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Mary Lois Nicholas

1923 - 2020

Mary Lois Nicholas obituary, 1923-2020, Marysville, CA

BORN

1923

DIED

2020

Mary Nicholas Obituary


Mary Lois (Berkenkotter) Nicholas was born in Golden, Colorado, on May 6, 1923, to Gerard and Margaret Berkenkotter. Lois, as she preferred to be known, passed away peacefully after a short battle with cancer on July 1, 2020.

Lois was the third of five children and spent 94 of her 97 years in Colorado. She grew up during the Great Depression and World War II with a large family that helped form her outlook and attitude that carried her through until her passing. She said she always "feels lucky to have what I have".

At the end of the war, Lois married James Ontis and had three children, James, Billy and Judi. Lois worked various jobs until the death of Jim in 1967. The next year her son Billy died in combat in Vietnam.

Several years later Lois became reacquainted with a classmate from high school, Jack Nicholas. Lois and Jack had attended South High School together in Denver, Colorado, and in February, 1978, they were married. They spent the next thirty years traveling the U.S. with their trailer including five trips to Alaska, Canada, all but five states, Nova Scotia, and most of the US National Parks. She loved traveling, the Denver Broncos, hockey, a good baseball game, country music, her garden, and her family and friends.

After her husband Jack passed away in 2009, Lois lived in their home until 2017 when she decided to move to California to be near her daughter, Judi and her family. She had many new friends, attended local events, parties, and regular exercise classes.

Lois is survived by her oldest son, Jim (Shelia) Ontis of Denver, Colorado; grandchildren, Steve, Dawn, Zack and Kara Ontis; daughter, Judi (Dave) Lane of Yuba City, California; grandchildren, Christy Taylor, Kelly Kolb; and many great-grandchildren.

She is preceded in death by granddaughter, Julie (Ontis) Welch.

At her request there will be no service. Mary requested donations to St. Isidore Church, or Sutter Health Hospice.
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Published by Appeal Democrat from Jul. 18 to Jul. 21, 2020.

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Jan Miller

July 12, 2023

You are still and will always be in my heart! You were such a wonderful lady and were an inspiration to so many! I loved your love of life and fun! Miss you even more and wish we could visit! Hugs to you,my always Ma and friend!

Jan Miller

July 12, 2022

2 years later now and I still love and miss you so much,Ma! I would love to sit and chat with you in your home,yard or my place! I will always remember and treasure all the good and not so good tines we shared! You were always there for me and I loved your zest for adventure and life! You were a true friend and God blessed me when he put you in my life! I will always love,miss and treasure you and your wonderful family!You will always be my Ma! Keep watch on all of us!

James Ontis

July 18, 2020

Well, its over now; Gentle Woman; Peaceful dove; Precious Lord take her soul, lead her home...Hello Holy Spirit. 97 + 60 days...
A gentle voice; as soft as candle smoke; she taught us all how to live an how to die; O Gentle Mother; peaceful dove; bless this day be with our loving Lord; take her home an let it begin, this perpetual light, shine upon her enteral life...Amen

Jan Miller

July 18, 2020

As the days pass on, I find myself really missing Lois ( AKA Ma ) and wanting to call and talk! She was one of the most loving,giving and inspiring ladies I knew! In spite of all her trials she kept a positive attitude and probably helped us more than we helped her.We were very close for many years and shared many celebrations and hard times together and with her beautiful family! I will always treasure our friendship,trips,shopping,lunches, sleepovers and our talks in her backyard! I love you Ma, forever and you will never be forgotten! I will always treasure our relationship and your family! Rest in peace and watch over all of us! Love and hugs to the family! God bless!♡♡♡

Donna carr

July 18, 2020

She was a best friend, great mentor, best pie maker, the love of Jack, smart happy women who always was the best company. A true voice that always put a smile on my face. I miss you so much and you will never leave my heart. My condolences to your much loved family. You have met up with your forever love Jack again. The best couple ever! ❤

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