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CYNTHIA SILVERMAN Obituary

SILVERMAN--Cynthia. September 23, 1990 - December 14, 2019. Cynthia Leigh Silverman passed away unexpectedly on the 14th of December 2019 at the young age of 29. She was the only child of Catharine Crowell Regan and Kenneth Silverman of Key West, Florida and Amagansett, New York. She was a devoted New Yorker - born in New York University Hospital and she remained in the city for the duration of her short life. As a young child, Cynthia's exceptional intelligence was evident in the early days of her life. She needed to know about everything she could see. She attended the Dalton School and always said it was an important part of her intellectual life. Later in life, she graduated cum laude from Hunter College, the City University of New York. While at Hunter, she worked in the Center for Student Achievement successfully providing academic guidance to students in need of help. She became passionate about equal rights and justice and decided that the best way to be effective was to become a lawyer. Cynthia turned down the Carswell Merit Scholarship from Brooklyn College in order to study for a joint degree in Law and International affairs from the City University of New York. Aside from her academic pursuits, Cynthia had a beautiful voice and for many years she sang in the choir of the Church of the Heavenly Rest in Manhattan. Most of her summers were spent at the beach in Amagansett and she also spent vacation time scuba diving with her friends in Bonaire. She was an avid skier, went annually, often with her mother, Kate. Cynthia's ancestry dates to 1637 when Yelverton Crowell settled in Charleston, Massachusetts. Cynthia also descended James P. Allaire (1785-1858) who founded the Allaire Iron Works, the first marine steam engine company in New York and the largest in the United States. After the death of James Fulton, owner of Fulton's Steamship works, Allaire became partners with Charles Stoudinger, Fulton's chief engineer. Together they built the engine for Fulton's first steamship design which became the first steam powered vessel to cross the Atlantic. Upon Allaire's retirement, the company was taken over by Cornelius Vanderbilt. In addition to her loving parents, Cynthia is survived by her two aunts, Dr. Janet Goodman and Anna Barfield of London and Key West, Florida, her stand-in grandparents Elizabeth and Richard Stone of New York City as well as many cousins and caring friends. A Memorial Service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her name to The Hunter College Foundation, 696 Park Avenue, Suite E1313, New York, NY 10065 or online at hunter.cuny.edu/give.

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Published by New York Times on Jan. 5, 2020.

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Joan and Bob Cristofaro

January 18, 2020

It is with much sorrow we receive the news of Cynthia's passing. A beautiful, bright light that radiated in the hearts of many, gone too soon. Our sincerest condolences and heartfelt sympathies to Kate, Ken, and family.

V.R

January 8, 2020

I am so terribly sorry and saddened that this happened. I was looking forward to seeing Cynthia next semester at CUNY. We sat next to each other in orientation and the first thing I remember about her is her telling me about how she hurt her foot on the train stairs that morning. I was impressed that she managed to make it to class. I think I would have given up and gone home. To her family and friends: I can only hope that the pain of her passing will lessen with time, and that memories of her will shine vibrantly to replace it.

Arthur Ford

January 7, 2020

Cynthia was a wonderful person and a true friend. She will always remain in my thoughts and my heart.

Degna Levister

January 7, 2020

Such a tragic loss of a beautiful bright pursuing her goals for the benefit of everyone. My prayer to all her close friends and family.

Jacqueline Z

January 7, 2020

Cynthia was an extremely sweet and genuine person. She will be and already is greatly missed and my heart goes out to her family.

Jeri Milan

January 7, 2020

My heart goes out to the family of Cynthia: she seemed really special and wonderfully made. I hope that you find comfort and peace during this difficult time.

Carol Schrager

January 6, 2020

We were so saddened to learn of Cynthia's untimely passing. We will always remember her sparkling intellect and sense of humor. Our hearts go out to Ken and Kate, and all of Cynthia's family and friends. In deepest sympathy, the Schrager/Gitlin family.

Evangeline Morphos (Brinkley)

January 5, 2020

Sending all of my love to Cynthia's family. Cynthia and my daughter, Elly Brinkley, were at Dalton together and I remember her as brilliant, funny and passionate. When the girls were in the fourth grade, I was the chaperon on a school trip to the Lower East Side. Cyntha was in my group and as I was fumbling with the map and itinerary, Cynthia confidently and firmly took the materials from my hands and proceeded to guide us on a perfectly conducted tour for the rest of the afternoon. She was a delight.

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