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Kolesar, Stephen
Kolesar, Stephen, Born 10-9-1921 in Wilpen, PA. Died in Phoenix, AZ, 1-3-2011. Stephen "Steve" Kolesar was preceded in death by his parents, John & Mary Kolesar, of East Pittsburgh, PA; sisters Ann Korytkowski of Phoenix, Arizona and Irene Button of North Huntdingdon, PA. He is survived by his wife of 65 years, Joan S. Kolesar, who he met in Phoenix in 1945, Brother John "Casey" Kolesar (Eunice) of Phoenix, and sister, Elizabeth "Betty" Staso, of North Huntingdon, PA, daughters Patricia Edwards, Mary "Twink" Smith (Dave), Janet Fisk (Don),Carol Prehoda; sons Stephen M. Kolesar (Linda), John "Jerry" Kolesar, Thomas O. Kolesar (Mary), Peter R. Kolesar (Marilyn), Edward J. Kolesar and Charles R. Kolesar (Ann). He is also survived by 25 grandchildren, 10 great grandchildren, and two great-great grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. Steve grew up in Western PA and Graduated from Ligonier High where he lettered in football and basketball. In the Wilpen area, he played baseball for a local semi-pro baseball team starting at age 14. He spent a year recovering from asthma and bronchitis after High School. On the advice of his doctor, he moved West to Arizona in search of a drier climate for health reasons. Upon arriving in Arizona in 1942, he went to work for Goodyear Aircraft as an Assistant Chief Inspector for the "flying squadron". Later while at Goodyear Aircraft, he was assigned to "Central Communications". He was later assigned to the conversion of B-24s into PB2Y3s for the War effort. This included the repair of B-25s damaged while making bombing runs over Tokyo, and other Japanese cities in 1942. While working in Phoenix at that time, he also played semi-pro baseball for the Phoenix Thunderbirds and the Glendale Grays. He built a reputation as a talented baseball player and was offered a scholarship to the University of Arizona to play football and baseball in 1945 and 1946, where he earned letters in each. Dad was very proud that he played on the ONLY untied, undefeated Wildcat football Team in school history in 1946. After his sophomore year he signed a Professional Baseball Contract with the Boston Braves Organization for whom he played for three years before a shoulder injury cut his career short. After baseball, he moved back to Phoenix to work for Schade Storage and Transfer. He later went to work for McKesson & Robbins in 1950 as a salesman, where he excelled. His McKesson Division was later sold to William Schubert, where he enjoyed further success. Glenmore Distilleries hired him as their Regional Representative. Three years later he began a series of entrepreneurial enterprises. Through the childhood of his sons Steve, Jerry and Tom, he coached Little League and assisted in Boy Scout outings as a chaperone. He also taught his children how to play golf, as well as other sports. He enjoyed duties as an Usher, and a Member of the Knights of Columbus at St. Francis Xavier Church in Phoenix. A Visitation will be held from 5 to 7 PM with a Rosary and Prayer Vigil at 7PM, Thursday, January 6, at Whitney & Murphy Funeral Home, 4800 E. Indian School Road, Phoenix. Funeral Mass will be held at St. Francis Xavier Church, 4715 N. Central Avenue, Phoenix at 1:30PM on Friday, January 7th 2011. Private graveside service will be held for the Family at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations to St. Vincent DePaul, or the "Etched in Our Hearts" St. Francis Xavier Building Fund would be appreciated.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from Jan. 5 to Jan. 7, 2011.

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Sandra Kanela Barton

October 29, 2011

Greetings and Kindness are my memories of "Mr Kolesar"! as a small child. Knowing Twink first, gave me the introduction to her Dad, Mom and siblings. With "Dad's" outgoing welcoming, I became a member of this Amazing and Fun family! His guidance & discipline-strict it seemed, at times!-were instrumental in raising each one to be their own unique expression that is a contribution. We've grown and developed into people who He can be proud of, as his offspring and the tradition is being continued with new members, keeping his legacy alive and in action!
That is: compassion,generosity, gratitude,hospitality,honesty, discipline, resourcefulness, self expression, Loving Kindness and Having FUN!
Though I moved away in my teens, I've been able to see his influence on his children and am proud to know them. The memories of his voice,his wisdom, at the family gatherings remains in my mind as I hear the next generations speak. He'd be So Proud!!!
I look forward to seeing " how his garden Shows, as the flowers keep on growing and flourishing'" with future get togethers!
I am Grateful to have known you, and count my blessings having your family as my friends.
I Honor your Prescence, Sandy

October 9, 2011

Hi Daddy, I just want to tell you Happy Birthday. You would have been 90 years old today. This will be the first birthday you have spent with Grandma, Grandpap and your sisters Aunt Anne and Aunt Irene and Uncle John. We miss you. The boys went to a new fishing spot and were suppose to call you per Carol's instructions. I know that you hear me when I talk to you Daddy. I miss you. We are taking Mom up North for a few days to see the color changes and I know that you will be there also as you really liked it there this time of the year.Happy Birthay Daddy. We love you. Twink, Dave, Lucy and Zeke.

Kathy Cencula

October 6, 2011

To the Kolesar Family,
Sorry to read of your Father/Husband's passing. We were neighbors for a short time but will never forget our friends, the Kolesars. My Dad, John Cencula, had recently remarked how he very much enjoyed the friendshp of his neighbor Steve.
Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you in this time of great loss and grief. A grief we share and know too well with the recent passing and loss of my Mom, Eleanor.
We extend our deepest and most sincere sympathy and will always remember our neighbors, the Kolesars, fondly.
Thinking of you,
Kathy, Karen and John Cencula

Jeanne Shafsky Mullins

February 12, 2011

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of my AZ cousins and to you Aunt Joan. Steve was one of a kind and anyone who met him remembered him. I always think of him and fishing. Ovie was right when he said Uncle Steve was a huge presence. You are in my prayers for continued healing and peace.

Peacolia "Twink's boss" Snell

February 4, 2011

To the Kolesar family,

I only knew Mr. Kolesar from Mary "twink" sharing many memoriable moments in her life with me, until I attended his homecoming. Your family told a story of Mr. Kolesar's life. The story, which depicted an oiled canvas potrait of the man which I had never met, but knew I would have loved to. The clips and comments about him were heartfelt, touching and full of laughter. Clearly, you could see how much of an influence he had on you all and others. You all should be very proud to have such a man of character and a terrific family unit because of him. The service was the most beautiful that I have experienced and wanted to say that you should be proud of his well-organized homecoming.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Tom and Patty McCabe

January 11, 2011

To the Kolesar Family:
In this time of your grieving, may our heavenly Father,
Carry you on strong wings.
Be your patience day by day
when the heartache refuses to leave.
Be your strength when you are exhausted.
Be your hope when you feel overwhelmed.
Be your faith when you do not understand.
Be your trust when you are distraught.
Be your peace when you are filled with tears.
We ask this through Our Lord and Our Savior, Jesus Christ.
Amen

Ovid Holmes

January 7, 2011

Dear Aunt Joan. I am so sorry to hear that Steve died. I thought he would live forever. I am so happy to have talked to him last week.

Steve was such a huge presence. He filled up the room with his personality. The only rival for that I can remember was Uncle Alfred, Elvira's husband.

And although I have not seen him, nor you, Joan, the memories I have of the both of you together are fond and happy ones.
Sadly, as I got more involved with my immediate family, I have let older family relationships slide. I guess I better fix that.

Ken, Pam, Cade Hackler

January 6, 2011

Dear Carol - I am so sorry to hear of your Father's passing. There aren't words to express how sorry, so please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. What a amazing life he had! God Bless!

Mark Carter

January 6, 2011

Kolesar’s, your dad was a big influence on all of the boys of our generation. Whether it was the boy scouts or little league baseball, Mr. Kolesar was always there to lend a helping hand. Thanks for sharing your dad.

The Carter Brothers

Gary "Mitch" Gallardo

January 6, 2011

To The Entire Kolesar Family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you over the loss of your Father and our family's friend. The Gallardo Family- Ed"Coach"- Ed Jr.-, Rory,- Mitch,-Chris

January 5, 2011

Dear Aunt Joan and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I wish we lived closer to be there with you. With Much Love,
MaryAnn, Seth and girls

Laura Jordan

January 5, 2011

Chuck: Michael, Emily and I send our deepest sympathies. As you know, Emily was one of the kids who watched for your dad and eagerly dropped our envelope in "his" basket. He joked, teased, and basically had a great deal of fun with the kids and adults alike every Sunday after mass. As 9 a.m. "groupies" we grew to know and appreciate his big smile and even bigger love of life. Thank you for sharing him with us. He is, now, in the biggest playground and best ball field of all. We pray for your family to find peace over this great loss.

Cynthia Emmons

January 5, 2011

Steve, Linda, Katie and Christina, our prayers are with you for peace and acceptance. Your father (and Grandpa) was a remarkable man with so many accomplishments -- given his memorial, his family was his greatest joy. Blessings in your time of loss, Cynthia Emmons and Terence Murnin

Rita Treat

January 5, 2011

Carol and family,
My thoughts and prayer go out to you. I can't think of anything to say to you to make it better but I know this, I bet your Father was very proud of his large family and he gave and received joy during his lifetime.
Thinking of you,
Rita Treat

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