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Richard Noty Obituary
Richard was a former lacrosse coach at Lane Tech for two years. He loved all sports but found a true home with the Chicago Footy team and was a constant member and supporter. He had humor, passion, enthusiasm and commitment for those he valued. He loved all music, played guitar and was a rabid Dr. Who and Monty Python fan.
He leaves to mourn his father, Dr. Charles Noty; one sister, Elisabeth Noty; one brother, Chuck Noty; his life partner, Jane Berry; and a host of family, friends, teammates and co-workers.
He was preceded in death by his mother, Wilma Osheim Noty.
He will be missed by all for his love and support - he always could be depended on to help his friends, family, life partner and teammates.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Lymphoma Research Foundation.
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Memories and Condolences
for Richard Noty
Sponsored by Rich's Life Partner, Jane.
Audrey Henderson
February 19, 2025
You are still missed, and never forgotten.
Audrey Henderson
October 4, 2024
Happy birthday Squab. It´s still hard to believe you´re gone. Gone, but never forgotten.
Audrey Henderson
February 22, 2024
Audrey Henderson
February 22, 2024
Audrey Henderson
February 22, 2024
The weather has been unusually sunny and warm for February, which you would call perfect footy weather. You are still missed and definitely not forgotten.
Audrey Henderson
October 4, 2023
Happy birthday Squab. It´s a gorgeous October day although probably a bit warm for you. As you wished, you have not been forgotten.
Audrey Henderson
February 22, 2023
It´s hard to believe you´ve been gone for more than 15 years. You are still missed and are not forgotten.
Jane Berry
October 5, 2022
Our Annual Rich Noty Birthday dinner at Wildfire last night was again a celebration of your life, and we enjoyed swapping sagas and tales about Rich.
Audrey Henderson
October 4, 2022
Happy birthday Squab. You would love the weather today, blue skies and comfortable temps. You have not been forgotten, even now.
Audrey Henderson
February 23, 2022
Yesterday marked an anniversary: 15 years. Sometimes it seems like yesterday.
Jane Berry
October 5, 2021
Once again, we have held the annual Rich Noty Birthday celebration at Wildfire... we are sure you were with us in spirit.
Audrey Henderson
October 4, 2021
Happy birthday Squab. The Sox are in the postseason. The Cubs are...not.
Audrey Henderson
February 23, 2021
Another year has passed. You are still remembered and still missed.
Audrey Henderson
October 4, 2020
Happy birthday Squab. Even now you have not been forgotten. Rest well.
Audrey Henderson
February 22, 2020
You would have liked today -- crisp and dry with sunshine and blue skies. You are still missed.
Audrey Henderson
October 4, 2019
Happy birthday Squab. I saw someone today who could have been your twin, It's still hard to believe you're gone.
JANE BERRY
October 4, 2019
On what would have been your 61st, I still miss and love you... Your memory is with me always... At the end of this life, I hope to meet you again in the next.
Audrey Henderson
February 22, 2019
More than a decade since you passed and I still remember the sound of your voice. You are still very much missed.
Audrey Henderson
October 4, 2018
Happy 60th Squab. Your wish has been honored and you are not forgotten.
Jane Berry
October 4, 2018
Well, you would have been 60 today... I still miss you and love you. We had our celebration of your life last night, and are grateful for the time we each had with you.
Photographs remind me of the specialness of you. I treasure those memories, and still kick myself for not having a second digital camera when we went to New Zealand.
Looking forward to my annual visit to Lost Lake where we scattered some of your ashes.
Audrey Henderson
February 22, 2018
You are still very much missed.
Audrey Henderson
October 5, 2017
Happy belated. I wanted to visit earlier but was wrestling with my computer all day. It reminded me of all the times you helped wth my PC. Requeat in pace.
Rich in NZ
Jane Berry
February 22, 2017
Rich in NZ
Jane Berry
February 22, 2017
Rich on VD - playful
Jane Berry
February 22, 2017
Rich on VD -formal
Jane Berry
February 22, 2017
Rich in NYC
Jane Berry
February 22, 2017
Jane Berry
February 22, 2017
Ten years... It's still unbelievable that you are not here by my side. I'm still smiling and thinking of you. See you on the other side.
Audrey Henderson
October 4, 2014
Happy birthday Squab. It's chilly and cold, just like you prefer. Somehow that's fitting.
Audrey Henderson
February 24, 2014
Seven years, and it still seems like yesterday. I hope you have found peace. Your wish is being granted -- you will never be forgotten.
Jaen Berry
February 22, 2014
Even though it is seven years now, memories of Rich and the color purple still make me smile. His death ended a life, not our relationship. Love endures, no matter the amount of time that has passed.
Audrey Henderson
November 4, 2013
A belated happy birthday. I almost bought you a card this year, then I realized that I would have nowhere to send it. It's still hard to believe that you're gone
Audrey Henderson
February 23, 2013
Six years since you passed and it still does not seem real. Has my mother found you yet? Peace and Godspeed; you are still missed.
Rich at Stonehenge - Contentment Personified
Jane Berry
February 22, 2013
Six years later, and on reflection, Rich had a well-lived life... He made the most of his time with us.
Roger Phillips
January 1, 2013
Hey, Rich, the Cats won a bowl game!
Audrey Henderson
October 4, 2012
Happy birthday Squab. It's still hard to believe that you are not with us in body. However, you shall always remain present in spirit.
Rich in Hawa'ii
Jane Berry
February 22, 2012
Jane Berry
February 22, 2012
5 years... It does not feel like that much time has passed, and it does not lessen how much I miss you. There are many things I think I know, but only one thing I am certain I know... I will always love you no matter what else ever happens in my life.
Audrey Henderson
October 4, 2011
On what would have been your 53rd birthday, I am writing to let you know that you are not forgotten.
Tracy Qualls
February 25, 2011
I can't believe it's 4 years now. Still get caught off guard when I see men who look a lot like Rich. The huge smile and urge to go up to them quickly turns to sadness when I remember it can't be him... Miss and still think of you, Rich. And Jane!
February 23, 2011
Has it really been four years? So much has happened in that time, but I still sometimes catch myself when I see something that reminds me of you. You are still missed so very much.
Rich in B.C.
Jane Berry
February 22, 2011
Jane Berry
February 22, 2011
Somehow, four years have just slipped away... but I miss Rich every day...
Friend of mine
Has gone away
Like a light from yesterday
Lost in space
Somewhere they say
This friend of mine
He could sing
Like a child
A mother's dream
So sweet and mild
Or big and mean
Loud and wild
This friend of mine
His voice is still
Like the night
Rustling winds
Of angel's flight
Take him home
To the light
This friend of mine
This friend of mine
J. Hiatt
Tracy
February 24, 2010
I still miss him and his goofy sense of humor. Not to mention the occasional "shiner" he'd be sporting from playing football, loved giving him a hard time about that.
Audrey Henderson
February 23, 2010
Has it really been three years? So much has changed, and yet, I still miss you every day.
Rich's ashes on the field of the MCG
February 22, 2010
Jane Berry
February 22, 2010
It was 20 years ago this month that I met Rich, and 3 years since his passing... "In Memory Yet Green, In Joy Still Felt"...
Audrey Henderson
February 23, 2009
Tempus fugit. Two years hardly seems like two days.
Jane Berry
February 22, 2009
Rich Noty, International - Baby... He may not have been famous, but he traveled all around the world. In the last 18 months, his ashes have also been scattered where he felt a strong connection. He is in Whistler, British Columbia, Canada; Melbourne, Australia; Wellington, New Zealand and Edoras, Middle Earth... And of course, his soul is carried always in the hearts of those of us who love him.
Rich in 2002 at Whistler
February 20, 2009
Richard Noty -- October 2006
February 23, 2008
Memorial service flowers from NU
February 23, 2008
Richard Noty -- in memoriam
February 23, 2008
He gone!
February 23, 2008
Coach Noty celebrates a triumph.
February 23, 2008
Coach Noty celebrates a triumph.
Audrey Henderson
February 23, 2008
Even after a year it hardly seems real that you left us so soon.
Rich and Gandalf
February 22, 2008
Contemplative Rich
February 22, 2008
Rich at Edoras
February 22, 2008
Rich in Wellington, NZ
Jane Berry
February 22, 2008
What can you say about someone who quotes from one of his favorite Sci-Fi movies when he is told he is going to die within the week? Toasty was one of a kind, "There can be only one"... His love of music, sports, animals and his family and friends and his sense of humor is definitely missed. We all keep him in our hearts. He lived a good life, and was well-loved. What more can you ask?
To sum up: "Every man dies, not every man really lives" Rich was one of those who really lived...
Daisy Hopkins
February 20, 2008
My Deepest Sympathy,
Rich was such a fantastic person. Always eager to help. It was great working with him. He was our computer whiz and fun to be around. I miss him. RIP.
Jan Krysa
March 8, 2007
My fondest memory of Coach Noty was when one day during lacrosse practice, instead of doing the usual drills he changed everything up and let us play aussie rules football. It was awesome, thats just one of those great moments many us at Lane Lacrosse owe to this wonderful man.
Stephen Kentala
March 1, 2007
I met Coach Noty during my freshman year and he was a character. Being an offensive player, there wasn't as strong a bond as he had with his defenders but his presence was unmistakable. He always seemed to bring a certain cheer to practice or a game. Even after his coaching days were done, it was always wonderful to see him on the sidelines at a game. My prayer's go out.
John Cashman
February 28, 2007
For Jane, and for Rich's family, and for all who loved him. I wish Rich peace, love and comfort.
Ivan Calderon
February 28, 2007
Playing for Coach Noty has taught me about what it means to be dedicated. When all else failed, he stayed, and for that I will miss him dearly. Thanks
Alfredo Peralta
February 28, 2007
Coach Noty was a great man; one who was willing to give so much to a group of kids he just met in a program that was below the radar in most every respect. I have only fond memories of Coach Noty, so full of spirit and energy. My condolences to all who know and love him.
Eduardo Hernandez
February 28, 2007
I met coach Noty my freshman year at Lane and am more than grateful for that. He taught me what i needed to know to become better at the game. He was a caring and very determined man. The world has definietly losta great person in coach Noty. I will miss him greatly.
Ahsan Khan
February 28, 2007
I've known Coach Noty as a kind sould with a warm personality. His enthusiasm for the game of lacrosse and footy was infectious. Rest in Peace, sir, you will be missed.
Rick Ernst
February 28, 2007
I only had the chance to meet Coach Noty a handful times at practice my freshman year. But I will always remember the fire he brought to every practice he could make it to and of course kicking around the football after.
Leticia Verastegui
February 28, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with Rich and all of his loved ones in their time of grief. I knew Rich through my friendship with his life partner, Jane Berry. Jane and Rich had a close, loving and fun relationship that made being with them a joy. I'll miss the repartee between them, his sense of humor and his caring nature. May our memories bring us comfort.
Edgar Del Rivero
February 28, 2007
I was dumbfounded when I heard that Coach Noty had passed away. He was an excellent Coach and had a great personality. Practices were always something to look forward to. Had he not worked as hard as he did to save our program, I would not be where I am today. Thank you Coach Noty. I am deeply indebted to you.
Nik Barge
February 28, 2007
Coach stuck with our team at Lane even when it's future seemed bleak. This is but one example of Rich Noty's great character. He was always there for you, with a smile and a laugh. Coach you will be greatly missed.
Eric Hebert
February 28, 2007
I was shocked to hear about Coach Noty's passing. Though through what he taught me, you must always keep your head up and smile through both the good times and the bad. You can't stay upset for to long while thinking of him. He was a great man and a great coach. He will be greatly missed.
Michael Rutkowski
February 28, 2007
It was an honor and a privelege to have known Coach Notty. He has provided me with some of the more memorable High School and Lacrosse memories. He will be sorely missed by all those that have known him. I send my deepest condolences to the family who have lost a great individual.
Elle Shaw
February 28, 2007
Please accept my deepest sympathies. I had the pleasure of working with Rich. He was a GREAT guy. I will miss him.
... too young, too soon.
Jonathan Levy
February 27, 2007
I worked with Rich the last few years and he was a great guy. It is still hard to believe he is gone. He is much missed both personally and professionally.
Osborn Egeonu
February 27, 2007
This is a major shock to me. Coach Noty was a great guy and an excellent Coach. I will miss him, he was important part of my life. He was always smiling and will always be remembered.
Jean Wood
February 27, 2007
Dr. Noty, Elisabeth, and Chuck, I offer my condolences on Richard's death. I remember when he was born as I was Wilma's student at American Conservatory then. She was so proud of her "new" son. Evidently Richard had a full life and was well thought of by his peers and players from Lane Tech. I met him only once after he was grown. I offer my sympathy.
Elias Pera
February 27, 2007
I was deeply saddened to hear of Coach Noty's passing. I'll always remember his great smile, booming voice, hilarious jokes, and steadfast determination. He stuck by our team when no one else would. Thank you for all you did for us and our program. We love you Coach. God Bless.
Drew Bogan
February 26, 2007
I can not express what a warm and caring and adventurous man Rich Noty was. As a coach, he preserved the lacrosse program at Lane with his passion and dedication. He and the players forged a wonderful relationship. He brought me into that family and I will be forever grateful.
Jeff Roberts
February 26, 2007
It’s been more than 25 years but I can easily picture Rich in the alcove of our dorm room, his beloved lacrosse stick propped against the wall alongside that goofy plastic horn he’d blow relentlessly to cheer on the miserable NU football team. A Robin Trower record is blasting on the stereo. He was a great roommate and friend, as kind and big-hearted as they come. We lost touch a few years after college, and I regret that. But it’s good to know that Rich pursued his passion for sports and music the rest of his way-to-short life.
Cecelia Henderson
February 26, 2007
I knew Richard for 20 yr. and he was a joy to know.
Daniel Kamper
February 26, 2007
I knew Rich indirectly but I knew him to be one of the good people that the world desperately needs.
Al MacGlashan
February 26, 2007
Rich was the most amazing team mate and club man. His passion for the game and his fellow players will be greatly missed, a true champion of Austrlian Football.
Tracy Qualls
February 26, 2007
I had the privilege of knowing Rich for the last 3 years - he was my downstairs neighbor and fellow animal fanatic. He had an oddball sense of humor that always cracked me up, and he was a very sweet, intelligent person. I'm sorry he's passed but wish his family and Jane, the best. He was very cool and I'm the better for having known him. You'll be missed, Rich.
Audrey Henderson
February 25, 2007
Squab,
What can I say? I miss you already and yet I can hardly believe that you're gone. You always declared that you would live forever.
But then again, you will be evident on every sunny day. When I look up at the sun I will think of you, and sneeze. Thanks to you I am probably one of the few black women (if not the only one) in the entire world who knows ALL the words to "Behind Blue Eyes." My dog will be very happy to see you. Please pet him for me.
All levity aside, you have been a constant in my life since we were both just kids. I cannot imagine a world without you in it, so I won't. I will carry you always in my heart and my thoughts.
Roger Phillips
February 25, 2007
Richard,
Though we lost touch after college, I will always remember you with nothing but fondness. You were one of a kind and you will be sorely missed. My deepest sympathies go out to family and to those who were a part of Richard's life following Northwestern. Richard was a gem.
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