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Lakewood Funeral Home

6250 U.S. Route 9

Howell, New Jersey

Anthony Mattioli Obituary

Anthony Mattioli

AGE: 63 • Howell

Tony passed away on December 15th, 2014 at Kimball Medical Center. Born in Scranton, PA to Otto and Dorothea , living most of his life in Lakewood, NJ.

Tony was passionate about beer, the Eagles, Phillies, Englishtown Raceway, wood working, and his flame truck. He served in the US Army during the Vietnam War. In 2002, he retired from the NJDOT after 28 years of service.

Tony is survived by his wife and best friend of 41 years, Grace Ann Senerchia Mattioli. He was a proud father of 3 sons, Joseph of Ocean Grove, Anthony (Stephanie) of Howell, and Frank of Jackson. He is also survived by his sister and brother-in-law, Argia (Ralph) Caines of Olyphant, PA, sisters-in-law, Nancy of Avoca, PA and Maria Iadanza of Jackson, and many loving nieces, nephews and 2 grandchildren, Isabella and Zoe. Tony is recently predeceased by his brother, Otto Jr.

Family and friends may visit the DiCostanzo family owned, Lakewood Funeral Home, 6250 Highway 9, Howell on Saturday from 4-6 PM for a Memorial Gathering.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Dec. 17, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for Anthony Mattioli

19 Entries

Mike Popiel

December 11, 2024

Think about Tony and his family almost daily. I hope Grace-Ann found you and you two are together for eternity.

Tom Cammorato

October 19, 2021

October 2021- Grace and family. Many years have passed since I spent time with Tony and Grace. Tony and I worked together in the NJDOT and we became good friends. We owned a jon boat together and went fishing weekly. I was into motorcycles & Tony into drag racers. We spent time at concerts, ball games, and I always had a place to hang out. My gf at the time painted a mural on a bedroom wall from an Eagles album. I shared many experiences with Tony, some good, some bad, but we stayed close until 1987 when I left the NJDOT for the Garden State Parkway. I saw Grace and Tony from time to time, but our living distance and work schedules complicated our seeing each other. Over time, I drifted in belonging to MC clubs, eventually diving full blown into the Harley lifestyle. The last time I saw Grace and Tony, I am sad to say, was 2005 after I got divorced. I showed up a few times in Howell but my work schedules interfered with my frequency to see my old friend. I was also traveling country wide quite a bit besides working for the GSP.
Tonight I am in Daytona Fl., just having worked Biketoberfest for my seasonal employer, Harley Davidson, when I had a thought about Tony. I am saddened to read that my best friend for many years has passed on & I missed many years with him. My deepest condolences go to Grace and the boys. R.I.P. Tony-
Bronson(my nock name from you).

Brenda

January 13, 2015

Awesome letter Frank....... to an awesome man. Miss you sooooooo much Tony!

Frank Mattioli

December 27, 2014

Growing up in the Mattioli household was an experience! We did things that I'm sure normal families do. However, there were some unique Tony things. My brothers and I learned from an early age that Dad didn't just get mad at one of us. If someone pissed him off, typically Joey, than everyone got yelled at! Even friends! Tony had two emotions; happy or completely pissed and you knew which mood he was in as soon as you were in his presence. If you left a draw open, put a tool in the wrong place, or passed by a abandoned newspaper in the driveway and you definitely heard about it! But he wasn't mean. He just expected us to do the right thing. And the right thing was whatever he thought! If you didn't agree with him, he'd say, “do what you want!"

I got to spend a lot of time with my father as a child. Those are my favorite memories. We'd go to the races in Englishtown, which he absolutely loved. He always took pride in the fact that he only missed one summer nationals race in over 50 years. We would go bass fishing together, however I don't ever remember him catching a fish. We'd go off-roading in his 'Kiss my Bass truck', (which is different from the flame truck and no I didn't destroy that one). Or we would simply hangout in the backyard. He loved his yard. I remember setting up his ‘ empties' (those were his empty beer cans). I'd set them up in a pyramid and shoot at them with my bb gun. He'd laugh if I missed and tell me that I'd never make it in the army.

We also spent a lot of time in the shed. It was more like a clubhouse. He is the only man in recorded history to ever build an addition on a shed! And you were never allowed to do any work in it. I'm pretty sure the shed was cleaner than our house.

I told him that he was the best Dad in the world in that shed. I meant that. He taught me woodworking, electrical, automotive repair, and construction. He was handy. I remember watching my father build an addition on our house. I was so proud of him. He seemed larger than life. However, the older I got, the less work he would do! In fact, two weeks ago he was at my house watching me fix siding. He told me he was just there for moral support!

My father wasn't perfect. There are a few things that I wish were a little different. I wish I would have heard him tell me that he was proud of my brothers and I. I also wish we would have said 'I love you' more often. Thankfully, I had the opportunity to tell him that I loved him the night before he passed. As my mother and I were in the hospital room, he asked us to hold his hands. He looked at me and said, "I love you, take care of your mother for me.” Then, he looked at mom and said, “I love you baby, I don't want to leave you alone!”

That was my father. Even as he lay there dying, his main concern was his family. I love you Dad.

Bob aka zipper Granza

December 20, 2014

Remembering years ago growing up and all the fun we had together..time goes on and friends get lost in time,but memories always remain. May you rest in peace....blessings to the family

sister Brenda

December 19, 2014

A candle so you won't be in the dark. Xoxo's

John and Beatrice Simms

December 19, 2014

Frank our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family just remember that your father is in a better place now may God Bless you and your family.

Cindy, Joe and Sandra Price

December 19, 2014

It wasn't so long ago how Grace and I used to go to Lakehurst and visit with you on a Friday night. Little did I know by you introducing me to Mickey I would have a wonderful daughter. Boy time flies. Those were the good days. Peace be with you Tony and may God bless you and Grace and family. Love Cindy and family

Judy Pascale

December 19, 2014

Dear Frank and family. My dearst sympathies to you and your family in the loss of your Dad. You' will be in our thoughts during this difficult time.

December 19, 2014

To the family of ANTHONY MATTIOLI I send my sincere condolences. During this difficult time of mourning draw close to GOD and he will draw close to you. JAMES 4.8.

sincerely,

JWJC

Rob O'Brien

December 18, 2014

I will burn a candle tonight at home in his honor. ..peace to you all

Brenda Caines

December 18, 2014

No wards can express the sorrow. No words can lift the pain. Yet, here goes. To my Aunt Grace and cousins Joey, Anthony, Frankie, Stef, Tara, We all know Tony was the best, A rock among pebbles. he will be missed every day for the rest of our lives. Brenda, see you soon...............

Sandra Clark

December 18, 2014

My Uncle...How do I put into words what you meant to me, to us. John, Jesse and I loved you so much. You were our Uncle first,but more like our brother and a true friend. So many memories from just hanging at the house to time at the racetrack, to tossing jabs as the Eagles faced the Cowboys. I will always remember our talks, your hugs and what an honor I will always carry becuase you were part of my life. Until we meet again. Love Sandra

Christopher Kearney

December 17, 2014

My deepest heartfelt sympathies to Mrs. Mattioli, Joe, Anthony and Frank in your time of bereavement. Anthony "Pops" Mattioli was a great man and will be sorely missed. I pray that God finds you all in those hard times and that you all are comforted within his presence. Pops will live on through your love and precious memories of all the moments that were shared. ~Always in my prayers~

December 17, 2014

Rest in Peace from the Peraggine family.

Perry Caines

December 17, 2014

I remember the Cabin family fun day and during our picture everyone bursting out laughing because the chair collapsed beneath you and it was the best family day I can remember from my childhood I loved and enjoyed ever time and chance I got to go to your house to visit I love the strong beautiful family you and aunt grace raised/built each one of your sons are the prime example of men and you are a prime father and husband I love you and will always carry you in my heart with my father for the rest of my existance you will be missed uncle tony

Lisa Caines

December 17, 2014

I'm family. 30 years ago I met my soon to be husband Perry and one of the first things he said was I have to bring you to Jersey to meet my Uncle Tony. He then proceeded to tell me about Grace and the boys but oh how he loved Tony, his "brother". Soon we on our way taking a trip, not even calling, Perry knew we would be welcome with open arms and always would be. Nothing changed in the 30 years we were always welcome smiles, hugs, open arms. Thank you Tony for giving me the privilege of being part of your family. Jersey will never be the same :( love and miss you

Alex Franklin

December 17, 2014

You always treated me as one of your own when I came over to hang with Joe.
I have a lot of really great memories of my days at your house and you were a huge part of that. I'm sad that I didn't get to see you another time because it had been awhile.
Thank you Big Tony for always welcoming me into your home and being an all around great guy.
Joe, Anthony, Frank, and Grace, my thoughts are with you all.

Mike popiel

December 17, 2014

I'm gonna miss you buddy. We didn't see each often, but when we did it was as if no time had passed. You were a good friend and you will always be in my memories.

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