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Carol Mirabella-Finch
December 14, 2021
I didn't know Starkey well, but I remember him as brilliant, witty, and very funny. The world is poorer without him in it.
Jennifer Carrasco
September 11, 2020
I would go over to visit Starkey, and he was either rooting around in the garden or taking care of his mother and father. It was such a dear, original arrangement...the old parents in a big bed in the sun room, and Starkey either rolling his eyes or telling me to call his folks by their first names, "because they don't get to hear that anymore" Mr.Flythe senior (I assume his first name was Starkey, but I felt it was presumptuous to call him anything but that) would say to his wife, Mary. "Oh, there's that pretty girl again Mary... how wonderful, etc" and when I left, I could hear Mr. Flythe senior saying..."who was that girl, Mary?" And Starkey, bare chested, weeding among the blue and purple iris. Tell you the truth, I was startled at how fit he was! A good looking dude! Starkey took care of his parents, his poetry and writing, and his friends...and he also took care of how he presented himself. Either in a wrinkled Goodwill white suit with a boater hat or weeding in a field of iris.
Gloria Greenebuam
October 6, 2013
Starkey was an exceptional poet who encouraged others in their writing- a truly exceptional man.
Aida Rogers
September 28, 2013
I had the supreme honor to "edit" Starkey's humorous, touching essay about North Augusta, "A Little Different, A Little the Same" for an anthology titled State of the Heart: South Carolina Writers on the Places They Love." His tribute to the people who made North Augusta a wonderful place to grow up should be required reading for anyone who knows what it's like to live in a small town. What treasures he's left us.
Chuck Wright
September 26, 2013
Though I only knew Starkey a short time, I will forever be changed by his kind and gentle spirit. I will forever remember serving with him as a Lay Eucharistic Minister at the early Sunday service at St. Paul's. I enjoyed his wry wit and his knowledge and his unique personal view of the history of St. Paul's and Augusta. I am truly saddened to learn of his passing. The world was a much kinder place with him in it.
Donald, Ann and Robyn Macey
September 25, 2013
You will be missed,dear friend It was much too soon for you to leave us.
Alex Collins McClain
September 24, 2013
Starkey was my 9th grade English teacher at Paul Knox Junior HIgh in North Augusta. At the time, we select few advanced students were not happy with the grades he gave us; however, I look back on him as one of the best teachers I ever had. In fact, I used a lot of his "techniques" as I taught English for 30 years. He was a good friend and the epitome of a Southern gentleman. May his soul rest in peace; may his memory be eternal.
Sharon Schroeder
September 24, 2013
Starkey was a dear friend. I will miss his smiling face and accepting demeanor. He could make anyone feel special, for this he will have a place in my heart-forever.
Jenniifer Carrasco
September 23, 2013
I loved Starkey. After I left North Augusta, he would call me up once a year and we would laugh, talk about art and poetry, gossip and discuss our lives. I can see him battling the weeds in his garden of iris, surrounded by his yard of high trees and tangled plants...complex, flowery, a region of stickers,critters and beauty. A bit like Starkey himself. I miss him so.
September 23, 2013
A dear, dear friend and person - We will miss him greatly!!
Louise and Bill Ashby
September 23, 2013
The Information and Genealogy Staff will miss Starkey's visits that refreshed us with his joyful view of life. We are blessed to have known him. He contributed to the quality of life in Augusta in so many ways over the decades. He left a fine legacy to inspire all of us. We offer our deepest sympathy to his family.
Debby Barron and the Augusta Public Library Staff
Royce Patch Smith
September 22, 2013
John, sorry to learn of Starkey's passing. you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dena Brown
September 18, 2013
Starkey was such an amazing person. I'm grateful that I had the chance to know him, and those who were close to him have my deepest sympathy.
September 18, 2013
Starkey was good friend, and one of the funniest,smartest, and insightful people I ever new. RIP my friend.
C. Gibson Garrard, Marietta, GA
walt cox
September 17, 2013
Starkey will always remain in my memory as a wonderfully unique individual and a valued friend.
Josette Davison
September 17, 2013
More spirit than body, our dear Starkey. Friend and mentor, kind critiquer of my words,I will miss you greatly. Josette
John Braly
September 17, 2013
Starkey was a cherished friend who will be deeply missed. My deepest sympathies.
Monya Foster
September 17, 2013
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
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