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Thomas Foote Obituary
Thomas Raymond Foote, Tommy, born in Bridgeport CT on July 10, 1958, passed away Saturday July 23rd. He was the loving son of Elizabeth Foote and the late Loren Foote. Brother to Gary and Amy Silva, and her husband Ron. Graduating from Sacred Heart University with a bachelor's degree in Business Management, he was a proud owner of a successful business for over 35 years. Tom was charming and goofy all at the same time. He was funny and creative and enjoyed spending time with all of his family on Cape Cod. He will be greatly missed by many, especially his family Janet, Laura, and Brian. A Memorial Service will be held on Thursday July 28th at 5:30 PM at Stratford United Methodist Church, located at 2600 Main Street, Stratford CT. Online condolences may be made at www.spadaccinofuneralhome.com
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Lohini Nalli
August 21, 2016
Dear Janet, it was with great shock that we heard of the passing of your husband Tom.
Our deepest sympathies to you and your children--
Dr.Nalli and Lohini
Gigi
August 5, 2016
I miss you lots my friend im trying to make sense of tnis and my only thought is you are at peace which comforts me i will never forget you tommy im lost without you my bff .
Dan Massey
August 3, 2016
Dear Janet and family,
Judy and I are so very sorry for your loss. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Daniel and Judith Massey
Gia b
August 2, 2016
I thought of tommy today.he was such a great person he was gone too soon .i feel horrible and much love to his family .i really believe tommy is at peace janet mrs foote brian and laura you are all in my prayers heavens gained an angel fly free my friend.
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Chris Hanley
August 1, 2016
Dear Janell and Family,
I can't believe of this news! I am so saddened by the passing of Tom... Although I knew him for only a year, I know in my heart he was a good man who had a kind heart and always a sweet smile to share. I think of you guys every time I drive up that road to your old house on St. Croix. I truly enjoyed our brief times together here. I send my heartfelt condolences and positive happy energy to you and the whole family and to all his friends. God bless you... I will always remember Tom as long as I walk this earth... Peace and Love, Chris
frances wellner
July 31, 2016
TO THE FOOTE FAMILY I GIVE MY DEEPEST SINCEREST AND CONDOLENCES TO YOU
AND MAY TOM MAY HE RIP
Lili Diorio
July 31, 2016
Dear Mrs. Foote, Gary, Amy, & Janet,
It is with deep sadness that I learned of Tommy's untimely death. I have many memories of Tommy from the old days when we were just kids. Then, just a few years ago, Tom and I were both shocked when he came to install a sprinkler system at my home. And only a few weeks ago, I recommended Tommy to friends of mine, and he met with them to give a quote. Peace to each of you as you deal with this tremendous grief and loss.
Diane & Marc Carfo
July 31, 2016
Janet, just saw the news, so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you & your family during this very difficult time.
Chris Hull
July 30, 2016
Janet, Laura and Brian, My heart breaks to hear the news of Tommy's passing. I have such sweet memories of him and all of you. The picnics, camping on the cape etc... Being the new guy in the fold, he immediately made me feel so welcome and comfortable. You are all in my heart, thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace Tommy
janet corde
July 30, 2016
Janet, I'm so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I will keep you and your family in my prayers...
Loren,Cindy,Angela Foote
July 28, 2016
You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this tough time. Wishing we could be there to support your needs. Sending hugs to you all, Love Loren, Cindy, and Angela
July 28, 2016
Rip my friend so so very sad I will miss you.
Gia
July 28, 2016
I'm so sad and shocked to hear of Tom's passing.he was a wonderful kind person.always made me laugh.I will miss him.love to his family so very sorry rip my friend.
Eilish Bell
July 28, 2016
Janet, Laura & Brian, My heart goes out to all of you during this difficult time. I wish you peace of mind and heart. RIP Tommy RIP
Much Love, Eilish
Donna Barbar-Halpin
July 28, 2016
Janet, Laura, Brian & The Foote Family... Words Cannot Express How Sorry I Am To Hear About Your Loss. Always Keep His Memory Alive & Close To Your Heart. May The Angels Lead Him!! Rest Easy Tom
July 28, 2016
Our deepest sympathy to the entire family for your loss. Blessings and prayers sent to all of you.
Staff of Crosby Commons
Peter Harper
July 28, 2016
I can't belive it! Tom was so wonderful! A good friend to me.
So very sorry for your loss.
Debbie Rioux Scheck
July 28, 2016
Janet and Family, We are so sorry to hear about Toms passing. You are all in our thoughts.
Jim Baker
July 28, 2016
Janell, Laura and Brian We are so sorry to hear of this tragic loss! Hoping the great memories ease your tears! Jim and Sue (Truro)
Janet Delear
July 27, 2016
Janet, Brain, Laurie , Gary, Amy, and Mrs. Foote ( swim coach that's what we called her) - So sorry for your loss.... Memories of years on the swim team flooding back . Wishing you all peace, and love and strength. Blessings to all your family. With love, Janet Delear
July 27, 2016
Dear Jan & family I am so sorry to hear of Toms passing.I will always remember you & Tom shoveling the snow off the pond at Roosevelt Forest.Sorry for your loss.Larry Lynn
July 27, 2016
Janet and Family... I was so sorry to hear of your lost.
Deborah Capuano
Cindy Ritzinger Passmore
July 27, 2016
Dear Janet and family,There are no words to say how saddened I was to hear of Tom's passing. I will always remember his great smile and the fun times with classmates on Block Island. He was a wonderful friend. Please know that I will be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love to you,
Cindy Ritzinger Passmore
July 27, 2016
Janet and family. I am so sorry I will miss the service tomorrow as I will be in NYC babysitting my grand babies and will not be back in time. My prayers are with you all. Love Gina
July 27, 2016
Dear Janet, Brian and Laura, i was so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He was a great neighbor, always wiling to help with hospitality, a smile and good humor! You are in our thoughts and prayers. The Owen Family, Janet, Kevin, Jenna and Daniel
Rick PELAGGI
July 27, 2016
To Janet and all your family,Words cant describe your sorrow, My heart and Prayers go out to you, I worked for Tom in the mid 90,s, stratford landscaping, Tom was such a great guy, family man and a good friend,He will be missed by all, Forever in our hearts, Rick Pelaggi, and the entire Pelaggi family,
July 27, 2016
My condolences to Thomas' family. May the God of comfort be with you all in your time of need.
Bonnie Waring (Snelgrove)
July 27, 2016
To the entire Foote family
I have many fond memories of Tommy growing up especially playing four corners in the road in front of your house. By thoughts and prayers go out to all.
Cathi Doherty
July 27, 2016
So sorry to hear of Tommy's passing... Many fond memories of him- thinking of his family, my condolences.
July 27, 2016
Dear Janet and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you, Isabel, Ernie, and Ava
July 27, 2016
Janet, Laura, and Brian,
So sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathies are with you all at this difficult time.
John and Louise Vargoshe
July 27, 2016
Our deepest sympathy to the entire family for your loss. May you find the memories of Tom comforting at this sorrowful time. May God bless you all. Kenny & Sylvie Mair
July 27, 2016
Janet and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bob and Mary Ann Nassetta
Gary Cervone
July 27, 2016
Very sorry for your loss. Have not seen Tommy in many years, but will remember a great guy, and friend.
July 27, 2016
Our hearts and prayers are with Janel, Laura, and Brian. Tom will be missed. Love to you all, June and Walt
Vickie and Tom McLoughlin
July 27, 2016
So sorry Betty, Gary, Amy, Laura, Brian and Janet. Such a difficult thing to no longer have someone in our lives that touched us in so many ways. Tom has found peace. God Bless you all.
July 26, 2016
To the entire Foote family and all those who loved Tom, may the peace of God guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. We are truely sorry for your loss! Bob and Sue Green
Brian Hamilton
July 26, 2016
No words can describe how sorry I am for your loss. Tom was a good guy in high school, and I saw him for some years after on, but then I moved to Florida and have been gone for decades now. Five years ago, I went to our high school reunion , and I was able to spend quality time with Tom at his table. We had a very deep and spiritual conversation , and he shared insights that brought me a great sense of happiness and joy. Which illustrates the type of guy Tom was, hadn't seen him in decades and was able to reconnect with him effortlessly. He made me feel at home again. Our 40th high school reunion is this weekend. I was looking forward to seeing him. I will miss Tom. May God bless you all.
July 26, 2016
Dear Janet & family....We are so saddened to hear about Tom's passing.....Thoughts and prayers are with you.....God bless my friend...xo Carrie & Lee Everetts
traci desautels
July 26, 2016
janet, Laura and brian, my heart is broken for your sadness. Oxoxo.
Doug Onieu
July 26, 2016
To all of Toms family and friends. Words can't express. Many wonderful memories and good times. Thoughts and prayers for all. God Bless
Frank & Susan Reynolds
July 26, 2016
To the entire Foote family; Susan and I would like to express our deepest condolences on your loss. Tom and I were the best of friends over the years going back to our days at Sacred Heart University and he will be sorely missed. We will remember him as a loyal friend who was always quick with a smile, with a big heart and great love for family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
July 26, 2016
Dear Janet, Laura and Brian, We are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Tom was a wonderful, joyful man with an infectious smile. With heartfelt sympathy, Judy and Marisa Smith
Caryn Hammond
July 26, 2016
I'm so terribly sorry to hear about your loss. May God bless and hold you close as you grieve. Blessings and prayers to all of you.
Michelle & Keith Dalling
July 26, 2016
To Janet and the family of Tom
Keith and I are so deeply saddened to hear of Tom's passing. He was a lot of fun to be with. May he rest in eternal paradise. You're all in our thoughts and prayers! God Bless You All. ❤
Cheryl Battagliotti
July 26, 2016
Dear Family: I am very sorry for your loss. I am praying for The Lord to bring peace and comfort to you all today and always.
Sal Aurelia
July 26, 2016
To the Foote Family, I want you to know I share in your grief over the loss of Tom. We were the best of friends and I know he will be sorely missed by you, me, and all who knew him. Take comfort in knowing that he is now resting in the arms of our Lord. My deepest condolences to you and your families. You are all continuously in my thoughts and prayers.
With heartfelt Love...
The Staff of Spadaccino Funeral Home
July 27, 2016
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
Bonnie & Ray Huey
July 26, 2016
Dear Janet, Betty and family,
Bonnie and I are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this very sad time.
July 26, 2016
To the entire Foote Family; I am deeply saddened to hear of Tom's passing. I have many happy memories of my long time friend. Tom was a great fun and loving man. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Diane Witiak-Kosarko
Vince & Peg Cavaliere
July 26, 2016
To the entire Foote Family,,
we are deeply saddened by your loss,our hearts go out to you.
you are all in our thoughts and prayers...
July 26, 2016
To Janet and the entire family...I am so sorry for your loss of husband father brother and son...Tom was a great guy and a very good friend to my brother and myself, David and I want you all to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. love Bonnie Milroy McBennett and David Milroy
Dawn Savo
July 26, 2016
Dear Amy, so sorry for your loss. I only met your brother a few times when we were young and always thought of him as a fun loving kinda guy. I know you will miss him. Remember the good times. God bless you and your family.
John Broadbin
July 25, 2016
Tom was always a friend of mine. We wouldn't see each other for extended periods of time but we would pick up where we left off when we got together again. There was always a measure of trust in our friendship.
Now he can rest. We will resume our conversation the next time we see each other.
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