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John Conkling Obituary

Dr. John Alexander Conkling passed away in Austin, Texas on Saturday, December 18, 2021. He will be remembered not only as the world's leading expert on fireworks, but as a devoted husband, loving father and beloved grandfather.

A proud native of Baltimore, John was a 1961 graduate of Baltimore City College. He received his B.S. degree in 1965 from Washington College in Chestertown, Maryland, and in 1969 his Ph.D. in chemistry from Johns Hopkins University. Upon graduation from Hopkins, Dr. Conkling returned to Washington College as a chemistry professor, where he and his wife Sandra made Chestertown their home. During this time, he began consulting with Dr. Joseph McLain in energetic materials and pyrotechnics, which ultimately led to his storied career in the fireworks industry which spanned almost 50 years (with more than 40 trips to China).



Dr. Conkling is widely regarded as one of the world's foremost experts in pyrotechnics. He served as the Executive Director and Technical Director of the American Pyrotechnics Association for over 30 years, and was instrumental in drafting many of the nation's fireworks regulations. He holds 8 patents and conducted Pyrotechnic Seminars at Washington College for nearly 3 decades. He is the author of The Chemistry of Pyrotechnics: Basic Principles and Theory, and BOOM! America's Ever-Evolving Fireworks Industry.



A recipient of Washington College's Distinguished Teaching Award, Dr. Conkling retired from Washington College in 2012 and was awarded its Alumni Service Award in 2013 for his numerous contributions to the college. He and his wife were active in the Chestertown community supporting the college and local charities.

He is survived by his wife, Sandra, and their children – Melinda Conkling Hart and her husband Ed Hart of San Antonio, Texas, and John Conkling, Jr. and his wife Tavia Conkling of Austin, Texas. He is the beloved grandfather of John Maxey Hart, Edward Austin Hart, Julia Valliant Conkling, and John Alexander Conkling, III.

Nothing made "Poppy" happier than fishing with his close friends (the Fish Hawk Angling team), watching his grandchildren play sports, and enjoying the beautiful sunsets on the Chester River from his backyard surrounded by his family and many friends. His kindness, humor, generosity and keen intellect will be greatly missed.

Services will be held in Chestertown in the spring 2022. If desired, friends may make memorial contributions to Washington College or the Boy Scouts of America.

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Published by Baltimore Sun from Dec. 21 to Dec. 22, 2021.

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Isabelle Gagne

February 15, 2022

Please accept my deepest condolences. As per my colleague David McCulloch, I really enjoyed the pyro chemistry courses at Washington College, with the crab dinner evening. Dr Conkling was such an intelligent, caring and nice man. My thoughts are with you, from the Canadian Explosives Branch, Ottawa, Canada.

David McCulloch

February 10, 2022

Sandy, Melinda, John Jr. and families...Please accept my sincerest condolences...seeing Dr. John and attending the summer pyro chemistry courses at Washington College will always be in my fondest memories...all my former colleagues at the Canadian Explosives Branch were of the same mind... Take care and know that you are in my thoughts...
Dave

Chris Albertelli

January 24, 2022

Thank you for all of your countless contributions and God Speed

George J Spilich

December 22, 2021

When you are a brand-new professor with the ink still wet on your diploma, you find yourself on the faculty and one of your first tasks is to figure out the culture of the place. Who typifies the best ideals of that institution? Who should be your role model? I was lucky to have John as my mentor. We ran together, talked together and from John I saw what a College professor could be and should be. To the outside world he was an international expert on pyrotechnics and a productive scientist. To his students, he was a skilled instructor who encouraged them to be their best. To his colleagues and friends John was all of the above but also simply one of the finest people you could ever meet.

Nate Smith

December 22, 2021

My deepest condolences to all his family. For kindness, intellectual brilliance and practical competence, decency, reliability--John numbered among the finest I have known. He has left us far too soon but his memory will always be a blessing.

Luisa's Cucina Italiana

December 21, 2021

Many memories shared with the Conkling family. Our condolences.

Bob Kellner

December 21, 2021

Dear Sandra, I am very sorry to see this. I learned a lot from Dr. John, as did everyone in the whole fireworks industry. With deepest sympathy.

Jim Burnett

December 21, 2021

We all send our love and prayers to the family of John Conkling, as we hold you in our hearts at this difficult time. Truly a gentleman, brilliant scholar, devoted family man and friend to many...God has welcomed a wonderful spirit.

Biz Honeywell

December 21, 2021

My deepest condolences to the Conkling family. Sandy and John were my family's neighbors on Byford Court for many years. He and his family were so supportive of ours during my grandparents' deaths (Dr. and Mrs. David Donovan) and my mother's cancer diagnosis and death (Julia Donovan). My mother was especially fond of Dr. Conkling and she was so happy to see him at her surprise 60th birthday party before her cancer diagnosis. Sending lots of love and prayers to the Conkling Clan.

Ian and Nancy Gilfillan - Pyro Spectaculars, Inc. - Rialto, CA

December 21, 2021

Nancy and I extend our heartfelt condolences to the entire Conkling Family. John was a dear friend to our family and a true Industry Icon. His wealth of knowledge and experience will be missed by our entire industry. His warm smile and gentle nature will be missed by all who knew him.

Stephen Vitale

December 21, 2021

The fireworks industry has lost a giant. We will eternally be grateful for Dr. John's contribution to making the industry better and safer. There are no words for the legacy he left behind. Wishing you comfort and peace during this difficult time.

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