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Michael Steinhauer Obituary
AGE: 38 • Little Egg Harbor
Michael Edward Steinhauer, 38, of Little Egg Harbor, passed away on Monday, Sept. 16, 2013, at Jersey Shore University Medical Center, Neptune, surrounded by family and friends. Michael was born in Atlantic City Medical Center on Nov. 27, 1974. He attended Winchell School in Longport, N.J. and Little Egg Harbor Elementary, graduating from Pinelands Regional High School in 1993. Mike was a Police Service Representative (PSR) for the Stafford Twp. Police Department and was posthumously promoted honorary Class I Special Law Enforcement Officer on Sept. 17, 2013. All who knew or met Mike soon learned what an amazing, inspirational, and special man he was. He touched the lives of all he met by his optimistic outlook, his humor, and his kindness. Let his legacy be that we all become more patient, more tolerant, more loving, and compassionate because we learned that from Mike.
Mike was predeceased by his father, John G. Steinhauer Sr. on Dec. 19, 2012. He is survived by his mother, Nancy J. Steinhauer of Little Egg Harbor; his brother and sister-in-law, John G. and Danell Steinhauer of Waretown; his sister and brother-in-law, Deanna and Anthony Bartolini of Manahawkin; his aunts and uncles, Judith Mathis of Raleigh, NC, Geary and Pat Steinhauer of New Gretna, and Paul and Fran Steinhauer of Little Egg Harbor; his nephew, Bradley Steinhauer and nieces, Bailey Steinhauer of Waretown, and Emily Bartolini of Manahawkin, and many other dearly loved family and friends.
A tribute to Mike's special and wonderful life will be held at 4 p.m. Friday, Sept. 20, 2013. The memorial service will be held at Central United Methodist Church, 5 West Marvin Ave., Linwood, N.J., preceded by a gathering with family and friends from 1 to 4 p.m. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations in Mike's memory to the Stafford Twp. PBA Local 297, 260 East Bay Ave., Manahawkin, NJ 08050, or the Stafford Twp. First Aid Squad, 365 East Bay Ave., Manahawkin, NJ 08050. Wood Funeral Home, 134 East Main St., Tuckerton, is handling the arrangements.
No more pain and no more confinement, as Mike walks across heaven with Dad.
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Memories and Condolences
for Michael Steinhauer
John Graig
September 13, 2023
Still holding on to many fond memories of Mike. He was a man who always smiled and had a positive attitude despite his difficult circumstances.
Doreen LaSala
October 9, 2013
Nancy....so, so sorry. I just heard today. Mike was so special in so many ways. Lots of memories when the "kids" were kids, swimming in your pool, practicing karate, etc. You're in my heart and in my prayers.
Douglas M Cranmer & Family
September 26, 2013
Our deepest condolences to the entire Steinhauer family for the loss of a great and caring person. Mike will never be forgotten in our home.
Ken Clineman
September 24, 2013
Nancy-
So many years, and so many miles now separate our families, but those common threads formed early- H.S., First Aid Squads, family values, children in Little League, that South Jersey pride......we have traveled quite some distance in time and geography, but we share a bond. Sometimes it is hard to understand- maybe we aren't meant to understand- just love the time we had. Good bye Jack and Mike....for now. Nancy, we are here if you need us.
Ken and Connie
Vicky Hawkes
September 23, 2013
My condolences in the loss of your son & brother. He was an incredible person who undoubtedly left a lasting impression on anyone privileged enough to cross his path.
Many thanks to your family for raising the boy I knew to the man he became. You should be so proud of the job you've done. His legacy will live on. Rest in Peace Mike...
September 23, 2013
So sorry for your loss..
The Waters Family
Bob Engel
September 20, 2013
May God bless Mike. I had the honor and pleasure of working with Mike at Stafford Twp. PD
Erica Chambers
September 20, 2013
To a family whom looked after me when I was young. I so wish I could help you all in another way other then in words.
So to a young man whom lit up a room
I don't believe that the little things Michael did so naturally effected those he encountered
He changed lives with a smile
You will be missed never forgotten
Those of us all have a lil piece of you which will be carried through out our days
REST NOW Michael
Let your spirt fly upon raven wings
September 20, 2013
To the entire Steinhauer family, So sorry for your loss. You have all had a rough year, hope things start to look up for you. RIP Michael
Robyn Pitt
September 20, 2013
So sorry for your loss, he was such an amazing person and an inspiration to others
Lizette Vadell- Horton
September 20, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of his passing. He was a great person with a huge heart. Keeping his family in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. May you all find comfort through all the memories you've made with him.
todd mulligan
September 20, 2013
Heaven is a better place today My condolences to the whole Steinhauer family
Tara & Will DeMarco
September 19, 2013
Heaven has gained a true hero. You will never be forgotten. Thank you for the memories and the strength and positive energy you always carried. R.I.P. 344
MIKE VAN LUVENDER
September 19, 2013
R.I.P. BROTHER MIKE. SORRY I DID,NT GET TO KNOW YOU I LEFT TOWN BEFORE YOU.
September 19, 2013
Mike, I hope you are enjoying a round of golf with your dad up in heaven!
Mary Rosell
September 19, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Mary
September 19, 2013
Dear Nancy:
Although there aren't any words to ease the pain and heartache that you're feeling, there is a poem
that I read a long time ago that goes something like this: "There is no need to weep, I've left sweet recollections of our time together."
Jack went ahead, so that Mike wouldn't be alone.
September 19, 2013
Deepest Condolences
Autumn Solitare-Magee
September 19, 2013
I haven't seen Mike since school. No matter what the obstacle he was always positive and optimistic. He was a strong man and may his spirit inspire those that feel they are lost.
Hank & Diane McGirr
September 19, 2013
Mike was an inspiration to so many! He will live on through so many who had the honor of knowing him. Heaven gained a very special angel!!
Barbara Harris-Para
September 19, 2013
Nancy I can't imagine you losing both your loves of your life in less than a year. My heart aches for you. Please accept my condolences as limited as they can be, hope to see you soon.
September 19, 2013
Sincere condolences to the family. Mike was an amazing person. He was kind caring and set examples others would be amazed with. He smiled all the time. He will be missed by many and angel in heaven. Rip mike
Sandy & Roy Brown
September 19, 2013
Not many people know the love that was showered on Mike all his life. He was blessed and became a bigger blessing. Our Love Sandy Roy Vince And Family
Christina Zeitler
September 19, 2013
Stafford Police will never be the same without him. He was the best and I will miss him! I was lucky to have him in my life. God bless you Nancy, Jack, Deana and family.
David Martin
September 19, 2013
We will miss you UNCLE MIKE.. LOVE NATHAN AND LEAH MARTIN
Courtney Manning Villari
September 19, 2013
Mike touched so many with his amazing spirit. He will be missed by many! I tad been at least 15 years since I have seen Mikey and still have so many fond memories. Thoughts and prayers for his family and friends.
Buddy and Debi Smith
September 19, 2013
It saddened me to hear of mikes passing after he was doing so well. Wow what can one say about mike that hasn't already been said, he truly was a fun and likable guy! I was his bus driver back in the day , picking him up every morning was such a joy always looking forward to his bubbly personality and "flirting" with me as I would buckle him in! He would always say " if I only could walk , you'd be in Trouble!" Well Mikey , you can now!! Thanks for leaving us all with a smile in hearts when we think of you! Our condolences to the Steinhaurer family! Bud and Debi Smith
Janine Seeley
September 19, 2013
You were my rock through some of the most difficult times of my life, I will never forget your smile or the friendship we developed. You still owe me a wedding dance...be free my friend...until we meet again on the dance floor. I will never forget you!
Theresa Yagiello
September 19, 2013
Mike was such a precious inspiration to all. Sincere condolences to Nancy and the family. Anyone who met Mke was drawn to his wonderful smile and personality. May the Good Lord bring comfort and peace to the family, in this time of sorrow.
September 19, 2013
Mikes smile made working with him a pleasure. My thoughts & prayers are with him mom. Rest in peace.
Larry & Rita Parker
September 19, 2013
You will be missed by many but never forgotted!
Larry & Rita Parker
September 19, 2013
It is so hard to put into words how one feels about Mike, He had an infectious personality, always smiling that made you feel great. He will be missed but never forgotten. My family loved him alot. He is walking with his Dad now and that does bring a smile to our face. My thoughts & prayers for his Mom Nancy & Family.
Debbie and Dave Wilkinson
September 19, 2013
Our hearts are breaking for the Steinhauer family, friends and co-workers of Mike. What a kind, beautiful person he was. He just possessed so much positive energy despite the trials and tribulations he has been through. He certainly was blessed with a great family to support him through the tough times. I will always remember dancing with him on our wedding day a little over 26 years ago and then again at his freedom party this summer. May he now truly enjoy his freedom and have that quality time he missed so much with his dad.
Colleen Arrowsmith
September 19, 2013
I didn't know Mike but graduated high school with his brother Jack. I remember seeing Mike during our time at Pinelands in the halls and was always so amazed by his smile and positive nature. My condolences to the family and hoping you find peace and comfort knowing that Mike is with his dad in Heaven now.
Pat Shouldice
September 19, 2013
I met Mike in Manahawkin Bible Study and he was an inspiration and JOY to anyone who was around him. The world is a much sorrier place without him.
September 19, 2013
Mikey, I didn't know you well. I loved it when you called me your UNCLE SKIP. You were an inspiration to alot of people, including myself. A wonderful man, you gave more to the community in your short life, than most do in a full lifetime. Thanks for being you.
Uncle Skip Deckman
Diane Lyle-Sherman
September 19, 2013
Sorry For Your Loss...
Dawn Berry
September 19, 2013
Mike was an inspiration to everyone he met. Words can't fully describe his amazing personality. Heaven is an even better place since he arrived! He will be sadly missed by everyone who knew him.
Dawn Berry (LEH, NJ)
Theresa Stevens
September 19, 2013
There are no words to express how I feel that will be enough. Just know that he is forever in your hearts and souls. That he will be with you all from this point forward as your guardian angel. May you all find comfort in his love of you and life. May your hearts fill with love and not sadness because that is how he would always want you to remember him. We love you all and WE LOVE YOU MIKEY! Rest in Peace sweetie your are gone but you will NEVER be forgotten...
Michelle Jacondin
September 19, 2013
R.I.P. Mikey. You will forever hold a place in the hearts of everyone that new you. You were an inspiration to us all. I am honored to say that you were my friend and showed no matter what, smile. Always laugh. You showed the true meaning of strength and courage. May you take comfort in the Lord's loving embrace and fly high with your angel wings. Much love and respect to you and your truly amazing family <3
John Graig
September 19, 2013
Mike was an inspiration to anyone that knew him. His smile and positive attitude were infectious . Heaven has a new Angel.
Sherry Heffley
September 19, 2013
So sorry for your loss...prayers & hugs for all his family...Love you all !!!
Sheri Cairns
September 19, 2013
We are so very saddened by the loss of Mike. He was a hero to us...so brave. He had the biggest smile ever and an even bigger heart. We pray that he rests in peace xoxo
Our love and deepest sympathy to his family and friends.
Sheri, Mitchell and Ryan Cairns
Debbie McNally
September 19, 2013
It was an honor just to know Mikey may he rest in peace!
cathy grant
September 18, 2013
May God hold you through this and may the memories surround you The Grant family
Anita Grayson
September 18, 2013
Mike touch so many lives. He touched mine. He will be very missed.
Serina Viering
September 18, 2013
Dear Nancy,Jack & Deanna,I am so very sorry to hear about Mike.He was truely a 1 of a kind person.Always knowing how to make people laugh & smile.He has touched alot of lives.May he look down on u each & everyday.He will never be forgotten.He will be missed by alot of people that knew him.May he rest in piece.
Hattie Lohr & Family
September 18, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss...Mike was a great guy...
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