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Annette Leone
November 12, 2017
Nancy, I am so sad to hear the news of your passing. When we spoke last you mentioned that you were ill....but then again, you always did think of others before yourself. I admired your intellect, your fun personality, your dedication to your family and the community. You've made an impact on so many lives. I'll always remember our chats at work. Rest in Peace.
Sally McHale
November 10, 2017
My experience knowing Nancy was born from sporting adventures Jen and my daughter, Franny, shared. Nancy was such a Can Do, Why Not, Nothing Can Stop her, energetic, positive person. I always felt "Wowed" by her multiple activities and endeavors- not to mention her full time job. Her creativity and heartfelt enthusiasm for youthful enterprises - soccer teams, sailing, Girl Scouts, you name it, was remarkable- She was an exceptional role model.
helen lobrano
November 8, 2017
We were shocked and saddened to hear of Nancy's passing.
Nancy always had the most wonderful, genuine smile. Her energy and passion for our community knew no bounds. A terrific role model and leader of young women.
Modest in her extraordinary accomplishments ~ Nancy was an inspiration to us all.
Our heartfelt condolences to Jack, Jennifer and family,
Helen and John Lobrano
Marc and Maureen Ducret
November 8, 2017
Nancy always had a smile on her face when we saw her at Rocky. A warm welcome and some friendly conversation was the norm. We are saddened by her passing. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Kind regards, Marc and Maureen Ducret
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November 8, 2017
I'm so sorry for your loss. May the family find strength and peace from Almighty God during this difficult time.
Ellen
November 7, 2017
Nancy -
You and your huge smile, generous heart and passion for projects around town will be missed. Heaven is lucky to have you !
Allison Rogers
Rick and Ellen Moman
November 7, 2017
Nancy was beautiful both inside and outwardly. Her kindness was limitless.
To top that, she was one of the brightest business minds I've ever known. When we had dinner parties at our home, I always (selfishly) arranged to be seated next to Nancy. In the early and mid 90s, she was educating me on the future - including the Cloud.
We will miss her.
Donna Mancuso
November 7, 2017
Dear Nancy, I am deeply saddened you are no longer with us. I am so glad I got to know you through The Junior League of Greenwich. You had the most wonderful smile and was always eager to help anyone who needed it. Rest in peace my friend. You are loved. You will be missed but I will remember your wonderful smile. My deepest sympathy to your family during this very difficult time.
Dede LeComte
November 7, 2017
I am stunned to learn of Nancy's passing. I cannot begin to imagine the depth of loss for her family and friends. I met Nancy in the Junior League of Greenwich where she gave selflessly of her time, talent and energy. She was always so gracious and kind, a team player but also a wonderful leader. She will be missed so very much, by so many.
November 6, 2017
While I didn't know Nancy, I got to know her through her generous and loving daughter Jen and learned that we both shared a love of parks. Patricia Scharlin Taylor, NYC
Linda Grunow
November 4, 2017
I am shocked to learn of Nancy's passing. From the moment I met her, she was a sparkling, friend;y member of Rocky Point and - when I joined last year - the OG Garden Club. My heart goes out to Jack and Jennifer. We lost her much too soon.
Christine Cammeyer (Liddy)
November 3, 2017
Sending my love and prayers to your family. Mrs. Caplan was such an amazing woman. I cherish all of our wonderful memories together.
Susan Tremble
November 2, 2017
Missing my dear friend. Deepest sympathy to Jack and Jennifer.
November 1, 2017
Our family was also among the group of friends that was lucky enough to have known Nancy for over twenty years. Nancy was a leader among leaders. Her kindness, generosity and business savvy were just a few of the talents that made you want to get to know her, and once you did, you knew that she was someone that you would never forget. She was just that kind of person.
She approached life with high-spirits and a beautiful smile that was always accompanied with a gentle note of laughter. Nancy will forever live in our hearts and memories.
With much love,
The Knapper Family
Barbara, Brenda and Beverly
Kathleen Kinne
November 1, 2017
My husband David and I were part of the group of friends mentioned by Suzanne DePalo in her tribute to Nancy. We agree completely with everything Suzanne said. Nancy was a wonderful friend and the most creative person I've ever met - no matter what the topic Nancy had several suggestions. Her fight over the past almost three years was managed with a very positive attitude and incredible strength. We never spent time with Nancy when she didn't mention how much John and Jennifer helped her and were always there for her. A story about one of the many trips we shared - Suzanne and her husband, John and Nancy and David and I rented a home in Positano on the Amalfi Coast. There was a lemon tree on the terrace. John and Nancy said - when you are given a lemon you make lemonade - and that was exactly what they did. Nancy will be so missed.
Robin Edelston
October 31, 2017
I crossed paths with Nancy through many organizations and committees in town, from North Mianus, to Girl Scouts, to Tod's Point, to Binney Park, etc. I was always inspired by her enthusiasm, let's-get-it-done attitude, her ever-ready smile, and her generosity. I will miss her. I send my deepest condolences to her family.
October 31, 2017
Nancy was an extraordinarily compassionate woman, with a vivacious personality. She was truly one of the brightest and most perceptive women, I've had the privilege to know. I will always treasure the many great conversations, along with the laughter that followed, we had shared.
Dear Jack and Jennifer, you are both in my loving thoughts and prayers.
With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Kathy Palmer
Gillian and Marc DePalo
October 31, 2017
Dear John and Jennifer,
We were so very sorry to hear such sad news. Nancy was such a thoughtful, special person and will be deeply missed. We have many fond memories of parties and dinners at Suzanne's with you all. Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you.
Susan Tremble
October 31, 2017
We met at IBM and although we went through periods of little contact, the band always got back together. Nancy was like a sister to me and I to her. I hope to see her once again. I hope that while she looks over Jack and Jennifer from above, she looks down on me from time to time to give me some meager portion of the overwhelming strength she took with her.
I will always miss her, but my tears of sadness will eventually give way to a smile and a memory of some time we shared together.
Suzanne De Palo
October 31, 2017
Nancy Caplan was one of my best friends. We have been friends for over 25 years and, although I am that many years older then she, I found myself always learning from her. She was an incredible life force, full of love, life and enthusiasm. Nancy always had the best ideas, the best plans, the best solutions to a problem . She could always find the most unique and unexpected aspects to be found on any subject. She was a brilliant woman with a mind like a steel trap. She never forgot anything she had ever learned or noticed. She was an extremely successful businesswoman and she was also a faithful friend. She loved having fun and it is hard to try to picture her when she didn't have a smile on her face and a giggle in her voice.
Nancy was a wonderful mother. I never knew another woman who could even imagine, much less organize, plan and execute the birthday parties, sleep-overs, limousine delivered concert visits and so many other treats that Nancy planned for Jennifer and her friends. Nancy made sure that Jennifer's life was , and would always be, full of all things good and happy.
Nancy and John shared a circle of friends with my late husband and me. We socialized often, throughout the years: we travelled together and shared many of life's dear and special moments together. Nancy was the youngest of the group but, by far, the most vibrant and important force of our group. Her death leaves a hole in my heart. I loved her and I will never forget her.

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Meghan Parry-Hill
October 31, 2017
Nancy was my Aunt. She was the youngest sibling in her family. I always felt like I could relate to her based on a shared experience of being the babies of our families. It was always wonderful to see her for family functions growing up because she was upbeat and full of energy. She thought that I looked great in red, so every year, she gave me a red sweater from the Limited for Christmas. It kind of became a running joke. She was so much fun like that.
I looked up to her as a business savvy and dynamic woman as the MBA of the family, climbing the echelons of IBM. She also was an avid traveler. Before boarding my first airplane ride as a child, I told her how scared I was to die in a plane crash. She said something that stuck with me. She said, If you are afraid to live, you are just waiting to die. Nancy certainly lived. She was not afraid to dig in and enjoy life.
Not only that, but she did it with flair, enthusiasm and kindness. Over the past ten months, I became closer to Aunt Nancy in the wake of my own mothers (her sisters) death. I told her daughter, Jen that her kindness and care completely astounded me. I was touched every time that she popped into my life because I knew she was looking after me. I am grateful for the gift of having such a special Aunt in my life and I will keep her safely tucked away in my heart. I pray for Jennifer and Jack to have peace through this most difficult time. Love you.
Nancy Kocian
October 30, 2017
Nancy was absolutely one of the kindest, most generous, thoughtful people I've ever known. I can't remember a time, when chatting with her, that I didn't walk away with a smile on my face. I will miss her friendship, and I'll miss her kindness to our pets, and - of course - her baking. What a special woman Nancy was. I consider myself lucky to have shared so many spontaneous moments across our fence together. Much love to Jack and Jennifer.
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