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David Arledge Feldman

1928 - 2019

David Arledge Feldman obituary, 1928-2019, San Diego, CA

David Feldman Obituary

David Arledge Feldman January 7, 1928 - May 16, 2019 San Diego David Arledge Feldman roller-skated into the great newsroom in the sky on May 16, 2019. He was born in South Bend, Indiana on January 7, 1928, to Irving and Etna (Goodwin) Feldman and moved with his family to Tucson, Arizona in 1936. He graduated from the University of Arizona and embarked on a long career as a journalist with stops at the Douglas Daily Dispatch, Tucson Citizen, Honolulu Star-Bulletin, and Stars and Stripes in Germany. David spent 30 years as a copy editor at the San Diego Union Tribune and taught journalism at the University of Arizona and San Diego State University. After retiring from the newspaper business, he spent the last decade of his life editing novels and non-fiction books for family, friends, and clients. At the age of 90, he wrote and published his memoir, Irreverent Forever, a lively collection of stories about his adventures and the interesting characters he met throughout his remarkable career. He had many passions in life; he loved cars especially his 1957 Citroën raction Avant (which he called his "gangster car") and was an avid roller skater until his doctor made him hang up his skates at age 84. He was a speed skating champion in the Marine Corps but had to decline a professional roller derby contract in Europe when his commanding officer objected. David lived a full life surrounded by loving family and friends.He was predeceased by his parents, his sister, Donna Bergheim; brother, Lewis Feldman, and his beloved children, Greg Feldman and Tracy Shaughnessy. He is survived by his wife of 68 years, Betty Feldman, and numerous nieces and nephews who all fondly recall their uncle who kept the punch lines to his favorite jokes in his shirt pocket.Interment will be held at Miramar National Cemetery, on July 1, at 10:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made in his memory to KPBS.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Jun. 23, 2019.

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Philip Feldman

September 11, 2020

David was my cousin, and sadly, I can see I missed out greatly by not getting to know him. Perhaps he once met me when I was a newborn and my parents, Maurice (Irving's brother) & Mary Feldman, took me to Tucson for a visit (I recall having seen photos or home movies of the visit.). Now, having just retired and downsized our housing, going through a box in the garage yesterday, I ran across a 3-page, single-spaced letter from Dave and Betty reporting on 1962 in Germany (I was just 13 when it was received.). I showed it to my wife, who quickly found their relatively recent obituaries online. Living in California ourselves, we didn't know they lived in San Diego, and we have often spent time in the area. What a loss they are to all of us!

Russell King

August 13, 2020

This news has destroyed me. I had no better teacher, no truer friend, no wiser mentor. It cannot be.

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Carolyn Jaynes

March 18, 2020

Dave was my Editor-in-Chief when it came to proofreading my books. We met at a creative writing class, and were both members of the San Diego Writers and Editors Guild. Dave was always very supportive of my writing. When many authors clamored to pay him to edit their books, he offered to edit my first book, Sprinkles from Heaven - Stories of Serendipity. I felt like I hit the jackpot to have his literary wisdom, wit, and experience perusing my pages. He then offered to edit the sequel, Twinkle from Heaven - The Mystical in the Mundane. Wow, he was helpful! Dave made me snicker. We shared a great love for roller-skating. I enjoyed meeting his lovely bride, Betty, too. We had fun talks around the dining room table. If angels have skin, Dave was (is) one! I can almost see him chuckling in Heaven!

Beth Pollard

October 25, 2019

I only just recently learned of Dave's passing, when he and Betty did not attend the local meeting of the archaeology group of which they were active members. Dave and Betty attended pretty much every meeting for the last 15 years, and had so much to offer the group. They became grandparents-away-from-home to my daughter Amelia, and she enjoyed that they even came to see her ballet performances. Amelia and I are saddened by Dave's passing but happy and honored to have known him. I will make sure that Dave's name is added to the list of long-time AIA members who passed in 2019 and the gathered community of archaeologists will stand silent in his honor at the annual meeting in DC (Jan 2020).

Joy and Carl Herzog

June 25, 2019

What a blessing and joy to have you and Betty in our lives. You both will always hold a spot in our hearts.

June 25, 2019

I shared an office with Dave at SDSU for many years. He was a delight. Always cheerful and always ready to help his students. Those who took his class were lucky to have the benefit of all his experience. RIP buddy. Sue Lussa

June 23, 2019

Our Uncle Dave lived a joyful life with our Aunt Betty, his one and only. We work in the news business and he has been our inspiration, our guiding star and our copy editor for a very long time. We will miss him dearly, especially his sharp wit and his gentle and loving presence in our lives.
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