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Loquetta Legendre
May 31, 2019
My dear dear friend. You are missed so much. Today I was sent the book for CANAR and of course you know Melanie made me cry. Then I received a call from your mother. Cried and laughed with her. You my friend will never be forgotten. We will share our memories until we no longer walk this earth. My prayers are with the family. Marc was an inspiration to us all. Thank you all for sharing him with us.
Kristi McCahon
February 25, 2019
To My Very Dear Sheila, Frank Sr, Stefanie, Scott, Nico, Frank Jr, Candy, Kurtis, Lisa, and all the Espino and Escalante Families, My deepest condolences. ❤
I wish so so VERY much I could do something, anything, to ease your pain.
Yet, I know grief is a reality for all of us and a natural human process, that nobody can simply "fix." To nurture our mental and physical wellbeing, we learn through awareness, to honor and gradually
Accept the rise and fall of each passing turbulent, many times crushing, waves of jumbled emotions, clinging to our life rafts trying to ride out these waves, as each follows its natural path, yet eventually making it to shore.
Please always remember we are here for you. NO MATTER WHAT it is you may feel, think, or need, please don't hesitate to ask for support. I LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY.
(There's nothing You could think/say that would scare me away. Sorry, but when Stefanie married my Lil' Bro,, you may not have fully realized the complete package that came with that union ;-). You know my story, so I hope you feel completely comfortable and free to express yourself in any way that you feel you need to. I am here for you. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of how you all must be feeling; knowing the deeply gut wrenching grief I would experience if one of my brothers had left this lifetime way too soon.
If any of you need to cry, laugh, or a mixed bag of both, or feel the need to reminisce, I'm here. Or you feel full of anger, pissed off, need to scream, curse, or feel like you're boiling over with frustrations, Or you find yourself pinball-ing between feeling sad, somber, anxiously or irritable. Whatever it is I'll be by your side to help you ride those waves of emotions and thoughts.
I can simply listen, or talk, or scream and curse with you. We can sit in meditative silence, pray together, walk or hike it out for as many miles as it takes to bring some sense of relief. (Stef there's also always the sledgehammer therapy I previously mentioned, (May sound silly but breaking things can be a good release sometimes). Or taking the emotional energy out on a good ol' punching bag or kicking the crap out of one of my old faithful soccer balls, whatever it is, I'll be there.
Enduring such tragic life events, such as intense grief it can remind us how these human minds we live in really do have a mind of their own. With this awareness can come a gentle reminder to be kind to yourself, (if you have that annoying critic in your head like I do remind it it's services are not helpful & to go take a long vacation, and forgive yourself. Because at the end of the day, we're all messy humans who do the best we can in any given moment.
From personal and work experience I've seen how in grief we may feel so completely overwhelmed and swamped by the crashing of the waves that we may not even be aware of how, why, or what we are feeling, thinking, or how we're behaving towards ourselves or others. It can feel like falling off our surfboard from a 60 foot wave, then getting caught in the rip current of intense spiraling, swirling emotions, and wondering will we ever be able to get our head above water and take that sacred breath again. As your family and tribal community so Gracefully embodied on the day of the ceremonies for Marc, the shared value of a truly supportive, loving community, family and friends are most often the way our human minds and hearts gradually begin to feel and actually enjoy the warm sunny surf again.
I'm here for you and your family, whenever any of you feel ready. Please don't hesitate to ask.
Lastly, I wanted to express what a special honor and privilege it was to be able to experience such an extraordinarily beautiful ceremony and service for Marc. I'm humbled and so grateful beyond words that we were able to be there to celebrate Marc's life, spirit, give our respect, pray with everyone, and offer support for you and your family. It really was amazing to see and feel the strong sense of community and all of the many expressions of Love for Marc and your family. Experiencing the power of the traditional Tohono O'odham songs, felt deeply spiritual and it touched my soul, inspiring a flood of tears, yet at the same time felt so soothing. The entire day was truly the most gracious, spiritual, supportive, loving, soothing, and peaceful funeral I have ever experienced. (As a family let's make plans to keep Marc's Spirit present and abundant for Nico to continue to learn and feel how special his Uncle Marc is.---(I don't think Marc would let us get away with not doing that! :-))
So, I guess when I met Stefanie and the Espino's ya'll put a spell on me because I've been in love with you all ever since! (Whether you like or not ;-).
Please don't hesitate to call, text, facetime, or use whatever form of communication works for you these days...(I can't keep up with the Millennials).
I LOVE YOU IMMENSELY....sending a Big HUG to you All and of course to
Marc's spirit, (I know he's super busy up there plotting things for all, b/c he had so many friends, admirers, and loved ones).
(Oh Marc I wish we would have had another chance to further discuss our plans for the Espino & McCahon clinic, we would've made a great team!)
P.S. I know this just could be a coincidence. But I thought I would share, on Friday 2/22 I stopped by the cemetery to visit my grandmother Dorothy and auntie Kay's gravesites because it was just my grandmothers birthday on the 17th. I had said some prayers at the gravesite and of course Marc came into my mind and said a prayer for him. As I was walking to my car to leave I had opened the Safari on my phone to open a spiritual recording I was going to listen too, and I don't know how or what I may have touched ( I really don't think I touch anything). but right after that Marc's picture and his legacy webpage popped up. It really surprised me, i don't know how or why it opened. it was as if he was saying hey what's up! Don't worry everything is cool! It made me laugh, after I'd been crying.
I'm pretty regimented about always closing out all my Internet windows so, it really perplexed me. Anyway I usually am sceptical of things like this but I really don't know how it happened because I didn't have it open previously or anything so all I can say is I think it must be Marc's generous spirit reaching far and wide and he's is up there at peace just having fun! ❤
February 13, 2019
Dear Frank and Sheila,
It was with a heavy heart I read this obituary.
May God give you the comfort and peace that you seek. My prayers and love are with you and your family.
Rita (Varela) Spriggel
Pre-Wedding Party
Kristi McCahon
February 13, 2019
San Diego, Espino & McCahon Crews
Kristi McCahon
February 13, 2019
San Diego Baseball
Kristi McCahon
February 13, 2019
Oakland A's with the Espinos!
Kristi McCahon
February 13, 2019
A Perfect View for Marc, from the top of my SD apartment bldg.
Kristi McCahon
February 13, 2019
Yosemite, Brother Sister trip.
Kristi McCahon
February 13, 2019
Bernie Bouts
February 12, 2019
My condolences to your family, may the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
February 11, 2019
Dear Sheila & Frank,
I was stunned to learn that Marc had completed his journey. I can only imagine your sorrow and want you to know that your and your family are in thoughts and prayers.
I remember the first time I met Marc: he walked into our Head Start conference room...his hair was long, he'd come down from his job at at Victoria's Secret and he had the most amazing smile! Just a joyous human being!! I also remember when Marc provided training for our Head Start staff about a year later....he'd cut his hair but oh, that killer smile was still just as beautiful!
You raised a lovely human being and his short time here touched a lot of people and hearts. It really isn't about the length of time we're given, is it? But...it's about what we do with the time we're given...think of everything Marc accomplished and the impact he's made on all the lives he touched!
Bobbi FireBush
Iola
February 9, 2019
My heartfelt condolences to family and friends of Mr. Espino. May you find peace and comfort through prayer to God. Psalm 29:11.
February 9, 2019
My heartfelt sympathies are with you at this difficult time. May you all continue to be strong for one another and look to the Scriptures for comfort and hope as you endure this great loss.
(1 Thessalonians 4:13, 14)
Lorraine. Lori Robinson
February 8, 2019
Frank and Sheila, I am so, so sorry for your loss. May God bless you during this difficult time
Bernie Bedoya
February 8, 2019
My sincere condolences and prayers to you and your family.
Shari Mattias
February 8, 2019
My prayers are with your family.
Ray Urias
February 7, 2019
My condolences to the Espino family. Mark was a great friend back in high school. I always looked up to him. Rest in Peace my friend!
February 7, 2019
My heartfelt condolences to the Espino family and friends on your tragic loss. May Marc rest in peace.
Charlie Russell, Las Vegas
February 7, 2019
To Frank and his wife Shelia, so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace.
Danielle Wernick
Robin Wilson
February 7, 2019
Frank and Sheila and family. I am heartbroken over your loss. Your son was truly an amazing person, his passing has ripples here on the Fort Yuma Rez and Yuma with sorrow of a good person gone. We are all with you in your pain and wish we could be there physically with you. Rejoice that he is walking with all those loved ones that have gone before him. Take care of each other.
T L
February 7, 2019
To the Family, My condolences for your loss.
Cousins are really your first best friend
Elena Gonzales
February 7, 2019
I love you my FAVORITE so so much! I know you will be watching over ALL of us! Make sure you give nana and tata a huge hug from all of us. You are always in my heart.
February 7, 2019
May the God of comfort and peace give you strength to endure and to cope during this difficult time.psl 119:76.
Sincerely,
B.A.
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