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Charles Wiedenmann
July 31, 2020
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Tom back in the late eighties at Midlantic Bank in Cape May County and Wildwood. He was a good man and a good manager. Sorry I'm just seeing this now, but he recently came to mind.
Kathy Fagan
April 11, 2017
Can't believe it's been a year since we lost our awesome cousin Tom..since then he has gotten some awesome company..in our cousin Billy Hare, mike Fagan & just last week our dear Tom Mcbride...
I suspect that quite an raucous basketball game is going on..among other things...all are sorely missed..
But never forgotten..love kathy (amenhauser) fagan
Jim Cotton
June 27, 2016
From Saint Ann's elementary to Wildwood Catholic High School,from the time your brother Jack coached us in intermural Basketball,it was my pleasure to be called your friend.Safe journey "MY FRIEND".I will see you on the other side.
Susan Raff Miller
April 22, 2016
So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. My thoughts and prayers to you and the family.
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Kathy Fagan
April 18, 2016
OUR HEARTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH MARGIE & TOM'S WHOLE FAMILY....OUR COUSINS JIM, PAUL & MARK FROM OUR WILDWOOD DAYS. WE ARE WITH YOU TODAY IN HEART...SO SORRY WE CANNOT BE THERE IN PERSON. TOM WAS A GREAT GUY..WITH AN INFECTIOUS SMILE..,A TRUE GENTLEMAN & A SPECIAL COUSIN! WOULD LIKE TO THINK OF HIM & JACK GETTING IN SOME HOOPS!! WILL REMEMBER THE GREAT TIMES FOREVER!! LOVE, KATHY(AMENHAUSER) FAGAN & MIKE FAGAN6X
Nora Hiller
April 17, 2016
Margie and Family....
So sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in my prayers.
Margie,
I remember our conversations before I left and I cannot express how much I had hoped and prayed that you would make it through this and both be happy and well.... please take care of yourself...
Nora Hiller
Laura Watson
April 16, 2016
Margie, I was so saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that you're in the thoughts and prayers of your extended family.
eileen whittington
April 15, 2016
I remember Tom in high school as a good person who enjoyed being in the plays and having fun with friends. My thoughts and prayers go to his family and friends who were so fortunate to share their lives with Tom.
Dave Robinson
April 15, 2016
Maggy and I were very fond of Tom. He had a wonderful sense of humor and a friendly personality. We are so sorry to hear of his passing.
Selena Sutton
April 15, 2016
I enjoyed the many years we worked together back in the 80's and 90's. Rest easy Tom you are remembered fondly and will be missed by many! My condolences to his family!
Donna Mellon
April 15, 2016
So sorry to hear the loss of another cousin. God Bless the Amenhauser Family! RIP Tom...Jim and Donna Mellon
Billy Martin
April 14, 2016
From all your referee colleagues @ Board 196, we will miss your energy and smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Rest in peace.
Barry Wilke
April 14, 2016
Tom was a good friend and will be missed my prayers are with the whole family at this time .
Danielle Amenhauser
April 13, 2016
Love you uncle Tom! You will be truly missed by many. I will always remember those "bad calls" you called on me back in my basketball days, what I would do for one last "bad call" from you!
Raymond Brown
April 15, 2016
Tom helped me get started into coaching when invited me to help at practices and assist him with games at St. Ann's grade school.
We met through his wife Margie who I worked with at the time at the Sturdy Savings Bank Christmas Party and have been friends ever since.
Tom helped me to find my voice through coaching and follow my passion to be a leader of young men that I still do to this day at Oakcrest High School.
Thank you Tom and rest easy my friend I am forever grateful.
Debbie Amenhauser-Barr
April 14, 2016
Cousins are your friends forever! I remember Easters with my Dad's, brother's family in Wildwood on 18th Street. My Dad and his brother, my Uncle John, at their "best" and "badest" just loving being together! My aunt supplying frozen grapes and my Uncle barking at the dog! My 5 male cousins. Coming from a family of mostly girls, I was always impressed by their antics! Tom was always laughing! I remember cruising Pacific Ave and meeting Tom and Margie at the Stardust. Then more recently meeting Tom and Margie at the Beach in North Wildwood and just enjoying the sun and the sand! Take comfort in your sweet memories and peace in all of the prayers being said for Tom and your family!
With our deepest sympathy from one part of the Amenhauser family to another!
Patrice Moultrie
April 14, 2016
I'll miss you Tom all the laughs Jokes and just us goofing off.Best manager I ever worked for.My head master my uncle Tom may you rip.So unreal I know your looking down laughing with a shot if Gray goose. Love and miss you buddy
John and Paula Bell
April 14, 2016
So sorry for the loss of Tom. He will be happily remembered and very sadly missed by all. EE
Don Rosenberg
April 14, 2016
Rest in eternal peace Tom. My condolences to your family.
Pat Davies
April 14, 2016
Saw this on my facebook page. I was a classmate of Tom's brother Paul at WCHS. Paul was a good guy. My condolences to Paul and the rest of Tom's family.
Chick Peale
April 14, 2016
Heart and prayers to the family. A fellow official.
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