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COMAROW MURRAY COMAROW (Age 91) Lawyer, public official, and professor, died of cancer at his home in Bethesda on September 23, 2011 He spent more than 70 years and his entire professional life as a resident of the Washington, D.C., area, serving two Presidents and playing a critical role in reshaping the postal system and significant parts of the federal government. Born in 1920 in the Bedford-Stuyvesant section of Brooklyn to Jewish immigrants from Russia and Hungary, Murray Comarow spoke only Yiddish until he was five years old. He graduated from Boys High during the Great Depression. Sixteen percent of the labor force was still jobless, among them his father, a furrier. The new graduate managed to find work sorting dirty diapers in a commercial laundry, hefting iron ingots in a foundry, and hawking household glue and personalized neckties in several small Pennsylvania cities as a "demonstrator" for Woolworth 5 and 10 Cent Stores. A year of such jobs was enough. He moved to Washington, D.C., where he thought his prospects would be brighter, but he had only a high school diploma and a ferocious work ethic to offer. His first job when he arrived in 1939 was as an assistant messenger in the War Department, which paid $41.54-before taxes-every two weeks. He began taking night classes at the National University School of Law (later absorbed by George Washington University), enrolling during the last year high school graduates in the District of Columbia were permitted to go to law school, and graduated in 1942. Enlisting in the Army that year, Comarow received reserve training and entered active duty in the Army Air Corps at Warner Robins Field in Georgia. He was a drill sergeant, and years later, men he had trained recalled the last quarter-mile of their 25-mile hikes, when their pitiless drill instructor spurred them into a full run into camp, wearing full packs and singing loudly. He went to Officer Candidate School, was commissioned as a Captain, and served in a judge advocate's office. Following World War Two he was an editor for the Military Air Transport Service. In 1951 he moved to the Pentagon as a lawyer in the general counsel's office of the Air Force and became an assistant general counsel (as well as office touch football team quarterback, nicknamed the Gray Ghost for his ability to sidestep onrushing opponents). His problem-solving assignments involved bases around the world, from France and Greece to Guyana and Libya. In 1965 Comarow was legal counsel to a special committee charged with unearthing the roots of a major cheating episode at the Air Force Academy. It was difficult for him to accept that many young men at a service academy had routinely and systematically cheated; he later called the investigation the most painful professional experience of his life. In 1966 longtime friend Lee White, chairman of the Federal Power Commission, named him executive director of the agency, which at the time regulated interstate electric and gas utilities. (Comarow called the appointment "pure nepotism.") The next year, President Lyndon Johnson tapped him as executive director of the President's Commission on Postal Reorganization, which a year later handed Congress a detailed blueprint for a self-supporting, patronage-free federal corporation. Three years of congressional deliberation culminated in the creation of the United States Postal Service that resembled the commission's version; Comarow worried that the differences could jeopardize its long-term viability. To be proven right decades later did not bring him satisfaction. Following Richard Nixon's election, Comarow joined the consulting firm Booz, Allen and Hamilton, where he played a key role in the launch of a Washington, D.C.-based School of Law for Antioch College. He was then drafted by the White House to run the President's Advisory Council on Executive Organization. The council's recommendations included new agencies such as the Environmental Protection Administration. After a brief return to Booz-Allen, Comarow joined the Postal Service as Senior Assistant Postmaster General, overseeing retail operations and mail delivery. Teaching administrative law at Antioch in 1974, Comarow discovered the appeal of the classroom, and in 1975 he accepted American University's offer to teach law-related subjects to students majoring in political science and public administration. He was distinguished adjunct professor in residence for 20 years, including one year as acting dean of the College of Public and International Affairs. He liked to inform his students in the first session that he didn't have a college degree, let alone a Ph.D, so he was a "fake professor" or "fake dean" who should never be addressed as "Dr. Comarow." In 1974, Comarow was elected a Fellow and served as a director of the National Academy of Public Administration. He participated in studies of intelligence activities and prison reform, among others, consulted for the Brookings Institution and other think tanks, and contributed two chapters on government in books published by the Johns Hopkins University Press and NAPA. Comarow strongly resented the routine denigration of government workers by politicians looking for easy scapegoats. He felt that it discouraged top graduates and highly talented people from seeking government careers, and he wrote and lectured repeatedly on this issue. His Op-Ed pieces in the Washington Post in 1981 decrying the "War on Civil Servants" were reprinted in the Congressional Record by Sen. Patrick Moynihan and Rep. Patricia Schroeder. His honors include commendations from Presidents Johnson and Nixon, Distinguished Service Awards from the Department of the Air Force and the Federal Power Commission, and a Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association for Postal Commerce. He was president of Temple Emanuel in Kensington, MD, and later a board member of the Washington Hebrew Congregation. He attended services at Sixth & I Synagogue and was a longtime member of the Cosmos Club. And he took up tennis at age 59, laying down his racquet more than 20 years later when his damaged rotator cuff could no longer be repaired. His first wife, Dena Blitz, died in 1978. Survivors include Donna Duhe, his wife of 31 years; a son, Avery, of Potomac, MD; a daughter, Beth, of Reston, VA; stepchildren Mark Duhe of Kansas City, MO, Marie Elaine Aronson of Virginia Beach, VA, and Elizabeth Stohr of Temple, TX; a sister, Helen Lipson of Glen Oaks, NY; two grandchildren, two step-grandchildren, and a great-grandson. Services will be held on Wednesday, September 28, 10 a.m. at JOSEPH GAWLERS SONS CHAPEL, 5130 Wisconsin Ave., NW, Washington, DC. Interment private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American University School of Public Affairs, 4400 Massachusetts Avenue, N.W., Washington DC 20016-8060, to Montgomery Hospice, 1355 Piccard Drive, Suite 100, Rockville, MD 20850, or to a favorite charity.

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Published by The Washington Post from Sep. 25 to Sep. 27, 2011.

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Howard Alenier

October 19, 2011

Murray will be missed. He was my godfather and my father’s best friend. They would write and enjoy editing each other’s letters after my father moved to Florida. He was always there with a word of advice or a helping hand. He spoke at my father’s funeral in 1985 and at my mother’s in 2002; I always assumed that he would speak at mine, but it’s not to be. He unquestionably was a great influence on me, particularly when it came to postal matters. I spent two years at the Postal Rate Commission, almost thirty at the Postal Service, five for a postal contractor and currently work for the Postal Inspector General.

September 29, 2011

It was with great sadness that I learned of Murray Comarow's passing. He was such a stimulating colleague as a Fellow of the National Academy of Public Administration; and his incisive contributions, experience, and wit on panels and committees helped enhance the Academy's accomplishments. I will truly miss his candor!

Harriett G. Jenkins

Bob Comarow

September 28, 2011

Even as a child he was a fun uncle. Both of us got up early and I would make him omelets which he treated with great importance.

Over the years we had many interesting conversations, and he would encourage me to research a topic I brought up, often leading me to fascinating topics.. He was a natural educator.

He helped both my son and me make difficult career decisions

His two guiding forces were
100% Ethics in all situations,
and always act with class, when I might act emotionally.

Over the last decades we spoke on occasion, encouraging each other to drink from the fountain of youth, exercise.

He came to a Little League Team I managed far too seriously, and our sponsor was the Lindenhurst Funeral Home. He had to have one of our hats to wear around the Pentagon.

The last time all Uncle Murray's siblings got together was for my son's graduation from Mercer University. Aunt Helen, Uncle Murray, and my Dad, Herb were all together for the last time. We all went out to eat at a fine restaurant with a large contingent of friends and relatives, and Uncle Murrray generously offered to pay for the drinks.

He truly led a fairy tale life,
rising by one's own boot straps.
He came from utter poverty to accomplish so much.

Near the end of his life we exchanged a letter, disagreeing on a few points. In his style he respectfully wrote that it shows two reasonable people can come to different conclusions from the same information, disagreeing while complimenting me.

As always, it was written using a fountain pen in the computer age.

Even near the end, when he was in great pain and suffering from cancer, our final conversation, he was more concerned about my difficulties than his own.situation, you could hear his wheels spinning trying to come up with suggestions.

I will be miss my Uncle Murray.

I'm sorry I can't be there, living in California. But his basic principals and ideas and style live on with me.

With love to my Uncle Murray and my sincere condolences to my cousins Avery and Beth, and his lovely wife.

Bob Comarow

Elizabeth Bergdoll

September 27, 2011

I have often thought about Murray over the years after I left CT and moved to Florida. I worked with him when I was at ADVO (now Valassis) and he was always such a sweet man with respect, kind words and wisdom. He will truly be missed and remain in the hearts of many. May his wife Donna and family find peace in the many memories.

Maynard Benjamin

September 27, 2011

Murray was a mentor, friend and an associate whom I had the pleasure and honor to know since 1985. He provided guideance to all of us in the mailing community, will be missed but his lessons always remembered. The entire Envelope Manufacturing community sends their regards to the Camarow family as we celebrate Murray's life and morn his passing. We extend our condolences to Murray's wife Donna and the family.

September 26, 2011

I've known and worked with Murray since 1975. I learned a great deal from his recollections of what he did and what he had learned from his diverse experiences. I car-pooled often with him from Bethesda to Academy activities and Renee and I both enjoyed driving him to and from an Academy spring meeting in Durham. We, along with his family and colleagues, will miss him and his often humorous commentaries on public affairs. We extend our heart-filled condolences to Donna and the rest of his family.

Renee and Herb Jasper

Bill Sullivan

September 26, 2011

"Murray was the best boss I ever had. At the Kappel Commission he got the best work from the staff not by making demands, but by example and quiet suggestion. He treated everyone - ally or adversary, intimate or acquaintance - with the utmost respect. He was almost always smiling: he was always always fair.

Murray Comarow's career was devoted to making the government of the land he loved just a bit more effective. We need more like him."

Robert Croce

September 26, 2011

Murray Comarow was a statesman, teacher, public servant and mentor to generations of men and women striving to make our society and it's government the best that it could be. His legacy is as broad and wide as his effusive spirit and is unparallelled in countless venues where his knowledge and wisdom were invoked to bring about meaningful change. Murray's lasting memorial will burn bright in the hearts of all of us who worked with him, were inspired by him, and fortunate enough to call him a friend.

Mary Beth Dale

September 26, 2011

My condolences to the Comarow family. What a remarkable life! I can see a lot of my former colleague Avery in the photo and the obvious dedication to his work.

Charles Bingman

September 26, 2011

Murray had a marvelous sense of humor,and the courage to speak the truth even to those who did not want to hear it. His courage was an inspiration to all of his friend and associates.

Grant Reynolds

September 26, 2011

Murray was the model for the term "distinguished public servant". I learned about public service from him. He was my mentor as a young lawyer just out of law school. My sympathy to his family. We have lost a great man.

Kellie Siegel

September 26, 2011

We are so very sorry to hear of Murray's passing. We are trying our best to rearrange things so we can be there to honor our Dear Murray & to give Donna, Avery, & Debbie among others a big hug. Norm is going to miss his very supportive Uncle so much. He was a one of a kind, incredible man.

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