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PAUL WILSON

1932 - 2020

PAUL WILSON obituary, 1932-2020, Washington, DC

PAUL WILSON Obituary

WILSON Paul Tyler Wilson March 2, 1932 - August 28, 2020 It is with great sadness that The Wilson Family announces the passing of Paul Tyler Wilson, MD. Paul succumbed to a five month long battle with COVID - 19 on August 28, 2020 at the age of 88. He was with family and a compassionate caregiver at the time of his passing. Paul Wilson was a psychiatrist with a private practice in Bethesda, Maryland for 35 years. During his practice, he treated hundreds of patients in the Washington, DC area with compassion, respect, and an "old school "commitment to his patients. Paul would take after hours calls, and make home and hospital visits. Paul was born March 2, 1932 in the village of Taigu, Shansi Provence, China. His father, Sam Wilson, a Presbyterian pastor, was a missionary sent from Oberlin College to manage building projects, and teach English. His father also developed an interest in Chinese art. The Wilson Family moved to Park Ridge, Illinois where his father worked as a pastor and curated his Chinese antiques at The World's fair located in Chicago at the time. As a student Paul excelled academically, lettered in basketball and track, created oil paintings, and enjoyed living in a close knit community. With an academic aptitude, athleticism, and a school leadership position he earned a full scholarship to Columbia University in New York City. While at Columbia, Paul studied anthropology, rowed crew, and most importantly met his future wife of 64 years, Barbara Foley. Like a scene from a movie he had his fraternity serenade Barbara outside of her dorm window. She was impressed and they married in New York City in 1955. Paul was drafted into the army during the Korean war where he remained in the states and was stationed at Fort Monmoth, New Jersey. At Fort Monmoth he learned to drive a truck, how to shoot a rifle, and created a computerized data system for the army. Meanwhile Barbara was commuting to New York City to complete her BA at Barnard. His military service gave him access to the G.I. Bill that funded for his medical school training at Columbia University. His internship was completed at The University of Chicago. A number of experiences there led his to an interest in Psychiatry . There Paul and Barbara's first child, Patricia Tyler, was born. A residency in psychiatry was completed at The University of Michigan. His second daughter, Andrea Marie, and son, James Walker were Born. The family moved to Bethesda, Maryland where Paul worked for The American Psychiatric Association. His most notable contribution was being asked to assist with The second version of The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (The DSM). The original version was awkwardly written and Paul was asked to edit and re-write the next version of the DSM (DSM 2). It needed to be more "Usable" for the reading audience of general practitioners, medical students, Insurance companies. With the help of newspaper reporter, Robert Robinson, the two rewrote the DSM 2. In addition to and reediting the DSM 2, Paul was also part of a committee that had removed homosexuality from the DSM 2. The original version of the DSM 1 had categorized homosexuality as a pathological diagnosis. The change had been made in response to a request made by the National Gay and Lesbian Alliance that homosexuality should no longer be considered a "diagnosis." A note of recognition to Paul and Mr. Robinson is included on the second page of the DSM 2. Based on his own experiences as an intern and training, in 1986 Paul wrote A "Survival Manual" for medical students. This was published and provided to all incoming medical students in the late 1980's. During his private practice, Paul treated many high profile members of the federal government and was an instructor at Georgetown University. Paul retired in 2002. Shortly there after Barbara retired from her job as a Demographer for Health and Human Services. They enjoyed travel, friends, family, grandchildren, book clubs, tennis, and being part of the Edgemoor community in Bethesda. Barbara passed away in June 2019. Paul is survived by his three children: Tyler, Andrea, and James and four grandchildren. Paul was a great host, a true friend to many and possessed an unstoppable wit. He will be deeply missed. Services will be at a later date. Our family would like to acknowledge the care and efforts of The Sunrise of Bethesda, Debra Levy Elder care services for their support and care coordination, the home health aides from Synergy Home Care that created an important bridge in his care after hospitalization, and the amazing nurses with The JSSA Hospice. All of these services and people provide compassionate care during this pandemic. It took a village and we thank you.Our family would like to acknowledge the care and efforts of The Sunrise of Bethesda, Debra Levy Elder care services for their support and care coordination, the home health aides from Synergy Home Care that created an important bridge in his care after hospitalization, and the amazing nurses with The JSSA Hospice. All of these services and people provide compassionate care during this pandemic. It took a village and we thank you.

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Published by The Washington Post on Dec. 6, 2020.

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Alisa Ashby

January 7, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful man, father, grandpa, and uncle. I am so happy I was able to see him and visit last year. Much love and prayers for my cousins and their families.

Judy Wilson Gibson

January 5, 2021

I received notice of Paul's passing today, and I am very sad.
Thank you for letting me know, and I will be sending a note. The Wilson family came/comes from extremely strong stock, though there are not many of us left. Hooray for those of us still carrying on!!!!!!

Tyler Wilson

January 4, 2021

Paul was my father and I am his oldest daughter. The most important thing that he had taught me by example was to not take people for granted and to appreciate small gestures. His friendships ran deep but he was also aware of other people around him. He was humble. He thanked the grocery store cashiers and befriended them. When anyone helped him even in small ways he would thank them profusely. The musician playing background music at a restaurant was always applauded. It has been a great joy in life to see all people and be grateful for them. I have both of my parents to thank for their lesson of gratitude.

Tyler Wilson

January 4, 2021

Louise S Kiessling M D FAAP

January 1, 2021

I met Paul at Columbia when he started dating. Barbara. Foley, my best friend since first grade. Barbara and I had entered Barnard together and I have stayed a close friend of both since. It is with great sadness to mourn Paul’s passing. He was a warm and caring man who provided great care to his patients as well as wonderful support to his family. He is missed. My condolences to Tyler, Andrea and Jay and their families. Best, Louise S Kiessling MD, Wakefield, RI

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