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Howard Cook Obituary
CW2 Howard J. Cook, III, age 31, passed away on July 7, 2011 in Killeen, Texas. He was born July 28, 1979 in Richmond, Virginia. Howie was a 2001 graduate of Virginia Military Institute, USMC Sergeant - Iraq 2005, Police Officer for the Federal Reserve Bank since 2002 and their 2007 Officer of the Year, firearms instructor, U. S. Army Medical Evacuation Helicopter Pilot. Howie is survived by his wife, Shelley; parents, Howard J. Cook, Jr. and Charlene; sister, Emily Cook; sister-in-law, Andrea Valentine; brother-in-law, Philip Valentine; Shelley's parents, Frank and Kathy Valentine; one aunt, three uncles and a very loving extended family as well as his "Brother Rats". In his short 31 years Howie always took the road less traveled, and in doing so accomplished more than most do in a lifetime. Howie was a decorated Iraq veteran, having served as a Marine during and after his cadetship at VMI. At the time of his death, Howie was preparing to deploy to Afghanistan as a Blackhawk pilot and honor graduate from flight school with the Texas Army National Guard. He will be missed by all whose lives he touched, but none more than his wife, Shelley, his family, extended family, friends, and brother rats. Howie was a husband whose devotion and love for Shelley continued to grow with every moment of his life. He will also be always remembered for his famously irresistible sense of humor. But his loyal, reliable, and generous friendship was truly unmatched. The light of Howie's spirit will live on in the hearts of everyone who knew him. This was an unforgettable man. Remember that in the end it's not how a person died that will be remember but how he lived. The family will receive friends from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m., Thursday, July 14, 2011, at Porter Loring Mortuary North. Howie will be sent to Vincent Funeral Home in West Point, Virginia for services on Sunday, July 24, 2011 at 2:00 p.m. at the West Point High School auditorium. Interment will follow at Arlington National Cemetery with Full Military Honors. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The Wounded Warrior Project, PO Box 758517, Topeka, KS 66675-8517.
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Rachel
August 12, 2011
You are missed. Thank you for all the memories - past and future.
Bud & Jo Wood
July 22, 2011
Howard & family,
We want to express our deep sympathy to you in the loss of your son. You were a groomsmen in our wedding in Hampton back in 1968. We hope that all your memories and the support of your famiy and friends will help you during this difficult time. We will keep all of you in our prayers.
Henryk Zaleski
July 20, 2011
Rest in peace.
July 19, 2011
Dear Howard and Char and Emily,
We are so very sorry to hear about Howie. My thoughts and heart are with you. Both Kara and David, have such fond memories of our Christmas' together in Richmond. Please know that our deepest sympathy is sent to you and all of the extended family.
Love, Donna
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Ashby Conway
July 19, 2011
Howie, you were my buddy, roommate, and the love of my friend Shelley's life. You envisioned and accomplished your childhood dreams, and did so with vigor and passion! You lived hard, laughed hard and gave your life a hero. Thank you and well done, my friend!
Meagan (Nicholas) Vickery
July 19, 2011
Mr. & Mrs. Cook, Emily and Shelly,
Howie was such a bright light among his peers. He always had a smile and a laugh to share! I am thankful for the time I knew him, and for his service to our country. Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers now and in the days ahead.
Kathy cook
July 19, 2011
Thank You Howard
Ruth Lee Hair
July 17, 2011
To all the Cook family: My son Fred Hair is one of Howie's BR's and I just ache for you. I remember Howie so well. He was always smiling. I will pray that God will send you peace and hope.
For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud
July 16, 2011
The Final Salute
“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.
This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to Howard J. (Howie) Cook, III our “Brother-in-Arms”. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for Howie. And to Howie it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the devoted and selfless service he rendered to his country during Operations Iraqi Freedom while serving in the U.S. Marine Corps. We also thank him for his continued service as a helicopter pilot while serving in the U.S. Army Reserves. Howie, you are a true patriot; we bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at Ease. Rest in Peace.
On behalf of the 1,307 members of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to Howie’s family and loved ones.
Dennis Engdahl, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109
Debbie Healy Tomiko
July 15, 2011
Howard, Charlene, Emily & Shelley,
I am so sorry for your loss. Howie was such a loved person by all, he could put a smile on anyone's face. I will always remember the fun times we had together at the doctor's office. My prayer's are with all of you. God Bless you Howie, We love you!
Cindy-Sue Fitchett
July 15, 2011
Charlene,
I am so sorry to hear about your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and his wife. I hope there will be a day that you will be able to smile about a wonderful memory, until then may God bless you and keep you in his embrace.
Mary Motley
July 15, 2011
Howie, you are already missed by so many! You truly were a shining light. You had such a big heart, and I for one, am so very grateful to you for that. We can all take comfort in the fact that you are now with God's angles...looking over us all. Thank you for always being YOU! All out love and condolences to your family and friends....
Mary Beth Marshall Motley
July 15, 2011
You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
May God put his healing hands on your hearts!!
Donnie and Mary Daniel
Homer Humphreys III
July 15, 2011
A school mate, friend and an all around great guy...Howie was all this and so much more, to both his friends and family. He will be sorely missed by them all. Taken way too soon in life, I will remember him always. Rest in peace buddy.
George Crowder
July 15, 2011
To the Cook Family,
Our condolences on your loss. May God grant you peace as you grieve for your loved one.
George and Bonnie
Uris Parker
July 15, 2011
Howie was one of my old West Point Elementary School buddies. It was great when I regain contact with him after 20 years and now it's painful to know one of my WP brothers is not here. But I would like to say, God Bless you, How-Dogg and I will see you again. Prayers to the entire family and close friends
Susie Labasky
July 15, 2011
So many memories I will cherish the rest of my life. I am so blessed to have been part of Howie's extended family and to have been one of his "sisters" growing up. I will never, ever forget the times our families had together. You will live in my heart forever, Howie.
July 15, 2011
Howard and Family , Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are deeply saddened by your loss. There are no words to convey that can ease this tragedy. You are in my thoughts and you obviously raised a wonderful son. May he rest in eternal peace. Bill and Lorraine Gardner
Diana Shuster
July 15, 2011
Howard, Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.
Jeanne Ashworth
July 14, 2011
Howard, Charlene & Emily,
Please know that each of you are in our prayers. Howie will live forever in your hearts.
Keith & Jeanne Ashworth
Ginny Wright
July 14, 2011
I will never forget you, especially you swinging the stick at the pinata when I taught you Spanish back in elementary school. I was sincerely frightened for everyone within a hundred foot
radius! RIP Howie
L Greene
July 14, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss.May HOWARD COOK rest in peace and you find comfort in knowing that he is.My thoughts and prayers are with HOWARD and your family.~ GOD Bless~
Karen Boothe
July 14, 2011
Our love and prayers to all the family. Tim and Karen Boothe
Lauren Coleman
July 14, 2011
Howie, you are a bright light in so many lives. We will continue carrying that light with us. Thank you, bless you, we miss you.
Wayne Schaeffer
July 14, 2011
I am proud to have known Howard; he leaves behind a solid legacy of integrity and accomplishment. To Shelley, and to the family, please accept our deepest, most heartfelt sympathies.
Pam Boswell
July 14, 2011
This is such a tragedy. I can’t believe it. I’m so sorry. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Al, Jane,Wyatt,Emilie and Peyton Mason
July 14, 2011
Dear Charlene, Howard and Emily, our family joins all of our community in letting you know how sadden we are for your loss. hope you can find some comfort in knowing there are many people that are here for you all. our prayers go to you and shelly as you move forward day by day.
Deb Cuny
July 14, 2011
Howie: You made a BIG impression on a whole lot of Hollins women, especially one extraordinarily special one, Shelley. You lived life the way most of us dream to live. You have left an imprint on my life and the lives of so many. Your heroism, loyalty, and humor is unequivocally unmatched. Thank you for giving us the gift of knowing you. - love to you.
Ronald Hirtz
July 14, 2011
The world has lost another great sheepdog. Rest easy on Heavens streets my brother, WE have the watch from here.
Alicia McGarry
July 14, 2011
Howie was a wonderful person with an electric personality and very individual sense of humour. He was a good friend. The room lit up when he walked in and the world will be a little darker without him in it.
My deepest Sympathies to the Cook Family in Virginia and to Shelley. My thoughts are with you all.
July 14, 2011
Sgt. Cook
I am sorry to here of your lost. My prayers are with you and your family.
Benny M. Burrell
Abbi Williams
July 14, 2011
My heart aches, words can't express my true feelings! Your in my heart and prayers through this difficult time.
Abbi Price Williams (West Point)
July 14, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you. especially at this time of your great loss. May we understand God's purpose in our lives, and keep our faith, but most of all, hold on to those good memories, for that is good to do.
Richard Kelley Parkes, Williamsburg, Virginia
Cindy Shiver
July 14, 2011
My sympathies and prayers to the family and to Shelly. Hold on to ALL the memories. God Bless
Katie Green
July 14, 2011
Dear Sgt. and Mrs. Cook,
I am so so sorry to hear about the passing of Howie. After working with Sgt. Cook for a year, I know how important family is to both of you. I'll be thinking of you and hugging my own child a little tighter.
Sincerely,
Katie Green
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