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ABEL (TROCHECK), Katie

The bright candle that was Katie Trocheck Abel was extinguished much too soon on Feb. 9, 2022. Katie was only 39, but made her mark on the world every day and in every way. Cherished wife to Mark, tiger mom to Griffin and Molly, treasured first child of Tom and Kathy Hogan Trocheck, bossy big sister to Andrew Rivers Trocheck, and beloved daughter-in-law of John and Jane Abel of Columbia, MO, Katie was a force of nature. Born in Savannah, GA, except for a brief hiatus in Phoenix, AZ, Katie was a lifelong resident of Avondale Estates, GA. She graduated from St. Thomas More Catholic School in Decatur, where both their children are currently enrolled, and graduated from St. Pius X High School in 2000 in Atlanta. Katie met the love of her life, Mark Abel, while both were attending the University of Missouri, and where she learned the correct pronunciation of Miz-OO-rah. She and Mark were married at St. Thomas More in 2005, and embarked on married life in Phoenix. There, Katie graduated from Arizona State University with a Communications degree while also working for the department of athletics. On their return to the Atlanta area, Katie was employed by the City of Decatur as special events coordinator, a perfect job for a woman born to organize parties. Following the births of Molly and Griffin, Katie was employed as office manager at Tim Martin Wealth Strategies. An avid tennis player who proudly displayed her ALTA bag tags, in recent years Katie turned her enthusiasm to cheering on Griffin in baseball and Molly in cheer and volleyball. She loved brunches and Target runs with her girlfriends, planning themed Halloween costumes, cooking new recipes with Molly, and spending time at the family's vacation home on Tybee Island. Until Covid struck this cruel blow, she had boundless energy and heart for helping others. Katie is survived by her loving husband, Mark Richard Abel, children Molly Hogan Abel and John Griffin Abel, of Avondale Estates, parents Tom and Kathy Hogan Trocheck of Avondale Estates, brother Andrew Trocheck of Albany, GA, father and mother-in-law John R. and Jane Abel, of Columbia, MO. She leaves behind a cadre of heart-broken relatives, most notably her sister/cousin Sarah Abigail Murry of Atlanta, and legions of women friends who could all rightfully claim to be her best friend. A funeral Mass will be held Monday, Feb. 14, at St. Thomas More Church in Decatur. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in Katie's name to: The Georgia Transplant Foundation, https://gatransplant.org/ Helping Mamas https://helpingmamas.org/ or No Kid Hungry https://gatransplant.org/ A.S Turner & Sons Funeral Home.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Feb. 13, 2022.

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Terri Kohn

February 7, 2026

Thinking of you Tom, Kathy, Mark, and Andy. Molly and Griffin, your Mom was a ray of sunshine in so many people´s lives. She continues to shine down on you! Love to you all!

Gigi

February 7, 2024

Time does not heal all wounds. Katie's absence is a whole in our family that will never be filled. I think of her every day.

Steve Lasky

February 7, 2024

Katie was a joy to all who knew her. May her memory be a blessing.

Terri Kohn

February 7, 2023

Remembering Katie´s smile which was like sunshine. My thoughts are with Kathy, Tom, Andy and Katie´s husband And children.

Gigi

August 16, 2022

Thinking of Katie today and how she is loved and missed by us all. And will be always.

Tinah Saunders

May 17, 2022

Dearest Kathy and Tom,
My heart is breaking for you both. I just learned of Katie´s death this morning and am so sorry I couldn´t be there for her funeral. Please know Bob, Jessica and I are truly praying that you find peace in the good memories.

Todd Peterson and Carol Castleberry

February 17, 2022

With love from John and Jane's friends Todd Peterson and Carol Castleberry

Steve and Ruthie Lasky

February 16, 2022

Kathy and Tom, no words can express our empathy and sorry for the loss of Katie. May her memory be a blessing.

Terry Collis

February 16, 2022

A light has left this planet, but Katie will live on in our hearts forever. My prayers are with all of you.

Ki Nassauer

February 15, 2022

Today there are no words. May sweet memories brighten tomorrow. Sending my love.

Terri Kohn

February 14, 2022

Tom, Kathy and Andy,
My heart breaks for you! I will always remember Katie being my helper at David´s birthday parties and she was a dynamo then. Know my thoughts are with you all! XO

Meghan (Adams) Stabinsky

February 14, 2022

She truly was the brightest of lights and she will be missed dearly. Thoughts and prayers to all that knew her, as there will be a Katie-shaped hole in their heart, no doubt! She was always so kind and caring to anyone that knew her and I am very saddened that she is gone too soon.

Susie and Ken Baldwin

February 14, 2022

Our deepest sympathy for the tragic loss of Katie, to Mary Kay (Kathy) and her entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Suzanne Van Atten

February 14, 2022

I´m so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to the family.

Andrea and Jason Goodson

February 14, 2022

Jason and I were Hatch Hall dorm-mates with Katie at Mizzou. Sending Many many prayers of comfort for her family and friends.

Louie, Tara and Madeleine Ingle

February 13, 2022

No words are adequate to express our condolences. Katie made a difference in our STM and AE communities and she will be greatly missed. Praying for all the family and her loved ones.

Susie(Milas) Rick Montgomery

February 13, 2022

Our deepest sorrow for your loss. May she rest in eternal peace.

Myrtis Doyle

February 13, 2022

Kathy,Tom,Andrew,Mark,Griffin,Molly,John,Jane and Sarah. God has his arms wrapped around you and will never leave. You are on my heart with love Myrtis

The Huddle Family

February 13, 2022

Words cannot describe the heartbreak we have over Katie´s loss. She was a great friend, we will miss her amazing smile, and our summers at the pool. Our thoughts and prayers are with the her family.

Susan Lybarger

February 13, 2022

I am so sorry for your unexpected loss. I never met Katie but I know Sarah well and truly my heart is breaking for your entire family!!! I am sending prayer to Katie´s entire family. God bless !!!

Gayle Vincent

February 13, 2022

Kathy and Tom, I was so sorry see your daughter in the obituaries today. You might remember me as Gayle Turner, former roommate of Janet Ward. My heart goes out to you. We lost our 30 year old son a few months ago. I understand the indescribable pain. I wish you peace for now and good memories for later. Take good care of yourselves and your family. I'm so sorry.

Héctor Amador

February 13, 2022

Please accept our condolences.
Katie was so incredibly kind and positive every time we interacted.
I´m attaching a photo I took of her when she was working with Tim.
As the official photographer for Decatur I had the privilege to cross paths with her constantly.

The Galpin family

February 13, 2022

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Blessings to you. May God´s light shine on you and keep you safe.

Janet ward and Jack Wilkinson

February 13, 2022

Our deepest sympathies for your incalculable loss.

Jenni Gordon

February 13, 2022

To know Katie was to love Katie. She was kind and funny and thoughtful. Keeping Mark, Molly, Griffin and her entire family in our thoughts and prayers.

Una and Mark Newman

February 13, 2022

Thinking of all of you during this difficult time. Sounds like Katie made a real impact on those around her.

Pam McGahee

February 13, 2022

You are loved! Prayers continue for you to find peace and strength now and into the future.

Bobby & Sherri Dickens

February 13, 2022

Please know we will continue to lift your family up in prayer.

Bill King

February 13, 2022

Kathy and Tom, we were so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. God bless you and your family.

Alicia and Matt Burroughs

February 13, 2022

We are so heartbroken for all who loved Katie and will miss her tremendously. Prayers and love to her entire family.

Barbara Milas

February 13, 2022

My very deepest sympathies to all of you Tom ,Kathy Andrew Mark and children My heart is so broken for all of you May the Lord be with you all at this very sad time My thoughts and prayers are with all of you including Sarah

Linda Case and Cliff Case

February 13, 2022

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Melanie Burrows and Kim Zimmerman

February 13, 2022

Our deepest sympathies to Tom and Kathy and Katie´s beloved family and friends.

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