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Michael McNett Obituary

McNett, Michael Loren
Michael Loren McNett, 42, of Phoenix, Arizona passed away September 12, 2013. He was born June 29, 1971 and is survived by his mother Karen, his father Phil, his brothers Brian and Chris (Brooke) and his nephew Brandon and nieces Kendall and Reese. Mike had a loving extended family and too many friends to count. Mikey was a longtime employee at Bashas' and a volunteer at Shadow Mountain High School for Special Ed and the tennis and swim teams. He was a highly decorated Special Olympian and avid Arizona sports fan. The viewing will take place on Wednesday, September 18th from 6pm-8pm at Shadow Mountain Mortuary at 2350 E. Greenway Rd., Phoenix, AZ and funeral services will be held at St. Joseph's Catholic Church at 11am on Thursday, September 19th at 11001 N. 40th St., Phoenix,
AZ. The Michael McNett Memorial Fund has been setup at Wells Fargo (account #8534952125) to benefit the Special Education Department at Shadow Mountain High School. Please go to www.ShadowMountainMortuary.com to share condolences with the family.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from Sep. 17 to Sep. 18, 2013.

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David Tasche

August 21, 2025

It's been years since I have seen Micheal and was unaware of his passing. He was one of my best friends that I have known since 2nd grade. He was a kind person with a great sense of humour and was loved by so many people. I have also got to know his parents and brothers as well over the years. very wonderful and kind people Rest in peace micheal We will meet again my friend

Lynn & Valerie Mollica

November 15, 2013

Karen,
I know this message comes very belated, but I wanted to let you know how sorry both Valerie and myself are.
I had always enjoyed seeing Mike whether on the tennis courts of Shadow Mountain or at Hallmark.
He was always a bright light of my day.
I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and come see me at my new store at the Biltmore.
In love, in memory, and in how you see the world because of him.
Sincerely,

Jane Nelson

November 1, 2013

Dear Karen & Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son Michael. I remember the one and only time I met Michael and I instantly loved him!! I could clearly see he was a bright star in this world!
My thoughts and prayers will be with all of you everyday. May the Lord sustain you with his peace and his love until you are face to face with Michael again.
Love & God Bless you,

Fred & Ardath< Andrea, Anthony & Kelly Marchesi

October 25, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
We are so sorry to hear about Michael's passing. He was a wonderful person and will always be in our hearts.
We always remember Michael cheering for our little league teams and with the Shadow Mountain H.S. pom line.
We will always keep Michael and the McNett family in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless Michael and the McNett family
Love

Robin (Anderson) Neal

October 24, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
I was so sorry to hear about Michael. I hope that you can find strength and comfort in the love of your family. May it help you to know how many lives he brightened with his beautiful nature. Such a wonderful person will never be forgotten.
Thinking of you both & your family.

Heather, Rich and London Davis

October 17, 2013

Dearest McNett Family,
We are so sorry for your loss and our hearts grieve with you. Knowing Mike McNett was an honor and a joy. He was and will continue to leave his positive mark on our hearts and in the world. Never have we met someone with such a consistently joyful spirit. We are so blessed to have spent time with him and to have laughed so much with him. Know that your are in our thoughts and prayers.
With Love

Amy, Kevin, Molly & Kevin McCarthy

October 16, 2013

Dear Karen, Phil, Brian, Chris, Brooke, Brandon, Kendall and Reese,
Our hearts are broken. To think, a person that we actually spent such short bits of time with could leave such an imprint! I think of Michael all the time (and always when I make my cawfeee). I cherish the memories he helped make at our wedding.
You are in our prayers and we are so sorry we weren't able to make the services.
Kevin and I loved looking at all of your pictures. (I remember that track sweatshirt!)
Thanks for sharing your KING with us. He will always be in our hearts!
All our Love,

John, Diana, and Family Cusson

October 14, 2013

To Cousin Mike,
Cousin Mike, Norte Dame did it tonight and I/m sure you were cheering them on buddy. Now lets see how those Cardinals do. Jonathan played in a scrimmage game today and he hit his first home run over the center field fence. I know you were jumping up and down. Who knows he may be a future D-back.
We miss you and love you.

Ben Lauritsen

October 14, 2013

Karen and Phil,
Mike was absolutely singular. And always there. In an ancillary way, I probably spent more time with him growing up than anyone besides Brian. It was magical to hear "Big Ben!" every time I walked in the door, called on the phone, or scored a layup in basketball league.
There is a hole in the world now.

Love Big Ben

Misty Hyman

October 14, 2013

Karen, Phil & Family,
It's rare to know someone like Mike McNett. Someone who can make you forget about the stresses and challenges of life and remind you to enjoy every beautiful moment and experience. Mikey was one of the smartest people I've known. He understood something about life that many of us don't or often forget...life is too short to be scared about failure or what other people might think of you. Mike gave true meaning to living life to the fullest. He gave everyone around him permission to live out loud(literally)! He may have died young; but I know he can rest in peace, because of how he lived.
Mikey, our community won't be the same without you, but your spirit and memory will live on in all of those whom you've touched.
Whenever I am coaching I will think of you and what you've taught me. You will always be my assistant coach....

With much Love

Janine and daughters Marcum-Warn

October 14, 2013

Karen and Phil,
I am honored to have known Mike for the past 15 years. He has touched my life in so many different ways. I am going to miss his positive attitude, and that bright smile. He had that special touch of making people feel so special. He life here was cut way to short, but God has bigger and better plans for him. I will miss him not being their on Thursdays. Most of all, I will miss the smile he gave me at the end of his text, that said.. "Text me".
I love you buddy! rest in peace, kiss kiss.

Diane Reece

October 14, 2013

Karen, Mike and Family,
I had the pleasure of meeting Mike, when I was hired in the PV district 31 years ago. I attended a meeting at his home, and we instantly became friends. I was lucky to have him in our class, a few years later. That friendship has remained strong through all the years. He was the most positive and caring person I have ever met. His smile cheered me up many times. I watched him struggle through many medical problems , through the years, but he always had that smile and a positive outlook. Just last week he told me he was trying to get stronger so he could come back to volunteer in our class. I will miss our "Saturday Night Live" dialogs, and our love for the Sound of Music. I have so many memories of Mike, (or dude). My heart has a huge void. I will miss his weekly visits to school, his calls and his texts, and hearing (Dudette Reece). we all have the best Angel watching over us. Love you Mike! My condolences to Phil, Karen, Brian, Chris and Brian and his very favorite Nephew and nieces. All of you contributed immensely, to such a great young man.

Beth Bauer

October 14, 2013

Karen, Phil and Family,
I miss Mike. He was a friend that could always make me laugh or smile. He had a caring and loving heart that touched so many lives. I was lucky he was part of my life. I wrote the following 3-4 years ago to have him in the Special Olympics spotlight.

Mike has the ability to inspire, communicate, work, play sports, volunteer and care for others. He is a loving son, sibling and uncle. His family is the root of his positive and loving outlook on life.
Michael is always upbeat and positive. He is the first athlete that has changed my view on every day life in many ways. He has never in all the years I have known him said anything negative about anyone or any activity in his life. He just generates a loving, caring, positive attitude that is contagious. He makes me want to be a better person. In Special Olympics, the coach is supposed to be the role model, however, I believe Michael is my role model.
Love

Mike Stansbury

October 14, 2013

Karen, Phil & Family,
I will miss Mike very much. Mike was a great friend and a great example of how we should all live our lives. I have made a list, which Mike loved to do, of some of the things I will always love to remember, and will miss:
Hearing "Oh No!" whenever I saw Mike.
Being called Stanberry
Seeing and hearing Mike laugh out loud, to a point where he could no longer make any sound.
Men's Night Out at Uncle Sam's(with Mike)
Sitting with Mike while he ordered a meal during Men's night out.
Stealing Mike's French fries during Men's night out.
Watching Mike flirt with waitresses everywhere.
Carrot jokes.
Getting a call from Mike to invite me to a D-backs game. with 4 to 6 follow up calls in the next 2 hours.
Getting a text from Mike with the instructions "Text me back".
Love Ya Buddy.
Stanberry

Tyler Agenter

October 14, 2013

Karen, Phil and Family,
I regret not making it home in time before Mike passed. Before I left KC I had told my coworkers and friends about "my best friends brother". After further review that is a misnomer. He was not just a best friends brother. He was a great friend himself. I think of so many things that will never be the same but am glad we all have our memories and can share them forever amongst all those he touched. In todays world he might have been characterized as Special Needs, but that too is inaccurate. That is one to many words. He was just truly "Special" and one of a kind.
We love and miss you.

Kelly Murphy

October 14, 2013

Karen, Phil & Family,
His speech at my wedding where he told the crowd I had lost 10 lbs. for the wedding just by not eating cheeseburgers!
The best little league team manager of all time. When visiting home, and going down to Bashas, I will miss the feeling of hoping to see Mike. My heart and prayers go out to you, wish I could be in Phoenix for the services.

Elaine Budoff

October 14, 2013

Karen and Phil,
When Mike entered a room you could always feel his excitement and enthusiasm. His kind and loving spirit will be missed by all....

Larry Reinmuth

October 14, 2013

Dear Phil and Karen,
I am at a loss for words. I hope you and Karen and the boys are holding up. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
With deepest sympathies.

Lars Canedy

October 14, 2013

Email to a Friend, 9-3-2013
To: Michael McNerd or McGeek,
When you get this, would you email me back. I want to see if there is something wrong with my bell. I may not answer though, because something suddenly came up or I got lost in the Grand Canyon with Jimmy the Indian Boy. It will be fine because I put hot dogs and beans in a flash light in case we get hungry.
I can't believe I have been here for 4 months already! It is very beautiful here and we have been to a bunch of places in Europe so far.
The weather has been awesome. I may sing a different tune when it is snowing. Very green and lots of flowers here. Much different that AZ.
There is one big difference, though. I can't find anyone who thinks me spilling their change is funny like you do. I have tried a bunch of times to strangers but they usually slap me and call the police. But they can't catch me because I run way over theyer, over theyer, over theyer. Also, they have the worst popsicles and graham crackers here. Nothing like the ones you have at home.
Melissa and the kids say hi. She and I like to go to the malt shop and have one lovers delight with two straws. but the waitress named Marsha always sprays whipped cream all over us. I don't know why.
The girls just started school and like it so far. They have been off for three months so they are excited to go and make new friends. But they do miss home, too.
I can't believe they haven't fired you from Bashas yet for being such a nerd and geek. Stansbury said he saw you a few weeks ago working. He said you were being lazy and were giving terrible customer service and saw you pushing shopping carts into cars on purpose.
I am sure your being an awesome uncle. You should teach Brandon how to spill change or collect bugs with him like Harvey Klinger.
Say hi to Clark Tyson and Doug Simpson for me.
All the best,

Jen Zwolak

October 14, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
I was saddened to hear about Michael and wanted to let you know that you both have been in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry for your loss. With Deepest Sympathy.

Robert, Jacki, Vicki, Jack Bissett's

October 14, 2013

Karen, Phil & Family,
The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass will be offered for the reposed of the soul of Mike McNett.
With the Sympathy of.

Brad & Karen Buckhout

October 14, 2013

Phil & Karen,
We are so sorry to hear about your son's passing. We hope that your memories of the good times that you shared over the many years will overshadow the loss you feel now.
Wishing you peace at this difficult time

Lillian Baribault

October 14, 2013

Dear Karen,
I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved son. May you smile inside knowing how much he enjoyed his life and the joy he gave to others.

With Sincere Sympathy

Steve & Mimi Bolduc

October 14, 2013

Karen, Phil & Family,
We are deeply sorry for your loss. Michael was such a joy to know. Our community/neighborhood will really miss him.

Patty and Bob Budoff

October 14, 2013

Karen and Phil,
The loss of your child is a loss beyond words.
Our sincere sympathies to you and your family.
Our hearts and prayers go with you.
Love

Glenda & Dave Hiddessen

October 14, 2013

Karen, Phil, Brian, Chris & Brooke,
It's difficult at such a time to find the words that say the things that one can only hope will comfort you today.
It may help a bit to know that there are near at hand those who keep you close in thought.
Pal has been a close member of our family for 42 years. May you know that he rests in peace.
With Deepest Sympathy

Audrey and Mike Wall

October 13, 2013

Karen, Phil, Brian,
We wanted to tell you how very, very sorry we are to hear about Mike passing away. He was just an incredibly fun and special person and we are so honored to have spent time with him. We will think of Mike on June 1st every year. "June Day".
Love,

October 13, 2013

Michael was the best email buddy ever! He always made me feel so special, whenever, I called the house, he would say, "Aunt Alice!" like he had waited all day for my call! He will be missed here in PA. Jamie, Rhoda and Kathleen have such good memories of him also.

Bob & Karen Howell

October 13, 2013

Michael was such a special, constantly happy, fun-loving person and touched so many lives, ours included. We met him when he was toddler, trying so hard to get into everything even with those bulky, restrictive braces on his little legs. His constancy of age and personality seems to meld the memories of his unique approach to life in our hearts, as we can always remember phrases that he uttered so often when he saw us. For me, it was always, “What about Bob?”, a reference to the Bill Murray movie which he could almost repeat verbatim. For Karen, it was “Oh, Karen, you're so cute!” Our partings were always preceded by “Glad you got to see me!”—given by whichever of us remembered to say it first. I remember too, the amazing stories about his interactions with family, friends, and his extended work, school and sports circles. Oh, how his innocent honesty could amaze and delight us, unless we were the one being addressed with his dose of reality! Of course reality for Michael was not always so pleasant, but he seldom complained or stayed in a bad mood, regardless of the situation or the pain he often experienced during his shortened lifetime. Even during the worst of his final days, he tried so hard to do as he was asked by his doctors and nurses, and accept his treatment with dignity and calm. I doubt that many of us could be nearly so brave and courageous.

We must, of course, mention the emotional support and love of his devoted family—Phil, Karen, Chris, Brooke and Brian. Throughout his life, they loved him unconditionally, and allowed him the freedom and approval to be who he was and endow him with a sense of confidence and pride in himself that was evident to everyone who met him. He got a healthy dose of daily ribbing from his siblings especially, as they quizzed him endlessly about specific episodes of the old TV shows that he preferred and they knew he remembered vividly. However, their teasing did not hide their devotion to him as they took him with them to eat out, or picked him up from work, or took him to see his beloved D-Backs and Suns' games. And of course his dad Phil was his constant companion and fellow adventurer, who loved to carry on a mutual kidding ritual with him, reminding him to “Start an IV and transport to the ER immediately” or “Get in line, buddy” or “10-4, Adam 12”. Michael was also the glue who held the busy house together, reminding the boys of their chores, or curfews, or deadlines; getting Mom to take him shopping or adding his bananas to the grocery list; and making sure Dad had cleaned the pool or washed the car. He was proud of his own status as the House Manager and made sure the wash was done, folded and put away each week, plus numerous other chores he performed so conscientiously. Michael had his own self-improvement goals too—a list on the fridge that the boys loved to modify, adding things like: listen to your brothers and don't talk too loud.

Some of those who went to the cemetery the day of the funeral will remember the hawk which flew over the grave site as the song Angel Flying too Close to the Ground was being softly sung. It dipped and soared, as if to listen to the song, and remind us that Michael was among us, and then drifted slowly off to the horizon. Michael was one of those unforgettable people who will live on in our hearts forever as we remember his beautiful spirit, love of people, and a life focused on the positive. We'll miss you, Mike—Glad we got to see you…

Rosalie and Jordan Eisgrou

October 13, 2013

Karen and Phil,
At this sad time and in the days to come, I am hoping you feel the care of others holding and sustaining you...
Michael was the best.
With Sympathy,
Love

Russell Heigh M.D.

October 13, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
I would like to express my heartfelt condolences upon the passing of your son Michael. It was my pleasure getting to know Michael and it was my true privilege to participate in his medical care.
Michael faced his difficult medical issues with a grace and dignity that I will never forget. Your steadfast support and unending courage and love made Michael a lucky and blessed individual.
With sympathy

Kelley Fleischaker

October 13, 2013

Karen,
The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass will be offered for the reposed of the soul of Michael McNett.
With the sympathy of

Connie (Doan) Turner

October 13, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil and Family,
Though we know heaven has welcomed a very special person, our hearts still feel the sorrow.
My prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.
God Bless you

Sharon and Holly Daetwyler

October 13, 2013

Karen, Phil, and Boys,
Michael was such a bright spot in our lives. I remember him calling our house to talk to Holly. She and Molly Murphy would take him to the movies. Such a dear young man.
Please know your are thought of at this sad time.
Fondly,

Diane Fleischer

October 13, 2013

Dear Karen,
I was so sorry to hear the news that your son had passed away. I know that he was a wonderful young man. I so enjoy working with you. I always know if a patient sees you, they are in great hands.
With Sympathy,
Warmly,

Kathy & Maurice McNett

October 13, 2013

Phil and Karen,
Thinking of you with sympathy and the hope that time will bring comfort to your heart.
Our prayers are with you.

Eric & Suzanne May

October 13, 2013

Dear Phil & Karen,
We were so sorry to hear about Michael. Wishing you strength in these difficult days. You and your family are in our thoughts.
Love

Denise Mageean

October 13, 2013

Dear Karen & Phil,
I was very sorry to hear about Michael. He was a very special person who brought joy to many lives. He and Uncle Buck are probably teeing it up right now.
Love

Jeanna, Brian, Brian, Maggie and Sean Johnson

October 13, 2013

Karen, Phil, Brian, Chris and Brooke,
Just wanted you to know you are all in our thoughts and prayers everyday. Mike "the King" was loved by all in New Jersey.
Love

Santo and Joan Graziano

October 13, 2013

Karen and Phil,
May God comfort you in your time of need.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Sincerely

Cindy Hoffman

October 13, 2013

Karen and Phil,
I am keeping you in my thoughts as
you mourn, cherish, and honor Mike who was so loved.
My prayers are with you.

Pat Schaefer

October 13, 2013

Karen and Phil,
Michael was a great kid and a successful adult. He will be missed.
May comfort and peace be with you at this most difficult time.
With Sympathy

Hope Bennett

October 13, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
You are in my prayers for what you are going thru right now. You have my deepest sympathy.
Mike is in the Lord's arms now and is doing so well. You know you will see him again.
Sincerely,

Doug Canedy

October 13, 2013

Phil and Karen,
You have lost someone very special, Mike touched many hearts.
My thoughts are with you.
With Sincere Sympathy,

Tim Hatton

October 13, 2013

Phil and Karen,
I am so sorry, the news of Mike's passing makes my heart very heavy with sadness. He was a very, very special person--I met him a few time and he sure did light up the room.
With Sympathy,

Ben & Paula Fernandez

October 13, 2013

Dear Phil and Karen,
We were very sad to hear of Michael's passing. We both know how much you loved him and how heart broken you must be. We will include the two of you and Michael in our prayers.

Kiki & Bill Whissen

October 13, 2013

Karen, Phil and Family,
Mike was a very special man & neighbor!!!! He is missed.
With Sympathy,

Jan Sparks

October 13, 2013

Dear McNett's,
I have shopped at the 32nd St & Shea Bashas for many years, and Mikey was always my absolute favorite employee there! He took his work seriously and always performed his duties with great care and self-confidence.
I was so shocked and saddened to read of his passing, and will truly miss seeing him at the store. A great guy.
My condolences to all the family.

Rosemary & Family Scarfo

October 13, 2013

Karen, Phil, Chris, Brooke, and Brian,
I love you guys and you know how Mike was so part of our lives and how we loved him.
For all of us here who have been touched by Mike's Unconditional love. We pray to the Lord.
For all special needs children, no matter their age, may they always receive our unconditional love. We pray to the Lord.
For Phil, Karen, Chris, Brooke and Chris may they have the strength to continue on with their lives knowing that the love and strength and courage and joy they had during Michael's life with them will continue each day as he now watches over them. We pray to the Lord.
Love

Tina Sauber

October 13, 2013

Karen,
I am truly saddened by your loss. I didn't know Mike, however he sounds amazing and full of zest. It is hard to understand why people are taken from us, but may you find comfort in knowing you were a special part of a well lived life.
My deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences go to you and your family.

Mayo Family

October 13, 2013

Karen,
Thinking of you and your family and keeping you in my prayers.
with sympathy,
Ann Kurchack

Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Sherry Tareton

I am so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you.
Lauri Rentz

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss. Michael was lucky to have you as his mom. Cherish the memories
Sincerely,
Mary J

I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved son. May you find peace in knowing that you gave him a wonderful happy life. The photos were so touching. With my sincere sympathy.
Sharon

Just recently learned of the loss of your son. My prayers are with you and your family,
Margarita

I am so sorry for your loss of Michael.
KN

Faith and I are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts are with yu and your family.
Condolences
Devin

We are sorry to hear about Mike's passing; we are finking of you all.
Fondly,
Randy and Diane Gray

Michelle, Celena, Andrea, Mallory, Tiffany Mayo

October 13, 2013

Karen,
We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you during this difficult time. Please know we are willing to help with whatever we can.
Sincerely

Bashas Family

October 13, 2013

McNett Family,
I am sorry for you loss. I will miss Mikey. He always put a smile on my face on Monday and Wed when I worked with him.
Tammy

We will always remember Mikeys good morning even when we were down he would bring you up.

So sorry for your loss. He will be remembered fondly.
Chilsea

We will miss his courtesy.
Lynn

We are gong to Miss his laugh.
Cindy

So sorry for your loss. He will be truly missed here.
Ryan

We are so sorry for the loss of your son and brother. We will remember his wonderful smile and spirit.
Love, The Holtans, Dave, Karen Mike and Nick

Kathy, Rick, David and Kristen Homes

October 13, 2013

Karen, Phil and Brian
A voice from the past. I am so sorry to hear of Michael's passing. Always he presented a welcoming smile whenever I would stop in at Bashas and was lucky enough to have a moment with him at check out.
Sincere condolences, You will be held in our thoughts and prayers.

Jan Hardaway

October 13, 2013

McNett Family,
Mikey was always smiling. I am a vendor at Bashas and each time I came in he saw me and greeted me with "There is the card Lady". "How are you Today."
He will be missed

Bashas Store

October 13, 2013

Karen and Phil and Family
We will miss you always Mikey.
Liz & Bill Andres

Heartfelt prayers to all.
The Voie Coy Family

We will miss you and your pleasant customer service. Rest in peace.
Carol Rakotz

God Needed to call one of his angels home, and those left will cherish the memories
Adam Wills

Kind thoughts for a kind young man.
Pat

Hi Mikey, see you in heaven some day.
so sorry for your loss of such a sweet man.
Barkwood family

May God shine on You.
Pat

Mikey, We will miss yur smiling face & bubbling personality. I always enjoyed seeing you at Bashas. Rest in peace and may the angels guide you and take care of you.
Michelle & the Orion family

With deepest sympathy, strength to all his family and friends.
Dan & Pam

We will miss Mr Mike's constant smile and cheery greetings
The Knapp Family

Mikey,
Miss you much prayers are with you.
Mike

Mikey,
I am sorry for not being sble to see you at Bashas. I went to Shadow Mtn. to 91 and knew you. Prayers to your family
Rebecca

Edward Basha

October 12, 2013

Dear McNett Family,
On behalf of the Bashas Company and the Bashas family, I would like to offer you are condolences at the loss of Michael. He will truly be missed.
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely

Kathy and Dick Collins

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
Mike was always the bright smiling face that I would see when I came to AZ. He always greeted me with a warm smile and always reminded me that he liked my chocolate chip cookies!!! Hopefully now he is having as many as he wants. Our love and sympathy to you and your family for the loss of your shining star!!!

Kristen and Joey Denahan

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
We are heart broken about Michael. We will always remember Mike's bright smile and infectious laugh. He would always light up a room and everyone would fall in love immediately. Mike touched so many lives and taught us all to live life with joy and laughter. We are thinking about all of you and sending our love,

Larry B Garrett

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
Please accept my contribution to Mike's memorial fund. As he was for many other people, Mike was special cherished influence in my life. He always greeted me with "Big Lar" on the phone. And, even 25 years after Brian and I invented our silly Kiwi game on your sport court, Mike still enjoyed shouting "Kiwi"! I have no idea where "Weed'em and Weep" comes from, but I always enjoyed hearing Mike say it. Mike also wrote me very nice letters while I was in college. I also remember the time you guys visited me in Newport Beach, and Mike had a great time entertaining folks at the pool.
Celine and I look forward to visiting in the near future.
All the Best,

Janet & Tom May

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
We are heart broken over your loss. Michael was such a wonderful young man who brought joy to everyone he touched.
We feel blessed to have been able to spend some time with him over the years and will treasure our memories of him.
With our love and deepest sympathy,

Tricia & Keith (Heptig)Veilleux

October 12, 2013

Karen, Phil and Brian,
We are sharing in your sorrow and hoping you will find comfort in the wonderful memories your son left behind.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
God Bless

Gail & Bob Heptig

October 12, 2013

Karen, Phil, Brian, and Chris,
Mike was special to so many.
We are thinking of you always,

Darhl Much

October 12, 2013

Phil, Karen & Family,
Michael was such a sweet, kind and special person. He had his own personal affect on so many people, including me. I will never forget when Phil & he visited me after Jim passed away. In his own kind and sympathetic
way he said.....hey, Darhl....when you get better, we need to have lunch.
I will sure miss those lunches!
Please know that your family is in my sincerest thoughts. I will pray for continued strength for your family.
God Bless

Katie (sis), Kevin & Family Brite (Hiemstra)

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
There are so many thoughts and emotions swirling around inside of me it is difficult to put my feelings into words. I thought I would just let my heart spill out in writing. First, the service for Mike was beautiful, and absolutely perfect. I wanted to thank you for raising such an incredible son who truly touched the hearts and positively affected everyone he met. I also wanted to thank you guys, Chris and Brian for sharing him so selflessly with the world. I have many amazing memories of Mike, but one of my fondest is when I met your family in New Port Beach and spent the day with him. I appreciate that day so much.
Mike was the definition of a good and loyal friend. I remember every day in high school, every single day; Mike would wait for me by my locker in the morning with a " Hi Sis" and a big encouraging smile on his face. Rain or shine, there was Mike. It meant so much. If I was stressed about a test, or even during my own personal struggles there was Mike to pick me up. He would help me collect my books then walk me to the first period class and "hand deliver" me to my teacher. I have never known souh loyalty and devotion since and can honestly say I know I never will . Mike was always there for everyone he cared about. Thank you again for fostering all of those wonderful personality traits that Mike had. You always gave him opportunities to share these special qualities and went to great lengths to place him where he could let them shine.
There is a deep void in my heart, and the area reserved for Mike can never be replaced. There will never be another Mike. I am saddened knowing my boys will not get to know Mike as I did, or have him as a role model, but he will live on in all of our hearts and stories. I have grown up with you and really love your family. I am aching for you and am here for you if I can help you in anyway. Thank you again for blessing us all with Mike.
Much Love,

Jim and Jan Belin

October 12, 2013

Karen and Phil,
We were shocked and saddened when we heard the terrible news of Mike's passing.
He was such a special person and he had a heart of gold.
We will miss seeing his smiling face around the neighborhood.
With heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

Sandi (Alexander) Anderson

October 12, 2013

Karen and Phil,
I always loved the ticket "Pick" party. Mikey was so enthusiastic about "his" D-Backs. You both have been in our prayers.
With Deepest Sympathy,

Aunt Mickey Mageean

October 12, 2013

Karen, Phil, Brian, Chris and Brooke,
Uncle Buck was waiting with open arms.
Love you

Sally & Darrel Filewicz

October 12, 2013

Dear Phil and Karen,
We are truly sorry to hear of Michael's passing. He was a treasured son to you and his special memories will always be with you.
God will bless and watch over you in this difficult time.
With Sincere Sympathy,

Pat Boucos

October 12, 2013

Karen and Phil,
I was Michael's adaptive P.E. teacher & Special Olympic coach for many years.
I will always have great memories of Michael. He was so happy and positive and gave his best efforts while learning to swim, bowl and play basketball. He enjoyed Special Olympic competition and always shared that joy with those around him.
A also remember the McNett family and how supportive they were for Michael and his accomplishments.
With smiling thoughts for Michael

Ginger LaRose

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Michael. I first met him when I started working for the school district at Greenway Middle, then I went to SMHA and Mikey was there. He was a very sweet young man we all loved. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely

Dick & Yvonne Hurley

October 12, 2013

Phil and Karen,
It is with extreme sadness that we write this card to sympathize with you over your loss of Mike.
We have known him for years from his job at Bashas and always found him to be a bright spot in our day. He will be missed by all who came across him over the years.
All our best, Fondly

Ersel and Shirley Holder

October 12, 2013

Phil and Karen,
Although we are all the way down in Canjun Country we want you to know how much Mikey touched our lives. Connie always had a Mikey story to tell us and oh how I enjoyed chatting with him on the phone over the years. Then this summer getting to meet him was awesome, from the smile to the bear hug and his charming wit, will be something we treasure forever.
Our prayers are with you during this difficult time and the days ahead.
With caring thoughts

Meredith (Mettee) Rice

October 12, 2013

Karen, Phil, Brian, Chris and Brooke,
I am so sorry for your loss. Mike was so very special; and, he touched so many lives; including mine! I feel so blessed to have known him. May you all find comfort in your memories.
With Love

Adriane Budavari

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
It was such an honor to meet Mike and to help take care of him. You raised such a sweet, happy man. I tried so hard to reverse everything that had made him so sick, and am so sorry!
I couldn't stop the toll it took on him. I am just grateful that we were all able to get Mike home, where he wanted to be. I will always remember him. You and Phil are in all of our thoughts.

Joann Lubeck

October 12, 2013

Phil, Karen, Chris and Brian,
My heart goes out to all of you in your sorrow. I will always remember Michael's smile and warmth. Now he is with Mom and that is so comforting to me.

Adam, Steph & Dani Budoff

October 12, 2013

Karen, Phil, and Brian,
Our thoughts are with you all. We loved Mike and are so greatful to have known him.
With sympathy,
All of our love to your family,

Terri and Joe Calascibetta

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Michael was a very special man and an inspiration to so many!
May your heart and soul find peace and comfort

Tom and Karen Gasket

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen and Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. Michael was bigger than life and loved by many.
I frequently saw him at Bashas and He was always a hard worker.
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Jennifer Williams

October 12, 2013

Karen, Phil and Family,
I am sorry for your loss. Although I only knew Mike for a short period of time, it was clear how sweet he was and what an infectious personality he had. It as my honor to care for him in the hospital, and he has touched so many people.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Kari Williams

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen,
I am so sorry to hear about Michael. I am sending warm thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Words cannot express my sympathy. Although I did not care for Michael during this hospital stay, I so remember him fondly from previous admissions. He was such a kind and Vibrant individual!!!
Kindest regards,

Amber Brooks-Gumbert

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen, Phil and Family,
I was so saddened to hear of Michael's passing. Please accept my sincerest sympathies. It was truly and honor to know him. I cannot begin to understand what you are going through right now, but please know that I am sending my love and prayers.
Peace be with you.

Claudia & Ron Fortson

October 12, 2013

Karen and Phil,
We were so sorry to hear of Michael's passing. He was such an inspiration. I always think of the "handicap accessible playground equipment at Altadena Park "When he was the inspiration for PV Juniors to do this".
Love

Melissa Canedy

October 12, 2013

Karen, Phil, Brian, Chris and Brooke,
I am so sorry to have heard of this loss. Mike had such a great impact on me, my family and the community. He will be greatly missed but will be in our hearts forever.
With deepest Sympathy,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love

Kathleen, Francis, Ryan & Lindsey (Mann) Kline

October 12, 2013

Uncle Phil, Aunt Karen and Cousins,
Words cannot express how deeply saddened we are about Michael. I wish I was able to be there to tell him goodbye in person. His smile and kind heart will always be with me. "I am not cheerful today"!!!. May God provide comfort and peace to you.
Love

Shelly Lubeck

October 12, 2013

Karen, Phil, Brian, Chris and Brooke,
I am sending my love and prayers to you all. I am asking the Lord to hold you all close to his heart. Michael was a very special person and a blessing to know. A donation to St. Vincent de Paul will be made in his name.
Wishing you peace at this sad time.
Love and God Bless

Peggy, Mike and Suzanne Stansbury

October 12, 2013

Phil, Karen, Brian, Chris and Brooke,
I am writing to let you know that Mike was a wonderful man and a dear friend, and that when he passed we all were saddened. Every time I saw him at Bashas, he would brighten my day. Right now he is in heaven looking down on us.
We will miss Mike very much.
With all our love.

Bill & Sharon Keetan

October 12, 2013

Dear McNett Family,
We will never be able to round the corner by your house or through the check-out line at Bashas without remembering Michael standing there with a smile on his face. a wave and a friendly "Hello neighbor".
We also remember him from our fun days in little league.
He was a very special person and will be missed.
Your are in our thoughts and prayers

Doris Cinicove

October 12, 2013

Dear Karen,
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you remember me. I so enjoyed Michael when he was in Kathy's room at Greenway. I last saw Michael at Bashas a few years ago. I move to Tucson 6 years ago. Michael and I spoke several times at Bashas. I know what a wonderful, fun, kind and giving young man he was. You have so much to be proud of. He was loved by all. He added joy to every ones life. I will never forget him.
My thoughts to your family,

Trudy & Gary Alexander

October 12, 2013

Karen and Phil
Go Diamondbacks!
We are thinking of you with deepest sympathy. You are in our prayers for God's comfort and peace

Michelle, Doug, Grant, Garrett, Ashley & Matt Higgins

October 12, 2013

Phil and Karen,
We are remembering a shining light and celebrating a special life.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Courtney & Collin (Kane) Cornwell

October 12, 2013

Phil, Karen & Family,
Our lives were touched in a special way by Michael and we will always have a part of him with us. We hope you will find comfort in time knowing that his unconditional love and friendship reached far and wide in many hearts,
Warm Regards,

Maryann, Bruce, Claire Elliot

October 12, 2013

Karen, Phil,
We are neighbors down the street and have had the joy of knowing Mikey for 15 years. We always waved and spoke with him and he shared his great stories. I always asked him to help me to my car at Bashas so we could talk longer. He was such a happy ray of sunshine in my day. I will never forget your dear Mikey,
With Love,

Amy Hiddessen

October 12, 2013

Dear Uncle Mike, Karen, Chris, Brooke, and Brian,
Words cannot express the sadness and pain you all must be feeling at this time. May your family, friends, and countless memories carry you and bring you peace. Michael was like family to me, and I will never forget all the ways he made us laugh, and how he found the bright side of any moment. In life, and now in heaven, Michael will always be a tremendous inspiration to me.
Thinking of all of you....
With Love

Grandma (Rosemary) Crossen

October 12, 2013

McNett Family,
Sharing your sadness.
I loved Mike.

Lark (Canedy) Eustace

October 12, 2013

Karen, Phil, Brian, Chris, Brooke,
My son, Lars, introduced us to Mike many years ago in Phoenix when I lived there. Lars talked often of Mike and the special connection he had with him.
We were fortunate to have met him and were struck by the warmth, humor, and genuine friendliness of Mike. You are all in our thoughts but hope your wonderful memories of what a very special, son and brother you had in your life will make each day a little easier, and make you smile thinking of him.
My best to you all

Deborah Frey

October 11, 2013

Dear Karen and Phil,
I am so sorry about Michael's passing but I feel very fortunate to have known him. Father Frank was right,Michael lived his life in the moment. That was probably one of the reason he was so joyful when he saw his friends. I want you to know that your family in in my prayers

Steve, Beth, & Casey Christensen

October 11, 2013

McNett Family,
We will all hold Mikey's memory very dear in our hearts. His ability to share joy and his love for those he cared about are a lesson to us all.
We are grateful to have known him and are confident heaven has welcomed their most joyful angel.
Wishing you peace.
Swim Team, Tennis Team, D-Backs

David Douglas MD

October 11, 2013

Karen and Phil,
Michael was taken from us much too early, but his memories will live on. He was a very special individual that had the ability to brighten everyone's day that he came in contact with. It has been a privilege to help care for Michael over the years and I will miss our office visits.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Adam Booth

October 11, 2013

Dear McNett Family,
I wanted to send condolences from myself and the Arizona Diamondbacks on the loss of your son Mike. We greatly appreciated his spirit and support of the Diamondbacks and I know the players and staff loved seeing him at Chase Field.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Sincerely

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