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Jarett Yoder Obituary
Jarett M. Yoder, 26, of Mohnton, passed away Tuesday, April 9th in Afghanistan.
Jarett was born in Reading on November 10th, 1986. He was the son of Diane C. (nee Allcroft) and Gary L. Yoder of Richmond Township.
Jarett recently married Heather L. Garay-Yoder on July 7th, 2012, just prior to his deployment to Afghanistan.
He was a highly trained solider and Apache helicopter pilot serving with B
Company, 1/104th Aviation Regiment, 28th Combat Aviation Brigade, 28th Infantry Division based out of Fort Indiantown Gap, PA.
Jarett was posthumously awarded the Bronze Star Medal, Air Medal, and NATO Medal for his service in Afghanistan.
Other distinguished awards he received include
a Combat Infantryman Badge, Combat Action Badge, Afghanistan Campaign Medal with Bronze service star, and Iraq Campaign Medal with Bronze service star.
Jarett was a 2005 Graduate of Oley Valley High School. He enjoyed participating in athletics such as soccer, track and field, and wrestling. Jarett was also very interested in the arts as he enjoyed pottery.
Jarett was preceded in death by his grandfather, Paul Yoder.
In addition to Jarett's immediate family, he is survived by his paternal grandmother Doris Yoder, maternal grandparents Robert and Gail Allcroft, sister Amanda Yoder, and brother Bryon Yoder. Amanda and Bryon also serve in the PA Army National Guard.
Furthermore, he is also survived by his mother and father-in-law, Diane L. Newcomb and Joseph Garay of Mohnton, PA, sister-in-law Melissa Garay Belinski, wife of Jonathan Belinski, Reading, PA, and sister-in-law Ashley Garay, West Chester, PA.
Jarett had five nieces: Kayla, Jailyn, Willow, Cam-ila and Stella; and two nephews, Lucas and Jack.
Friends who wish to pay their respects are encouraged to do so on Sunday, April 21st from 6-8 p.m. at the Calvary United Christ Church located at Centre Avenue and Oley Street in Reading, PA. Religious service will commence at 8 p.m. on Sunday, April 21st. Br. Douglas Didyoung, SALM, Rev. Dr. Stephen Ohnsman and Chaplain Ronald Miller, U.S. Army (ret.) will deliver the services.
Friends are also invited to gather Monday, April 22nd from 9-11 a.m. at Feeney Funeral Home. Procession to cemetery will leave the funeral home at 11:30 a.m. Interment will be at Forest Hills Memorial Park in Mt. Penn, PA.
Family requests donations be made to the "Jarett Yoder Scholarship Fund." Those who have donations can either send a check to the family directly at P.O. Box 139, Oley, PA 19547, or utilize any Wells Fargo Bank. The teller can assist with the donation.
Additionally, you can donate to the "Jarett Yoder
Memorial Fund." Proceeds will be dispersed to charities on behalf of Jarett Yoder. Please deposit checks at P.O. Box 402, Bowmansville, PA 17507 or any local Wells Fargo Bank.
Arrangements entrusted to the John P. Feeney Funeral Home in Reading's Centre Park Historic District, 625 N. 4th St. at Centre Ave., Reading, PA 19601.
If you are planning to attend the graveside services at the cemetery on Monday, please be at the funeral home by 10:30 a.m. Please do not drive directly to the cemetery.
Obituary, directions and condolences at www.johnfeeneyfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jarett Yoder
Mike Wil
July 22, 2017
Only the good die young. Honestly life is hard and i appreciate your family members dedication and sacrifice to this country and this being the land of the free because of the brave, because of service members like him i am enteral thankful.
Kevin Moquin
April 11, 2014
Dianne and family. I am so sorry for the loss of your Son Jarret. My The Lord comfort you all and during this terrible tragedy. The Moquins.
Charlie Gili
August 17, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Yoder Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to troops in Afghanistan this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Jarett M. Yoder US Army Chief Warrant Officer 2. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Sylvia Kronenwetter
May 28, 2013
To the Yoder Family, please accept my deepest condolences for the loss of your loved one Jarett, and my sincerest gratitude for his service for our country.
God Bless you Chief Warrant Officer Jarett M. Yoder...you will not be forgotten.
Dave Franke
May 27, 2013
Jarett, Today we honor those who stood bravely in the honor of our country, the brevity when opposed, and the moral and physical dignity to stand for the principles in which our great Country was founded. Your life is not forgotten, your sacrifice not in vain, you have been relieved of your duty as a new guard will take your place! You dutifully answered your call, provided leadership, and chose to be the best of the best... most soldiers are... and you follow a traditional calling, answered without question, and gave everything you had... now my friend, we remember you as a hero, an honorable soldier, friend, and family man who is here only in memory, but always in mind, but for a brief recall moment it takes to return in thought! Your family still struggles with your loss, that will never change... a Proud Country will recall every year on this date, and many more of us will truly know your sacrifice by the emptiness you leave in our heart! There will be no more battles, for now... peace is at hand... forevermore! God Bless You, and all who Love you!
S MacDaniel
May 26, 2013
I know there are no words to say at this time, except how sorry that I am. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Jarett will never be forgotten.
For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I'm home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I'm only a civilian
And I don't even know if it's allowed
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
For those missing in action;
for those who didn't make it home.
I know you're in God's presence you are not alone.
For every neatly folded flag;
for every shattered family
I will do the only thing I know to dignify your memory.
I salute you, allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
my humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you .
I Salute You.
Suzanne MacDaniel - A Proud Aunt
Colonie, NY
SGT. David M. Fisher
KIA 12/1/04 - Iraq
Troy Ziegler
April 28, 2013
So very Sorry for your loss my God help you in your to or sorrow. Your son will never be forgotten.
Mom and Dad Garay
April 27, 2013
Jarett you were more like a son, than a son-in-law. Heather was blessed to have you for her husband and we will always have you deep within our heart!
Henryk Zaleski
April 24, 2013
Rest in peace Jarett.
Grant Parker
April 23, 2013
So sorry for the loss of your son,a true hero!
Grant& Carol Parker,Sebring,Fl"
(T)Sgt Zachary Neithamer
April 22, 2013
I am truly sorry for your loss. Jarett was a great teammate and I know an even better soldier. He is an American hero, someone I am proud to have known.
April 22, 2013
Aunt Dolly and Uncle Joel we are so sorry for your loss
April 22, 2013
We often forget that freedom is not free. We are saddened at the great cost your family has paid for our freedom. We will never forget the high price your family paid and always be eternally grateful!
May your loved one soar on Eagles wings for the great courage he has shown, our freedom which he fought for and his love of country for which he gave
We pray God will comfort you in your grief and time will ease your pain... God Bless!
From : Jeff and Sharon (Exeter,PA)
john wallace
April 22, 2013
sorry for your loss
Fogel Family
April 22, 2013
Thank you Jarett for the ultimate sacrifice you gave for our country. May your family and friends be proud and find comfort knowing what a hero you are and always will be. May God be with you all during this difficult time.
Dannigirl
April 22, 2013
Rest easy in paradise Jarett, thank you for your sacrifice for our country. God bless your family and friends !
April 22, 2013
Jarett did not die in vain. He has given the ultimate duty to his country.May your loved one soar on Eagles wings for the great courage he has shown, our freedom which he fought for and the love of country for which he gave...God Bless.
From Jeff & Sharon (Exeter, PA)
Sue Melot
April 22, 2013
Our thoughts and Prayers go out to your family. We are so sorry for your loss and will never forget the sacrifice your family made for this country!
Dawn Adams
April 22, 2013
Heartfelt sympathy on the tragic loss of your son. He has given the ultimate sacrifice for his country. Our prayers are with you.
April 22, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss of your son and I truly wish you and your family peace and tranquility through such a tough time! God only chooses the bravest so the light will shine forever! May Jarrett light be with you all! Sincerely Cindy Angstadt
Boulden Family
April 22, 2013
My heart goes out to the Yoder family. Thank you Jarett for being a true American hero. May you watch over your family and friends, and give them strength and remind them of all the memories you shared. Thank you for the sacrifice so we all can continue to be free, may you rest in paradise!! God Bless!
Kathy Giovengo
April 22, 2013
Thank you for your selfless service. May your family, friends & brothers find peace in the future. My son serves with the 104th in Afghanistan. Your ultimate sacrifice for our freedom will not be forgotten. RIP
Chere' High-Robles
April 22, 2013
Thank you for the ultimate sacrifice that you made for all of us to be FREE. May your family find peace in the years to come.
Kathleen Hurst
April 22, 2013
God Bless you Jarett and keep you . You are an American Hero God Bless you and Your Family WE mourn your loss and grateful for your service.
Sandi Emore
April 22, 2013
Thanks for your service. God bless all of your family with sympathy jess & Sandi Richardson Joe & Beth Young & Dan & Sandy Emore
April 21, 2013
so sorry for you lose our prays are with you and your family we will pray that every thing will be ok with heather love you all uncle joel and aunt dolly
Lisa Fronina (An Army Mom)
April 21, 2013
Thank You for your service and sacrifice. May your family find comfort in knowing they now have a Special Angel watching over them.
An Air Force Mom
April 21, 2013
Thank you Jarett for serving our country. A Nation mourns your loss. Thoughts and prayer to your family.
Carrie & Mark Goodman
April 21, 2013
My thoughts & prayers to the Yoder Family. You were an American Hero thanks for serving our country
Cindy Fisher
April 21, 2013
Diane,Gary, Bryon,Amanda,and Heather and the family and friends, Jarett was a fine young man and myself and my sons Eddie and Adam. We would like you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers RIP Jarett thank you Jarett
Templin's
April 21, 2013
Thank you for your service Jarett. You will be missed by so many people. May you rest in peace and watch over your loving family.
Wendy (National Guard Mom)
April 21, 2013
Jarett will always be remembered as an American Hero. He gave selflessly to our country and America will be eternally grateful for that. May God comfort his family and may He ease their pain and give them the strength they need.
Ty & Nora Schell
April 21, 2013
May you and all who knew Jarett find peace knowing he is a hero and is an angel watching over his wife and his family. Warm hugs to the Garay and Yoder family.
george zuber
April 21, 2013
Thank you for serving may god be. With you
Peg McCowan
April 21, 2013
My deepest condolences to Heather, Diane, Joe and all the Yoder family.
Meghan C
April 21, 2013
Thank you for serving! So sorry for your loss Heather and family.
Army Mom
April 21, 2013
God bless Jarett and his family. Thank you for your service.
George and Leslie Hanks
April 21, 2013
We hope that the love and concern of others will help you at this very difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers each and every day.
Judy Barron
April 21, 2013
Bless you and your family your son will never be forgotten. God be with you in your time of need.
Patti Hazen
April 21, 2013
I didn't know you Jarett yet the things people are saying about you are nothing but wonderful. Your gone at such a young age God must have wanted a Hero Angel to watch over all of us. My heart goes out to Heather and Family to help mend the pain of a such a great lose. God Bless you all
Brian Heft
April 21, 2013
Although I never met Jarett, I know of him from my son who served with him in Iraq. Thank you for your selfless service Jarett. Bryon, I hope God brings you some comfort at this difficult time. I'd be at the services if I weren't out of the country. My prayers and condolances are with you and the rest of Jarett's family.
Elsa Martinez
April 21, 2013
Thank you for your son service god bless my heart goes out to u and family. From marine mom.
ellen Rosado
April 20, 2013
Thank You for serving. You are a True Hero. May you Rest in Peace.
DOATY
April 20, 2013
THANK YOU JARETT
Cindy Ramos
April 20, 2013
Thank you for serving our country. sending prayers to the family
April 20, 2013
Yoder Family,
I was sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.
Christine (Brightbill) Woodman
April 20, 2013
Deepest sympathy to your family. May God bless you all..
Another National Guard Mom.
Rebecca Weisser Donahue
Becky McCarty
April 20, 2013
Thank You to the Yoder family for your gift of Jarett to this world. I know from the Garay family he was a special person who made their lives brighter. He will be missed and I will never forget him even if I never met him. RIP Jarett
April 20, 2013
THANK YOU JARETT
Darlene Rauch
April 20, 2013
Sending prayers to Jarett's family and friends. Thank you for serving our country. May GOD bless you.
Dolores Welter
April 20, 2013
Thank you for serving Sir. GOD BLESS you and your family.
David Kalcevic
April 20, 2013
Jarret, I am glad that I got to spend some time with you before you went North. You will never be forgotten. You were a remarkable aviator, soldier, and I am sure husband. God speed and I will see you in hangar. We will fly again together. Brothers in flight.
Jeremy Renninger
April 20, 2013
Thank you for unselfishly serving our country.
JOHN ALBRIGHT
April 20, 2013
Thank you for your service sir.
Erika Miller
April 20, 2013
God Bless your family
Lynne Neibert
April 20, 2013
Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who work to send handmade prayer shawls and/or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one while serving our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church would like to extend our sincere sympathy and to honor your son and husband's sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a prayer gift which will be mailed to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses of those who would like to receive one and which gift they would like to receive. We will send our gift as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved on who died while serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne
Linda & Kevin Kahler
April 20, 2013
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We have good memories of Jarett and your family. May you be comforted at this time.
Dave & Terri Franke
April 19, 2013
Another soldier is called to glory…
His newest flight beyond the clouds…
Heavens Gate cannot deny…
This soldier, his orders heard clear and loud…
Jarrett Yoder has gained his wings,
His second set, the first made him proud…
The second set eternal, makes GOD proud!
Jarett, we remember your youth, and for all who knew you, there is no denial of recall, for we have that forever.
Your presence on earth met with a more Supreme Desire, and I know that your head is in the clouds, and your
Flights will never be grounded again. You gave your all, because that is what “some” do, and though we would
rather it not have been you, God's plan must be more compelling, and we are forced to accept that answer.
We thank you for your service, your sacrifice, and your presence in our lives. We thank you for the role and
leadership you have supplied, and we pray for your eternal happiness, until we all meet again in God's plan,
where war will never have a place, and peace and happiness becomes the rule of existence forever more.
Gary, Diane, Amanda and Bryon, all grandparents, and Heather and family, our prayers and thoughts are with you all
during this most difficult time. We share your grief, and tears, and know that Jarett has brought you all happiness in
life, which makes this extremely difficult. His thoughts and accomplishments distinguish him as a true hero, but then
again, Amanda and Bryon serve with pride as well. A family of service breeds a family of service, and as said before…
All gave some…. Some gave all, and I must say, every one of you gave with Jarett's loss, but you will have the love
forged in your hearts, and the thought that his service was a benefit to every American, and all can stand proud!
It will not return his life, but it also can never steal his memory. We mourn with you, just as we laughed with you in
the past. From Rabbit's to school, from picnics to pain, through all storms, the SUN came back, and will again,
and the SON will forever be in thought, and never denied, but Heaven awaits us all, where peace and love are one,
with a thought that once we join again, separation will never be a concern again.
April 19, 2013
Our family will always be grateful for Jarrett's military service for us and sorrowful that he needed to make the ultimate sacrifice. My deepest sympathy to Jarrett's wife and family.
Tina Wise
April 19, 2013
My deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kathleen R. Rearden
April 19, 2013
Eulogy for a Veteran
by Mary Elizabeth Frye
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am a thousand words that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the mornings hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight,
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there, I didn't die.
May you find solace in all the memories you hold dear of a beautiful and loving son, brother, husband and friend.
Williams LockSmithing
April 19, 2013
may god be with all the yoder family in there time of sorrow.Jarett was a fine young man.God Bless
Merl & Cyndy Maggs
April 19, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to the Yoder Family! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all! Thank You Jarett for you service!!!
April 19, 2013
Thank you for your service for our country. Rest in peace.
mona livingood
April 19, 2013
so sorry for ur loss the yoder family and thank u Jarett for ur service so very sorry for the family my condulscenses to his wife may god comfort u at this difficult time my prayers and thoughts to all of u
SSG & Mrs Ron Brewer
April 19, 2013
Our prayers go out to the Yoder family. May you Rest In Peace "Brother."
Jenny (Maggs)Mazur
April 19, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the Yoder family. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Tanya Feick
April 19, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the Yoder, Garay and Belinski families. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Chris and Charlie Ziegler/Miller
April 19, 2013
I too thank you for your service Jarett. Our deep sympathy to your new bride and family. May God comfort you all at this tragic time of grief.
Irene Webster
April 19, 2013
"He was one of my best soldiers" wrote Jarrett's commanding officer, Captain William Webster in an e-mail home.
The Wittman family
April 19, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to the Yoder family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
April 19, 2013
Thank you for your service to our beautiful country. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.
John Parese
April 19, 2013
Thanks for your service for our country.
RIP
DAVE GREELY
April 19, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
John & Lissette Scrizzi
April 19, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to Heather and the Yoder family for your loss. Jarett is in our thoughts and prayers each and every day. We are sincerely grateful for his service to our country and protecting us all.
God Bless,
April 19, 2013
Thank you for your service and sacrifice to our country. May you rest in everlasting peace with Christ our Lord, and all of the angels & saints. May the Yoder family find the peace, understanding, strength, and the healing of Christ to continue on.
SGM Bob Button
April 19, 2013
Another good soldier "Gone West."
Jen Anderson-Wenger
April 19, 2013
Thank you for your service to our country. May peace and healing find your family and loved ones.
Vicki
April 19, 2013
Thank you for your service. God Bless you and your family.
April 19, 2013
I didn't know you Jarett, but I thank you for your service for our country. I will pray for you and your loved ones. God bless you and your family. Rest in peace amoung the angels.
a military mom kathy
April 19, 2013
with deepest heartfelt sympathy god bless your entire family you are all in my prayers your son was a beautiful brave man my sons been in the marines 20 years be very very proud of your awesome son
April 19, 2013
My condolences to your family, thank you for my freedom. A Marines father.
Lucia Torchia-Thompson and Family
April 19, 2013
Your loss is our loss. Sincerest condolences and gratitude to you for giving us a great American hero. Rest assured of our prayers. Words are not enough...sincerely,
Paul L. Beavens Jr.
April 19, 2013
Heather and Family, The hearts of a grateful Nation share you pain at this time. Jarett was a true American Patriot! A man that in his short life did more and lived it better than most do in a life time. I have no doubt in my mind that he was an Angel among us and now has a second set of wings! God Bless you all and be comforted that he watches over us all from above.
Tammy
April 19, 2013
Thank you to Jarett and his family for their selfless sacrifice in serving our country. May God be with you and help you find solice at this sorrowful time.
April 19, 2013
God Bless the family of Jarett Yoder in your loss. My deepest sympathy to all of you.
Thank you Jarett for your sacrifice and service to our country.
Nancy Michalowski and family
Judi
April 19, 2013
I didn't know you but I'm grateful for your service and wanted to thank you.
My Deepest Sympathy
God Bless You and your family
Connie B.
April 19, 2013
Thank you Jarett for serving our wonderful country. Thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
Linda & Larry Hartline
April 19, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Yoder family. God Bless Jarret
Lee Hoover & Family
April 19, 2013
Doing what he loved for a country he loved and the people he loved and we are so appreciative. Heather, Jarett is and forever will be a "True American Hero". We will never forget.
Ashley Readinger
April 19, 2013
I did not know Jarett, but he seemed like a great guy, and a true Hero, and I know he will be greatly missed by his Friends, Family, and Wife! I have been hearing a lot about his story in the paper, news, etc. and it breaks my heart to know a true hero died so young, and we will never understand why..
I pray that his Friends, Family, and Wife will be ok, and know he is still with you guy's, and watching over you!
You are a Hero Jarett, and thank you for serving our Country!
marlene. joseph timmons
April 18, 2013
So sorry for your lose we met jarett out at the gap our deepest. Smypathyto you and your family at this time
A Thankful Mother
April 18, 2013
A heartfelt Thank You for giving the ultimate sacrifice. May God Bless you and your Family.
John Kohr
April 18, 2013
My Prayers are with Jarett's family. I'm so honored to have served with Jarrett and even more thankful to God that I got to know such a great guy. Rest easy my brother.. You've done your country proud!
Jeffrey Painton
April 18, 2013
You were a great friend and a great leader. We will all miss you in your next great adventure. Remember great men like you who have fallen will be welcoming you with open arms. Rest in peace BROTHER.
Catherine Weaver
April 18, 2013
We are hopeful that you will find strength and courage at this time of deep loss. Jarett and Matt served and sacrificed for all of us -- we are forever grateful and indepted to them. God bless.
Marcia
April 18, 2013
To the family and friends of CWO Yoder: Please, accept my sincere condolences for your loss of Jarett. He is a true American hero and we will not forget his brave service or his ultimate sacrifice to defend our freedoms and protect our way of life. May he rest in peace and may you have healing from your grief.
Kathy & Jeff Campbell
April 17, 2013
Our hearts ache for the whole Yoder family for their loss of Jarett. He, as well as the whole family will always be in our prayers. With much sympathy and love, Kathy and Jeff
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