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michele
January 31, 2024
Mark could never be forgotten! he was my high school crush. he was sweet, kind, and gentle never following the crowd. instead always being himself. he must have amazing parents cuz he turned out to be such a wonderful human being. i will never forget the kindness he threw my way. his beautiful smile, his great sense of humor...never forgotten. memories treasured.
Jim Gasparro
February 1, 2023
Mark was a good friend of our family and one of the nicest people I met after I moved to AZ. He has been missed over these past 15 years but not forgotten.
michele dow
January 31, 2023
Mark you are most certainly remembered and not just on this day. Neil Corbin shared with me some hysterical stories with you as the main actor. you sir, were quite a character! i have my own memories of you being incredibly sweet and kind at an age when boys didnt really behave like that. you are such a good soul i often feel like it was a mistake to have taken you to heaven cuz we need more angels like yourself down here. i did see that your baby girl works for the city-she followed right in daddy's footsteps. so sweet. i hope that u r resting in peace. nothing but great memories of you.
Barry Coffman
January 26, 2009
Bethel Family,
I just recently found out about Mark's untimely death and I'm in shock. All I know is that I was one of the lucky ones that had the privilege of knowing Mark. We grew up together at Pima School all the way through SHS. He was a funny man and a great friend. I will miss him dearly.
My condolences to the entire Bethel family.
Barry Coffman
michele dow
September 28, 2008
mark, although i did not know you well....you were one of the GOOD memories i had from high school :).... i am SURE that God has very special plans for special angels like yourself!...rest in peace.
Donna Bullard
March 28, 2008
Stacey,
My deepest sympathy. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May you feel God's loving arms around you and may HE lead you through this difficult time.
Maria Buchanan
February 25, 2008
Dear Stacey,
Sincere condolences on your loss. My heart just aches for you and the kids. You are in my heart and prayers - now and always.
I hope that the memories of love and joy with Mark sustain you through your grief.
Sincerely, Maria
kent mcmillan
February 21, 2008
STacy and family,
My deepest sympahty goes out to you and your family.
Mark was a dear childhood friend of mine. We would hang out and play basketball at Pima School. He was a great guy and always had a smile and a joke.
Your loss is great and I am so sorry. Remember, God will not give you anything you can't handle. Just keep your eyes on Him and he'll walk you through this.
My thoughts and prayers will be for you and your family.
Jan and Steve Hildebrand
February 16, 2008
Stacy
The many miles and retirement may separate us from our Merck families but we will hold each of them in our thoughts and prayers forever....We know that Mark was a special "light" in your life....God be with you and the kids now...He has a special plan for such a strong woman...our hearts reach out to you! God Bless....
Jenae Naumann
February 16, 2008
Dear Stacey, Sydney and John,
I was so shocked and deeply saddened by the news of Mark's passing. I had worked with him at the City of Scottsdale, and he was such a wonderful person. You and your children will be in my prayers.
Jeanne (Beal) Hamlin
February 14, 2008
Dear Stacey & Family,
I also went to SHS with Mark and was saddened to hear of your loss from Lynn(Moore)Yee. I still remember Mark as a genuine and kind person who had the gift of relating to everyone with ease. The outpouring of love that people feel for him is a testament to what a great guy he will always be in so many hearts and minds.
Julie Carlin (Pam's sister from Dr. Friedman's)
February 12, 2008
Dear Stacey & Children,
I'm sure no words are able to express how you are feeling but know that many prayers are being said for you all at this most difficult time in your life. You are such a kind and gentle person & I wish you the comfort & peace only God can give now.
Brad Townley
February 11, 2008
Stacey,
We are so sorry for your loss. We will be praying for you and your family during these days.
Vicki French
February 11, 2008
Dear Stacey, Sydney, and John. I had the honor of knowing Mark when I worked at the City of Scottsdale. He was an amazing man--bright, balanced, with a great sense of humor. I was lucky to have to worked with Mark, and blessed to also know him as a friend. Please find comfort knowing how much he adored all of you He will be missed by so many people whose lives he touched. My prayers are with all of you
Warmly,
Grant Tobias
February 11, 2008
Dear Stacey, I was placed in instant shock when I heard of your husband's passing. I remembered the kind words of support you shared with me when my father passed and wished that I could somehow return your kindness. Please accept my sympathies and prayers. I know words seem small but know they come from the heart. If there is anything I or my family can ever do for you, please don't hesitate to ask.
Andy Teilborg
February 11, 2008
Dear Stacey, We were shocked and deeply saddened to hear about Mark's passing. You have such an incredible spirit and along with Sydney and John, you will be in our hearts and prayers. Amy and Andy.
Beth Vadasy Whiteley
February 11, 2008
Dear Stacey- I was so sad to get a message from Becky about Mark passing away. I remember him being one of the most genuinely kind, good hearted people I had ever met. Couple that with his incredible sense of humor and it's easy to see why so many people would be devastated by this loss. My heart goes out to you and your kids as you deal with what must be tremendous grief right now.
Much love,
Beth (Vadasy) Whiteley
Clark Jensen
February 11, 2008
Stacey,
I am so sorry for your families loss. You and your childeren are in my prayers and family prayers. May God comfort your soul.
Sue, Al, Lynn, Beth and David Vadasy
February 11, 2008
Stacey and Family,
Just wanted to offer our condolences we knew both your mom/dad at Scottsdale high, he was such a nice, warm wonderful person and a loving father...he will be missed greatly..our prayer's are with you...we wish you peace, love and happiness for your futures..Love, The Vadasy's
Missy Miller
February 11, 2008
Stacey, Sydney, and John,
Please know how sorry we are for your loss and that we will always be there for you.
Love,
Pat, Missy, Lauren, and Anna
Pauline Snelling Anderson
February 10, 2008
Dear Stacey, I remember your beautiful smile when we reunited after high school as a patient at your first OB appointment... Your whole face lit up with excitment as you informed me that you and Mark had married and were expecting your first baby. Treasure all your blessed memories. Please know that God has made you strong and he will guide you every step of the way. From the entire Snelling family...Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the children at this very difficult time. God Bless!
Trish Holmes
February 9, 2008
Dear Stacy, Todd sent me a message. The last time I saw you both was at our reunion. I saw such happiness in you two. Mark was such a good guy. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. All my love, Trish.
Lori Bell
February 9, 2008
Stacey, I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Mark at the City for several years in the mid-90's. My memories of Mark bring a smile to my face, he was so happy, so fun to be around, he always had something really funny to say and I could tell above everything he loved his family very much. I worked with his mother too and she was such a neat lady, who loved her kids and grandkids so. I am so shocked to hear of Mark's death. There is no way we can ever understand something like this and we can't even attempt to try. I know our heavenly Father can only offer peace in times like these when nothing else will help. May God be with you and your children throughout the rest of your lives and may He guide you as you try to fill Mark's void. I will be praying for you tonight.
Tracy Oliver
February 9, 2008
Stacey, Sydney & John: We loved your Dad, and are most thankful for that great Saturday night talking around your fire pit. Mark was the consummate host, greeting us always with a hug. We love you guys, and are here always. Love, Tim, Tracy & Grant
Amber Bill
February 9, 2008
Stacey, Sydney and John,
I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful Mark. My loving thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Your Arizona Merck family loves you!
Amy Bamford
February 8, 2008
Dear Stacey, Sydney and John
Dave and I are stunned to hear of your tragic loss. Words cannot express how terribly sad and heartbroken we are at the loss of your husband, father and best friend. I can't imagine the devastation that you and the kids must feel and my heart aches for you. I can only wish that you find some comfort in the wonderful memories of him and find strength and love in one and other. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We pray that you all will feel the presence of God's love and may the lives of those Mark touched be living testimony of how much one person can make a difference. Much love, Amy and Dave Bamford
Shelby Rahilly-Jasmer
February 8, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your children. Even though I have not seen Mark since high school, I can still remember fondly how he brought a smile to all who were fortunate enough to pass his way. I know he will be a great loss to many
Vince Greene
February 8, 2008
Stacey: I'm so sorry...my heart goes out to you. Know that "The LORD is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Psalm 34:18
Sidney and John: I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. Knowing your father, I'm sure that he treasured every moment he was blessed to spend with you.
Mark: I want to thank you my brother, for being my closest childhood friend. After our initial fight in the bike racks in the 3rd grade to see who was toughest, I depended on you as a confidant who never saw my skin color (unless of course there was some humor to be had - "I wish I were Black"), but always made me feel good. That's it...yeah, you were funny, but what separated you was that God given ability to make those around you feel good...thanks so much for that, I'll always love you for that my friend.
Barbara Florio-Gustafson
February 8, 2008
I am saddened to learn of Mark's passing. I was a neighbor of the Bethels for years, went to Pima school with Mark and enjoyed singing the Beach Boys with Mark, Andy Bagnato and Trent & Cathy Carnahan; he was a formidable match for my dad at the game of chess (he was only 12 at the time!). May God Bless you and your children and Mark's memory will be forever in your hearts.
David Alvarez
February 8, 2008
Stacey,
Our hearts go out to your family. We are here for you in anyway you need us. I cannot express our sadness.
David, Janet, Weston and Jordan
Gary Mallis
February 8, 2008
Dearest Stacey and Family:
Our Love, Thoughts and Prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Gary C Mallis MD and Staff Of Grayhawk Pediatrics
Bonnie Pavlik
February 8, 2008
Stacey and family,
I was so saddened to hear this news. I remember the two of you at Scottsdale High, always laughing and happy with your friends Eugene and Julie. Mark was a wonderful person and you are all in my prayers.
Justin and Valerie James (Connie James' son/daughter-in-law)
February 8, 2008
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Gayle & Rolf Denecke
February 8, 2008
Stacey and family, we were terribly sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Michael Pavlik
February 8, 2008
Stacey and family: So very sorry to hear about your loss. I knew Mark from Scottsdale High, and will forever remember the trips we made to California during college together with Dave Spadafore. Mark's wit and smile definitely made a lasting impression on the world.
Steve/Jan Hildebrand
February 8, 2008
Stacey & family, We are filled with pain and disbelief with your loss of Mark. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time and always. We love you and will always cherish our friendship. Peace & God Bless, Steve & Jan
Lea Rud
February 7, 2008
Stacey, I am so sorry to hear of Mark's sudden passing. I think of how much I enjoyed the few times we spent together at Merck functions, and I wanted to tell you that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God Bless you and your family and give you the strength to get through this unbelievably sad time. My heart goes out to you all. Love, Lea
Frank Gorman
February 7, 2008
To Stacey and Family,
I knew Mark from grade school thru high school, and was proud to know him. Please know you are in my prayers.
John Rudolph
February 7, 2008
We were shocked at Mark's passing. Although a couple years ahead of me, I remember Mark's sense of humor and quick wit from Pima and Scottsdale High. He will be missed. Stacey, you and the family are in our prayers.
Lorie Vo
February 7, 2008
Stacey, Sydney & John:
We are so saddened to hear from Jonathan about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Take care,
Hai, Lorie & Jonathan Vo (Mariposa)
Mike & Chris Smith
February 7, 2008
We were terribly shocked and saddened to hear about the passing of Mark at such a young age.We'll miss spending time with him in Chino Hills on special holidays and get togethers.
We wish the best for you Stacey, Sydney, and John. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mike & Chris Smith
February 7, 2008
We were terribly shocked and saddened to hear about the passing of Mark at such a young age. We'll miss spending time with him in Chino Hills for the special holidays and get togethers.
We wish the best for you Stacey, Sydney, and John. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Noreen Pogue
February 7, 2008
Stacey,
Although we only met you and Mark a few times tailgating with Sobek's, you both left a strong impression on us as a loving, happy and blessed couple.
We were so saddened with the news of this horrible tragedy.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.
May God bless you and your children
Love,
Noreen and Mark Pogue
Dawn Westing
February 7, 2008
Stacey and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
julie gasparro
February 7, 2008
Dearest stacey, sydney and john! with all of the love in our hearts, we pray for gods love and healing at this time of loss! we have loved you all so much for so long and will treasure the memories of mark's imprint on our lives forever!! the way mark always brought laughter to every day will be missed but remembered! so much love to you all, The Gasparro Family-eugene, julie, felicia, stephanie, jacqueline and genevieve!!!
Gayla Sutton
February 7, 2008
May the Lord comfort you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Gayla Sutton
Dave Spadafore
February 7, 2008
Stacey, Sydney, and John and the rest of the Bethel family. Words cannot express the sadness I feel over the loss of Mark. He was more than a brother to me. I will miss him sorely. All my love.
Noreen Grasse
February 7, 2008
Dearest Bethel family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I've only met Mark a few times, but feel like I know him so well through his brother, Rob and my sister, Patti. Whenever they spoke of him, their faces had a smile or they would laugh, because that's what Mark did for his family and friends....he made them laugh and smile and filled their lives with sunshine. Please know that Mark and all of you will be in my thoughts and prayers. You have such a beautiful, loving family and so many many prayers are coming your way. God bless you all. I'm so very sorry.
Noreen Grasse
Mike and Robyn Kamkar
February 7, 2008
Dear Stacey, Sidney,and John: We were so saddened to hear about Mark. He was so very special to all his family and friends. When the Lord calls us home, he leaves a gift of memories with all of us. We hold those memories dear. Our prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Chrissy Wakefield
February 7, 2008
Stacey & family,
My thoughts and prayers are with each of you. You are such a genuine person. Please give your children a big hug.
Allison Hosking-Suriano
February 7, 2008
Stacey,
So heartbreaking to hear of your loss - a loss for all of us from the Pima/SHS gang who have known Mark since grade school. He was a dear sweet soul. You and your kids are in our prayers.
Sara & Ben Edmund
February 7, 2008
Stacey and family-
How very saddened we are for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless-
Nancy Cantor
February 7, 2008
To all of Mark's family, co-workers and friends, know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Mark was much appreciated for knowledge and compassion. He will be sorely missed.
Leslie (Davis) Graffin
February 7, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of Mark's passing. I remember him from Scottsdale High as always smiling and making other people smile. Stacey, my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
MB Hollmann
February 7, 2008
Stacey, Sydney and John,
Mark was the most amazing man I have ever met; kind, patient, caring, encouraging, respectful and so incredibly funny - his dry sense of humor was the best! It was an honor and privilege to work with Mark. He truly cared for others and adored his family. Mark touched many lives...so grateful he touched mine. My thoughts, prayers and deepest condolences go out to you.
Cathy McIntyre (Trostheide)
February 7, 2008
To the Bethel Family -
I also attended Scottsdale High and graduated with Mark and later worked with him at the City of Scottsdale. Mark was always a sweet guy - even though he was a popular football player in high school, he was never the "cocky jock" - he was always nice to everyone. He was the same way his whole life.
My Dad also passed away this Sunday so I share the hurt you are feeling right now, but I also share our hopes and prayers for them that they are now enjoying the peace and happiness of God's presence in heaven. Your family is in our prayers.
Gretchen Holt
February 7, 2008
Stacey and family - My heartfelt sympathies to all of you. I worked in Human Resources at the City and assisted the Community Assistance Office. I always looked forward to working with Mark because he was a genuinely nice guy, had a good sense of humor, and a warm smile and laugh! It was fun to just talk and visit with him. Mark cared about his work and staff was a pleasure to work with. When I left the City, Mark was very kind in his comments and it meant a lot to me. He will be missed.
Melanie Zimmer
February 7, 2008
Dear Stacey, Sydney & John,
We were so sorry to hear of Marks sudden passing. The thoughts of many are with all of you during this difficult time.
With our deepest sympathy,
Steve, Melanie, Justin & Kelly Zimmer
Susan (Rodgers) Mack
February 7, 2008
Stacey-
I was so sad to hear about you loss. Mark was such an awesome guy that made everyone feel like a friend. My thoughts are prayers are with you and your family. Trust and rest in the Lord during this difficult time. Susan (Rodgers)
Jacqueline Dennis
February 7, 2008
Stacey,
My heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family. You and the kids are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Jackie Dennis
Jim Gasparro
February 7, 2008
Stacey and Family: We were very saddened to hear the news about Mark. Mark and his family were the first people who reached out to our family as friends when we moved to Arizona in 1976. I have fond memories of driving my brother Eugene and Mark to high school when I was a Sr. at Scottsdale H.S. Mark's sense of humor and smile is something my wife and I will always remember along with his ability to get along with anyone. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
Diane Kallal
February 6, 2008
Dear Stacey, Sydney and John, Mark was one of a kind. Funny, loving, hard working, and so proud of his family. He loved you so much.
I worked for him for several years and he was the best boss I'd ever had as well as a wonderful friend. He will be missed by so many people!
I'm sorry I can't come down for the services, would like to say a final goodbye to someone who made me laugh so much.
My love to all the family, God Bless. Diane Kallal
Marcia Sistek
February 6, 2008
Stacey,
May the Lord wrap you, your children, your family and Mark's family with his love to make sense of this tradegy. If there is anything you need call us.
M. Sistek and family
Leslie Reeves
February 6, 2008
Dearest Stacey, Sidney, John and all of Mark's and Stacey's families...My heart is truly broken here.
Mark - you will be missed! You are an amazing, exceptional guy and you've brought so much joy & laughter to those around you, always. You have made Stacey so happy all these years and I love you for that.
Like so many, my heart and thoughts are with you all. I hope that the love and caring you receive can be a comfort to you.
Stacey - I Love you with all my heart.
Nicole Plowman
February 6, 2008
Stacey, Sydney, and John,
My constant prayers are with your entire family. May God walk with you through this extremely difficult time.
Love,
Nicole
Kim Pervez
February 6, 2008
Stacey and family,
I was very sadden to hear of your sudden loss. I wish there was a way to help ease your pain right now.
Mom of Nadeem Pervez (Mariposa)
Lisa (Barton) Lucek
February 6, 2008
Dear Stacey, Sydney and John,
I was deeply shocked and saddened by the news of Marks sudden passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Mark was an incredible person.
Lorie McKellar
February 6, 2008
Stacy, Sydney & John... Please know
we at Drs Sieckmann & Sistek are thinking of you during this difficult time. We are so very saddened to hear this tragic news. We know Mark will be desperately missed but close in your hearts and never forgotten. Stay well!!
Kim and Eric Newlin
February 6, 2008
Stacey and family,
It is with great sorrow to learn of the loss of such a wonderful person. You and your family have our deepest sympathy. May the lord bless and keep you all during this time of loss.
Paula Dudley
February 6, 2008
Dear Stacey and family,
My heart aches for you and your beautiful family. Mark was a man that touched many. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Your friend,
Paula Dudley
Susan Young
February 6, 2008
Stacey, I was so saddened to read about Mark in the paper today. My thoughts and prayers good out to you. I was John's first preschool teacher and I have never forgotten him. I know that you and your children have many many memories of family fun times that will help to get you thorough the days ahead. With sympathy, Susan Young
Terri Amabisca
February 6, 2008
We have lost one of the true 'good guys' in this world. Mark's kindness and sense of humor will be greatly missed. My deepest sympanty to Mark's family.
steve king
February 6, 2008
Stacey,John and Sydney,
Mark was my best friend from the time he moved from NY,we shared so many special times Wrigley field,San Diego,Las Vegas....Mark made me laugh every time i spent time with him.He was the meaning of a true friend and i will truly miss him.He was a great husband and father.Love Steve,Mercedes,Jake and Sean King
Holliday "Holly" Moore-Past
February 6, 2008
Stacey, Sydney & John,
My heart hurts for you. Kim O’Neill and I just spent the weekend reminiscing about some of our favorite people. You, Stacey and Mark, were the George & Gracie Allen of Scottsdale High alum. Long before you married, you made us smile and laugh at life’s silliest moments with barely an effort. Few people have the gift to make others feel so good in an instant. I think Mark’s spirit is right here, in you, Sydney & John, and all of the thousands of friends who love you. Pretty brilliant of him, huh?
PATRICIA TRIBBY
February 6, 2008
MY CONDOLENCES. DID NOT KNOW YOU BUT KNEW FR. JOE VERY WELL GOD REST HIS SOUL
Nancy Hunter
February 6, 2008
Stacey - Mark will be missed by so many people!We were all blessed to have known him. I have such great memories of grade school and high school with Mark. He made everyone laugh.. all the time.. Our love to you and your children. Nancy, Patrick and Kiley Hunter
Joe Reed
February 6, 2008
The Reed family is very sorry to hear of Mark's passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Stacey, Sydney, John and the entire family. May Mark rest in peace.
DESERT SHORES PEDIATRICS
February 6, 2008
We are very sorry for your loss. Our sympathies and prayers are with you and your family.
ANN BROWN
February 6, 2008
Pleae accept my sincere condolences of the loss of Mark. I hope that you are being comforted by close friends and family. The Holy Bible, can prove comforting, at Rev.4;3,4 states in part, "he will wipe all tears from there faces, sickness and death will be no more."...One day we will reunit with our dead love ones. This is a promise from God. May these words give you a sense of solace.
Paul & Brenda Ludwick
February 6, 2008
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. May you have comfort and peace in our Heavenly Father's love.
Sue Spadafore
February 6, 2008
To Stacey, Sydney and John,
Words cannot express the sadness I feel in my heart. Mark was a "true" friend that will never be replaced or forgotten. I will treasure all the memories of bbq's at your house, the kids basketball games, ASU tailgating, trips to CA. and of course Dave and Mark's movie nights. Stacey, I love you and I will be there for you forever. God bless you and the kids. Love Ya.
Dominic Macchiaroli
February 6, 2008
Stacey and family,
We're so sorry to hear of Mark's passing. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
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