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ERWIN STALLER Obituary

STALLER--Erwin P. (1921-2019) Erwin P. Staller, a Long Island real estate developer and philanthropist, died on February 11, 2019 at his home in Lloyd Harbor, NY. He was 97. Starting in the late 1950's, Erwin P. Staller, along with his father, Max Staller, was among the first entrepreneurs to develop retail shopping centers on Long Island. These early centers were anchored by a supermarket, drug store, and a U.S. Post Office. Over the next 30 years, the company prospered and the two men developed numerous shopping centers as well as office buildings and industrial buildings across Long Island and Connecticut. After the death of Max Staller in 1987, the Staller family decided to honor Erwin's parents by donating the first million-dollar gift to Stony Brook University, establishing The Staller Center for the Arts in memory of Max and Mary Staller. Erwin P. Staller received an Honorary Doctorate of Humane Letters at the Stony Brook University Commencement in 2001. He served on the Stony Brook Foundation Board of Trustees for over 30 years. Raised in Hempstead, Long Island, Erwin graduated from Hempstead High School. He attended Allegheny College before enlisting in the U.S. Army, where he served in the Signal Corps during World War II. After the war, he returned to Long Island, and in 1946 married Pearl "Freddie" Friedman whom he had dated in high school. They remained married for almost 73 years and had five children. Erwin is survived by his wife, four children and their spouses, and nine grandchildren. A memorial service will be held at The Staller Center for the Arts, Stony Brook University on April 27th at 1:00pm.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 24, 2019.

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Joel Katz

February 18, 2025

I had the privelege of meeting Erwin through work in the early 1970's. Erwin built a shopping center and I was working in a supermarket company's real estate office. I was inexperienced and was fortunate to have been mentored by Erwin. He completed the center in Rocky Point Long Island with the grace and professionalism he lived his life. Erwin asked me to become a partner in the acquisition and renovation of a shopping center years later. I worked with his son Carey and his professional organization to complete the project. Erwin was a true gentlement. His smile was infectious. His generosity and interlect have stayed with me all my life. He continued the legacy of his family and passed the torch to Carey. A true blessing for me to have known Erwin and his family.

Joel Katz

February 20, 2020

I met Erwin, Mr. Staller, very early in my business life when working for a retail company. I observed how professional Erwin was as he negotiated a lease to build a store for the company. It was the beginning of my education that would result in me becoming a commercial real estate developer. Erwin was always gracious, polite and professional. Much later, Erwin invited me to participate in a commercial real estate venture. That was the ultimate compliment from a true gentlemen. As a result, I had the pleasure of working with Ermin's son Cary. As I approach the end of my business life, I am thankful and fell blessed to have know Erwin and his family.

Jeanne Potere Sepersky

March 2, 2019

I worked for Erwin first in the Wholesale Fruit & Produce business from the early 50's and afterwards in the real estate business. Erwin was a wonderful boss. He was compassionate, honorable and a gentlemen. I had the utmost respect for him. I loved my job and looked forward each day to go to work. He was so proud of his wife Freddie and his children.
Erwin, may you Rest in Peace.

Joel Katz

February 28, 2019

Dear Cary:
I was so sorry to read of your father's passing. I was blessed to meet him very early in my real estate career. He always treated me and everyone with kindness and respect. I was overwhelmed when he asked me to join in the Westbury project. There will always be a smile on my face when I think of your father.
Warmest condolences and wishes to you and your family.

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