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Robert Stanley "Bob" Bess

Robert Bess Obituary

Robert Stanley Bess "Bob", 51, of Maricopa Arizona, passed away on September 11, 2008.  Bob was born September 4, 1957, the eldest son of Bob and EvaJo Bess, in Klamath Falls, Oregon.  He attended school in Estacada, Oregon and moved to Rainier, Oregon during his high school years.  He loved baseball and played the position of catcher.  Bob loved music and played the tuba.  He graduated from Rainier High School in 1975 and then attended Brigham Young University.  He began a summer job in 1976 that became his career working for Safeway.  He worked as a meat cutter, meat department manager, deli merchandiser, meat merchandiser, and director of meat.  His job with Safeway took him to Arizona, Colorado, and back to Arizona.  At the time of his death, he was currently working as the director of meat operations for Bashas'.  Bob married his high school sweetheart, Cindy, on December 3, 1976.  He was the proud father of Marcus and David.  He was an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and served in many positions including being a bishop and a high councilor.  Bob loved music, reading, and movies. He loved to entertain and was a master on the BBQ grill.  He loved people and was passionate about life.  He was kind, loving, and generous. His quick wit and active imagination made him a joy to be around.  He had an optimistic attitude that was infectious.  Bob was loved by everyone and had the gift of making people laugh and feel good.  He will be sorely missed.  A visitation will be held on Thursday, September 18, 6-8 pm at Bueler Mortuary, 14 W. Hulet Dr., Chandler, Arizona.  The funeral service will be held on Friday, September 19, 11:00 am at the Gilbert Greenfield Stake Center 2740 S.  Lindsay Road, Gilbert, Arizona with visitation 1 hour prior.  A graveside service will be held on Monday, September 22, 11:00 am at the Rainier Hudson Cemetery, Rainier, Oregon. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to a charity of your choice in Bob's name.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from Sep. 14 to Sep. 17, 2008.

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Jim and Dee Dee Girt and family

September 23, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Brian Samples

September 23, 2008

What a surprise. I was several years behind Bob in school but remember him as a very nice & fun person. He always had a friendly hello and big smile. I will keep his family in my prayers.

Melanie Prindle

September 22, 2008

Wow - what a loss - I am thinking of you all during this time or sorrow and grief - It is life changing to lose someone so close to you, whether it be a parent, spouse, child, grandchild or friend - Take care of yourselves!

Suzan Watson

September 21, 2008

My sincere condolences to your family.

Beth and Bob Greer

September 21, 2008

Our love and prayers go out to you, Cindy, Marcus and David. Every time we were in a family gathering, we enjoyed Bob's laughter, jokes and positive attitude. We don't believe we ever saw him lose his temper. You should be pleased knowing you had a husband and father that was so respected and admired by so many people.
We love you all.

Aunt Beth and Uncle Bob

Vicki Alston-Swodeck

September 21, 2008

Dear Cindy, Im so sorry for the loss of your husband. It's almost 4 years since I became a widow myself. Prayers are with you and your sons. Strength may seem faqr away, but God is with you.

Bill Smith

September 19, 2008

To the Bess Family:

You may not remember me, I was in the YM organization when Bob was over it and Cindy was our dance festival coach/coordinator. I have lots of memories from back in those days. Would love to hear from you when you have the chance.

lyn helton

September 19, 2008

Bob Bess was the BEST! Words say so litle, cindy, my heart sends sympathy for such a great loss. You know I love you and will never forget Bob. Keep him alive by living.....be happy...find peace....he would want that. God bless you and the boys.....Aunt Helyn

sammi coovey

September 19, 2008

To the Bess family, Bob was a great man who believed in me enough to bring me into his team(s). I was blessed to have worked with him in the Data Integrity dept as well as the Meat dept. Bob always trusted and believed in me and for that I will always be greatful. You were a great leader and most of all a wonderful friend and supporter. Bob, we will miss those foot steps up and down the DC hallways. Take care my friend! You will be missed!

The Baysingers

September 19, 2008

We were privileged to work with Brother Bess in stake assignments and loved every minute of it. He had a great smile and an easygoing manner. Our prayers are with you.

Bob Girt

September 19, 2008

To the Bess Family (Cindy & boys; Uncle Bob, Eva Jo & boys):

I returned from a business trip to hear the shock of Bob's passing. I am truly sorry and I want you to know I have nothing but fond memories of cousin Bob. In fact, I can only smile as I read the entries already made to the guest book.

Even though many miles and many years have by-and-large separated our families, nonetheless please accept my heartfelt sympathy and may you sense our Lord's comfort and reassurance.

Malisa Tamani

September 19, 2008

My uncle Bob was a loving and compassionate person who was always on cue with some sort of joke. His knowledge of music always amazed me. I will miss the days of sitting in his media room with him and listening to the Beatles, Springsteen and one of our favorites: Neil Young. I will miss him dearly

Beth Wilburn

September 18, 2008

Dear Cindy, Marcus and David,
Please accept our sincere heartfelt sympathy during this most difficult time. We are so sad to hear of Bob's passing. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Rich & Beth Wilburn

Lori Ryan

September 18, 2008

Dear Cindy, Marcus and David,
We were so saddened to hear of Bob's sudden passing. We know how much he will be missed by all who knew him and loved him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Phil and Lori Ryan and family

Robin Sorrell

September 18, 2008

Cindy, Marcus, and David, I know that I have not known you all very long, but Bob and your family have always welcomed me into your home and into your family. And for the little time that I have known you, I have nothing but great memories of spending time with your family. Bob was extremely welcoming and very unselfish, and I could tell he modeled that to his family as well, for you all inherited that same hospitality and warmth. Just because I only knew him for a short time, doesn't mean I will not miss him, he is definitely someone who made an impact in lives, modeled a fulfulling life, and a defining impression to last a lifetime. You are all in my prayers and my mother sends her condolences.

Jason Tamani

September 18, 2008

It brings me joy knowing that Bobs' legacy and wonderful memories will continue through his family and friends. My uncle Bob was an ideal role model and one of the most selfless individuals I'll ever know. I will always admire his endless compassion and enthusiasm.

Kurt & Glenda Henthorn

September 18, 2008

Cindy, Marcus and david,

Words cannot express the sorrow that Glenda and I felt when Cheryl called me about Bob. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you everyday and will continue to be. Bob was a wonderful friend and will be missed greatly. Although we didn't get to see him often enough, the friendship always picked up as if it were yesterday. We love you all.

Marcus

September 18, 2008

Now the man of the hour is taking his final bow; as the curtain comes down I feel that this is just goodbye for now...I love you Dad!

Dave Westrup MD

September 17, 2008

My heart and prayers go out to Cindy, Marcus, David, and the rest of your family. Bob was my next door neighbor when I first moved to Longview 22 years ago, and he and his family embraced us, as we did them. Bob and I shared a mutual appreciation for music- I discovered U2 and REM through him. I have a priceless memory of Bob recording the "Rocky" soundtrack over some home movies we'd filmed of our son Jake "gettin' in shape". Bob always enjoyed doing things for others, and was such a down-to-earth friend. His enthusiasm for life and sense of humor were such sincere and unique gifts he gave us all. We are so sad to hear of his passing away, and will miss him greatly.

Dave & Netta Westrup and Ken, Andy, & Jake
(Longview, Washington)

Barb Breckley

September 17, 2008

To the Bob Bess Family,

We had the wonderful privilege of meeting Bob at the last Bashas` Anniversary Dinner. We sat at his table for the evening and he had the whole table laughing all night. He has character!!!!! We are sorry to hear of his passing. Our thoughts and prayers are extended to your family at this time.

Barb and Michael Breckley
Bashas` Family Member

Sherry Davis

September 17, 2008

My heart goes out to Cindy and her family. This sudden loss took my breath away and broke my heart. Bob was such a good husband, father and friend. He was taken away too soon. Larry and I will keep Cindy and her family in our prayers.

Kathi Koop

September 17, 2008

Cindy and family. As you know per our phone conversations, I share your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I still am in shock as everyone must be, and know that God will keep you and comfort you in this most difficult time. So sorry that I cannot attend the services, but know that I will be there with my thoughts. Lots of wonderful memories we shared growing up together. So glad we were able to get together on those rare occasions since, but will always remember Bob's wonderful sense of humor and zest for life and making everyone around him feel so special. Love ya, Cin,
Kathi (Wilson) Koop

Mea Abraham

September 17, 2008

I was so sorry to hear about Bob's passing. He was a wonderful man with a zest for life. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

trina Spitzer

September 17, 2008

I am very sorry to hear of Bob's passing... I have so many memories of the Bess family... I know he is god's hand now and helping where he is needed most...in heaven....
youre in my thoughts prayers and heart... Trina Brown-Spitzer

Steven Schrade

September 17, 2008

Bob was a great guy! I very much enjoyed working with him these past 5 years. He had great ideas, was always good with people and genuinely wanted to serve both Bashas' members and customers. I shall miss his ever smiling face and gracious presence.

Lynn and Kathy Jones

September 17, 2008

Dear Cindy and family,
Several of your dear friends informed us of Bob´s passing clear over here in Spain. He will truly be missed by all of us but especially by you. May the Lord bless you and carry you through the times you are used to sharing and enjoying with your dear companion. He will be close at moments and for sure he will be helping and cheering others on the other side. What a great bishop/couple you were in Chandler as well as other places. Thank you both for great memories and the smile that comes to our faces when we think of Bob Bess.

Our prayers are with you,
Lynn and Kathy Jones
Spain Bilbao Mission

tiffany harris

September 17, 2008

to sister bess and family i am totally shock to hear about brother bess he was a very good person. and very spiritual person. i work at bashas store#45 may are heavenly father bless you and your family in this hard time i love you guys.

Lui & Joella Wolfgramm

September 16, 2008

We add our prayers to the many being offered for the Bess family. Bob was a man who offered his love and friendship without reservation or prejudice. We extend our sympathy to his wife and sons.

Tom Benford

September 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this dificult time. I knew Bob for over 15 years and always had the utmost respect for him. He spoke many times about his family and was always so positive about life. He will be greatly missed as I considered Bob a good friend. Thank you for sharing this good man.

Michael Anderson

September 15, 2008

My condolences to your family. Bob is a wonderful brother and stalwart servant of our Lord Jesus Christ. He always greeted me warmly, with affection and love... and a joke of some sort.

The Roan Family

September 15, 2008

Our hearts and prayers go out to the Bess family, and we share in your loss. Bob will truly be missed, we loved him dearly. Until we meet again my friend.

Manuel Gonzales

September 14, 2008

We would love to send our deepest regrets to the Bess family. Manuel Gonzales Meat Manager from Bashas 7 and Mona Gonzales Bistro Manager from AJ'S 118. We had the honor of knowing Bob and working with him. He was a huge assit to the Bashas family and also a great freind and co worker to us. He be very much missed. God bless all of you.

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