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THOMAS DeMAR Obituary
"TJ" THOMAS JAMES, age 43, passed suddenly, March 6th, 2012, in Knoxville TN. He is survived by his son, Antonio; his parents, Diane (Eyre) and Thomas E.; 2 sisters, Donna and Rebecca; also 2 nieces, 2 nephews and a great nephew. A Memorial Service where we will celebrate his life will be held at St. Mark's Church, Frankford, 4442 Frankford Ave., Phila. PA 19124, followed by Interment, on Sat. April 21, 2012, at 2 P.M. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to American Diabetes Assoc. Memorial Program, P.O. Box 13067, Alexandria, VA 22312 or http://www.diabetes.org/donate
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Memories and Condolences
for THOMAS DeMAR
Barry Perlman
May 13, 2012
It's been about a month since I learned of Tj's passing. In that time, I've been trying to make sense of it and to find the right words to write here. I've fallen short in both attempts. In part, I think it's because there is no real "sense" or just the "right" words; especially briefly expressed.
Above all else, Tj was a passionate person; perhaps, to a fault. He always gave that proverbial 110% to whatever he did. He could be the most understanding and tolerant person, or not at all. He was most passionate about injustices to others; in particular, those who were seen as disenfranchised or powerless in some way. This was especially true of anyone who was disabled in any way.
Tj would not let himself or others endure any disability without a "fight". He fought to enable himself and others to overcome limits imposed on them either by themselves or by others. He fought by example!
At times, Tj's passion could exceed the remedy required. But if there was a wrong to be righted, he was there. And, at times, his concern for others could show no bounds.
I know that Tj touched so many in his caring, concerned, and thoughtful ways he had for others. Perhaps, that is the "sense" we are to make of his passing.
I also know that he will be missed by me and the many he touched! Perhaps that will be of some comfort to his Mom, his family, and friends. And, perhaps, now Tj will Rest In Peace!
Lynnette Tucker
April 21, 2012
TJ, I'll miss you; the great conversations we had and your wonderful cooking :) The world was a better place with you in it, and I'm a better person for having known you.
April 20, 2012
TJ, knew you when you were s little gut and spent a lot of fun times with you and your family..May God hold you tightly in his embrace..Love Oscar & Joan
Arline Barnes
April 20, 2012
TJ, I didn't know you in person. But I did know you thru your Mom. I do know that you are a big loss to your Mother and the rest of family. Just keep your arms around them your hugs will help them get through the hard times. My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with all of you.
Cyndi Cassel-Russell
April 20, 2012
High School Graduation doesn't seem that long ago. Rest in Peace TJ! My thoughts and prayers are with your family!
Kelli Donlen
April 19, 2012
I miss you old friend. God bless you and your family. So thankful for getting back in touch. With love, Kelli
Teresa Masingo
April 19, 2012
TJ will be greatly missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with are with you all during this time of grief.
Vivian Brown
April 19, 2012
TJ DeMar was a wonderful co-worker and dear friend, his sudden death is a terrible loss to each of us. I am very glad his life is being Celebrated by those he cared for and who also cared for him. My heartfelt sympathy to those grieving. The world is sadder without his infectious, beautiful smile.
Kathy Johns
April 19, 2012
I worked with TJ in Knoxville during his training period. He was a joy to work with and I enjoyed his wit. He was always smiling and found good in most things even when they were negative. As TJ, I am a diabetic and we shared stories about our insulin pumps and Dr. Page. He will be missed but, now he is taking care of the little ones in Heaven.
Knox DCS Family
April 19, 2012
TJ was a wonderful person and will be missed.
Laura Reneau
April 19, 2012
We will miss you TJ. We opened the bottle of wine you had given us and had a toast in your memory. Wish we had done it sooner.
Rest in Peace!
We will see you later...
Diane DeMar
April 19, 2012
This is a small glimmer of the light of pride in my heart at what a wonderful young man you were and all you accomplished in your all too short life.
Love Eternal,
Mom
April 19, 2012
I appreciated TJ's wittiness and well needed information surrounding diabetes. He was a good friend. RIP Mr. T. J. DeMar. Ride your bike all over HEAVEN!
April 19, 2012
God Bless you all through your Time of Grief..
Jim Whyte
April 19, 2012
I remember TJ as a bubbling personality. Loved working with him, please know he is missed. Jim Whyte, DCS Facilitator, Smokey Mountain
April 19, 2012
TJ was such as special man that loved and cared in many ways and touched many people, I will miss him always. Wendy
ginny wininger
April 19, 2012
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
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