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Margaret Payne Portwood "Peggy" Tobin

1922 - 2016

Margaret Payne Portwood "Peggy" Tobin obituary, 1922-2016, Bandera, TX

Margaret Tobin Obituary

October 29, 1922 - July 20, 2016
Margaret "Peggy" Payne Portwood Tobin, 93, died July 20, 2016, at her ranch in Bandera after a brief illness. Peggy was born in Atchison, Kansas on October 29, 1922, and moved to San Antonio on her 7th birthday, the date of the Great Stock Market Crash. Her father, Thomas B. Portwood, having recently received his Ph.D. from Columbia, was hired by the San Antonio Independent School District, and rose to become its Superintendent during the 1940's through early 1960's. Peggy graduated from Thomas Jefferson High School in San Antonio and attended Texas Women's University before transferring to The University of Texas to study journalism. Shortly before World War II broke out, she met a dashing San Antonio oil man, rancher and lawyer, Don Freeman Tobin, and they married on February 1, 1942. Peggy and Don were deeply devoted and in love with each other throughout their over 69 years of marriage. No doubt Don is greeting her with a loving embrace in Heaven. They were blessed with 8 children, who became the center of their attention and love. Peggy was in constant motion caring for her children, as PTA President, Cub Scout den leader, car pool driver, substitute school teacher; and she supported her children in a myriad of activities from school, to sports, to art, to Children of the American Revolution, to church, and events of every kind in which her 8 children were involved. The San Antonio Express-News recognized her as Homemaker of the Year. While being the greatest Mom for her children, Peggy pursued her other passions in art, historic preservation, writing, bird watching, quilting and literature. The breadth of her knowledge and interests had a profound and positive influence on her children and the many others who were blessed to know her. She painted watercolors and made drawings of the McNay Art Institute, Mission San Jose, and Texas Hill Country homes and landscapes. Serving for years in the San Antonio Conservation Society, including as President, Peggy was a key leader in preserving someof San Antonio's most admired historic and architectural landmarks. In the 1960's she led the successful effort to save from demolition the old Ursuline Academy, now the home of the San Antonio School of Art. Peggy, with others, lead the way in preserving Casa Navarro, Casa Villita, the Steves Homestead, and numerous historic homes in what is now Hemisfair. In Bandera County she helped achieve state historical status for the old Jureczki house and Polly's Chapel, both beautiful examples of Texas limestone and masonry work. For all of this and more, in 2008 she was awarded the Lifetime Achievement award by the Texas State Historical Commission and later a similar award from the Bandera County Historical Commission as well as other accolades from the San Antonio Conservation Society. For years she wrote a weekly column in local newspapers filled with history, every day stories of Hill Country life and wit. She was a founding member of St. Christopher's Episcopal Church in Bandera.She loved her frequent visits to the old Tobin homestead farm in Ireland; and Peggy's favorite place was her cherished ranch. She was always thankful for the beauty, the wildlife and the peacefulness of the Texas Hill Country. Peggy Tobin is survived by her children, Don F. Tobin, Jr., Timothy S. Tobin, Martha Tobin Bersch, Phillip P. Tobin, Mark T. Tobin, Patrick B. Tobin, Kathleen Tobin Krueger, Ann Tobin Hevenor, 19 grandchildren and numerous great and great-great grandchildren. A Memorial Service will be held 11 a.m., Tuesday, July 26, 2016, at St. Christopher's Episcopal Church in Bandera. Officiating will be the Rev. Allan Conkling, Jr. A burial service and reception open to all will be held immediately afterwards at The Tobin Ranch. Donations in lieu of flowers may be made to St. Christopher's Episcopal Church, 395 Highway 173 North, Bandera, TX 78003 or to the San Antonio Conservation Society, 107 King William Street, San Antonio, TX 78204. The
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Published by San Antonio Express-News on Jul. 24, 2016.

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Suzanne Tobin Courville

July 20, 2023

I am traveling to England and Ireland this week and I'll be thinking of her.

Stacy Clark

April 28, 2020

My mother, Virgilia Heimsath Pancoast Klein, living in NYC, was so sad to hear of Peggy's passing. My mother would often share lively stories about the Medina River Reading Club that Peggy and her husband participated in. Virgilia has often said how smart and kind Peggy always was.

The reading club was started up by my grandfather, Charles Herman Heimsath, and Peggy and many other summertime residents of Bandera. Charles was the founding minister at St. Christopher's Episcopal Church, where Peggy was an active member.

My mother has recounted wonderful accounts of Peggy and other neighbors gathering under the stars on summer nights to discuss books and politics. I wish I had more information about this magical time in the 1940s and 1950s. If anyone remembers the reading club, please do reach out to me. I would love to discuss.

Blessings and sympathies to Peggy's amazing family and gratitude for the many gifts Peggy shared with her community over decades of service.

Cordially,

Stacy Clark in Dallas, TX
214-505-9953

Suzanne Courville

August 8, 2016

I light this candle from across the miles for my dear and sweet grandmother. I am thankful that I was able to attend the wake. The lighting of the candle symbolizes the love we had for each other. Also, the light is her guiding me through life. I was blessed to have her for forty seven years.

Brenda Schmidt

July 26, 2016

Beautiful lady.

July 26, 2016

Peggy was one of the most amazing people I have ever known. She had wit, wisdom, and patience beyond what most of us can even imagine. Her writing was humorous and engaging, always educating while entertaining her readers. Her appreciation for history and preservation has influenced me throughout my life. Her ability to see what really mattered most was ever-present. Although Peggy believed in the power of education and encouraged her children to do well in school, I will never forget how she would occasionally say, "let's go to the river for the day. You kids need a mental health day off". She was right. They all did just fine scholastically and otherwise. I will also never forget how she stayed up all night typing a term paper in Spanish for a college sophomore who surely by then should have been able to type it herself! Thank you, Peggy, for all that you gave to everyone for all these years. We will never forget you.

July 25, 2016

Our sincere condolences to all of the Tobin family. I remember Mrs Tobin from my high school days; she was always a positive, warm presence, very interested in preserving Hill Country history.
--Kate Montague Rowley

Wandita Ford-Turner

July 25, 2016

I was so sad to hear of Peggy's passing. I remember her so well from the time my siblings and I were young as she was a great friend of my parents, Wanda and O'Neil Ford. I will always remember what a beautiful, calm and giving person she was. My condolences to ALL of her and Don's family...you are in my prayers. With love, Wandita Ford Turner

David Kepes

July 25, 2016

Miss Peggy always welcomed us and our children to her ranch when we arrived ad took a sincere and deep interest in each child whenever she saw them.
Bandera has lost a unique and loving soul who can never be replaced.

Charles Rubiola

July 24, 2016

Mark and Family,
My deepest sympathy.
Charles Rubiola

Claire Rubiolo Steves

July 24, 2016

Dear Mark,
I am so sorry to read about your mother. You and your family have my deepest sympathy and condolences. I know what it is like to lose my parents and it is very hard. You have many brothers and sister to help you through your grief. May God bless you and your family through your grief. She was a great woman and no one will be able to walk in her shoes. Be strong.....there are many friends there for you.
Claire Rubiolo Steves

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