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Patricia Loreto Obituary

Patricia C. Loreto, 43, died Saturday, May 24, 2003 at 11:30 a.m. at Johns Hopkins Hospital, Baltimore, Md. She was the wife of Steven M. Loreto. Born July 24, 1959 in New Kensington, Pa., she was the daughter of Samuel G. Couch of York and the late Judith (Stacey) Couch who died November 25, 2001. She taught Spanish at Aberdeen High School until she retired in March of 2002. She also previously taught at Aberdeen Middle School, Aberdeen, Md. She was a 1977 graduate of York Suburban High School. She attended Shippensburg University and graduated from Millersville University. She was a member of the Catholic Apostolic Church of America. She was a former member of Eastminster Presbyterian Church, York, where she taught Sunday School and was a youth group leader. Besides her husband and father, she is survived by two daughters, Sara S. and Karen L. Dexheimer, both of York; and three brothers, Jeffry H. Couch of Nichols, SC, Gregory C. Couch of Columbia, Md. and Michael D. Couch of York. Following cremation, a memorial service will be held Wednesday at 11 a.m. at the Etzweiler Funeral Home and Cremation Service, 1111 East Market Street, York. Officiating will be Most Rev. Carl G. PurvenasSmith, O.S.B., D.D., her pastor. A visitation will be held Wednesday from 10 to 11 a.m. at the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made to American Cancer Society, 924-N Colonial Avenue, York, PA 17403.

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Published by York Daily Record on May 27, 2003.

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Katie Benedict

June 10, 2004

Mrs. Loreto... she was always like a mother to me. I remember her when I was in elementary school. I remember how she was a mystery to me... how she over powered me and how she always had her cain. I remember when my mom explained to me WHY she had to have the cain, I remember that pain. I never viewed Mrs. Loreto as weak, she was anything but that. When I was in middle school I was blessed by being the only B in her "S" homebase. She was my best friend. She let me "skip" my tech class and she was always an ear. I can still picture her room with the Steelers flag in the corner where the American flag was supposed to hang. Thats my girl! When I was a "wee-little" freshmen she was again my Spanish teacher... the hardest teacher I ever had... but I loved it and I loved her! I hope she is looking down from us in heaven,watching all my mess ups and laughing. I wish she was still here to give me advice like the old days. I lost contact with her the last year of her life, and I regret it deeply. I never got to say goodbye... or thank you. So Thank You Mrs. Pat! I love you and miss you greatly!

Michelle H

April 28, 2004

It's been a year since Mrs. Loreto has died. I still miss her very much. The news of her death, is still shocking!!! I Love and Miss her so much....

Kenny Smith

April 12, 2004

Patti, I can't believe it's been nearly a year since we lost you. I still can't believe you are gone. The girls are so wonderful, you were a great mother. I remember you not only as an adult but as a little girl & a baby. You were loved by many & are still loved by all. I know that you are with The Lord & you are safe--your girls are safe too--the whole family will love & protect them.

I love you & miss you

Kenny

Ruth Thomas

April 10, 2004

Pat,

A tribute to a person with a caring and courageous heart. I have shared some of your suffering along the way, as we edured the same disease. Your legacy is your wonderful daughters and the support for them from family is unconditional love. I think of you often.

Cousin Ruth Thomas

Stacey Romine

April 10, 2004

Patty,

I know you know what you ment to me.

I never realized how much I would miss being able to pick up the phone and call you. I don't want to bother the girls I know there are busy.

just wanted you to know i think of you often

love you bunches stacey

Sam Couch

April 9, 2004

My Dearest Patty,

We are still mourning our loss. You left us so early, only 43 years old, but having already accomplished so much. In addition to raising two wonderful and beautiful daughters, you were a great teacher and a giving loving person. Yes, this is a father talking, but it is backed up by the many tributes, visits and cards by those whose life you affected so positively. I see you every day when I see your daughters and your brothers. You live on in our hearts.

Anne

June 12, 2003

Paz I will miss you. Even though you were facing a tough fight with cancer, you were always cheerful and positive. You were a joy and a good on-line friend. My prayers are with your family.

June 10, 2003

Est: You were that rare flower on a fresh dew covered meadow that brought beauty and a smile to those you touched. In the Podium, yo umade people better than they were by your mere presence. As when the fall comes and the wild flowers have gone, you have left us, but the seed of your memory will live on. Thank you:) WIMoose

Charlie Pendorf

June 7, 2003

like a mother to all of the students, making us feel like your own "kiddies" made my first year in public school so easy. talking to you online, being like a mother, and a close personal friend made dealing with my own things easier. i loved you like a mother, talked to you like a best friend, and miss you more than you will ever know. i hope you are up there watching over me still... i promise to make you proud. i love you

Kathy Rea

June 6, 2003

We shared many times together - stories, rides to and from Aberdeen Middle, jokes and pain. You are now with God.



You stood by me when I needed you - I'll miss your smile and your sense of humor. Be at peace with the Lord.

Jim Dennis

June 4, 2003

In the fall of 2001 Pat came to teach at Aberdeen High School and this is where I first met her. My room was just down the hall from hers, when I went to welcome her to the school I walked into her room and discoverd a large plastic rat and a Grateful Dead poster. Of course we immediatly became friends and harrased each other constantly. Through the year and ahalf that I worked with Pat I shared many laughs with her about what was happening at school. I've missed her since she had to leave and will always remember the Deadhead who loved Jerry Garcia. I'm sure I'll see ya someday Pat.

Christian Frye

June 4, 2003

She was the best teacher in Aberdeen Middle School when I was in the 8th grade. She would make us laugh at bad times and she made you feel confortable in her class. She was like a spanish mother to me. Then when she told us that she might go to CMW and teach, we told her that she couldn't go to there. Then we were so surprised to see her the next year in Aberdeen High School. She loved aberdeen too much and we loved her too. She would be truly missed at Aberdeen, but we know that she is in a better place now.

sandy brooks

June 3, 2003

My beloved friend, I miss you so much. Pat, you deepened my faith, articulated what I could not, and taught me grrrrrness in the face of pain and adversity. I shall live in my faith and not in my fear, because of you, and one day you and I shall enter the dance together, barefooted in God's meadows. May God bless your family. grrrr, Girlfriend.

Rose Rasberry

June 1, 2003

You will be missed by all your friends in the room, we niss your sharpe wit so much already, we never met but became close friends on line,my prayers go out to her family.

Lee Anonymous

May 31, 2003

I knew Patricia as "Estrelle" in the Podium Chat Room. She was a ray of light and laughter in a place that often tended towards rancor. Even in an online chat room, there was a certain grace and acceptance in her manner. She was always upbeat, positive and courageous in the face of what must have been difficult times for her personally. She is an inspiration to us all. My prayers go out to her family and friends. May flights of angels speed her to her rest.

Janice

May 31, 2003

Est, I miss you so much, but I know that you are in a place where all your good will be rewarded. You were a dear friend and confidant, and for that I will be forever grateful.

I love you, Sassy

Eve

May 31, 2003

I first met Estrella in The Podium chatroom 2 years ago. I always enjoyed her, and am deeply sad to hear she has passsed on. My heartfelt condolences to the family of a truly remarkable and beautiful woman. I will remember her.

"God's Finger Touched Her, And She Sleeps"

joe

May 30, 2003

hola, mi amore`.

God has called you home. We mourn your loss, and He celebrates your life. Your kind words will remain with us , always, and our memories will keep you alive.

It is said to be a privilege to die. It truly must be, for The Lord has chosen you. One day,if we are lucky, we may have the privilege of sharing time with you in your heavenly home.

JOY

May 30, 2003

Hola Estrella :)



Our Prayers are with you and the girls :)



All Of Heavens Love!

Alice and Terence

May 29, 2003

You were much loved and will be greatly missed.

"Remember me when I am gone away, Gone far away into the silent land"

Christina Georgina Rossetti

Bruce Cadenhead

May 29, 2003

Pat was a lovely person and will be missed dearly.

Bobbi and Richard Shank

May 29, 2003

Our prayers go out to you all. love Bobbi and Richard

Linda

May 29, 2003

Paz was a special friend in the Pod. She was always courageous and upbeat in spite of her illness. Her friendly and kind attitude was respected by all. She will be sorely missed. My prayers and thoughts are with her family.

~Aubie~ @)>--->-----

May 28, 2003

Hola ((((Es))))


I wrote your name in the sand,

but the waves washed it away!

Then I wrote it in the sky,

but the wind blew it away!

So....I wrote it in my heart

...and that's where it will stay! I will always treasure our friendship and chats. I know your an angel. {\o/} God bless you! My deepest sympathy is extended to family members. ~Aubie~

Marie S

May 28, 2003

Rest with the angels dear sweet lady.

You will be sorely missed.

God needed a special angel.



Love you and look forward to meeting you in Heaven.

michele cabot

May 28, 2003

We've cried together many times, and laughed together more times than I can ever count. Pat would stand in my Health Suite door at school and, while clutching her chest, yell, "Nurse, nurse! I have a sucking chest wound! Help me!" To see her funny faces always made me giggle....Now it is I who has the sucking chest wound, where a piece of my heart has perished. Thank you, Pat, for allowing me to be a part of your life, for inspiring me and everyone else around you with your wit, your strength, your hope and your faith. I love you and will miss you always.

Heather Reed

May 28, 2003

We will miss you in the chat but we will never forget you.

Debby AKA Nool

May 28, 2003

My Dear Friend Ester... It was so wonderful chatting with you on line and may you now rest in Peace with out any pain at the right hand of God and may God Bless your Family.

Tracy Blair

May 28, 2003

I was blessed to teach with Pat at Aberdeen Middle School for five or six years. We shared so much together and laughed until our stomachs hurt. I will miss Pat for the rest of my life because the world was a better place with her in it. I love you, Pat.

Bob McCarter Jr.

May 28, 2003

I first knew Pat in Jr. High when I got lucky enough and won the 1973 spelling bee when were both in 8th grade. Patty, as I knew her then, was a formidable opponent and I felt proud to be in her league. Patty and I got to know each other very well both in school and in Youth Group at First Presbyterian Church in York. We developed a good friendship and I will always remember her great smile and her talent for playing guitar. Having lost my mother to cancer 8 years ago, I can understand the loss that Mr Couch, Jeff and Greg are feeling at this time. My thoughts, prayers and condolences go out to the Couch and Loreto families.

Jean JMB

May 27, 2003

She was Estrella to me.....a wise, witty, articulate on-line friend.We bonded as teachers, as parents proud of our children, and as women intensely interested in the world around us and the events shaping our lives. Those left bereft by her passing, as I am, can seek comfort in having been privileged to know such an extraordinary person.

Michelle Hamill

May 27, 2003

I was one of her students at Aberdeen Middle School! She was my German teacher and I will miss her so much. She was great!!! Our thoughts and prayers are with the Loreto family. I Love and Miss You, Miss Loreto....

Timoteo McKay

May 27, 2003

Mi mejor amiga, hermana verdadera y mi luz y guia por tantos años. No podré ser profesor sin ella en aquellos primeros años.



Pati,



Di HOLA a tu mamá para mí.

BONNIE MARCEY

May 27, 2003

SO FEW PEOPLE HAVE THE GIFT OF WORDS PAT HAD. SHE WAS AN INSPIRATION TO US ALL, IN THE PODIUM, A POLITICAL CHAT ROOM, WHERE WE ALL BECAME FRIENDS. YOU WILL BE SORELY MISSED!

Gary MrBTNTCHAT

May 27, 2003

Pat was an online friend but she was more than that, she was an inspiration to all who ever chatted with her. I never pesonally met her but admired, respected and, yes, loved her.



Go with God Pat.



Gary

Deanna Kile

May 27, 2003

My heart and prayers go out to all of Pat's family and friends. She is with her Mom now and that must be a great reunion. May God's love be with all of you.

Brandon Little

May 27, 2003

She was like my mother. We always got along and had fun. For the past few months we have not been talking, but truly in my heart I always loved her. She was a wonderful mother and has brought up two wonderful daughters. My prayers go out to the family. Pat, I really miss you. You were like a mom to me. Take care..

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