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Stephen Thomas Wolfrey  
A Washington, DC, and Maryland native, and multi-unit franchise owner at Orangetheory Fitness passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, November 11, 2020, at the age of 55 while doing something he loved-motorcycling with close friends. Stephen, better known as "Steve," is survived by his father and step-mother, Tom and Cathy Wolfrey; his mother and step-father, Judy and Boyd Merrifield; his sister, Susan Wolfrey; his partner, Emily Scheer; and his beloved children, Natalie and Ben Wolfrey. Ask those who knew him best, and you hear Steve was a loving father, a free-spirit, and someone who lived and let live. He was a lover, not a warrior; empathetic and caring; but most of all someone who just made you feel good when you were around him. In business, Steve embodied the entrepreneurial spirt, was a visionary, and had a unique ability for understanding what every client needed. His passion for business and care for his clients allowed Orangetheory to prosper beyond the wildest of dreams. A genuine, open human to everyone around him, Steve had a knack for allowing you to just be yourself. He could make strangers or mere acquaintances feel like a friend. And in this way, Steve, knowingly or intuitively, had unlocked one of the secrets to life. As Maya Angelo wrote: people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. You felt better when Steve was in the room. When faced with loss, there is a tendency to feel empty and helpless. But take comfort, just meeting Stephen Thomas Wolfrey made you fuller than you ever would have been. A celebration of life will be held for family and close personal friends on Saturday, November 14, in Annapolis, MD.  In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the Chesapeake Bay Foundation.

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Published by The Washington Post on Nov. 13, 2020.

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James Gottwald

November 18, 2020

My sincere condolences to all. Steve was a childhood friend. Ran into him several years ago at the Orange Fitness in Olney, MD. I spent a lot of time in his swimming pool. We attended the same church. We used to go fishing at Lake Needwood near his home. His mom and my mom are still great friends. When we were kids I traded him for his tackle box which I still use as a tool box. I'm glad he had children, friends, and a measure of financial success. Saddened by his loss. Prayers for the children, family, partner, and friends. Rest in peace.

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Henry DeVuono

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Susan Ellis

November 14, 2020

My heart goes out to Steve’s family and Emily. Such a tragic loss.

Laurie Udell Piazza

November 13, 2020

The last time I saw Steve was two years ago at our Rockville High School reunion. We of course had a lively chat and this photo captures his shining spirit!

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Lisa Domenici

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Susanne Dallon

November 13, 2020

It’s so hard to believe that someone so full of life is gone. He was always fun and always made you feel like you were the most important person in the room. We will not forget him.

Stephanie Buckberg

November 13, 2020

I met Stephen because of OT and then eventually realized he and Emily were partners. I joined OT in Olney and was a founding member! Emily was my favorite coach and I can't stop thinking about her and his family. He was always so upbeat and positive the few times I saw him, but I knew he did great things. When I heard the news I just couldn't believe it. A tremendous loss and his memory will forever live on. My very deepest sympathies to his family and Emily.

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Suzanne Weiss

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Brittany Skrutski

November 13, 2020

Steve remains a wonderful energy and generator of hope and joy. Working for Steve was knowing and growing with Steve, as he was inclusive and fair and professional but casual and fun. A natural addition to anyone’s chosen family. I’m confident he felt the love from so many he encountered, and I know it complimented the already present, wonderful spirit that he was. Thanks for everything, Steve Wolfrey, we keep you with us because you made us feel like we always have a friend.

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Jamie

November 13, 2020

I’ll miss you, my friend. Save a Titos and soda with orange for me.

Mary Kay Isaacs

November 13, 2020

I am shocked and in disbelief. Steve was a bright light in a dark room. Always smiling, always friendly, always caring for people. So many memories from the past are flooding in. You will be missed my friend. Thinking and praying for all his family and close friends. What a huge loss.

Amy Falcone

November 13, 2020

Steve-your smile will be remembered forever. Rest easy my friend. Emily and family may you find comfort in the memories during this most difficult time. ❤

Jamie

November 13, 2020

I’ll miss you, my friend. A Titos and splash of soda with an orange will never be the same.

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