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The Rev. Karen Safstrom

1972 - 2020

The Rev.  Karen Safstrom obituary, 1972-2020, Wilbraham, MA

BORN

1972

DIED

2020

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Miles Funeral Home - Holden

1158 Main St

Holden, Massachusetts

Karen Safstrom Obituary

The Rev. Karen B. Safstrom, 48

WILBRAHAM/RUTLAND - The Rev. Karen B. Safstrom, the Pastor of Christ the King - Epiphany Church in Wilbraham, passed away unexpectedly at home on Thursday, June 11, 2020. She was 48. Born in Worcester on May 5, 1972, Karen was raised in Rutland and later lived in Lynn, Northampton and Holden before moving to Wilbraham in 2018. Her father, Howard A. Safstrom, died in 2016.

She will be lovingly remembered and missed by her mother, Cynthia M. (Ribb) Safstrom; her sister, Lynn M. Wiinikka and her husband Scot, and a nephew and a niece, Ryan and Lauren Wiinikka all of Rutland.

Karen graduated from Wachusett Regional High School in 1990 and furthered her education at Northeastern University in Boston where she received a Master's Degree in Pharmaceutical Studies. She worked as a pharmacist for Fallon Clinic on Plantation Street and later at Target in Holyoke. In 2002, Karen enrolled at Lutheran Theological Seminary in Philadelphia where she received a Master's Degree in Divinity.

Her first call to parish ministry was as a pastor to the people of First Lutheran Church in Lynn, where she served from 2005 to 2008. Karen's time as associate rector at St. Francis Episcopal Church from 2012 to 2018, highlighted the unique call of bi-vocational pastors and gave an ecumenical character to that vibrant congregation. In partnership with St. Francis, Karen founded "unCommon Ground," a spiritual pastoral place of meeting for those who have not found God in our churches. While serving at St. Francis, Karen also worked at Rutland Pharmacy.

Most recently Karen served the people of Christ the King - Epiphany Church in Wilbraham. She joined the church in October 2018 as a transitional pastor/priest in charge. This was a return to Wilbraham after having served Christ the King as a transitional pastor for 10 months in 2010-2011. In the past two years, with Karen's faithful leadership, Christ the King - Epiphany became one body in law as well as faith.

Karen enjoyed outdoor activities, reading, listening to music, attending concerts, and spending time with family and friends.

Relatives and friends are invited to visit with Karen's family from 4 to 7 pm on Wednesday, June 17, at Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main St., Holden (appropriate COVID - 19 protocol will be observed including the use of face masks and social distancing). Karen will be honored and remembered privately at a funeral service to be held in the funeral home. Interment will take place at All Faiths Cemetery in Worcester. A public memorial service celebrating her life will be held at St. Francis Episcopal Church in Holden at a date and time to be announced. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Christ the King-Epiphany Church in Wilbraham or to the One Church Fund, Mass Council of Churches at www.onechurchfund.org. To share a memory or offer a condolence, please visit:

www.milesfuneralhome.com

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Jun. 14 to Jun. 16, 2020.

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JJP

June 8, 2022

In loving memory of a wonderful person. I will love you and miss you always.

Lissa Loosemore

June 21, 2020

I was shocked to hear this news of Karen's passing. As one of our daughter Jenn's close friends and a member of our Girl Scout troops in Rutland I feel like I've lost one of my daughters. My deepest, most sincere condolences at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Nancy Dybas

June 19, 2020

Karen was so kind , caring and upbeat and cheery. She had a wonderful smile. She prayed with me several time throughout my own battle with breast cancer. May she Rest In Peace she will be truly missed. My prayers are with her family.
Sincerely
Nancy Dybas
From Christ the King Epiphany Church

Judith

June 16, 2020

Pastor Karen always weirded me out because she was so thoughtful and genuinely nice. God took the best bits of humanity and made Pastor Karen. In between my moments of tears, I will thank God for your life and aim to follow the example you set. I love you and will miss you terribly. May you rest in peace and rise in Glory.

David Lucas

June 16, 2020

Way too young Karen. David Lucas

Sally Fenix

June 16, 2020

Karen had an endless caring and energy for everyone, not only those of us in her congregation, but it was obvious to all that she had a deep commitment to all people. She graced us at Christ the King-Epiphany with her presence and her deep Spirituality. Karen has left a void in our hearts and will always be remembered with great fondness. May she forever Rest In Peace.
Sally Fenix

Randy Wilburn

June 15, 2020

aren was so generous to me when I was Interim Rector at St. Francis in Holden. She patiently led me through the traditions and practices of the church, and affirmed my ministry following the dynamic ministry of Rich Simpson. Her smile and laugh were like pure joy. When Karen died a light went out, yet she continues to shine. Thank You Karen. Prayers Ascending for your family and wide circle of friends and the congregation.

Donald Sienkiewicz

June 15, 2020

As a member of Christ the King- Epiphany, I would have to say that Karen was one of the best pastors ever. So much so, that when she was with us the first time, and I was on the church council, we wanted to call her as our pastor then.

She was a true servant.

Caring, always willing to help, there when you needed her, a good friend.

I will miss our talks and her laughter...

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Karyn Bodenschatz

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Neil Phillips

June 14, 2020

Karen was a real Minister. Caring, generous and one you could look To for help with any problem.

We will miss her. She was wonderful.

Neil and Kathy Phillips

Peter O

June 14, 2020

You will be missed. You were a special person and a great Rector. You married Michelle and I. Whenever we spoke you were like a friend who I knew much longer than I did. We had wanted to come to your new parish but never had an opportunity. We are shocked and saddened . Your life had an impact on many an you will be missed very much. I can't believe we will never speak again.

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