi and that I thought I would check in, it's been a few days. I will write you more later but for right now I'm trying to cook dinner. I hope to come see you soon. I love you and I'll be back soon. Hugs and Kisses Misty!

Misty

January 9, 2004

Hey Kelly! My birthday went alittle better than I thought it would. I had to work that morning but it was still really good. Cheryl had a card and some hand lotion waiting for me when I got to work. About 10:30 a.m. Ellen's husband brought in a cake for me from the two of them. And then about 12:30 p.m. my manager and my asst. manager brought me in a cookie cake. To top it all off I got ROSES sent to me from BJ at about 11:00 a.m. Mom and dad came up to see me that night and gave me a few of your things that they thought I might want, like your apple cookie jar. The only thing that didn't go very good was that none of my friends called me, except Saunia, and none of BJ's side of the family called me to wish me a Happy Birthday. Bj said his mom called early in the day and told him to tell me but it just isn't the same when it didn't come from her mouth. O'Well I guess it's OK that nobody remembered (other than the people I told you about), not even Gee Gee or April or even Aunt Cathe. Aunt Cathe always remembers and it's Aunt Yvonne that forgets. I was setting here trying to figure out the check book and I had no luck there so I thought I would tell you about my birthday. Well keep watch over BJ at the end of the month he really would like the opportunity to work for GM and get out of the heck hole he's in now. I'll let you get back. I love you and miss you just as much or maybe even more. Love you hugs and kisses, Misty.

Misty

January 6, 2004

Hey Kelly...Just thought I would write a few lines. Tomarrow is the big day and I already know I won't be in a good mood. I'm really gonna miss not having the cake made by you. I probably won't even have a cake. O'Well, maybe it's time I get out of doing all that except for when it is the kids birthday or BJ's or other people. I like to make people feel good on their birthday..... reminds me of someone else I know. Maybe when I come home I will do something worth while like.....like..... clean my house or finish the laundry. I feel so bad that I didn't think I could handle another dog, I hope Carl finds his dog a good home. At the end of this month we find out about the GM job. Help us out. We would love to be the ones doing good for a change. Maybe we will get a good return this year and we can pay the car off this year. That would be so awsome. Sometimes I just sit and think what it would be like if you were still with us. I really wish we could have a second chance to be graced with your presents. Like I have once told you It's been too long and I'm lost without you.... Yes, still! If you are listening to the songs I am listening to then you know they were made in your memory. Maybe I do allow myself to think too much. I still go by Mike's old house and I hope you don't mind. I think it's just to remind me on how life is too short and not to take anything for granted. I know I take alot of things for granted and I am gonna try to change that in the coming year. I know you had alot of people to watch over on New Year's but did you know that I only had 2 drinks and BJ only had 1. We decided that it just wasn't worth it this year, not if we weren't gonna be at home. I'm going on to a different subject now......I hope that this year is gonna be a better one. Things can only go up from here....I mean the worst day of the year is tomarrow. I'm sorry if that sounds wrong but I miss you! You know how bad birthdays are for me. At least I will have my angel on my side. I guess I will let you get back to watching over everyone. I love you and miss you and Kelly, I always will. Thanks for being my Angel. XOXOXOXOXO..........Misty

Misty

January 2, 2004

Well, it's me again! Hope I'm not bothering you. Was just sitting here listening to some of your favorite songs.... I'm your angel....and some others. I went to the doctor today 'cause I have no voice and haven't had one for a few days. My ears are all plugged up and I can hear me louder then anyone else, now I know just how "nagging" I can be. I sit here and want to tell the kids to go clean their room but they wouldn't hear me anyway. LOL! I miss you...just the way we could sit and do nothing and still be having a good time.... or make a quick trip to Sonic just to get the ice. How we could squeeze us and the kids in your pick-up.....remember the trip to the lake? Talk about crowded!LOL! I see that Steph still keeps in touch and hasn't forgotten the good times. That's wonderful! Please tell her I said hello and I'm sorry about her grandpa. She can call anytime or come see me up at work.... tell her Kim Jones knows where I work. I re-read some of the things I have wrote in the past and it seems as though things never change.....I will always remember and I will NEVER forgive. Tell GOD that I know he would want me to forgive but I just haven't found it in my heart yet. Someday though I hope I can come to that. Like the song from Brad Paisley goes who needs pictures with a memory like mine......Hum. I got my hair cut and colored last month and I don't look so much like you anymore and it makes me wish I hadn't done it. Any little reminder of you helps me get by from day to day. There is still not a day that goes by that I don't say out loud or to myself "Well if Kelly" or "My Sister". Kinda funny, huh? I hope you watch over me and the family in the coming year. O before I let you go I talked to April the other day and she said she got married to Buddy. Hope he treats her and the boys right. I will probably write again at the end of the month to let you know about the GM job. We find something out at the end of this month. Keep your eyes on us down here! Love you and miss you just as much! XOXOXOXO!

Misty

January 1, 2004

Hey Kelly by the way I wrote you on Christmas day to tell you MERRY CHRISTMAS but it must have gotten lost in the mail so to speak. So I know it's late but MERRY CHRISTMAS anyway! Love you and miss you terribly! XOXOXOXOXOXO

Misty

January 1, 2004

Hey Kelly,

Just thought I would write a few lines and let you know that I talked to Gerald last night. You would be so proud of him he just finished his schooling for massage therapy and he has invited me and mom over to get a massage whenever we would like, He said he would hook us up. I can't believe it. I had no idea that Jamie had such a terrible loss. Please show her dad around heaven and keep an eye on her and her family. I remember when we had such a loss and now all I have is this and all my wonderful memories and pictures to remember you from. It's been over a year and it still seems like your still on vacation.... a really long one. Well 6 days and it wil be "Happy Birthday to me". I am feeling every bit of 27 plus. LOL!! The one thing I will miss this year is no cake made by you. Help me through it 'cause you know how hard birthdays are for me now that I no longer have you to celebrate it with me. To top it all off I will be here all by myself that night and I have to work that morning I won't even get to see BJ but for a couple of hours before he goes to work and the kids leave to go to church that night also. O'well, maybe it'll be better next year. I love you and I will let you go for now......it's back to heaven for you. Happy New Year!!! 2004 Good night sweet ANGEL. Hugs and Kisses.

Jamie Herring

December 30, 2003

Hey Kelly,

This is Jamie Herring. This is the first time i have had a chance to write you. Please show my dad around heaven for me. He came to Heaven this past Sunday Morning. I miss him so much. Please tell him we miss him and we are going to help mom through this. I need his strength right now. I am really struggling without my dad.. Thanks,

Jamie

Stephanie Herring

December 25, 2003

Merry Christmas Kelly!

Stephanie Herring

December 17, 2003

hey girl, It's late and I was thinking of ya. I was thinking the other day of a little sticker you gave me for St. Patrick's Day like 4 years ago, and no matter how many times I washed it, the sticker wouldn't come off. I never tried to take it off. I was just gonna see if it would eventually come off. I thought about you every time I saw that sticker, STILL THERE, on my shirt. I love you very much.

kelly

December 12, 2003

Hey pretty girl! My kidos are about to drive me up the wall!!! Rebekah is so big now and BJ and I realized that we can understand most of what she says now although there are a few stumbles. I'm with regina when she talks about reading, Bubba is so close to reading it is getting so exciting, Watching them grow so quickly. I think she is more of a handfull then Bubba ever was. O guess what..... I got my first real christmas tree this year. It smells so good and the kids decorated it with just about all homemade ornaments. We have one special ornament on the tree.....it is a picture of our personal ANGEL(you) and it's green to boot! It has your senior prom picture in it. Well at Thanksgiving I had my cry time again all it takes is for someone to say your name in any serious manner and I bawl. I know mom made a grave blanket for you and it has 12 dozen roses on it but I wish there was some way you could let me know what color bow to put on it cause I can't find a bow at the dollar tree that is green and mom wants a BIG one. Let me know if you get the chance "K". I love you sis and keep an eye on us through out the holidays 'cause money is very short and I can't pull it out of a hat. Pay bills?? Get Food?? It's a toss up every week. I love you and get back to all of your wonderful angels you hang out with. Hugs and Kisses!!

Regina

November 29, 2003

Hey glitterbug!!! Sorry it's been so long since i've written you, but I really haven't had access to the net. I didn't pay the aol people their money and they shut me down...can u believe the nerve of those people expecting me to pay them for their services!?!?! (hehe) Anyway I am writing u from Holly's computer now. Happy belated birthday!!! I didn't forget i promise. I could never forget. I thought about u the whole day and even sang happy birthday to you, which i'm sure you heard and were begging me to stop!! haha!! I miss u sooooo much!!! There is so much going on in my life right now that i wish you were here to help me find the right way. I am sure you are doing your very best trying to direct me in the right direction up in heaven!!! I try to keep my ears clean so i can hear you when you call!!(wink wink) The kids have gotten so big you wouldn't believe it. C.J. is so smart Kelly, he amazes me everyday. He can read now. I'm so proud of him. His attitude has gotten much better thank goodness. Chloe is just so beautiful. She gets more and more beautiful every single day. Sometimes I can not believe that she is my baby girl for as pretty as she is she should be some models baby!!!haha!! And then there is Mikey....he has taken C.J.'s place with the attitude problem. I think he is going through the terrible 2's a year late!!! But with that said he is still too cute!!! I haven't heard from Corey in a long time. Keep a watch on him. I think of him often. I finally seen Sal a few weeks back. He came into the store and I gave him his pin. But I haven't seen him since. I heard through Shannon that he won his lawsuit against Walmart! Good for him...GO SAL!!! Well I guess i'll let u get back to the other Angels sweet Kelly. I miss you and love you very much. That will never change. Tell your mom and sis that they should come see me and Holly sometime. We miss them too. Keep an eye on my babies for me when I can't. Keep them safe for me. I'll try to write again soon sweetie!!



Love ya,

misty

November 28, 2003

Hey sweetie! Well I just got back from the lake this morning and I really enjoyed myself. I will always enjoy spending time with the family. Uncle Robby, Jackie Wayne, and I went shopping this morning and I got up at 4 a.m. I had fun and I think I will invite him to come up here next year so that we can hit more than just Wal-mart. We got the kids a bike apiece, hopefully Bubba will be able to ride his. It is a 20 inch Huffy. Couldn't pass it up though for 25.00 dollars. Well I just thought I would check in since I got back. I love you and thank you for keeping an eye on me while I went to the lake and BJ too. Love you and miss you just as much!! XOXOXO! Your sis/twin Misty.

MOM AND DAD

November 22, 2003

Hi our beautiful little Angel, How are you doing in heaven? I hope your staying really busy. Please keep your eyes on the family for the holiday season. By the way who's going to make me a cherry cheesecake for Thanksgiving. Kelly that was always what you did. Kelly I hope you like your memory garden at the house. I miss you and so does dad. He said he heard you knock on the door the other day he just wishes he knew what you wanted I told him you just wanted him to get up because you knew he didn't sleep that late. Kelly I wish you were here. Tell Jamies girls they can call if they ever want to talk. There mom knows mine and misty's number. Kelly I'm still trying to figure out how to make your grave blanket for Christmas, I did finally get you 12 dozen roses to make it out of. Well I know I don't write much but I don't have a computer. If I did I would always be on it just like Misty. Well I guess I'm going to go for now but not for good. Oh yea ! what about those sooners thanks! Love you and miss you so very much love in Christ mom and dad HAPPY THANKSGIVIING!!!

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