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Starkey Flythe Obituary

AUGUSTA, Ga. - Starkey Flythe, Jr., of Augusta, Georgia, died at the age of 78 on Friday, September 13, 2013, after an illness of several months. Mr. Flythe was an award-winning writer, editor, teacher, cultural leader, and beloved friend. Mr. Flythe was the author of two volumes of short stories: Lent: The Slow Fast, winner of the Iowa Short Fiction Award, and Driving With Hand Controls, winner of the Serena McDonald Kennedy Award from Snake-Nation-Press. His stories were anthologized in Best American Short Stories, New Stories from the South, and the O. Henry Prize volumes. He was the winner of a PEN/Syndicated Fiction Award, a National Endowment for the Arts Fellowship in prose, and a South Carolina Arts Association literature Fellowship. Mr. Flythe's poems were widely published in magazines, including the poem "Greeks" in the August 8, 2011, edition of The New Yorker. Most recently, his poem, "Katherine, locked in the bathroom" won the Constance E. Pultz Prize from the Poetry Society of South Carolina. He published three collections of poetry in his lifetime: Paying the Anesthesiologist, They Say Dancing, and The Futile Lesson of Glue, which won the Violet Reed Haas Award. His subjects were wide-ranging, from pop culture to the rituals of death, from mistletoe to Jayne Mansfield's bosom. As he once said, the poems are "essentially about how things can't be put back together." His literary voice was slightly melancholy and always genial, with run-on associations that were wry, utterly original and unmistakably his own. His kindness and wit charmed friends, colleagues, students, and audiences alike. Mr. Flythe's gentlemanly manner reflected the more genteel age into which he was born, on February 15, 1935, second son of prominent Augusta lawyer, Starkey Flythe, Sr. and Mary Bacheller Flythe. His brother, Judge James Bacheller Flythe, died in 1986. His uncle, Edison Marshall, a fiction writer, was the author of 20 popular novels and a collection of short stories. Several of his novels, including The Viking, were made into Hollywood movies in the 1940s and 1950s. Mr. Flythe received his Bachelor of Arts degree from the University of the South and his Master of Arts degree from the University of Georgia. After teaching high school for several years in South Carolina and Georgia and following military service in Ethiopia and the Middle East, he began a career as editor for the Curtis Publishing Company. There, among other accomplishments, he managed Holiday and re-founded The Saturday Evening Post. He accompanied President Nixon on a trip to the Middle East in 1975 and interviewed a number of celebrities, including Lady Bird Johnson, Johnny Cash, Cher, James Brown, The Beach Boys and John Denver. In the early 1980s, he returned home, where he became a respected and forceful cultural leader. He was a central figure in the establishment of the Augusta Poetry Group, served as President of the Authors Club of Augusta, helped to create and develop the Sand Hills Writers Conference (now the Sand Hills Writers Series) at Augusta State University (now Georgia Regents University), represented the Poetry Society of South Carolina in the CSRA, and organized readings for the Westabou Festival and other literary events in both South Carolina and Georgia. A short film about Mr. Flythe by Matthew Buzzell, assistant professor of Communications and Professional Writing at Georgia Regents University, will be shown continuously during the Westabou Festival, October 2 - October 6, at the Old Richmond Academy in Augusta. A program about the film and about Mr. Flythe will be presented following the film's showing on Sunday, October 6, at 3:30. Mr. Flythe is survived by two nephews, James W. Flythe and Judge John Flythe, and by numerous close friends. Mr. Flythe faithfully attended St. Paul's Episcopal Church in Augusta, where a memorial service will be held at 10 AM on Wednesday, September 25 with Rev. George Muir. In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made to the Starkey Flythe, Jr. Memorial Fund, care of St. Paul's Episcopal Church, 605 Reynolds Street, Augusta, GA, 30901.

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Published by The Augusta Chronicle from Sep. 17 to Sep. 22, 2013.

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Carol Mirabella-Finch

December 14, 2021

I didn't know Starkey well, but I remember him as brilliant, witty, and very funny. The world is poorer without him in it.

Jennifer Carrasco

September 11, 2020

I would go over to visit Starkey, and he was either rooting around in the garden or taking care of his mother and father. It was such a dear, original arrangement...the old parents in a big bed in the sun room, and Starkey either rolling his eyes or telling me to call his folks by their first names, "because they don't get to hear that anymore" Mr.Flythe senior (I assume his first name was Starkey, but I felt it was presumptuous to call him anything but that) would say to his wife, Mary. "Oh, there's that pretty girl again Mary... how wonderful, etc" and when I left, I could hear Mr. Flythe senior saying..."who was that girl, Mary?" And Starkey, bare chested, weeding among the blue and purple iris. Tell you the truth, I was startled at how fit he was! A good looking dude! Starkey took care of his parents, his poetry and writing, and his friends...and he also took care of how he presented himself. Either in a wrinkled Goodwill white suit with a boater hat or weeding in a field of iris.

Gloria Greenebuam

October 6, 2013

Starkey was an exceptional poet who encouraged others in their writing- a truly exceptional man.

Aida Rogers

September 28, 2013

I had the supreme honor to "edit" Starkey's humorous, touching essay about North Augusta, "A Little Different, A Little the Same" for an anthology titled State of the Heart: South Carolina Writers on the Places They Love." His tribute to the people who made North Augusta a wonderful place to grow up should be required reading for anyone who knows what it's like to live in a small town. What treasures he's left us.

Chuck Wright

September 26, 2013

Though I only knew Starkey a short time, I will forever be changed by his kind and gentle spirit. I will forever remember serving with him as a Lay Eucharistic Minister at the early Sunday service at St. Paul's. I enjoyed his wry wit and his knowledge and his unique personal view of the history of St. Paul's and Augusta. I am truly saddened to learn of his passing. The world was a much kinder place with him in it.

Donald, Ann and Robyn Macey

September 25, 2013

You will be missed,dear friend It was much too soon for you to leave us.

Alex Collins McClain

September 24, 2013

Starkey was my 9th grade English teacher at Paul Knox Junior HIgh in North Augusta. At the time, we select few advanced students were not happy with the grades he gave us; however, I look back on him as one of the best teachers I ever had. In fact, I used a lot of his "techniques" as I taught English for 30 years. He was a good friend and the epitome of a Southern gentleman. May his soul rest in peace; may his memory be eternal.

Sharon Schroeder

September 24, 2013

Starkey was a dear friend. I will miss his smiling face and accepting demeanor. He could make anyone feel special, for this he will have a place in my heart-forever.

Jenniifer Carrasco

September 23, 2013

I loved Starkey. After I left North Augusta, he would call me up once a year and we would laugh, talk about art and poetry, gossip and discuss our lives. I can see him battling the weeds in his garden of iris, surrounded by his yard of high trees and tangled plants...complex, flowery, a region of stickers,critters and beauty. A bit like Starkey himself. I miss him so.

September 23, 2013

A dear, dear friend and person - We will miss him greatly!!
Louise and Bill Ashby

September 23, 2013

The Information and Genealogy Staff will miss Starkey's visits that refreshed us with his joyful view of life. We are blessed to have known him. He contributed to the quality of life in Augusta in so many ways over the decades. He left a fine legacy to inspire all of us. We offer our deepest sympathy to his family.
Debby Barron and the Augusta Public Library Staff

Royce Patch Smith

September 22, 2013

John, sorry to learn of Starkey's passing. you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dena Brown

September 18, 2013

Starkey was such an amazing person. I'm grateful that I had the chance to know him, and those who were close to him have my deepest sympathy.

September 18, 2013

Starkey was good friend, and one of the funniest,smartest, and insightful people I ever new. RIP my friend.
C. Gibson Garrard, Marietta, GA

walt cox

September 17, 2013

Starkey will always remain in my memory as a wonderfully unique individual and a valued friend.

Josette Davison

September 17, 2013

More spirit than body, our dear Starkey. Friend and mentor, kind critiquer of my words,I will miss you greatly. Josette

John Braly

September 17, 2013

Starkey was a cherished friend who will be deeply missed. My deepest sympathies.

Monya Foster

September 17, 2013

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

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