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MARY PATRICIA "PAT" JUDGE
AGE: 72 SPRING LAKE
Mary Patricia Judge, 72, of Spring Lake, passed away Wednesday, Sept. 15, 2010, at home, surrounded by her family. Born in West Orange, Pat moved to Spring Lake and graduated from St. Rose High School in Belmar. A graduate of Kean College, she touched many students' lives as the Speech Therapist at St. Catharine and HW Mountz Schools for 27 years. As a member of St. Catharine Parish, she served as president of the St. Catharine's PTA, and Chair of the Candlelight Ball. Always caring for others, her volunteer work included serving as bookkeeper at Our Lady of Providence Medical Clinic in Neptune, delivering Meals on Wheels, working at the Visiting Nurses Association Thrift Shop in Manasquan, and championing Right To Life causes. She enjoyed tennis, golf, and book club with her dear friends, and her greatest passion was her children and grandchildren.
Predeceased by her beloved parents, William and Mary Tobin Garrett, Pat is survived by her loving husband of 51 years, Walter F. Judge, MD. She is also survived by her brother, William F. Garrett and his wife Anne; and sisters-in-law, Peggy Berger and Mary Quinn and their families. She will be dearly missed by her children and their spouses, Christopher and Tara, Kevin and Sharon, Walter and Claire, Mary and Rocky, Brendan and Beth, and Martha. Pat was a source of unconditional love to her 10 grandchildren, Will, Allison, Kerry, Alec, Sean, Seamus, Meghan, Owen, Liam, and Nora.
Visitation will be from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Friday, Sept. 17 at the Neary-Quinn Funeral Home, 39 South St., Manasquan. A Mass will be offered at 9:30 a.m. Saturday, Sept. 18 at St. Catharine R.C. Church, Spring Lake. Interment will follow at St. Catharine Cemetery, Wall. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Visiting Nurses Association would be appreciated. For more information or to post a tribute, please visit www.neary-quinnfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mary Judge
Bill Judge
September 23, 2010
Dear Walt and Family,
I know you will all cherish the memories of her loving kindness and generosity. Truly a gift to the world we are each much better for having known her. I am deeply saddened to hear of Pat’s passing and will keep her and each of you in my prayers.
Bill Judge, Apex NC
September 20, 2010
Dear Judge Family,
I know Pat Judge through her wonderful son Chris, who was a student of mine and now an esteemed colleague of mine. I am so saddened to hear of Mrs. Judge's passing and offer my condolences and best wishes to Dr. Judge and the family. Stan Green, West Long Branch, NJ
September 19, 2010
Love to all the Judges and Quinns on the sad occasion of Pat's passing. Nothing but happy memories of a lovely lady. David Joyce and family, Skerries, Ireland. Chris - hope you are well- get in touch - [email protected]
Nancy Carroll McDaniel
September 17, 2010
Oh My! A life well lived! Celebrate such a light that will always shine! Thinking of all of you.
September 17, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. "Pat" prayed for me in my time of distress. She will be remembered always. Linda Foy (Spring Lake Recreation Fitness Instructor)
September 17, 2010
To The Judge & Quinn Families:
So sorry for your loss.
May God give you strength at this difficult time.
Earth has no sorry that Heaven
can't heal.
Megan & Allison O'Day
(formerly of Spring Lake/Currently
in Wall and Haddonfield, NJ)
Kathy Snow Dweck
September 17, 2010
Thinking of you during this difficult time. You are the such a large close knit family, I know Mary Pat's presence will be truly missed!
Kathy Snow Dweck
September 17, 2010
In the rising of the sun and its going down,
We remember them.
In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter,
We will remember them.
In the opening buds and in the rebirth of spring,
We remember them.
In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer,
We remember them.
In the rustling of leaves and in the beauty of autumn,
We remember them.
In the beginning of the year and when it ends,
We will remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
We will remember them.
When we are lost and are sick of heart,
We remember them.
When we have Joys we yearn to share,
We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make-We remember them.
When we have achievements which are based on theirs- We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live; for they are now a part of us, as we remember them
All of my sympathy during this time...............Kathy Snow Dweck
Eileen Day Cytryn
September 16, 2010
Dear Kevin, Walter, Mary and Family, I am deeply sorry for the loss of your mother at such a young age!! She sounded like a lovely person, which is why you all are such wonderful people too! I am keeping your family in my prayers, and I wish you all well!! Very Sincerely,
Lynn Carroll Looney
September 16, 2010
Dr. Judge, Mary and family, We were so sorry to hear the sad news. I have so many great memories of Mrs. Judge. She had amazing energy and was always so warm and welcoming, always smiling. She truly was a beautiful lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
September 16, 2010
Walter, Chris, Kevin, Walter, Mary, Brendan & Martha,
I have so many fond memories of Pat - from many years ago running around in Dromoland Castle to the good ol' Essex & Sussex days and later years when your family took me into your home to share holidays. It meant so much to me. I will miss her. So sorry for your loss.
love from Judy
Coleen Mahoney
September 16, 2010
A warm and generous spirit with a welcoming smile and engaging personality. What a wonderful impression to leave with anyone.Your wife, mother and grandmothers mark in this community is certainly one to be proud of. Celebrate her life and memory!
Mary-Ellen Deckhut (SRHS 1980), President Trenton Diocesan PTA
September 16, 2010
Mrs. Judge was truly one of the most giving people in the St. Catherine and Spring Lake community. Those who knew her were blessed. May you find comfort in the kindness she has shown others during her life and know she is with God and His Blessed Mother watching over you.
On behalf of the Trenton Diocesan PTA Board, I express our deepest sympathies.
Jerry Pindar
September 16, 2010
Much sympathy to the Judge family. May you cherish the memories. God bless...
Pat McCann
September 16, 2010
Dear Judge Family,
I want to offer my condolences and sincere well wishes to the members of your family in your time of loss.
With deepest sympathy,
Lisa and Matt Sagui
September 16, 2010
We were saddened to hear of the loss of your mom Brendan. We are keeping your entire family in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
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