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Bob Miller
October 15, 2020
Our year has passed, and the world keeps changing. I still think often, about experiences that I would’ve shared with my friend. His face and his words keep appearing in my consciousness as I go through life’s lessons. There’s so much I wish I could’ve shared with him.
Still, seeing how Linda has grown and taken on the mantle of responsibilities, I know Rod would’ve been so very proud! Her survivor abilities are stunning....Even to the point of stacking wood for the winter! The garden is thriving, and life goes on.
Still have immense love for this man, and Rod will always be an inherent part of my life. Sending love and long hugs your way, my brother.
Michael Fox
October 24, 2019
Hey Cade,
Remember all the Thanksgiving's we spent together. I think we all spent 20 or so together.
Remember watching our children being born and grow. Our Rio Dell walks. Our talks. And fires!! You were the best bonfire builder ever. You were even on the forest fire starter list, but thankfully you didn't rank high. A first for you, not ranking high at something. But your one, was a good one. You were good at everything.
Remember one Thanksgiving we were in a store and you told Bob and me to shush while we were talking about making a flambé. You didn't want any town people to hear your friends, the slick city boys, talking about such things.
We were good friends, close friends, a good trio...Rod, Bob, and Mike...
Remember the many trips together w/ the trio. Remember our 3 day trip down the Eel River.... seemed like it took forever. What a fiasco, overloading a canoe with way too much stuff....
...Thank you for saving my ass (life) after we crashed the canoe into the submerged tree at the bank and I slipped getting out. You saved me as I slipped into the rushing river water, being pulled under the submerged tree. You grabbed me as I was going down and would have been gone. But what a time we had on the river...
....We showed up to the Benbow Inn after dark, full moon light leading our way, totally wet, totally cold and shaking, got a room and we proceeded to the dining room in our wet clothes. That was pretty funny. We were characters.
Remember on one Thanksgiving when you took me surfing the Lost Coast on a super rough winter day when I had only surfed once before in Hawaii at age 10. You were surfing the big waves way out while I struggled to get out and struggled to get back in. Good thing I never made it out to the waves.
And then....on one of our ski trips to Utah when you fell in the powder losing your skis and you were stuck...and I yelled, payback!!
Thank you for making the shelves for my wine room where I walk in everyday and think of you. Thank you for all the good times together.
Hey Cade, just thought to send you one last letter.....RIP....Love you, michael
My thoughts, prayers and love to Linda, Alexis, Nathan, Justine, and Annie.

Randy Couch
October 23, 2019
Rod and I became friends due to our common interest in music, specifically guitar-oriented music.
Before Rod and Linda relocated to Willow Creek, he and I often met for lunch, ALWAYS in a Mexican restaurant and ALWAYS searching for the ultimate chile relleno and the tastiest tamale.
I love to travel as did Rod and Linda, especially after they obtained their Mercedes Sprinter. Rod and I compared notes and suggestions regarding destinations, experiences and things to do along the way. Our destinations were frequently the same (albeit at different times).
I enjoyed Rod's sense of understated humor. When he commenced working in Hoopa (although ostensibly retired) he related some very funny anecdotes which I have passed along to others who similarly enjoyed them.
Rod and I lived in the Bay Area at the same time, when he was a Stanford undergrad, although we didn't know one another. We had common recollections of locations where students often hung out.
The Heidelberg on El Camino Real in Palo Alto, for example, and Rissotti's Alpine Inn in the Santa Cruz mountains near where Page Mill Road ended at Skyline Drive.
I'll miss him.
Charles Randall Couch
(Randy)
Jerry Peterson
October 22, 2019
I will remember his kindness, compassion and humor. What a loss to the world.
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A close-up of another scene that I captured, and gave to them only 10 years ago. Lots of love...
Bob Miller
October 21, 2019

Only 10 years ago. . .
Bob Miller
October 21, 2019
As I've said too many times over the past 2 weeks, . . . I find it hard to imagine a world in which I can't call my friend Rod, to ask question about guitars, or building something, or fixing one of my tools, or parenting, or just screwing around. We just moved homes, and as I was handling the physical pieces of my life, Rod kept creeping into my thoughts.
- Pictures of Rod and me killing the Thanksgiving dinner. (Oh, man, was that a terrible turkey!)
- Remembering Michael Fox slamming his knee into the edge of the canoe that carried the 3 of us down the Eel River for 4 days, soaking wet, and shivering, and laughing, and living...
- Buying his guitar ("Oh, that was my favorite one, Bob, . . . but it's OK, 'cause I know it's loved"), ... then buying another one from him a couple years later ("Yeah, I should have charged you more for that one - - it's really nice"). ;-)
- Seeing him take bad times in a marriage, and salvage them to make a strong union that became my idea of what devotion was all about. We all make stupid mistakes, but admitting them and making life better is what makes a great man.
- Seeing his incredible hands DO things, and watching the sinewy fibers of his tendons move his fingers in JUST the right way, to make tools do what they are meant to do - change our physical world according to our wishes. He was a master craftsman.
- Loving watch him take Linda into his arms, and with his goofy laugh, make us all smile at how sweet his life had become.
Oh, man, ... do I miss him. And that pain won't stop . . for a very long time...
Dona Pahuta
October 21, 2019
I go way back to knowing Dr Cade since 1980. Linda was a nurse at Redwood Memorial and I worked in the Pharmacy Dept. He was my Dr for many yrs. He really listened to me which was so wonderful and special. Our kids were friends in high school and we saw each other at many school events. He was a joy to be around and always so kind. I am deeply saddened to hear of his death. He will be so missed. His children are just at the age to give him grandchildren. Sounds like he accomplished more in life than most people. I am so very sorry Linda and Alexis and for the rest of the kids. What a great, great, man with the largest tender heart.
David Shamblin
October 20, 2019
Dr. Cade was our family physician for many years. He was kind and caring, and always took the time to listen and provide great advice and care. I will also remember those times in Scotia when I would have to call him at home late at night when an employee needed medical assistance. He would always respond courteously and with great empathy, getting out of bed (many times after midnight!) to meet us at his office and he was always cheerful and kind. My condolences to the family, we have fond memories of Dr. Cade. He was a very nice and caring man.
Robert Young
October 20, 2019
As a long time patient of Dr Cade, it is with heavy heart to lose such a great asset to our community. I spent many visits teasing him about getting eaten by sharks surfing at the North Jetty. He will truly be missed.
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