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DWYER, RAYMOND T.
age 98, of Warwick, a longtime business teacher, coach, and nationally recognized sports official, passed away on Wednesday, April 28, 2021. He was the husband of Rose E. (Hughes) Dwyer. They were married for 69 years.
Born in the Rumford section of East Providence, a son of the late Edward M. and Mary F. (Mather) Dwyer, he lived in Warwick since 1954. He was a graduate of LaSalle Academy, where he earned varsity letters in cross country, indoor and outdoor track, served as Captain in his senior year, and was a member of the Rams 4x800 Championship Penn Relays team. He proudly wore the commemorative watch throughout his lifetime.
During a three-year tour as a U.S. Navy Seabee in World War II, he won the North Africa Low Hurdles and Long Jump Championships, and competed in the Serviceman's Olympics in Rome, Italy.
He then entered Rhode Island State College (now the University of Rhode Island), where he earned nine varsity letters in cross country, indoor and outdoor track and field. In addition to athletics, he served as president for the Rhode Island Club, Treasurer of Sigma Alpha Epsilon, moderator of the Senior Honor Society Sachems, and Sports Editor of the Grist Yearbook.
Graduating from college with a B.S. in Accounting in 1950, he began teaching and coaching at LaSalle Academy, and then Cranston High School East from 1958 to 1984. He coached cross country and track at the high school and collegiate level for 52 years, including stints at LaSalle Academy and Cranston East, as well as Bishop Hendricken High School, Pilgrim High School, Rhode Island College, Bryant University, and Roger Williams University.
Ray served as secretary-treasurer of the Rhode Island Interscholastic Injury Fund for more than four decades. Instrumental in changing the Injury Fund's policy of covering only football injuries to also providing insurance coverage for all, he found it extremely rewarding to be involved in a program that helped prevent the families of injured athletes from suffering great financial hardship.
Ray also served as director of numerous road races in Rhode Island, including the first two Ocean State Marathons. Many RI races carry his name. A highly respected Rhode Island Track and USA Track & Field Official, he frequently officiated as a referee and head judge. He was an official starter for the National Cerebral Palsy Games in Fort Worth, Texas and the International Disabled Games.
He found the time he spent working with athletes with physical disabilities to be especially rewarding. The Special Olympics Rhode Island, the New England Wheelchair Athletic Association and the National Cerebral Palsy Athletic Association were dear to his heart.
Mr. Dwyer was included in the first class of inductees into the Rhode Island Interscholastic League Hall of Fame in 2003. He has also been inducted into the URI Hall of Fame along with about a dozen other Halls of Fame and was the recipient of many other honors, a testament to the profound impact Dwyer had on Rhode Island student-athletes of all ages and abilities for more than a half century.
In addition to his wife, he is survived by two daughters and two sons, Kathleen R. Brennan and her husband Jack, Raymond T. Dwyer, Jr. and his wife Pat, Mary F. Dwyer, and Donald E. Dwyer and his wife Lil, all of Warwick; a sister, Mildred Lanham of LaPlata, MD; twelve grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. He was the father of the late Danny Patrick Dwyer, and the brother of the late Edward M. Dwyer, Jr.
He was a proud father and grandfather and delighted in the successes of his children and grandchildren. He attended numerous AAU meets, baseball games, dance recitals and family celebrations.
The sport of track was Ray's life passion. All conversations with him eventually turned to track. As a young man he taught baseball to the neighborhood kids emphasizing running bases as instrumental to the game. As an elder he longed to run down the street just one more time. God speed.
Special thanks to Tom and Kathy Kenwood for their years of friendship and support bringing Ray to the monthly luncheon for track coaches and various track meets and ceremonial events. He cherished these times.
His funeral, and burial with military honors, will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to the RI Interscholastic Injury Fund, c/o Kathleen Kelley, 262 Abbott Run Valley Road, Cumberland, RI 02864, or to Special Olympics RI, 370 George Washington Highway, Smithfield, RI 02917. To leave condolence messages, please visit www.barrettandcotter.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on May 2, 2021.

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John Curley

August 19, 2025

Ray was my home room teacher at Cranston High School. I also knew him from Bayside Golf Club in Warwick. Ray had a summer job there and I used to play golf there with my dad. Ray was a great man. Great personality!

Sam Messina

April 28, 2024

Absolutely my favorite teacher throughout all of my grades. Highly respected by all at Cranston High East. 1967 graduate.

Gary Griffin

April 26, 2024

We never forget the ones who made us what we are today. Mr. Dwyer, a class person you never forget.

Sam Messina

December 17, 2023

The absolute best teacher I've ever had.

Donald M. Aquilante

April 26, 2023

Always remembered.

Gary Griffin

April 26, 2023

One of the most positive people I ever encountered in my sports experiences. A real class gentleman who encouraged many with a positive attitude.

Donald A.

February 14, 2023

My favorite snack is still peanut butter, cracker jacks and marshmallows-does anyone else remember? Mr. Dwyers's favorite saying when you did not know an answer.

Gary Griffin

July 5, 2022

I recall Mr. Dwyer at many cross country track meets I participated in and at PHS when I played baseball. He was always inspiring everyone and encouraged hundreds. RIP

David Jervis

May 6, 2021

It was Coach Dwyer who encouraged me to join the Cross Country team at Hendricken in the Fall of 1973, my sophomore year. I remember him as a very knowledgeable and patient man, and someone I have never forgotten. RIP, Coach...

Ruth Stone

May 5, 2021

Ray,
So sorry to learn of your Dad's passing.
A life well-lived and filled with tremendous accomplishments. May the tremendous accomplishments both professionally and on the sports arena bring to you and yours consolation and everlasting memories.
God Speed
Ruth Stone

Jim Meehan

May 5, 2021

I had Mr. Dwyer for home room in 1963. I also sat in the back of a book keeping class that he was teaching when the announcement of JFK shooting came on the PA. I don't remember what he said I just remember that I remember him as a class guy because of the way he said it. Years later when my son was running track and cross country I came in contact with him at several meets and again was reminded of what a classy guy he was. I am a better man for having known you and I thank you for that. Rest in peace Ray.

Paul Giarrusso

May 5, 2021

Ray and family,
Very sorry for your loss . May he RIP

Nick DiFilippo

May 3, 2021

To the Dwyer family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the passing of this fine man.
We coached together at RIC many years ago and I was fortunate enough to reconnect with him while I was at Pilgrim High School.
Ray was always positive was always a pleasure to be around.
Godspeed Ray.

Tom Glavin, La Salle Academy

May 3, 2021

On behalf of La Salle Academy, I extend our sincere sympathy to the Dwyer Family on Ray's passing. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Ray, I have heard numerous stories of what a fine athlete, teacher, coach and human being he was. Ray's name has been entered into the Book of Prayers in the Christian Brothers Chapel.

May pleasant memories comfort you during this time.

Live Jesus in our hearts!

Donald M. Aquilante

May 2, 2021

The Teacher I look up to. I enjoyed the way he taught Bookkeeping at Cranston East. I still talk about him and it is 50years that I Graduated from Cranston Eastin 1971. One of his sayings, if someone did not know an answer was.....peanut butter, cracker jacks or marsh mellows! my favorite Teacher is still, Raymond "The Fighting Irishman" Dwyer!!

Carol McNamara

May 2, 2021

Ray was a teacher of mine at Cranston East. After graduating from College, I taught at Cranston East and he was a coworker . Ray always had a smile on his face every morning. He always had a kind word for teachers and students. He was a great teacher, and will be missed.

Brenda Myette

May 2, 2021

Condolences from David Fazio and Edward Myette to the Dwyer Family We were very fortunate special olympians who had the great good fortune to be coached by Coach Dwyer when we were at Cranston East. We loved him and we were just talking about him on Friday night ,April 30,2021. Dave and Ed

Tony Dore

May 2, 2021

Ray was my cross country and track coach at Cranston East 1961-1963 and had been a instrumental influence in my life.We

I am one of the lucky ones to have been touched by his spirit.

My condolences to all that now live in a world without him.

Rest in peace

Tom Mulvey

May 2, 2021

To the Dwyer family my sincere condolences on the passing of Ray. I had the good fortune of having him as an excellent teacher at LaSalle. Although small of statue, he was a giant in life and in his sport. He led a long and productive life and made his profession, community, state and country better places by his many outstanding contributions. Now that he has run the good race, may he rest in peace.

Pamela

May 2, 2021

Mr. Dwyer was my typing teacher during my senior year of high school. He was a great teacher, as well as an amazing, caring person. I also thank him for his service to our country. Godspeed, Mr. Dwyer. My condolences to his family and friends.

Donna E Madden

May 2, 2021

When I asked Ray if he would like to help me start a Special Olympic track team at East he didn't think twice about saying yes. The rest is history. He changed the lives of my students and countless other Special Olympic athletes. We all loved and respected Coach Dwyer. My deepest sympathy to his wife and family. His legacy will live on.

Arlene Rainer

May 2, 2021

I remember Mr Dwyer fondly as my English teacher at Cranston East. I also remember seeing him officiate at many track meets. My sincere sympathy to his family.

Joe andrade

May 2, 2021

My condolences to the family

paul zisserson

May 2, 2021

Condolences to the Dwyer family. What a wonderfully energetic man who was a colleague at East. He would always greet one with a twinkle in his eyes, along with a corny joke or two. A taskmaster in the classroom who, though, was adored by his students. Ray was among the best and I always felt special knowing him.

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